In case you haven't noticed, my husband is extremely handsome

[NotUsually]

If anyone can manage to sit through this podcast between Meghan and Jamie Kern Lima, what are your thoughts about Meghan saying this?
And what are your thoughts on Meghan in general after watching her talking with Jamie here?
I don't know if I'm BU but I pick up on narcissist vibes.

the vocal fry of the interviewer is awful. I like IT cosmetics though. M looks very pretty & young. It's so gushy & cringe but that's typical LA.

Buying what, though? That your opinions are not objective fact? Okay, then. 🤣

His attractiveness is subjective, the fact that lots of people find him attractive is not. A quick Google would verify this. Somehow, this thread has made me some sort of stalwart defender of Harry’s good looks for pointing that out. I’m out. 🤣

But she's not saying
"I find H (as she has re-named him) really attractive; to me, he's gorgeous".
OK fine, nobody could argue with that, because that would be her telling us what her view of him is.
What she is saying is
"If you haven't noticed, my husband's very, very handsome".
It's that that I take issue with.
She's telling us that if we haven't noticed, Harry is very, very handsome.

why didn’t you post this on the Royal Family board @NotUsually ?!

Context is everything, was it said in a lighthearted, tongue in cheek way or was she deadly serious? I suspect the former although I haven't watched the program.
It's nice she thinks her husband is handsome, I'm sure he thinks she gorgeous too!

I agree with her point about not trying to prove it but a Brit would just say "fuck it, you can't please everyone". I hate all the "I'm enough", "I see you" language but as I said very LA.

What she is saying is
"If you haven't noticed, my husband's very, very handsome".
It's that that I take issue with.

She worded it this way specifically to get a rise from people like yourself.

You have shared her video more widely in outrage, which means she gets more clicks, and she can then command a higher fee in future for more “appearances.”

She has become a professional troll to some degree, but you have become her megaphone or distribution network. Congratulations @NotUsually

Context is everything, was it said in a lighthearted, tongue in cheek way or was she deadly serious?

It was the first but that what stop the likes of the OP from feeling forced into thinking Harry is handsome 😆

I managed less than 2 minutes.

I thought Harry and Meghan weren't using the Duke and Duchess of Suffolk titles?

Also, that host saying she was wearing no makeup? We can see the blush!

I couldn’t give two hoots about the royal family and if this thread was titled that I wouldn’t have clicked on it.

However, this comment made me laugh. Whilst neither are attractive, Harry is the much more attractive one. William is actually very ugly. I think the royal family as a whole are a very unfortunate looking family to be honest. I don’t get the hype at all.

They're using the titles, they're very much into the royal status. She has a crown above her name on her stationery!

A sulky man child doesn't do it for me - but it feeds into her narcissistic personality and so they are the perfect storm.

I'm inclined to think that a title, wealth, status and privilege makes some men very attractive to certain women 🙄

, but you have become her megaphone or distribution network. Congratulations **

Just for contaxt, the interview is a few weeks old, it went viral on just about every pro Meghan and Harry and anti Meghan and Harry platform.

It was fawned over by some YouTubers and ridiculed by some YouTubers. It spawned a multitude of memes.

Mumsnet is not a distribution network that would even register on the scale of how it was received a few weeks ago.

Since this is in AIBU and not the royal family section, I can fairly say that you're being ridiculously unreasonable to give a flying fuck about this.

Woman says her husband is good looking... who cares!

Just sounds like the sort of jokey remark lots of us would make about husbands!

Agree... William, still has his mothers bone structure and is aging well. Harry's attacks on Williams looks is pure jealousy. I don't find Harry attractive, and MM is beyond irritating.

Too funny!😂

I have dozens and dozens of friends from my dc's schools and also female colleague friends from different jobs, we tend to have personable open chats most of the time.

I've never ever heard any woman refer to her husband in this way.

Meghan sounds controlling "if you hadn't noticed" and then wants to put the idea out there that Harry is handsome. It's <ahem> unusual behaviour.

Maybe it's a case of if you say it often enough it may become true? 😂😁I'm experiencing second hand embarrassment.

I don't get narcissist vibes, I see a woman who knows her own worth and isn't afraid to say that, a woman who loves her family and is ambitious with a strong work ethic.

Sometimes society only want women to love their family. A woman knowing their worth and being ambitious isn't always received well in a misogynistic society

Harry looks like his dad - James Hewitt.

Why is it OK to vilify Megan Markle. It's getting fucking boring.

I can only assume he's hung like a donkey because handsome he ain't

Because he is handsome to her.

You are free to disagree.

Don’t try to silence her or choose her words for her though.

This video is way more fun to watch when you are drunk

I don't need to watch the clip to know that nothing Meghan Markle says or does is as weird or as worthy of diagnosis as someone starting a thread on a public forum just to put her down.