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To feel proud, terrified and excited?

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WeMeetInFairIthilien · 11/05/2025 07:26

Today is the big day.

I'm running my first public half marathon (the Great Bristol Run).

2 years 3 weeks ago, I was 4 stone heavier, and couldn't run for even 1 minute.

My then 2yo DS ran away from me in the supermarket and I couldn't catch him. A random shopper had to get him.

I vowed that I had to change. That Friday (Coronation Day) I got up really early, put on a pair of walking sandals, and did the first Couch 2 5K.

It nearly killed me. That night I had a huge nosebleed, the next day I could hardly walk.

But, I persisted. Purchased trainers, got to the end of C25K, and could run for 30 mins, but nowhere near 5k.

Started an exercise class over the winter, and last spring, re-did C25K.

Completed my first 5K public run.

Started to push a bit harder, and by the end of last summer, I could run 10k without stopping.

This winter, I actually kept up with running, and in January, I first hit 15k

Last month, I did my first sub-30 min 5k.

Last month, I ran the full half marathon distance (21.1k). I plug myself into my music, and run to give my mind time to think and process.

Today, I am facing my demons, and running this with other people. I don't know the course, I never run with anyone else around me. It's going to be hot and noisy. I'm worried about getting there, and pacing myself, and how much water to drink.

But,

I'm so proud of how far I have come. From 1min to 2h 30min (at least) non-stop running. I feel healthier sexier and happier.

My DC are coming to cheer me on. I want to make them proud of me.

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LostWirhoutYourLove · 27/05/2025 04:55

You should be proud of yourself, in a way, you’ve kinda done a marathon already.

You have proved you have grit, determination and staying power.

You are an inspiration to all that read your story, and you’ve done so great for you and your loved ones.

Whether you finish the marathon or not is no matter.

I wish you luck, but in my opinion, you’ve already won 🤣

Lilactimes · 27/05/2025 05:53

this is so brilliant @WeMeetInFairIthilien
you’ve inspired me too.
wishing you loads of luck in the race and well done for your amazing achievement xx

WonderingWanda · 27/05/2025 06:19

Wow, amazing achievement op. That takes huge commitment. I did couch to 5k and then trained up to half marathon and I know how hard that was. Good luck!

Middlechild3 · 27/05/2025 06:34

Well done you! Enjoy the day 🙂

BiffandChip2 · 27/05/2025 06:44

This is amazing 👏🏻 👏🏻 sub 30 5k!!!!
I did Leeds Half this month and it was a lot hotter/hillier than I expected and I had to take walk breaks but I vowed to finish for my kids - took me 2.53 BUT I didn't stop once - I feel so excited for you 🤩🤩 go enjoy it and let us know how you get on xx

lifesrichpageant · 27/05/2025 06:46

Wonderful! Thank you for sharing and CONGRATULATIONS!

Iamnotalemming · 27/05/2025 07:32

A massive well done @WeMeetInFairIthilien !!! Welcome to your new life. X

user1492809438 · 27/05/2025 07:54

Wonderful woman. You should be so proud, it takes huge willpower to reach such a goal whilst also managing a busy life. Fantastic achievement.

healthybychristmas · 27/05/2025 07:58

That is amazing. Congratulations. What a change in your life. You should be very proud of yourself Which couch to 5K did you listen to?

SeriaMau · 27/05/2025 08:14

I am hugely impressed. Fantastic achievement and I am in awe of your self-discipline and determination. I guarantee you will be even more proud of yourself at the end of the race (and by the way it is fine to be terrified!)

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 27/05/2025 08:23

healthybychristmas · 27/05/2025 07:58

That is amazing. Congratulations. What a change in your life. You should be very proud of yourself Which couch to 5K did you listen to?

I listened to the original podcasts, from the NHS website, with the music and Laura, 2 years ago.

Then, last year I used the app, and Laura again (I think).

I'm 2 weeks post half-marathon now, and have been doing 10-11 k runs, but just taking it fairly easy.

Still not decided on my next target, so will just be maintaining 10-15 k runs

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DonttouchthatLarry · 27/05/2025 08:39

I missed this when you originally posted but huge well done OP! I ran on Sunday (only 5k) for the first time in aaaages and really enjoyed it. I need to shift the 1.5 stone I've gained since having surgery and becoming inactive and lazy - I went from being extremely active to just wallowing on the sofa so must get my arse back in gear and get some of those endorphins again. If you can do what you have done I can definitely get back to where I was, so thanks for the motivation. Good luck for your next race wherever and whenever that is 😊

Bestfootforward11 · 27/05/2025 08:47

Just amazing! Very chuffed for you. You are inspiring me to get myself in gear!! X

Ultrarunner · 27/05/2025 08:50

Fantastic work WeMeetInFairIthilien, congratulations on your achievements and well done on the weight loss. Running is such a fabulous way to maintain fitness, including mental health, and a great way to challenge yourself and feel proud. I'm sure you've inspired a few people on here, so you can add that to your brilliant accomplishments too 👏💪

ButtonMoonBlanketSky · 27/05/2025 08:53

Congratulations! You should be extremely proud of yourself. You're an inspiration 💖

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 27/05/2025 09:00

Aww, thank you all!

Was a bit surprised to get a load of replies this morning, but am coming home from a YHA holiday with my DC, and it's cheered me up no end!

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Sharptonguedwoman · 27/05/2025 09:09

Brilliant! Well done.

Klozza · 27/05/2025 09:17

Huge well done to you, love a positive thread like this 🩷🩷🩷

StripyShirt · 27/05/2025 09:17

Absolutely fantastic achievement. Be very proud of yourself!!

Good luck!

Couldthiswork · 27/05/2025 09:23

Just started C25K (again!) and really needed to react this. Well done you, you are inspirational x

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