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Strangers who think we all love their dog

381 replies

MaisieMouse87 · 17/05/2025 14:29

I'm a bit pissed off and need a rant. Sitting on the park with my kids, we had a large bottle of water nearly full, next to us on the grass. The top was off as one of the kids had just had some. The park is a large field and we were not near anyone else. We were minding our business.
These two women walked past with a dog on a lead. I didn't expect them to get as close as they did. They came literally right up to us. The dog (on the lead) came between me and the kids and licked the rim of the water bottle. One of the women did a tinkly laugh and I said " oh no" in an annoyed tone and told one of my kids that the water would have to go in the bin now. They just walked off grinning and I heard them say something like " imagine being like that over a dog."
I did not say anything but got up and threw it in the bin. If they'd said sorry it would have been alright or if the dog was off the lead I would have been annoyed still. But the way they actively led it over to us and allowed it to do that, then laughed about it. Aibu for being annoyed? It's not even really about the water. It's about having personal space invaded needlessly when I'm minding my own business by people who are nosy and need to see what I'm doing. And partly people with dogs who think it's acceptable because the dog likes people making a fuss of it. By the way I actually like dogs and have 2 but I have never allowed them to do this and actively keep them away from people in public.

OP posts:
YeOldeGreyhound · 21/05/2025 14:30

LilDeVille · 21/05/2025 07:41

Hahaha, lovely example of the classic Mumsnet faux wide-eyed concern. Yes. Ticks get removed. Obviously. In order to get a tick removed, a dog needs to get a tick in the first place. I want no part in that 🤢

You’re wrong - are you telling me my parent’s dog is neglected because it has fur, poos, makes noises and has saliva?? I’ve seen multiple dogs out and about eat grass and then puke it up, nothing to do with my parents’ (spoiled) dog.

Try again!

Humans are not immune to ticks. Or vomiting.

rb124 · 21/05/2025 14:45

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 21/05/2025 07:16

It’s such a stupid point when they say this because it’s a complete non comparison. A child is a small person who is learning how to be a participant in society and one day contribute. They have the right and need to access person spaces. A dog has no need to be anywhere at all - they aren’t even real animals, they are man made mutants that wouldn’t exist without human intervention. A dog will always be a dog. A child will grow up and be less “disgusting”.

Add to that - most children do not eat poo, get bathed more than once in a blue moon and tend not to have the potential to maul someone to death just because someone stepped on their foot.

I'll guess you don't have a dog.
Dogs sometimes eat pooh because their digestion is inefficient and 're-eating' their food gets them the nutrients they need. It's rarely seen now as most dogs get plenty of nutrition from their food - it's basically a throw back from their wolf ancestors.
Rolling in pooh (not their own) is also a throwback - it was to disguise their scent when hunting - again, it's rarely seen now they don't need to hunt.

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 21/05/2025 15:13

@rb124 thats lovely - what part of any of that isn’t vile to have in your home or licking your face?

Hulabalu · 21/05/2025 15:16

LilDeVille · 21/05/2025 07:41

Hahaha, lovely example of the classic Mumsnet faux wide-eyed concern. Yes. Ticks get removed. Obviously. In order to get a tick removed, a dog needs to get a tick in the first place. I want no part in that 🤢

You’re wrong - are you telling me my parent’s dog is neglected because it has fur, poos, makes noises and has saliva?? I’ve seen multiple dogs out and about eat grass and then puke it up, nothing to do with my parents’ (spoiled) dog.

Try again!

People easily get tics
you could get one

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/05/2025 15:18

Hulabalu · 21/05/2025 15:16

People easily get tics
you could get one

Yep, at least there are treatments for dogs that can help prevent them.
No such things for humans.

rb124 · 21/05/2025 17:37

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 21/05/2025 15:13

@rb124 thats lovely - what part of any of that isn’t vile to have in your home or licking your face?

As I said, it's very rare these days. My dog is 9ish, and she's never eaten or rolled in Pooh in the 7 years I've had her.
The problem is dog owners not training their dogs properly. I appreciate that not everyone wants a dog licking their face, so mine has been taught not to and doesn't.

