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Reform winning big

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Keirawr · 02/05/2025 06:21

Reform had a good night, winning county councils, probably will win a mayoral seat and won the parliamentary by election also.

You don’t have to be a Reform voter to acknowledge that they are taking votes off Labour. Or that they are being electorally effective.

No doubt the ‘basket of deplorables’ crowd will be along in a min with their usual quips calling reform voters names, having learned absolutely 0 from Brexit. Insult the voters at your peril.

These same people also totally miss the point that winning is winning. Feeling all moral and superior about ‘oh well, what will they actually do’ changes nothing.

Perhaps those who label everyone that wants immigration limiting as ‘racist’ Will think again. But likely not.

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User135644 · 02/05/2025 11:50

andtheworldrollson · 02/05/2025 11:09

Well exactly how many deliverro riders do we need? I think people would get upset if they all vanished
and as a whole immigrants pay more taxes than. Those born here so we need their cash

We shouldn't be importing more people here to deliver takeaways. There's plenty of people here already (British and foreign). There's idle young men on every street corner.

thepariscrimefiles · 02/05/2025 11:50

OutandAboutMum1821 · 02/05/2025 11:05

Thank you for your message. Please do have a read (it’s within their ‘Families and Children Contract’), I genuinely read all literature from all parties and engage very politely on the door. I am certainly not racist/aggressive. I am just really disappointed with the other parties - Labour were even keen to entirely remove our married tax allowance which the Conservatives at least still allow. Reform would drastically increase this.

It all sounds a bit 'Kinder, Küche, Kirche'.

User135644 · 02/05/2025 11:52

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 02/05/2025 11:35

I think people who are comparing the way Ukrainians were viewed and undocumented immigrants are viewed and blaming it on race are missing some important elements:

  1. most of the people coming from Ukraine are women and children -the men largely stayed to fight, this accords with a deeply held understanding in British culture - women and children first
  2. Many undocumented immigrants are young men, where are the women and children? - few and far between - this men first attitude jars with many British people.
  3. As Ukrainians are European they have a shared history due to proximity this means that values and norms are much more closely aligned do integration is more easily achieved.

Ukraine refugees were women and children fleeing war.

Not endless uncetted/uninvited/undocumented young men from god knows where.

Horserider5678 · 02/05/2025 11:52

Sortofdontwantto · 02/05/2025 11:35

Well it didn’t take long for Andrea Jenkyns to become embroiled in a race row did it. Storming out of an interview after insulting a rival for having ‘an accent’

I saw her comment and was disgusted! I have some very close friends who are from South Africa. They work very hard, pay their taxes and have never claimed benefits. Her comment proved they are a party of bigots and racists! If they were to win the next GE I can see civil unrest ensuing!

beguilingeyes · 02/05/2025 11:52

TheNuthatch · 02/05/2025 11:48

....and Reform have just overturned a 14.7K labour majority in a by election. Not just 'a few lousy council elections'.

It's one seat. They've still got an enormous, what is it...five seats since they kicked out Rupert Lowe? The next GE is still four years away. Realistically this changes nothing.

abracadabra1980 · 02/05/2025 11:52

Keirawr · 02/05/2025 06:41

Why are these people so predictable?

less than 1 page in and it’s like a bingo call card -

You’re illiterate
You AI
Reform cheated

Like I say, learned nothing from Brexit.

I agree wholeheartedly with you OP. If nothing else I'm glad they are shaking the shit show of the other two parties and their pathetic governance into panic.

LadyWiddiothethird · 02/05/2025 11:53

I voted Reform,no idea if the candidate won yet.I was in London Monday,my how this Country has gone downhill,things need to change.

DoggerelBank · 02/05/2025 11:54

Feelingmuchbetter · 02/05/2025 06:52

I’m stepping in - because winning big is a very well known expression, and maybe it is slang but since when did the MN police moderate slang?! Given how often it’s used on here!

You are being petty and spiteful, and your attitude is the VERY reason people will vote for Reform, because they are entitled to respect, to be listened to and their view is just as important as yours, however they express it. I see this undercurrent of devaluing and it’s deeply unpleasant and so divisive. .

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Agreed. Cambridge University Press dictionary recognises 'win big'. Shock news: language evolves, and doesn't always stick to the 'rules'.
dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/win-big

mummymeister · 02/05/2025 11:54

EasternStandard · 02/05/2025 11:49

Wales show Labour is under threat too from Reform.

Welsh Labour have killed the tourism industry with their insistence on 182 days let or double/triple council tax and no business rates with small business rates relief. This has led to swathes coming out of the tourism industry, large attractions closing their doors, shops, restaurants and cafes all shutting up shop because there are no tourists and a flood of tourism accommodation on the market at prices locals even if they wanted to buy cant afford. Welsh people are waking up to the fact that whilst bash the tourist trade and blame them for the housing crisis sounds like great rhetoric, in practice it now means the loss of thousands of part time jobs in primary employers and a huge effect on secondary and tertiary providers. Plumbers and electricians are seeing their work go down by 50% because they no longer have tourism accommodation and attractions to do work for. Some areas in Wales are rowing back on this but overall Welsh Labour have fucked the economy in Wales and will be thrown out at the next election. And Mark D knows it. Will it be Reform? I will be interested to see their tourism policies because if they row back on the catastrophic damage he has done then yes, they will do well.

