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AIBU?

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To feel parents should not move their crying child round the cabin to disturb everyone?

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Tiredannoyedflyer · 20/05/2025 14:23

I have just flown business on a 9 hour flight, with the intention of getting sleep before arriving.

I purposely chose seats away from the bassinets and towards the back of the cabin as I thought this would be quieter. As it was near the emergency exit; all this actually meant was that every parent with a crying baby or child took them to this area, so I actually got precisely zero sleep! Each seat has its own doors but those standing can look directly down into it so I had a stream of parents with children not only standing by my bed whilst I’m trying to sleep, but also looking down into my sleeping area which I find extremely intrusive.

I am not suggesting those with children shouldn’t fly business, just that they should be more considerate to those seated away from the bassinet seats.

AIBU to feel that parents should just stay in their seat with their child who is crying, sometimes a baby, sometimes a toddler, rather than spread the misery to absolutely everyone in the cabin, rather than those unlucky enough to be sitting near them on takeoff.

When the crying child is taken to stand next to my seat, would I be unreasonable to ask them to move as it’s disturbing me?

OP posts:
ParmaVioletTea · 23/05/2025 16:01

I feel your pain @Tiredannoyedflyer - when you pay gazillions to get a bed & some sleep, those other passengers are most unreasonable. I too try to book at the back of Business for this very same reason.

I'd have asked them to move, and I'd also have tried to get the sympathy of cabin staff and asked them to ask other passengers to keep crying babies in the bassinet section.

ParmaVioletTea · 23/05/2025 16:03

Tiredannoyedflyer · 20/05/2025 14:29

Thankyou - and once one had done it, then a stream of other parents for the next 9 hours then did exactly the same thing.
It is literally directly above your sleeping area looking down into it

Completely unacceptable - so rude.

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