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To think council housing is really unfair??

998 replies

Helpmechooseausername · 05/06/2025 18:12

I totally get that some people need to be housed by the council, but AIBU to think that the system is abused - but it seems to be his the system works?

I know of two families who have lived in their council houses for years and raised their children there. They needed help when they first moved in, and so were quite fairly given council houses. But, now the kids have grown up and moved on. The parents both have got jobs, nice cars, holidays, go out for meals, etc., etc.. They can continue living in their council houses for the rest of their lives.

It seems massively unfair. Is it really not means tested?? Surely the houses should be given to other people who need them? How can it be right that they aren't told to move back into the private property market?

I feel a bit like when I stand in a queue in a shop, waiting to pay, while people come in and just take what they want without paying or queuing!!

And yes, I'll admit that I'm jealous! I can't afford to do any nice things for my kids and I, despite working hard, and it seems to be because I chose to own my own home and get a mortgage instead of getting a council house!

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OneAmberFinch · 06/06/2025 21:28

@Zov your examples make sense, but they also illustrate the point: there is a massive difference between private rental rates and social rates, which feeds this resentment when some people win the lottery.

Would you support any kind of tiering of rents UP TO private market rent rates (but still keeping other conditions of secure tenancy etc)? So that the person who is £250 better off is simply asked to pay a bit more rather than move out. (Not necessarily £250 more)

butteredradish4 · 06/06/2025 21:30

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:25

And if the people who give up their social housing home for those 'in need' and who are 'poorer' (and go into private let,) then THEY will be the ones 'in need' and 'poorer.'

WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE NOT GETTING THIS?!

People are so full of hate and vitriol for social housing tenants, and so bitter and sour, that they can't see sense, and they can't see the bigger picture. (Or they are refusing to accept any viewpoint that doesn't bash people in social housing who have a bit of surplus income every month, and have a fairly comfortable life!)

As has been said throughout this thread, anyone who voluntarily gives up affordable social housing with a lifetime secure tenancy is utterly bonkers. No-one in their right mind is going to do this! No matter how you haters bang on about how 'someone they know' is on £53,986 a year, and has a caravan, 2 cars, a trampoline, a trumpet, and a fucking goat!

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You don't seem to get that no everyone is the same. Some people would move out and struggle but they would be protected by means testing, some people would move out and be. The majority of people in this country don't live in social housing - it isn't the case that once you've lived in social housing you are doomed financially for ever.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 06/06/2025 21:31

CantStopMoving · 06/06/2025 14:30

But you don’t own it. It was never ‘your’ house. Same with anyone who rents it isn’t their house. You are given permission to use it for a period until you are on your feet enough to privately rent or buy. No one has the right to occupy any property

the arbitrary amount would surely be set at a point where you can move out with all the costs etc.

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No you aren’t ’given it until you are on your feet’ how dd….you are given a secure tenancy for security

up to the individual how they use it…. They can stay out for years or move around the country with it…

JenniferBooth · 06/06/2025 21:32

OneAmberFinch · 06/06/2025 21:23

In the post-war period lots of council housing was something to be valued, something you had to apply for and your application was pushed to the top if you were say an ex-Serviceman or you worked in a useful job for society like policeman, construction engineer etc. It might have been for the working classes but for the "decent" hard-working sort, people who wanted to create a community.

It completely infuriates me to see inner London social flats occupied by the NON-working class...

But but but but but This thread is full of ppl saying SH should only be for the most desperate

MAKE YOUR FUCKING MINDS UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

XenoBitch · 06/06/2025 21:34

JenniferBooth · 06/06/2025 21:14

thats because they see social housing tenants as chess pieces

Moving house is one of the the top 5 stressors in life.

butteredradish4 · 06/06/2025 21:35

JenniferBooth · 06/06/2025 21:32

But but but but but This thread is full of ppl saying SH should only be for the most desperate

MAKE YOUR FUCKING MINDS UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Different people have different views......

Digdongdoo · 06/06/2025 21:35

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 06/06/2025 21:24

Banging on? I’m explaining for the arrogant ones at he back who think they know it all … yes I keep repeating it, yes,some people are thick and don’t have a clue

hope that’s ok with you 😊

Sorry? We were talking about swaps/exchanges. You've repeatedly explained how difficult it was for you to arrange one. It was proposed that the council could get involved in arranging said swaps to smoothen the process. I'm really not sure why that's such an objectionable idea to you? It would have made it easier for you.

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 21:36

Oh goody this thread will be at 1000 in no time 😆

x2boys · 06/06/2025 21:36

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:25

And if the people who give up their social housing home for those 'in need' and who are 'poorer' (and go into private let,) then THEY will be the ones 'in need' and 'poorer.'

WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE NOT GETTING THIS?!

People are so full of hate and vitriol for social housing tenants, and so bitter and sour, that they can't see sense, and they can't see the bigger picture. (Or they are refusing to accept any viewpoint that doesn't bash people in social housing who have a bit of surplus income every month, and have a fairly comfortable life!)

