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derxa · 06/06/2025 19:13

sualipa · 06/06/2025 19:05

Calrkson has banned Starmer from his pub.

And James May🤣🤣🤣

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 19:14

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 19:11

He was being disingenuous, he knew why they were being kicked out. It was because staff felt uncomfortable serving the table. It was explained very clearly.

The table was full of far right criminals, including the "gentleman".

Who are you to say an ethnic minority was being disingenuous regarding potential racism?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 06/06/2025 19:14

Darragon · 06/06/2025 17:22

No I don't think it's ok to throw out people trying to go about their lives just because they have opinions you don't agree with. Should outspoken GC feminists, or animal rights activists, or former employees of the Communist Party also be subjected to this sort of treatment? I just can't get behind this sort of mentality at all.

The odds of animal rights activists wanting to go to a London steak restaurant are fairly low.

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 19:15

derxa · 06/06/2025 19:13

And James May🤣🤣🤣

😆 🤣 😂 😹 and Hammond. Difference is, Clarkson has a sense of humour. No wonder he's another one who's hated on MN.

Sofiewoo · 06/06/2025 19:16

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 06/06/2025 19:05

Well no that’s not correct - look at the cases against Christian’s who wouldn’t make a cake supporting gay marriage.

The supreme court ruled they didn’t have to bake the cake so that’s not really backing up your comment.

BreadInCaptivity · 06/06/2025 19:16

Septembiosis · 06/06/2025 17:18

Unpopular opinion (apparently), but I think that if your job is to serve food in a restaurant, you should do just that, regardless of what you think about the people at the table (obviously assuming they're not being rude or threatening). You don't have to be your customer's friend, but you should do your job, like anyone else has to do.

I agree.

I can’t stand the man but as long as he wasn’t behaving badly in the restaurant it’s a bloody slippery slope towards staff getting to treat a business venture as their personal “safe space” (aka where only people who share the same views are permitted).

Reminiscent of Hatchet publishing where staff wrote an open letter wanting mgt to stop publishing books by gender critical authors.

Manxexile · 06/06/2025 19:16

Septembiosis · 06/06/2025 17:18

Unpopular opinion (apparently), but I think that if your job is to serve food in a restaurant, you should do just that, regardless of what you think about the people at the table (obviously assuming they're not being rude or threatening). You don't have to be your customer's friend, but you should do your job, like anyone else has to do.

I agree.

I remember what Michael Jordan supposedly said when he was asked why he wasn't more active in promoting and supporting left wing and democratic causes.

Apparently he said: "Republicans buy sneakers too".

He's a lot more savvy than the staff of this restaurant

Service providers shouldn't pick and choose on someone's beliefs and political views

mummyto9angels · 06/06/2025 19:17

MumbleBumbleAppleCrumble · 06/06/2025 16:57

When I was at uni I used to work for an events staffing agency. You’d be sent off all over the city and sometimes the country to help waiter/bar at weddings and corporate things and such. While you would be told what company you were going to work for, you never knew who their client was or the type of event until you got there. Sometimes it would be brilliant things like film premieres, often dreadfully dull corporate canapé functions. On one occasion we arrived and discovered it was the UKIP conference. We were all rather furious, but decided carry on and just be incredibly charming and lovely as per usual (we were expecting them to be awful and rude to the staff). At one point one of the UKIP people came up to me (I was a manager) and started telling me how lovely it was to see such polite and well spoken staff at something like this, as usually waiting staff can barely speak the language. ‘Well done to the caterer for employing people who can actually speak to you!’ He pointed out a particularly charming barman who had just served him. I smiled, thanked him, and said that yes, Krzysztof, was indeed charming, indeed he was currently in his final year at UCL studying maths and that we had always found that he and our other Polish and Romanian (etc) staff tended to be far better than the gap year students we also employed. Their manners and work ethic were beyond compare.

