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Grown man at cinema on his own

816 replies

Littlebluecreature · 02/06/2025 14:03

Watching Lilo & Stitch..is this odd?

Here with Dd, only one other family here…and this guy, munching on snacks..watching Lilo & Stitch

Is it just me 😂

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JeremiahBullfrog · 02/06/2025 15:39

HaddyAbrams · 02/06/2025 15:36

Whilst yes. That's technically correct. Everyone I know, Google, consider middle aged to be 40-60.
I certainly barely class myself as middle age at 40. I still feel young!

I can almost guarantee the 20-year-olds you meet do not feel the same way.

godmum56 · 02/06/2025 15:41

its you. next question

punnedout · 02/06/2025 15:41

Is he naked? If not, absolutely fine

TaupeRaven · 02/06/2025 15:41

GoodOldTrayBake · 02/06/2025 15:24

Yeh. It’s weird. Ignore the holier than thou bunch. They are the reason why the trans lobby were able to exert so much power and influence, because liberal people were falling over themselves to prove how accepting they are that they couldn’t bring themselves to call out weird behaviour. And by the way, I’m a liberal. I’m one of the so called metropolitan middle class elite. Only difference is I’m happy to call a spade a spade. A man dressed as a woman is still a biological man. A single man alone watching a kids film is weird.

So for your reply to have any relevance to this thread, are you saying someone should have "called out this weird behaviour"? Exactly what should someone say, to call out this shocking and abhorrent behaviour that involved someone doing absolutely nothing wrong, in a place that they shouldn't be excluded from either by law or common sense? How would you have approached this?

HaddyAbrams · 02/06/2025 15:42

JeremiahBullfrog · 02/06/2025 15:39

I can almost guarantee the 20-year-olds you meet do not feel the same way.

What? Well no. Because I'm twice their age. The 60 year olds i know consider me to be young though. So what's the relevance?

MerlinsBeard1 · 02/06/2025 15:43

You wouldn't be writing this post if it was a woman on her own. Are men not allowed to like Disney?

I think you are weirder for feeling the need to write a thread about it.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 02/06/2025 15:43

It's funny because when my parents were younger there were so many things that were unacceptable for a woman to do. Pretty much anything a woman did alone was frowned upon. Many people living here from other cultures still hold these views. For the most part we think they are unfair and sexist and we loudly object to those imposing these social rules. Yet it seems we have come full circle. Almost anything a man does alone now is seen as unacceptable by some. The stronger women's voices become the more sexism I see, it's sad because I used to think that sexism was a mans problem but I now believe that it cuts both ways and will become just as damaging if it continues to increase momentum

Timetoeat · 02/06/2025 15:44

Would you have.asied the same question if it had been a woman sitting in the cinema by herself watching Lilo and stitch?

HunnyPot · 02/06/2025 15:44

Why so judgy? People don’t have to follow your template of what is appropriate.

Even heard of a Disney Adult? Sounds like he wanted to enjoy a movie on his own.

You were there with your children. Did you find time to parent your own children or were you too caught up being judgemental?

imisscashmere · 02/06/2025 15:44

AzureShark · 02/06/2025 14:11

Good grief. Yeah, yeah reasons, reasons🙄

In reality, of course it's bloody odd. I'd be curious if I saw a grown man sitting watching a cartoon alone in a cinema.

I must say though, the replies so far are amusing. Absolutely wild how people are just desperate to display how accepting and unflappable they are 😂

Edited

You’re so small minded! Not everybody alive is the same as you, you know.

Allaboutmememe · 02/06/2025 15:45

Its ok for single women and dads but not single men some on this thread need to get there heads out there backsides and stop being so stuck up.
Maybe we should have single men only screenings that would give you all something else to bitch over.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 02/06/2025 15:45

He is almost certainly a MI6 agent testing his newly issued night vision googles prior to an overseas assignment.

You see this a lot in the Vauxhall area of London.

