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To think it’s actually really unfair to be charged for bank holidays at nursery?

282 replies

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:08

And no, I’m not going to complain about it because I don’t want anyone to think I begrudge the staff a day off. I don’t. But I do resent paying for a service I’m not receiving.

OP posts:
MumbleBumbleAppleCrumble · 21/05/2025 16:34

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:14

Out of their profits.

The reason it annoys me is because if you send your child on a Monday then you get hit with a charge for a service you don’t get. But if you send your child on a Thursday you don’t.

Mine attend Mondays and Fridays so this is the fourth one this year.

And no, I don’t get paid if I don’t go to work. But I don’t mind them being paid. I just don’t feel it should be from my pocket.

I think you’re probably being unreasonably attacked here, as actually the point you are really making is slightly different from how you worded it. The question is not whether or not it’s unfair to be charged for bank holidays (as others have pointed out, staff need to be paid and it has to come from somewhere); you question really is: is it not unfair that the parents of children who attend on Mondays (and some Fridays) have to pay while those who attend on other days do not? Can it not be run equitably? The answer to that is absolutely it is and you should write to the Nursery provider and ask why they cannot spread the cost of bank holidays and charge all parents appropriately.

MumbleBumbleAppleCrumble · 21/05/2025 16:44

Pottedpalm · 21/05/2025 09:21

Hardly a boast!
sad that you don’t want to include your child in your family fun time. Why bother having them?

Because sometimes adults need time away from their children- and equally children often need some time away from their parents!
Often people send children to grandparents or relatives for a day or so to have a break, or manage to get around to those house hold chores and DIY projects that never seem to happen with kids around.
my partner and I have taken leave on a few occasions when our child is in nursery. It’s great. We’ve mostly just got on with household jobs and admin that’s been piling up, but we’ve also had a day here and there to do things just us.
Looking after ourselves and our house and our relationship is just as vital to our child’s wellbeing as time with them.
Suggesting that parents who might want to do things separately are some how bad parents and shouldn’t have had children is both rather odd and just a tad horrid.

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 21/05/2025 16:48

CopperWhite · 20/05/2025 18:08

Do you get paid for bank holidays?

This!

which I’ve noted the OP has failed to answer 🤔

MumbleBumbleAppleCrumble · 21/05/2025 16:53

Pottedpalm · 21/05/2025 09:21

Hardly a boast!
sad that you don’t want to include your child in your family fun time. Why bother having them?

Oh, and suggesting that the only sort of ‘fun time’ is ‘family fun time’ is not only rather regressive but it would mean that all families would have to be one child families…

MumbleBumbleAppleCrumble · 21/05/2025 16:55

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 21/05/2025 16:48

This!

which I’ve noted the OP has failed to answer 🤔

No, they have answered. They’re not saying staff shouldn’t be paid for bank holidays, they are saying that the cost of bank holidays shouldn’t fall only on the shoulders of parents with children attending on Mondays. (Their original post wasn’t worded amazingly well).

Tangled123 · 21/05/2025 16:58

It really annoyed me that we still had to pay for my daughter’s nursery when it was closed, especially when it closed for two weeks randomly in the summer. I see the logic though and they’d get the money out of us some way though. It’s also not like you can pay less for insurance or the gym (for example) if you end up not driving or working out for a day.

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 16:59

glittereyelash · 21/05/2025 16:21

That's life unfortunately. My friends child was sick for 9 full weeks during the creche year and still had to pay. In my creche we paid for easter , christmas and summer holidays. It's a huge thing leaving your child with other people and they deserve proper compensation for that role. There are very little profits from creches, staff are overworked and underpaid for the time and effort they put in.

Yes EVERYONE paid for those holidays. This has been explained multiple times throughout the post.

The op is complaining as ONLY Monday parents are having to pay for bank holidays as that's their child's day to attend. it's not split evenly between everyone, even though they are the only ones missing out on childcare the BH's when the nursery is closed.

So essentially, Monday children are missing up to 8 days of childcare even though they are paying for the same amount as everyone else.

Why is this so hard for so many people to comprehend on here.

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 17:01

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 21/05/2025 16:48

This!

which I’ve noted the OP has failed to answer 🤔

If you care to read the op's replied properly, you will see that she has indeed answered this question. 🤦‍♀️

TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:02

You don't begrudge the staff their paid holiday entitlement OP, so really what you're unhappy about is that you're specifically billed for a BH? The alternative is to not charge for a bank holiday and instead increase the daily rate to cover holiday pay for the staff. If you're not objecting to them being paid then surely it's irrelevant how it's broken down and invoiced?

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 17:03

TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:02

You don't begrudge the staff their paid holiday entitlement OP, so really what you're unhappy about is that you're specifically billed for a BH? The alternative is to not charge for a bank holiday and instead increase the daily rate to cover holiday pay for the staff. If you're not objecting to them being paid then surely it's irrelevant how it's broken down and invoiced?

RTFT... smh

TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:05

Ooooh, I've never been told off on MN before. Are you feeling all important now?

bouncinround · 21/05/2025 17:12

TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:05

Ooooh, I've never been told off on MN before. Are you feeling all important now?

It’s not telling you off, but come on. If you just walked into a conversation without listening to a word that had been said previously and someone said ‘Anna’s just said that’ it would be a fair point!

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EveryDayisFriday · 21/05/2025 17:43

My issue was always that I've never had to pay for a service on days that the service provider isn't open. However, child care is the only service that this doesn't apply to for some stupid reason.

Yes the staff should be paid for BHs, out of the overall fees received and not charge their customers for days they aren't open.

drspouse · 21/05/2025 17:47

TourangaLeila · 20/05/2025 18:11

So, how will they pay the staff if you don't pay for the day?