Mr UKIP wasn’t happy…

Love it 👏 👏

EasternEcho · 06/06/2025 19:19

Private businesses can refuse service to people and ask them to leave as long at the grounds are not based on a protected characteristic, i.e race,, religion, age etc. However, people who cause are in danger of causing disruption to the establishment can be asked to leave. In this case the staff, and perhaps other patrons were uncomfortable which is a disruption, based on his view on minorities and a person not in keeping with an establishment's values.

neverbeenskiing · 06/06/2025 19:19

Manxexile · 06/06/2025 19:16

I agree.

I remember what Michael Jordan supposedly said when he was asked why he wasn't more active in promoting and supporting left wing and democratic causes.

Apparently he said: "Republicans buy sneakers too".

He's a lot more savvy than the staff of this restaurant

Service providers shouldn't pick and choose on someone's beliefs and political views

Maybe the restaurant are doing well enough that they don't feel the need to try to corner the far-right thug market? I'm sure they're well aware that football hooligans and racists eat steak too but perhaps they figure they'll manage to stay afloat if the TR supporters take their custom elsewhere.

travellinglighter · 06/06/2025 19:19

TopographicalTime · 06/06/2025 16:57

Is it legal to refuse service because you don't like someone's political views?

Is it illegal to refuse service? Nope. You don’t have to take someone’s business if you do t want to deal with them. I think the more people refuse to engage with the horrible scrote the better.

RisingSunn · 06/06/2025 19:19

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 19:11

Glad you agree.

🥱

LaceWeightWool · 06/06/2025 19:20

BobbyBiscuits · 06/06/2025 16:59

I'm delighted he was kicked out of one of the best steak restaurants in London. They have several branches so hope it's a blanket ban.

No decent restaurant or establishment should knowingly serve him. If word got out their reputation among the majority who are normal non-racists would be damaged.

I would rather stab myself in the eye with a spork and eat instant ramen forever than sit near that scumbag while I eat my very expensive dinner.

Maybe he should eat in a greasy spoon cafeteria in wherever they have a majority Reform government?

he should eat in a greasy spoon cafeteria

Do you mean people who eat in greasy spoons will be more comfortable with eating with Tommy Robinson and are more likely to vote Reform than those, like you, who might eat a ‘very expensive dinner’ in ‘one of the best steak restaurants in London’? That’s a pretty classist view. I don’t think your propensity to prejudice is actually dependant on your bank balance.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 19:20

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 19:14

Who are you to say an ethnic minority was being disingenuous regarding potential racism?

I have the intelligence to be able to discern when someone is being disingenuous. Given the context of the incident, a table full of far right activists and criminals, it's obvious why they were refused service. It's hardly likely that they'd refuse to serve racists because of racism. But you don't need that explained.

BIossomtoes · 06/06/2025 19:21

12doublerolls · 06/06/2025 18:47

Shame on that restaurant. You don’t throw people out for sitting eating a meal just because you don’t like them. I’ve never believed that Tommy is a racist, he’s just a man bringing to light what the mainstream media won’t, and they just keep throwing him in jail to silence him. If being concerned about the state of the country you grew up in and shining light on the grooming gangs that the media won’t show makes you a racist then we’re in big trouble.

Wtf? Seriously?

jljlj · 06/06/2025 19:22

I am no fan of his, but this does seem a bit outside of the remit of a restaurant (unless he was behaving badly).

He has been in jail but is now free. People who have served time are allowed in restaurants. Does this open the door for restaurants to chuck people out for being a defence barrister, for example?

I know almost nothing really about TR, but he’s sitting at a table with someone with brown skin and being chucked out for being racist. Something is weird.

KurtShirty · 06/06/2025 19:23

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 17:27

What's Tony Robinson done?