As has been said throughout this thread, anyone who voluntarily gives up affordable social housing with a lifetime secure tenancy is utterly bonkers. No-one in their right mind is going to do this! No matter how you haters bang on about how 'someone they know' is on £53,986 a year, and has a caravan, 2 cars, a trampoline, a trumpet, and a fucking goat!

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Yeah it's not rocket science is it?

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:37

butteredradish4 · 06/06/2025 21:30

You don't seem to get that no everyone is the same. Some people would move out and struggle but they would be protected by means testing, some people would move out and be. The majority of people in this country don't live in social housing - it isn't the case that once you've lived in social housing you are doomed financially for ever.

I didn't say people in social housing were 'doomed financially forever.' Confused

Although they WILL be if the haters have their way, and everyone is booted out if they earn over £35,000 a year. Because many people will just make sure they earn below that. As I said, 'race to the bottom!'

gamerchick · 06/06/2025 21:37

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 21:36

Oh goody this thread will be at 1000 in no time 😆

Don't worry there will be a few more next week.

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 21:38

My adult kid's still live at home, neither can afford private rent.

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:38

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 21:36

Oh goody this thread will be at 1000 in no time 😆

Awwww, I'm gonna miss it, and all the bantz! 😂

x2boys · 06/06/2025 21:38

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:25

And if the people who give up their social housing home for those 'in need' and who are 'poorer' (and go into private let,) then THEY will be the ones 'in need' and 'poorer.'

WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE NOT GETTING THIS?!

People are so full of hate and vitriol for social housing tenants, and so bitter and sour, that they can't see sense, and they can't see the bigger picture. (Or they are refusing to accept any viewpoint that doesn't bash people in social housing who have a bit of surplus income every month, and have a fairly comfortable life!)

As has been said throughout this thread, anyone who voluntarily gives up affordable social housing with a lifetime secure tenancy is utterly bonkers. No-one in their right mind is going to do this! No matter how you haters bang on about how 'someone they know' is on £53,986 a year, and has a caravan, 2 cars, a trampoline, a trumpet, and a fucking goat!

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And a partridge in a pear tree!

TwinklyMintHelper · 06/06/2025 21:38

Sadly, with the dearth of social housing available, and the soaring cost of private rentals it can seem that the allocation of council housing is unfair. This has been exacerbated by the ‘right to buy’ scheme which allowed tenants to buy their council homes without replenishment of stock by local councils. It is unfair that there are those who have become ‘priority cases’ by simply meeting certain criteria while others languish on social housing lists for years, or are offered totally unsuitable properties. In an ideal world there would be a single housing list, with each applicant assessed on a case by case basis. This would be labour intensive and unpopular no doubt, but by changing rental agreements to fixed terms, and moving tenants around to free up properties would at least give others on the waiting list hope that a suitable home would become available. Would this be acceptable in today’s society? I have no idea. Certainly voluntary schemes asking tenants to downsize to help others have withered on the vine. I certainly can’t think of any other solution. Good luck.

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:38

gamerchick · 06/06/2025 21:37

Don't worry there will be a few more next week.

😆

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 21:39

gamerchick · 06/06/2025 21:37

Don't worry there will be a few more next week.

I will be waiting 😀

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:41

@TwinklyMintHelper

In an ideal world there would be a single housing list, with each applicant assessed on a case by case basis. This would be labour intensive and unpopular no doubt, but by changing rental agreements to fixed terms, and moving tenants around to free up properties would at least give others on the waiting list hope that a suitable home would become available.

Would this be acceptable in today’s society?

No. It's a ludicrous idea.

See my post from 21.12 this evening. (Previous page.) I am not repeating myself again!

JenniferBooth · 06/06/2025 21:42

TwinklyMintHelper · 06/06/2025 21:38

Sadly, with the dearth of social housing available, and the soaring cost of private rentals it can seem that the allocation of council housing is unfair. This has been exacerbated by the ‘right to buy’ scheme which allowed tenants to buy their council homes without replenishment of stock by local councils. It is unfair that there are those who have become ‘priority cases’ by simply meeting certain criteria while others languish on social housing lists for years, or are offered totally unsuitable properties. In an ideal world there would be a single housing list, with each applicant assessed on a case by case basis. This would be labour intensive and unpopular no doubt, but by changing rental agreements to fixed terms, and moving tenants around to free up properties would at least give others on the waiting list hope that a suitable home would become available. Would this be acceptable in today’s society? I have no idea. Certainly voluntary schemes asking tenants to downsize to help others have withered on the vine. I certainly can’t think of any other solution. Good luck.

Like i said................chess pieces

XenoBitch · 06/06/2025 21:42

TwinklyMintHelper · 06/06/2025 21:38

Sadly, with the dearth of social housing available, and the soaring cost of private rentals it can seem that the allocation of council housing is unfair. This has been exacerbated by the ‘right to buy’ scheme which allowed tenants to buy their council homes without replenishment of stock by local councils. It is unfair that there are those who have become ‘priority cases’ by simply meeting certain criteria while others languish on social housing lists for years, or are offered totally unsuitable properties. In an ideal world there would be a single housing list, with each applicant assessed on a case by case basis. This would be labour intensive and unpopular no doubt, but by changing rental agreements to fixed terms, and moving tenants around to free up properties would at least give others on the waiting list hope that a suitable home would become available. Would this be acceptable in today’s society? I have no idea. Certainly voluntary schemes asking tenants to downsize to help others have withered on the vine. I certainly can’t think of any other solution. Good luck.

