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Strangers who think we all love their dog

381 replies

MaisieMouse87 · 17/05/2025 14:29

I'm a bit pissed off and need a rant. Sitting on the park with my kids, we had a large bottle of water nearly full, next to us on the grass. The top was off as one of the kids had just had some. The park is a large field and we were not near anyone else. We were minding our business.
These two women walked past with a dog on a lead. I didn't expect them to get as close as they did. They came literally right up to us. The dog (on the lead) came between me and the kids and licked the rim of the water bottle. One of the women did a tinkly laugh and I said " oh no" in an annoyed tone and told one of my kids that the water would have to go in the bin now. They just walked off grinning and I heard them say something like " imagine being like that over a dog."
I did not say anything but got up and threw it in the bin. If they'd said sorry it would have been alright or if the dog was off the lead I would have been annoyed still. But the way they actively led it over to us and allowed it to do that, then laughed about it. Aibu for being annoyed? It's not even really about the water. It's about having personal space invaded needlessly when I'm minding my own business by people who are nosy and need to see what I'm doing. And partly people with dogs who think it's acceptable because the dog likes people making a fuss of it. By the way I actually like dogs and have 2 but I have never allowed them to do this and actively keep them away from people in public.

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YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 19:56

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 19:55

Regardless, they should still be on a lead as should the other dogs you’re meeting - any dog can turn

Dogs are only required to be on lead in places that state that.

Your head rules are not the law.

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 19:59

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 19:55

Regardless, they should still be on a lead as should the other dogs you’re meeting - any dog can turn

Bollocks.

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 20:01

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 19:59

Bollocks.

I can show you what a supposedly friendly dog off a lead did to me - it’s not Bollocks at all. It’s painful and has left me with a permanent scar

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 20:03

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 20:01

I can show you what a supposedly friendly dog off a lead did to me - it’s not Bollocks at all. It’s painful and has left me with a permanent scar

Tell you what, when you start walking on our massive meadow, let me know and I’ll put my dogs on the lead. Until then they’ll continue to run free.

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 20:07

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 20:03

Tell you what, when you start walking on our massive meadow, let me know and I’ll put my dogs on the lead. Until then they’ll continue to run free.

Then you’re irresponsible and inconsiderate

YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 20:08

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 20:07

Then you’re irresponsible and inconsiderate

Please explain how someone is irresponsible and inconsiderate when they let their dogs off lead in a place that is is allowed

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 20:13

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 20:07

Then you’re irresponsible and inconsiderate

How? I’ve just offered to keep you happy if you’re in the vicinity of my dogs - I think that’s very considerate.

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 20:14

YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 20:08

Please explain how someone is irresponsible and inconsiderate when they let their dogs off lead in a place that is is allowed

Because a dog off a lead did this- a supposedly friendly dog…….dogs should be on a lead and kept away from people

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YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 20:15

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 20:14

Because a dog off a lead did this- a supposedly friendly dog…….dogs should be on a lead and kept away from people

That was shitty dog owner issue, not a dog issue.

Dogs are like cyclists... you only notice the bad ones.

StMarie4me · 19/05/2025 20:16

I’m be livid if the water I had taken to the park doe my kids had been rendered unusable by a bloody dog. The owners should have been so apologetic

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YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 20:18

StMarie4me · 19/05/2025 20:16

I’m be livid if the water I had taken to the park doe my kids had been rendered unusable by a bloody dog. The owners should have been so apologetic

To be fair, I have had a kid come up and dip their sticky fingers in my drink too.

Verv · 19/05/2025 21:36

Blushingm · 19/05/2025 18:50

Why do you need to take pets to public spaces?

I already answered that with the question “how do get a dog to a vet without crossing or entering public space”

Feel free.

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:40

Verv · 19/05/2025 21:36

I already answered that with the question “how do get a dog to a vet without crossing or entering public space”

Feel free.

In your car? I cannot abide pets on public transport either. Zero issue with genuine working disability dogs, but dogs on trains or buses? Grim! Get them well away.

Verv · 19/05/2025 21:42

KarminaBurana · 19/05/2025 17:36

I never said people shouldn't control their children but it hasn't stopped you claiming this.

That’s because I made a statement and you chimed in.
Out of control dogs and out of control children are an adult problem. They are the absolute responsibility of their owners/parents.
My position on this remains unchanged, whether you can cope with the comparison or not.

YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 21:44

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:40

In your car? I cannot abide pets on public transport either. Zero issue with genuine working disability dogs, but dogs on trains or buses? Grim! Get them well away.

What is the difference between a well behaved dog on a train, and a service dog on a train?

I don't drive. I still need to get my dog to places. And it is allowed anyway, so you may as well unclutch your pearls and put them away.

Verv · 19/05/2025 21:45

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:40

In your car? I cannot abide pets on public transport either. Zero issue with genuine working disability dogs, but dogs on trains or buses? Grim! Get them well away.

And how do you get from your front door to a parked car or from a parked car to a vet?
Roads and pavements are public places.

Unless of course you want to declare that you can only have a dog if you park in a driveway and use a vet with a private car park, such is your *sensitivity.

*lunacy.

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:51

YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 21:44

What is the difference between a well behaved dog on a train, and a service dog on a train?

I don't drive. I still need to get my dog to places. And it is allowed anyway, so you may as well unclutch your pearls and put them away.

If you don’t drive don’t get a dog. It’s not hard to be a responsible citizen not a total idiot. You don’t need a dog. If you cannot adequately provide for it, don’t get it. No member of the public should be in anyway interrupted in going about their lives by your decision to get a dog.

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 21:53

How is sharing a train carriage with a dog interrupting going about your life?

YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 21:55

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:51

If you don’t drive don’t get a dog. It’s not hard to be a responsible citizen not a total idiot. You don’t need a dog. If you cannot adequately provide for it, don’t get it. No member of the public should be in anyway interrupted in going about their lives by your decision to get a dog.

ODFOD

I used to have a car and drive then I became disabled. Was I meant to give up my dog?
No, because the world does not revolve around Taxtina's imaginary rules.

Dog are allowed on public transport. Get over it.

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:57

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 21:53

How is sharing a train carriage with a dog interrupting going about your life?

If your sat next to someone’s wet / farting / aggressive dog for hours on end it is a deeply unpleasant experience.

YeOldeGreyhound · 19/05/2025 21:58

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:57

If your sat next to someone’s wet / farting / aggressive dog for hours on end it is a deeply unpleasant experience.

Do you even go out and see other people? Humans are far more gross.

BIossomtoes · 19/05/2025 21:58

Taxtina · 19/05/2025 21:57

If your sat next to someone’s wet / farting / aggressive dog for hours on end it is a deeply unpleasant experience.

Other seats and even carriages are available. The train I catch regularly has twelve coaches.

HollieHock · 19/05/2025 22:14

I was in a restaurant this weekend and there was a humungous dog lying down on the floor. We were in the annex (so 5 tables) and the poor waiting staff couldn't get near us or one other table.

The cult of dog has gone too far. I used to love dogs.

KarminaBurana · 19/05/2025 22:32

Verv · 19/05/2025 21:42

That’s because I made a statement and you chimed in.
Out of control dogs and out of control children are an adult problem. They are the absolute responsibility of their owners/parents.
My position on this remains unchanged, whether you can cope with the comparison or not.

Oh I can cope with it. I agree with it.
Also, I didn't "chime in" (sic). I posted an opinion, like you 😁😽