Hahahaha

TunnocksOrDeath · 06/06/2025 19:23

Back in the noughties, we discovered that the pub we'd been using for post-work drinks was hiring out their upstairs room to the BNP every few week. So we found somewhere else to drink, and called them to politely let them know they'd lost our custom - because it would been a futile gesture otherwise. Restaurants survive on reputation; food, service, ambience and fellow clientele all pay a part in that.
If you can be refused service at the Ritz for not wearing a tie, I don't see why you can't be refused service in a steakhouse for being an unrepentant far-right extremist with convictions for:

  • assault
  • public order offences
  • mortgage fraud
  • using a false passport
  • stalking
  • contempt of court
He's also currently on trial for harassment causing fear of violence. He was refused service because of his record going back many years of really shitty behaviour. It is not at all the same thing as barring someone for their religious beliefs, or because they vote for a party you don't support.
travellinglighter · 06/06/2025 19:24

Septembiosis · 06/06/2025 17:18

Unpopular opinion (apparently), but I think that if your job is to serve food in a restaurant, you should do just that, regardless of what you think about the people at the table (obviously assuming they're not being rude or threatening). You don't have to be your customer's friend, but you should do your job, like anyone else has to do.

There is right to withdraw your labour as fought for by the unions.

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 19:26

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 19:20

I have the intelligence to be able to discern when someone is being disingenuous. Given the context of the incident, a table full of far right activists and criminals, it's obvious why they were refused service. It's hardly likely that they'd refuse to serve racists because of racism. But you don't need that explained.

I don't think you're doing the cause for fighting racism any good. So an alleged racist can't be the subject of racism now? As for the context of the incident, the restaurant took the line of least resistance. That didn't stop the gentleman having the right to ask if his party was being asked to leave because of his skin colour. You either do or don't get to speak on behalf of ethnic minority groups. I will answer it for you, you don't.

Paperweight7 · 06/06/2025 19:27

Good on the staff here. No one should be forced to serve a racist.

It's not about free speech. If I insult your mum, do you have a right not to serve me in a restaurant? Of course you do, because that is abusive behaviour. This racist hates anyone with a different skin colour and religion, and even white people from other European countries. Why should serving staff who may fall into those categories (or have friends and family who do) serve him? He is abusive and they gave a right not to tolerate abuse.

harriethoyle · 06/06/2025 19:28

12doublerolls · 06/06/2025 18:47

Shame on that restaurant. You don’t throw people out for sitting eating a meal just because you don’t like them. I’ve never believed that Tommy is a racist, he’s just a man bringing to light what the mainstream media won’t, and they just keep throwing him in jail to silence him. If being concerned about the state of the country you grew up in and shining light on the grooming gangs that the media won’t show makes you a racist then we’re in big trouble.

🤣🤣🤣 Very funny. Almost took you seriously at first read!

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sualipa · 06/06/2025 19:29

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 19:15

😆 🤣 😂 😹 and Hammond. Difference is, Clarkson has a sense of humour. No wonder he's another one who's hated on MN.

And someone who complained about a £24 pie ! Hawksmoor will do well from this - a lot of Tomees fan base would struggle coppering up for a happy meal - doubly so if they have dug deep for a griftfunder campaign.

https://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/jeremy-clarkson-pub-oxfordshire-b1231584.html

Jeremy Clarkson bans pub customer over £24 pie complaint

The former Top Gear host, 64, banned the customer from The Farmer’s Dog in Oxfordshire following the complaint

https://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/jeremy-clarkson-pub-oxfordshire-b1231584.html

QurikySparrowHatrack · 06/06/2025 19:31

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 06/06/2025 18:59

Completely wrong a very slippery slope to refuse to serve someone because of their political views. Doesn’t matter if you agree or disagree with him

In what way is it a slippery slope?

Private business have always, subject only to limited exceptions, been able to refuse service to potential customers on the basis of the potential customer's views or personal history. It doesn't happen all that often because it usually isnt good for business, but if the slope was all that slippery, why haven't we slid further down it over the past centuries?

Zebedee999 · 06/06/2025 19:31

Jujujudo · 06/06/2025 16:55

Freedom of speech and all…. But I suppose if we live in a world where Jews are denied access into certain places based on them being Jewish, then this sort of thing will also just become acceptable.

Yes and discrimination along these lines seems to be being encouraged by some on here including the OP.

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