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To want to know why Imogen Poots broke up with James Norton

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ThatNimblePeer · 27/05/2025 19:52

Obviously absolutely none of my business, but I don’t think anyone in my real life knows who these people are, so I’m sharing it here in case anyone shares my mini obsession.

Imogen Poots is a gorgeous 35 year old British actress who was engaged to James Norton (I’m guessing I don’t need to explain here who he is), they broke up in the last year or so and he’s indicated in interviews that it wasn’t his choice.

She’s suggested in past interviews that she wants children (which JN has also said he does). Definitely none of my business - but honestly if you were a 35 year old woman who wants kids and you were engaged to JAMES NORTON, would you break up with him?

I know AIBU.

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 27/05/2025 21:54

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/05/2025 21:48

Now you see I find Jamie Dornan as bland as a can of magnolia paint.

But you go after him and I'll take the Norton, cardigan and all 😆.

Oo really! I think ive only seen clips of his interviews, is he not sexy? I loved 50 shades 🤭 and that serial killer show with gillian anderson

Hang on, i need to research before I give up on old cardigans 😭😭

Summersunshinebliss · 27/05/2025 21:54

Running to join that dating app....

Pyjamatimenow · 27/05/2025 21:54

I thought he was hot in a scary way in happy valley ( similar to Jamie Dornan in the fall) but that thing on itv where the babies had been swapped put me off him. He was so wet.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/05/2025 21:57

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 27/05/2025 21:54

Oo really! I think ive only seen clips of his interviews, is he not sexy? I loved 50 shades 🤭 and that serial killer show with gillian anderson

Hang on, i need to research before I give up on old cardigans 😭😭

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I'm sure he's lovely and he has a very nice Northern Irish lilt but theres something missing for me whereby he kind of leaves me cold also I've never seen him in a cardigan 🤣.

Pyjamatimenow · 27/05/2025 21:57

Ha just read the full thread and noticed others talking about Jamie Dornan. Jamie Dornan is definitely hotter by a long stretch. If anyone hasn’t seen The Fall you absolutely must!!

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/05/2025 21:59

Also I remember seeing Jamie Dornan on Celebrity Gogglebox once and he didn't watch strictly and had no idea who Dave Arch and his orchestra is. Whoever was with him had to explain it all.

We certainly wouldn't be comparable on Saturday nights between September and Christmas.

BatchCookBabe · 27/05/2025 22:05

I don't know, but now he's free, he can date me! 😆He is GORGEOUS!!!😍

TheZippyBlueCat · 27/05/2025 22:05

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BatchCookBabe · 27/05/2025 22:06

Pyjamatimenow · 27/05/2025 21:57

Ha just read the full thread and noticed others talking about Jamie Dornan. Jamie Dornan is definitely hotter by a long stretch. If anyone hasn’t seen The Fall you absolutely must!!

Jamie is indeed quite hot, but he is a Poundland James Norton to be honest. James is waaaaaaaaaay hotter! 👄

Pluvia · 27/05/2025 22:06

I had time for James Norton (a friend knows his sister and family and says thet are lovely folk) until recently, when he signed a petition of luvvies complaining about the Supreme Court ruling that sex is biological and unchanging, calling for trans rights and supporting men who identify as women having access to women's toilets and changing rooms. JN is clearly not a man who supports women's right. Trans people have exactly the same rights as everyone else.

Fraid JN's now joined my list of famous woke idiots.

Edited to say: just noticed that someone above has posted the ridiculous letter than he signed. Thanks for that!

BatchCookBabe · 27/05/2025 22:08

Pluvia · 27/05/2025 22:06

I had time for James Norton (a friend knows his sister and family and says thet are lovely folk) until recently, when he signed a petition of luvvies complaining about the Supreme Court ruling that sex is biological and unchanging, calling for trans rights and supporting men who identify as women having access to women's toilets and changing rooms. JN is clearly not a man who supports women's right. Trans people have exactly the same rights as everyone else.

Fraid JN's now joined my list of famous woke idiots.

Edited to say: just noticed that someone above has posted the ridiculous letter than he signed. Thanks for that!

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That is disappointing to hear that James has jumped on the luvvie bandwagon, but sadly, many luvvies and celebrities go this way. It's the leftie way! 😎

Champagne socialists. 🍷

He is still fucking smokin' 🔥

Glowingup · 27/05/2025 22:11

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WakingUpTheNeighbours · 27/05/2025 22:12

Toptotoe · 27/05/2025 22:02

Maybe they had ideological differences. . .

He was one of the actors who signed an open letter pledging “solidarity” with the trans, non-binary and intersex communities after the recent supreme court ruling.
I can't see her name there .