I don't see how moving tenants around like chess pieces would help?
You do realise that when you move into a council house, it does not even have wall paper or carpets? You have to pay for them yourself.
Some places are in utter shambles and it is up to the new tenant to get it up to scratch. Think mouldy walls and actual holes in the ceiling.
Imagine having a phone call and being told you have to strip it all back, move, and build it all up again.
At least people in private rentals don't have to do that. But then they can't even have blu-tak on the wall.

JenniferBooth · 06/06/2025 21:45

XenoBitch · 06/06/2025 21:42

I don't see how moving tenants around like chess pieces would help?
You do realise that when you move into a council house, it does not even have wall paper or carpets? You have to pay for them yourself.
Some places are in utter shambles and it is up to the new tenant to get it up to scratch. Think mouldy walls and actual holes in the ceiling.
Imagine having a phone call and being told you have to strip it all back, move, and build it all up again.
At least people in private rentals don't have to do that. But then they can't even have blu-tak on the wall.

It recently hit its peak.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/35181438/cupboard-council-flat-heroin-needles/

Portrait of a woman with long dark hair wearing a pink shirt.

I opened cupboard in new flat and shower of 150 used 'HEROIN' needles fell out

A MUM was left gobsmacked as a “shower” of around 150 used “heroin” needles came flooding into her kitchen after a faulty cupboard was removed. Margaret Doyle has allegedly been told a …

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/35181438/cupboard-council-flat-heroin-needles/

CantStopMoving · 06/06/2025 21:45

gamerchick · 06/06/2025 20:37

Excellent. Then you won't mind it being a requirement that you sell when its too big for your needs then? Since you're all doing it out of the kindness of your heart.

You are missing the point though. In the private sector people do sell up and downsize to release properties. It isn’t due to the kindness of their hearts, as they get the money, but when people own a property and no longer can maintain such a large space it naturally makes sense to release it and move to a smaller property. The market keeps churning, albeit slowly. When it comes to council housing a person gets a house that suits their needs when they are younger but since they aren’t responsible for maintainance and the costs of owning a property there is almost zero incentive for them to move. The house is therefore never freed up. A family who needs a 4 bed house therefore is forced to stay in a smaller property not suited to their needs.

the only solution, as people keep saying, is the build more but as I have outlined previously that is never ever every going to happen at the rate needed. Nothing the government will be able to do about it.

The houses being built don’t even cover the level of yearly immigration and if we invite foreign labour to build more houses, as someone pointed out to Angela raynor, we’d simply be building houses to house the people building them.

In london there is only available space to build 1/2 beds now so realistically more family houses would never be built anyway even if the government threw tonnes of money at the problem. so what is the solution for the family for 4 desperate for a council house and all the councils 4 bed properties are being taken up by couples whose families have long since moved out?

Zov · 06/06/2025 21:48
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.Coming in handy this gif tonight...

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 06/06/2025 21:48

butteredradish4 · 06/06/2025 18:26

Call it envy or jealousy if it makes you feel better. The majority of people on the poll agree that the system should be changed to include means testing so that we help those in need.

Ha tenancies are nothing to do with money…. So means testing is pointless

they are about security. A secure home….wherever you want …it’s the SECURE TENANCY you are given not the house….you use it like a passport to move where you want to go, and when

nothing to do with earnings,wages or benefits

Digdongdoo · 06/06/2025 21:49

CantStopMoving · 06/06/2025 21:45

You are missing the point though. In the private sector people do sell up and downsize to release properties. It isn’t due to the kindness of their hearts, as they get the money, but when people own a property and no longer can maintain such a large space it naturally makes sense to release it and move to a smaller property. The market keeps churning, albeit slowly. When it comes to council housing a person gets a house that suits their needs when they are younger but since they aren’t responsible for maintainance and the costs of owning a property there is almost zero incentive for them to move. The house is therefore never freed up. A family who needs a 4 bed house therefore is forced to stay in a smaller property not suited to their needs.

the only solution, as people keep saying, is the build more but as I have outlined previously that is never ever every going to happen at the rate needed. Nothing the government will be able to do about it.

The houses being built don’t even cover the level of yearly immigration and if we invite foreign labour to build more houses, as someone pointed out to Angela raynor, we’d simply be building houses to house the people building them.

In london there is only available space to build 1/2 beds now so realistically more family houses would never be built anyway even if the government threw tonnes of money at the problem. so what is the solution for the family for 4 desperate for a council house and all the councils 4 bed properties are being taken up by couples whose families have long since moved out?

Incentives for downsizing would be a good idea across the board though. More mobility should be encouraged in every sector.