GasPanic · 02/06/2025 15:46

You never actually know why he was watching it.

Maybe he had a free ticket to use up.
Maybe he works in childcare and wants to understand what the kids like.
Maybe he was reviewing it for a dissertation on psychology or a magazine.
Maybe he was employed by the cinema as covert security.
Or maybe one of a hundred other things.

Or horror of horrors. Maybe he actually likes it.

Allaboutmememe · 02/06/2025 15:46

imisscashmere · 02/06/2025 15:44

You’re so small minded! Not everybody alive is the same as you, you know.

Theres small minded and there is being stuck up.

Whiskyfromsmallglasses · 02/06/2025 15:47

People like you are the reason I haven't plucked up the courage yet to go to the cinema on my own. Seperated from my husband of 23 years and finding my way on my own is tough. There is loads I want to try on my own but don't due to fear of judgement

HunnyPot · 02/06/2025 15:47

In reality, of course it's bloody odd. I'd be curious if I saw a grown man sitting watching a cartoon alone in a cinema.

Cartoon? You don’t sound like you know much about the movie? Still got an opinion though!

Galaxyandcadburys773 · 02/06/2025 15:47

He's not hurting anyone
Leave him be

WhereIsMyJumper · 02/06/2025 15:49

I think it’s completely irrelevant if you thinks it’s weird or not. I wouldn’t think it was, someone else might think it is. But either way, being weird isn’t a crime

Onlyharmony · 02/06/2025 15:49

GoodOldTrayBake · 02/06/2025 15:24

Yeh. It’s weird. Ignore the holier than thou bunch. They are the reason why the trans lobby were able to exert so much power and influence, because liberal people were falling over themselves to prove how accepting they are that they couldn’t bring themselves to call out weird behaviour. And by the way, I’m a liberal. I’m one of the so called metropolitan middle class elite. Only difference is I’m happy to call a spade a spade. A man dressed as a woman is still a biological man. A single man alone watching a kids film is weird.

Wtf has this got to do with the trans debate?

And also how do you know what people's political stances are?

Not hating all men doesn't mean people don't believe in certain other things. It also doesn't mean that they do.

It's a cinema, not a women's area.

GinAndJuice99 · 02/06/2025 15:49

SuperTrooper14 · 02/06/2025 15:28

My BIL is a massive, massive movie buff and often goes to the cinema during the day if he's not working. There isn't a film he won't watch, even cartoons. But he's there to watch films and not to ogle children as OP seems to be insinuating that's what single men must do if they are going to the cinema by themselves.

I don't think that's what the OP is insinuating at all. She just thinks it's strange that an adult would go and sit through a kids' film when they could be watching something a bit more interesting.

Smoulderdash · 02/06/2025 15:50

Whiskyfromsmallglasses · 02/06/2025 15:47

People like you are the reason I haven't plucked up the courage yet to go to the cinema on my own. Seperated from my husband of 23 years and finding my way on my own is tough. There is loads I want to try on my own but don't due to fear of judgement

With you on this (I posted about this very thing above!) I’d probably want to go watch Disney if I know my kids have seen it with their dad so I know what they’ve seen and can share in chatting to them about it. It’s the judgmental people out there that are stopping me. Nice to see it’s such a minority though. That makes me feel better.

Trumptonagain · 02/06/2025 15:50

Adults, both male and female have been going to the cinema alone to watch animated films since the days of 'Happy feet'.

Not everyone wants to 'borrow' a nephew or niece in order to do so.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 02/06/2025 15:50

Was the film any good?

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 02/06/2025 15:50

I won’t judge as I told my brother who is in his 30s that dh and dd1 will be going to see it soon. He’s asked if we can wait until he comes back from holiday so he can go with them too… without his kids 😂

FYI on that one his kids are very young and wouldn’t enjoy it.

MaggieBsBoat · 02/06/2025 15:50

This is so depressing that a person can’t go and do something alone. Maybe the poor guy has no friends. FFS.