Hulabalu · 21/05/2025 22:15

Suedelfinoofwisterialane · 21/05/2025 13:45

I’d have thrown the water over them.

Poor dog was probably dehydrated.
also human mouths contain more bacteria than a dogs.
“Dog mouths contain around 600 different species of germs, while human mouths have about 615. These bacteria play a role in digestion and overall oral health in both dogs and humans”
and most dog mouth bacteria isn’t zoonotic to humans so can’t be passed on . Except for a couple from dog bites.

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 09:59

rb124 · 21/05/2025 14:45

I'll guess you don't have a dog.
Dogs sometimes eat pooh because their digestion is inefficient and 're-eating' their food gets them the nutrients they need. It's rarely seen now as most dogs get plenty of nutrition from their food - it's basically a throw back from their wolf ancestors.
Rolling in pooh (not their own) is also a throwback - it was to disguise their scent when hunting - again, it's rarely seen now they don't need to hunt.

They eat other animal poo too so that point doesn’t make any sense

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 10:01

rb124 · 21/05/2025 14:09

Maybe if they carried sterile wipes the could use one to clean the drink container?
Just a thought 🙂

On the off chance someone’s mutt cones over, not under control of its owner, and slobbers all over the stuff?

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 10:09

ShowMeTheSushi · 21/05/2025 08:08

What a load of BS. Dogs in public aren’t the issue, entitled attitudes are. Public means shared. Unless there’s a “No Dogs Allowed” sign, then they’re allowed. Dogs need proper care: walks, bathroom breaks, training, vets, groomers. It’s called being a responsible owner.

Whilst I don’t condone irresponsible dog owners and what happened to OP was unacceptable, you trying to police and dictate what dog owners can and cannot do is barking mad. That’s a whole different level of entitlement and it’s not how the world works.

Public means for people - it comes from the noun people

Mrsbloggz · 22/05/2025 10:42

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 10:09

Public means for people - it comes from the noun people

Dog people have invented a new class of people i.e the fur people.
They consider dogs to be a subclass of 'people'.

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 22/05/2025 11:09

@Mrsbloggz my BILs dog nutter partner literally said that her dog counted as a person 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 11:18

Mrsbloggz · 22/05/2025 10:42

Dog people have invented a new class of people i.e the fur people.
They consider dogs to be a subclass of 'people'.

Oh this made me giggle!😂😂😂

Mrsbloggz · 22/05/2025 11:50

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 22/05/2025 11:09

@Mrsbloggz my BILs dog nutter partner literally said that her dog counted as a person 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

They surely must have a low IQ to think like that?
Those people who see the dog is their best friend, can we infer from this that they have a similar cognitive capacity to the canine companion?

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 22/05/2025 12:11

Mrsbloggz · 22/05/2025 11:50

They surely must have a low IQ to think like that?
Those people who see the dog is their best friend, can we infer from this that they have a similar cognitive capacity to the canine companion?

I couldn’t possibly comment 😁

ShowMeTheSushi · 22/05/2025 12:13

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 10:09

Public means for people - it comes from the noun people

Oh no, I wonder how dogs, cats, and wildlife have been trespassing all this time with no repercussions? And why are there bins specifically for dog poo? Society clearly doesn’t care, judging by all the ‘dogs welcome’ signs everywhere. Maybe try co-existing instead of being so sanctimonious all the time, must be exhausting. 🙄

Trethew · 22/05/2025 12:25

I saw an incident on the beach. Group of young men barbecuing at the back of the beach. Small dog was standing nearby looking hopeful, not too close, not on a lead. One of the young men got up and kicked it. Owner came over and there was an argument, then she picked up a handful of sand and threw it all over the food

ShowMeTheSushi · 22/05/2025 12:29

Mrsbloggz · 22/05/2025 10:42

Dog people have invented a new class of people i.e the fur people.
They consider dogs to be a subclass of 'people'.