That is disappointing. I’d split up with any man that held those views. Seriously unattractive.

TimSamandLulu · 27/05/2025 22:13

Camdenish · 27/05/2025 21:02

Try reading this thread when the James you’re thinking of is Nesbitt-it’s quite confusing.

Same! I was very confused for a few minutes, thinking surely he’s getting on a bit now.

Springtime43 · 27/05/2025 22:14

I still can’t understand why Louise left Jamie Redknapp!

Glowingup · 27/05/2025 22:15

Springtime43 · 27/05/2025 22:14

I still can’t understand why Louise left Jamie Redknapp!

He cheated on her

FagsMagsandBags · 27/05/2025 22:18

Yeah, getting any sort of positive feeling for him in Happy Valley wasn't a nice feeling. I then saw him in the most recent BBC War and Peace adaptation and he was a hot Andrei Bolkonsky which felt like a safe place to be. I caught him a couple of times in Granchaster and he was quite hot for a 1950s vicar. Not proper hot priest though (Andrew Scott) or hot rabbi (Adam Brody).

Hwi · 27/05/2025 22:19

Health reasons? He has type 1 diabetes, it is not a walk in the park.

Inyournewdress · 27/05/2025 22:19

I actually don’t know who he is or recognise him, I was thinking of Edward Norton. But he’s surprisingly 55 according to the Google search I just did, so combine me not realising that with me not knowing who this James Norton is and I can see I am totally out of touch!

But, I have heard of Imogen Poots and seen her in things, and just from looking at those pictures I can’t see the attraction with this guy and I think she could do better. Also just because he said it wasn’t his choice, doesn’t mean it wasn’t his fault…maybe he cheated and she refused to accept it.

ThatNimblePeer · 27/05/2025 22:26

houwseevryweekend · 27/05/2025 21:53

How do you know he’s kind or intelligent though?? Good looking and successful doesn’t equate those things. Or he could have bad sperm or one ball and they tried to have a baby but couldn’t. Or maybe he couldn’t handle her having a Hollywood repertoire bigger than his - she’s acted with Zac Efron and Jesse Eisenberg, Kristen Stewart - and has a network there unlike him. Or most likely she just fell out of love with him - he’s not a gift to women kind.

Out of curiosity why discuss it now a year after the break up - when he’s already dated and dumped someone else? He chose a 25 year old model - that’s not screaming man who wants to settle down and get married! If he was an average Joe he’d be a red flag on MN as someone who wants to be married apparently but never has been and dates 15 years younger.

Kind and intelligent is what comes across in interviews, though as I say I know they’re curated and won’t be the whole story. A few posters above who’ve apparently met him have also said they found him kind. Re intelligence also, he went to Cambridge. I may be wrong in my impression but I’m not just basing it on the fact that he’s good looking!

Imogen also comes across in interviews as very intelligent and thoughtful.

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smallstitch · 27/05/2025 22:26

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 27/05/2025 19:59

I feel like he's boring

He was his sexiest as the wrong'un in happy valley

I remember thinking what a bad, sexy man

Irl he crosses his legs and speaks well, and probably cycles in Islington and raves about his sourdough starter

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This made me LOL

houwseevryweekend · 27/05/2025 22:27

Hwi · 27/05/2025 22:19

Health reasons? He has type 1 diabetes, it is not a walk in the park.

https://www.cornwalllive.com/news/celebs-tv/inside-life-james-norton-health-9832660

Yep, type 1 diabetes - he says he injects himself upto 15 times a day with insulin and it runs in his family. Also he says in this interview he’s a terrible hypochondriac - my closest friend is one and I’d go mad living with her. I think he’s also religious or has more than a keen interest in religion (you’d have to be to study theology and he has admitted it) whereas I don’t think Imogen Poots is. Not agreeing on religion would be a deal breaker for most people.

Kibble19 · 27/05/2025 22:27

I remember her from 28 Weeks Later years ago.

Hwi · 27/05/2025 22:31

houwseevryweekend · 27/05/2025 22:27

https://www.cornwalllive.com/news/celebs-tv/inside-life-james-norton-health-9832660

Yep, type 1 diabetes - he says he injects himself upto 15 times a day with insulin and it runs in his family. Also he says in this interview he’s a terrible hypochondriac - my closest friend is one and I’d go mad living with her. I think he’s also religious or has more than a keen interest in religion (you’d have to be to study theology and he has admitted it) whereas I don’t think Imogen Poots is. Not agreeing on religion would be a deal breaker for most people.

Religious? I just googled it - says 'catholic'. Very interesting branch of Catholicism, sleeps with women and parts ways with them? But what do I know...

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