To think that women (or men) who drop their kids off at school in PJS, go shopping in Tesco in pj's and come down to the breakfast in a hotel in pj's are wrong in the head?

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I visited Amsterdam last year and was shocked to see an apparently middle class women coming down to breakfast in her pj's,dressing gown and slippers. Similarly going round Tescos where there are people, especially women in pj's and slippers. No doubt I'll be called an old right wing fascist or something.

You've really bought into this wind up OP, haven't you?

Were you sitting at the same table as them? 😂

Seems like your world is full of "shoulds" with no regard for the reality of complex, messy, unpredictable and diverse lives.

Stubble? OMG, how did you cope?
What does a dirty sleepy face look like?

I cant' say I notice these things in other hotel guests. I am too bust eating my breakfast and talking to whoever I am with.

Haha, OK so you're a troll. I'm with you on the pj's but you can be presentable without makeup and jewellry Hyacinthe !

Let's bash the people who live in social housing. We'll soon have a full bingo card. 🙄

That made me laugh too. But perhaps it's all relative, and not going to the supermarket in your undies is considered "dressing up"?

Cos they always dressed well innit

Neither should judgmental mums without empathy.

Pyjamas on the school run is trampy behaviour.
I’m always on my way to/from work and I’ve seen a few in onesies/pyjamas with those snoodie things and slippers.
I’ve seen a few in shops in pyjamas.
I wouldn’t necessarily judge someone at a hotel for breakfast in pyjamas but I wouldn’t do it myself.
I also wouldn’t judge what is clearly a woman in labour/somebody who is clearly poorly.
I’m not bothered about make-up or looking particularly “put together” but it takes less than a minute to throw on some jeans and a top to go out.

As long as folks are clean and reasonably covered up (no bits flopping in the breeze please) I couldn't give a toss what they wear.

I wear loose cotton jersey trousers, bootie slippers and tshirts all day every day - except for bed. Then I wear nothing.

You might well suspect I am in my PJ's but I am not (not even the trousers with foxes all over them) - I am in clothing that doesn't irritate my skin, and accomodates the fact my size can alter dramatically in a matter of days (lymphedema).

I think you’re judgemental of things you don’t understand. They could have depression and are doing their best

Thread reported. The title, in itself, is vile.

Never mind dropped off at school, picked up from school in the same pjs.

"Each to their own" is what's caused standards to go down the toilet.

Well as long as their genitals and boob's are covered I would not judge them.

This is what I wonder. Im the same as you, I have indoor nice clean stuff and outdoor stuff. I change clothes when I get home anyway

The other thing I cannot abide is the lurching walk, shuffling along with those awful slider slippers on. I cant stand slippers anyway, they make me feel ill, saw a girl the other day going to the corner shop, dressing gown, PJs and then horrible plastic sliders with her feet out, slouching and scuffing down the pavement.

It wasnt early morning or anything either. Strange.

So when she goes in, she has her same slippers on all over the house, dressing gown that shes snuggling up with either on the sofa or in bed that shes worn out. Urgh.

Boobs ... I wish spellchecker would not add apostrophes.

Yep, a lot of lounge wear looks like PJs. As long as you are covered up... and the vital thing here... is that you are comfortable.

I have never seen this!

In our local Tesco I've seen it, including whole families on a Saturday. They always look and act as if social services should pay a visit. I don't wear makeup and only wear jewellery on special occasions but am always clean, dressed and presentable to go out albeit casually dressed in jeans and a hoody/ jumper.
The joggers and T shirt thing, unless heading to the gym or sports training, adults look like giant toddlers. Usually men though in saggy old stuff.

It could also cause a lot of panic and fear!

Um, I snuggle on the sofa with the same clothes I wore out. What is wrong with that?
I think I missed the memo about having different clothing for shops, going out, being on the sofa, being in the toilet etc.

I'd just like to know if your child's teacher was wearing pjs in class how you would feel? Oh, yeah, its cool cause we send our kids to school wearing pj's.

Is being lazy really the worst human trait? I haven't killed anyone, I'm kind, I help others, so what if after finishing work at 3 am, I roll out of bed to take the kids to school to roll back into bed to repeat it all the next night when I start work at 9?

Judge me, go ahead, I'm working, doing my best and don't want to be friends with judgemental people anyway.