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To feel proud, terrified and excited?

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WeMeetInFairIthilien · 11/05/2025 07:26

Today is the big day.

I'm running my first public half marathon (the Great Bristol Run).

2 years 3 weeks ago, I was 4 stone heavier, and couldn't run for even 1 minute.

My then 2yo DS ran away from me in the supermarket and I couldn't catch him. A random shopper had to get him.

I vowed that I had to change. That Friday (Coronation Day) I got up really early, put on a pair of walking sandals, and did the first Couch 2 5K.

It nearly killed me. That night I had a huge nosebleed, the next day I could hardly walk.

But, I persisted. Purchased trainers, got to the end of C25K, and could run for 30 mins, but nowhere near 5k.

Started an exercise class over the winter, and last spring, re-did C25K.

Completed my first 5K public run.

Started to push a bit harder, and by the end of last summer, I could run 10k without stopping.

This winter, I actually kept up with running, and in January, I first hit 15k

Last month, I did my first sub-30 min 5k.

Last month, I ran the full half marathon distance (21.1k). I plug myself into my music, and run to give my mind time to think and process.

Today, I am facing my demons, and running this with other people. I don't know the course, I never run with anyone else around me. It's going to be hot and noisy. I'm worried about getting there, and pacing myself, and how much water to drink.

But,

I'm so proud of how far I have come. From 1min to 2h 30min (at least) non-stop running. I feel healthier sexier and happier.

My DC are coming to cheer me on. I want to make them proud of me.

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Anewuser · 11/05/2025 13:44

Reading this while I’m sat on my arse.

Well done @WeMeetInFairIthilien what an amazing achievement especially to get a PB in this heat.

Great inspiration.

Itsallsostressful · 11/05/2025 13:45

Well done OP you are a total inspiration 👏 👏👏❤️❤️

ManchesterLu · 11/05/2025 13:48

You should be very proud of what you've achieved! I wish I could do the same!

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 11/05/2025 13:50

I didn't stop, ran it all, including the 68m total rises/hills.

My lovely DH and DC found me lots of times, and even ran alongside me a couple of times. They were such a help.

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BangersAndGnash · 11/05/2025 13:51

What an amazing achievement!

You will never forget this day.

However many more half marathons you run.

And SIX MINUTES off your pb!!!!

Flamingoknees · 11/05/2025 13:53

Oh bloody well done! Those messages on your shoes madw me a bit teary!

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 11/05/2025 13:53

There were so many ambulances, quite a few people were taken ill with the heat.

I was very thankful for having my isotonic water pack, can't say I particularly took to the taste of slightly salty squash, but it did the job!

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Westpoint · 11/05/2025 13:54

Congrats WeMeetInFairIthilien !!! 😎

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 11/05/2025 13:55

This is the message from my DD

To feel proud, terrified and excited?
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Kangarude · 11/05/2025 13:59

How fantastic OP. Very well done 👏🏽 I hope you are immensely proud of yourself 🥳

RedCrochetedWigFace · 11/05/2025 14:07

I don't know you and I'm proud of you!
This is fantastic!

Starlightstargazer · 11/05/2025 14:09

Such an inspiring story! Really well done to you! Good luck for today, you’ll smash it!

Starlightstargazer · 11/05/2025 14:10

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 11/05/2025 13:50

I didn't stop, ran it all, including the 68m total rises/hills.

My lovely DH and DC found me lots of times, and even ran alongside me a couple of times. They were such a help.

Fantastic! You’re amazing!

Poonu · 11/05/2025 14:11

Amazing. What an inspiration you are OP!

Throwmoneyatit · 11/05/2025 14:12

Inspirational!!!

Good luck, go you!!!

andweallloveclover · 11/05/2025 14:28

@WeMeetInFairIthilien absolutely brilliant!!!! Massive Congrats on finishing your 1st half marathon. 😊

You have certainly inspired so many people today. I have loved reading this thread.

Go and celebrate, you deserve it 👏

OliveWah · 11/05/2025 14:28

HUGE Congratulations @WeMeetInFairIthilien, what an achievement! I love the little messages on your trainers form your DC, nice job your DH!

whatsappdoc · 11/05/2025 14:34

Well done op! I took loads of random pictures throughout the day, I'll check if you are in any (won't post on here don't worry!)

TheBossOfMe · 11/05/2025 14:37

OMG that's brilliant, well done!!!!

FrugalFeb25 · 11/05/2025 14:53

Every update gets better - those messages on your shoes are inspired and your DH and DC running with you is so sweet and supportive. I’d say keep going but am sure
you’d prefer a nice sit down 😂

WasherWoman25 · 11/05/2025 14:56

Brilliant well done!

Golidlocksandthethreeswears · 11/05/2025 15:01

That's an amazing time in pretty unforgiving conditions today! I hope you plan on putting your feet up when you're home and treated like a queen 👑

CarraghInish · 11/05/2025 15:01

Great story, thanks for sharing, I want to copy your motivation x

Runssometimes · 11/05/2025 15:03

So pleased for you @WeMeetInFairIthilien. I got injured - twice- when training for Royal Parks half and have never managed to complete a half but I clearly don’t have your consistency. And on such a hot day too, you did super well to finish let alone beat your PB. What a trooper!

Enjoy the treats, you deserve them and hope you continue your running journey.

Loved reading your story so maybe I’ll start running again and stick to it.

Spirallingdownwards · 11/05/2025 15:08

Congrats and well done.

Lots of people flaked out last year with the heat too when my son did it.

I am glad you had prepared well and no wonder your kids are so proud of you.

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

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