Oh look, it’s the anti-dog brigade twisting words and trying to rewrite reality again. Typical! Relax, dogs aren’t taking over, so you can unclutch your pearls. And thanks for calling us dog owners ‘innovators’. We do try our best to be responsible, coexist and share public spaces where dogs are clearly allowed. Maybe try it sometime. Or check in with your ‘superior humans’… unless they’ve muted you, which would explain the endless dog-hating threads. 😂

BIossomtoes · 22/05/2025 12:29

Trethew · 22/05/2025 12:25

I saw an incident on the beach. Group of young men barbecuing at the back of the beach. Small dog was standing nearby looking hopeful, not too close, not on a lead. One of the young men got up and kicked it. Owner came over and there was an argument, then she picked up a handful of sand and threw it all over the food

Good for her. Brave woman.

YeOldeGreyhound · 22/05/2025 13:27

Mrsbloggz · 22/05/2025 11:50

They surely must have a low IQ to think like that?
Those people who see the dog is their best friend, can we infer from this that they have a similar cognitive capacity to the canine companion?

Why do these threads always end up with crap like this?

It is fine to not like dogs, but why is it ok to make comments like yours?

My elderly grandfather regarded his little dog as his best friend. He had family, but at the end of the day he was home alone with his dog. He was a massive comfort to him, and he was to his dog too. When he had a catastrophic stroke, his dog was frantic and howling.
There was nothing wrong with my grandfather's cognitive ability, and he was a very intelligent man.

YeOldeGreyhound · 22/05/2025 13:28

Trethew · 22/05/2025 12:25

I saw an incident on the beach. Group of young men barbecuing at the back of the beach. Small dog was standing nearby looking hopeful, not too close, not on a lead. One of the young men got up and kicked it. Owner came over and there was an argument, then she picked up a handful of sand and threw it all over the food

That is brilliant.

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 14:32

ShowMeTheSushi · 22/05/2025 12:13

Oh no, I wonder how dogs, cats, and wildlife have been trespassing all this time with no repercussions? And why are there bins specifically for dog poo? Society clearly doesn’t care, judging by all the ‘dogs welcome’ signs everywhere. Maybe try co-existing instead of being so sanctimonious all the time, must be exhausting. 🙄

I was pointing out that your definition of public was incorrect - I didn’t insult you or make nasty comments to you………you obviously think it’s acceptable to behave that way though! 🙄🙄

ShowMeTheSushi · 22/05/2025 15:30

YeOldeGreyhound · 22/05/2025 13:27

Why do these threads always end up with crap like this?

It is fine to not like dogs, but why is it ok to make comments like yours?

My elderly grandfather regarded his little dog as his best friend. He had family, but at the end of the day he was home alone with his dog. He was a massive comfort to him, and he was to his dog too. When he had a catastrophic stroke, his dog was frantic and howling.
There was nothing wrong with my grandfather's cognitive ability, and he was a very intelligent man.

Unfortunately, these threads often attract mean bullies who simply can’t fathom how dogs are loved by billions, and how humans can form deep bonds with both people and dogs.

Your story about your grandfather and his dog is truly touching. Dogs offer a unique kind of companionship, especially in the toughest times.

They can sneer all they want, but it says far more about their character than the empathetic humans they’re so desperate to tear down.

ShowMeTheSushi · 22/05/2025 15:34

Blushingm · 22/05/2025 14:32

I was pointing out that your definition of public was incorrect - I didn’t insult you or make nasty comments to you………you obviously think it’s acceptable to behave that way though! 🙄🙄

Ah, the pedantry defense! Sure, ‘public’ might come from ‘people,’ but dogs have been part of public spaces for centuries. If you’re gonna throw shade, at least own it, no need to hide behind a vocab lesson. 🙄

YeOldeGreyhound · 22/05/2025 16:02

ShowMeTheSushi · 22/05/2025 15:34

Ah, the pedantry defense! Sure, ‘public’ might come from ‘people,’ but dogs have been part of public spaces for centuries. If you’re gonna throw shade, at least own it, no need to hide behind a vocab lesson. 🙄

We have canine teeth. Wait until they find out what canine actually means 😂

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