By evening out all the actual open days across payments.
So in a month with one bank holiday there might be 21 open days.
All parents pay 1/21 of the running costs per child for each day they book.
All staff get 1/31 of the month's pay per day.

Brokeandold · 21/05/2025 17:57

I work in a term time, committee run, not for profit setting, we don't get paid for bank holidays.
No idea if the parents get charged for bank holidays tho.

TipsyMaker · 21/05/2025 18:02

I don't understand this, for Bank Holidays I HAVE to take it as annual leave, so I'm paid but it's out of my leave entitlement. Surely that's a better way to do it?

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:05

Brokeandold · 21/05/2025 17:57

I work in a term time, committee run, not for profit setting, we don't get paid for bank holidays.
No idea if the parents get charged for bank holidays tho.

In the UK?
You are entitled to a minimum of 5.6 weeks paid annual leave per year (pro rata for part time) this includes bank holidays, so some people get it broken down onto 4 weeks annual leave plus 8 days bank holiday.
Others just get it rolled up into one lump of 5.6 weeks.

Companies are of course allowed to give above the statutory minimum. But they cannot give less.

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 19:25

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:05

In the UK?
You are entitled to a minimum of 5.6 weeks paid annual leave per year (pro rata for part time) this includes bank holidays, so some people get it broken down onto 4 weeks annual leave plus 8 days bank holiday.
Others just get it rolled up into one lump of 5.6 weeks.

Companies are of course allowed to give above the statutory minimum. But they cannot give less.

Well that's not entirely true. I get 28 leave days and no bank holidays. This is in the private sector.

Every job I've ever had has been the same. We used to get paid time and a half on a bank Holiday but that's a thing of the past now.

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:27

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 19:25

Well that's not entirely true. I get 28 leave days and no bank holidays. This is in the private sector.

Every job I've ever had has been the same. We used to get paid time and a half on a bank Holiday but that's a thing of the past now.

28 days leave is 5.6 weeks.

That is exactly what I have just said.

Some employers state it differently (eg break out the bank holidays), but it still has to add up to the same.

Just to edit - maybe it's the way I have worded it.

What I mean is it doesn't have to be the actual bank holidays, but it has to add up to the same amount.

Bitchesbelike · 21/05/2025 19:29

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:14

Out of their profits.

The reason it annoys me is because if you send your child on a Monday then you get hit with a charge for a service you don’t get. But if you send your child on a Thursday you don’t.

Mine attend Mondays and Fridays so this is the fourth one this year.

And no, I don’t get paid if I don’t go to work. But I don’t mind them being paid. I just don’t feel it should be from my pocket.

I totally get it. If I sent my kids to nursery every Tuesday. I would pay for 52 days childcare and recieve 52 days childcare.

but if my child went to nursery every Monday; I’d pay for 52 days childcare and only recieve 48 days childcare

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:29

Edited to add into my post above

jannier · 21/05/2025 20:32

tomorrowchild · 21/05/2025 12:38

I’ve never had to use a nursery for my dcs and I’m suprised that you would be charged for bank holidays when they are not open! I agree the staff costs should be factored into the overheads or split fairly between all customers. Not a direct bill to the Monday users. I work in retail and although we don’t get a paid day off, we do get a bank holiday premium for working. The company does not raise their prices specifically on that day though to be able to pay the bank holiday staff their extra pay. Could you imagine popping into your local supermarket and paying an extra 25% for your loaf of bread on bank holiday Monday just because the staff are being paid a little extra? It’s the company policy to give paid time off to the nursery workers so they should factor that cost in somewhere else

How would they raise prices to cover it if the government had come along and cut the prices by 25% and said you can only increase prices on chocolate and alcohol but if the customer wants to they can add their own to the shopping bag for free and you deliver it ....essentially nurseries are now not allowed to charge extra for anything needed to provide the eyes and and extras must be voluntary and they can't insist on additional hours.

jannier · 21/05/2025 20:38

Gail54 · 21/05/2025 15:34

The cost if childcare is exorbitant. They pay employed staff minimum wage. Their overheads can be high, but they cut every corner to it's minimum. Leaving huge profits for the Nursery Owners. Yes we pay for shop staff's holidays, hospital workers holidays either via taxes or in what you buy and pay for. But in thus and any other "care situation" the owners of these businesses know the paying customers are over a barrel for approx 5 years, until the child enters full time education. Most families want the income from both parents to fulfill the costs if living they lifestyle they demand, so that's the price you hacmve to pay. If you are prepared to down grade look after your own children you risk the chance of not getting back into your chosen profession or having to start off again at a lower grade or switch professions even. And all offerings will be at a .uch reduced salary than when you got pregnant. Even employers will think again and again over employing parents of child bearing ages. Should they invest time and money into employees who may one day walk away because their "ideal family" life is calling. As the say you pick your choice. Ideally I suppose you train in child care, you have your own children ensuring that your premises etc are up to scratch to take in additional children. Payments stay in your pockets. You then become the "owner" of a child care establishment and make big bucks while laying in the sun with your own children growing up nicely in private schools paid for by your businesses profits.

Most nurseries are in crisis not making huge profits if the government pay £5 per hour per child how can there be a huge profit when you look at staffing ratios, additional staff, rent, electricity, food costs, consumable costs etc. ?

bouncinround · 21/05/2025 20:41

@jannier i definitely pay more than that.

Nursery costs for my two children for two days a week are nearly £1000 a month, that’s with funded hours.

I don’t begrudge the nursery staff a penny. But that’s not where it’s going. And I don’t object to a business making a profit, but it needs to be a fair profit.

Anyway, it isn’t really relevant to this particular bugbear TBH.

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Rainbowchicken · 21/05/2025 20:45

I was never charged for bank holidays, not all nurseries do. I would have been annoyed too tbh.