EasternStandard · 02/05/2025 11:54

beguilingeyes · 02/05/2025 11:52

It's one seat. They've still got an enormous, what is it...five seats since they kicked out Rupert Lowe? The next GE is still four years away. Realistically this changes nothing.

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It’s changing policies already. Look at Labour trying to appeal with various headlines and policies around migration.

And that was before the swing today.

thepariscrimefiles · 02/05/2025 11:55

OutandAboutMum1821 · 02/05/2025 11:13

The only choice the main parties support at the moment is have a baby then get back to work ASAP. I am tired of it, as are many, many others I know. Enough.

Governments previously showed far more respect for SAHPs both in their comments and policies, as did the media.

I hear, I read, I listen - I want change.

What sort of policies to support SAHPs are you expecting? Are you expecting financial help to stay at home? If so, given the state of the public finances and the fact that Reform are in favour of reducing taxes, how would this be paid for?

EasternStandard · 02/05/2025 11:56

@mummymeisterI’m sorry to hear that. It’s concerning. It means that Labour safe seats may not be so, Wales typically wouldn’t vote for Conservative but they might Reform.

SallyWD · 02/05/2025 11:56

I know there are many more votes to be counted, but interestingly it's the Conservatives who are being hit the hardest. Labour have so far only lost 15 seats whereas the Conservatives have lost 71!

LoremIpsumCici · 02/05/2025 11:57

rainingsnoring · 02/05/2025 09:18

I agree with you but you've missed my point.
People who don't do this and can't do this still get the vote and they are not happy with the current state of things!

Sorry, I also agreed with your point and was adding on to it. I didn’t come across well as was in a hurry.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 02/05/2025 11:57

Guinessandafire · 02/05/2025 11:44

But the party you've just voted for wants to get people back working, and demonises people that don't for health reasons, and you think you should get tax breaks and benefits because you've decided your children are too precious for school clubs, nurseries etc

You fancy not working and being a ' SAHM' ( obviously you CAN afford it so ARE well off - most do not have the choice) , and you expect financial incentives for doing this?

The entitlement is breath-taking!

Absolutely, I refuse to let my value and impact as a mother be talked down or devalued by anybody, I know my own worth to my children and family. Society used to as well.

MichaelandKirk · 02/05/2025 11:58

I see the usual suspects come onto the thread with it must be AI, you are stupid, the voters are stupid etc (not them of course!)

You will ignore Farage at your peril.

TheCompactPussycat · 02/05/2025 11:58

I won't be calling anyone names. Shame the losing Reform candidate for the West of England Mayor election couldn't manage to be a bit more gracious and saw fit to call other people names when interviewed on TV this morning.
(Not actually surprised, though.)

EasternStandard · 02/05/2025 11:58

SallyWD · 02/05/2025 11:56

I know there are many more votes to be counted, but interestingly it's the Conservatives who are being hit the hardest. Labour have so far only lost 15 seats whereas the Conservatives have lost 71!

They had more, 2021 was a high point. And a low point for Labour, which has now gone down.

Horserider5678 · 02/05/2025 11:59

Cyclebabble · 02/05/2025 11:28

As a brown person I feel slightly nauseas this morning. What I see is politics moving to the right, with race based politics at the centre of this move. I am fearful that we could see Reform in power or as part of a coalition government. In my view this would be disastrous for our economy and for civil liberties.

You’re not the first person to say that to me to today. I work in the NHS which as we know is multicultural and there is a feeling of worse to come. Hopefully Reform will continue to show their true colours before the next GE and like nasty Nige’s previous incantations will be kicked down the path.

Etaerio · 02/05/2025 11:59

Dahliasrule · 02/05/2025 11:46

i realise that Reform’s expenses in an election are covered by the Electoral Commissions rules but understood that as a company it was not subject to the same rules as a political party regarding the receipt of donations, even from outside the UK, to its normal running etc. I thought that was the main reason that Farage made it a company rather than a registered political party. I have tried to check the Commision’s website and Google but cannot find any clarification. I would be grateful if, Etaerio, you could point me in the right direction to clarify this as I do not want to promulgate false information.

Yes, the link below sets this out. Reform is a registered political party and has to follow the same rules on declaring donations as other parties.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 02/05/2025 11:59

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2025 11:16

Oh please. No government "respects" any section of the electorate - they identify economic and political advantage and manipulate accordingly.

My DH would agree with you, he hasn’t voted at all for years. He is absolutely sick of the lot of them! Completely alienating voters like this is also very worrying in my opinion…

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 02/05/2025 12:01

thepariscrimefiles · 02/05/2025 11:55

What sort of policies to support SAHPs are you expecting? Are you expecting financial help to stay at home? If so, given the state of the public finances and the fact that Reform are in favour of reducing taxes, how would this be paid for?

Certainly not taxing the rich. He's been on a donations tour sucking up to the tax haven millionaires recently, he'll need to keep them sweet. Plus, we know he's a Trump worshipper, who thinks he can do no wrong. He'll replicate how it is over there. Tax breaks for his millionaire chums, cuts, rocketing costs and crumbling services for the little people.

Goldenbear · 02/05/2025 12:03

beguilingeyes · 02/05/2025 11:37

It's a few lousy council elections. The way the BBC are wanging on you'd think that Farage was PM already. They really do love him don't they. Laura Kuenssberg (sp?) can hardly contain her excitement.

Yes, I agree with this, what has happened to the BBC, investigative, impartial journalism seems to have gone out of the window. They seem to think appearing balanced means kowtowing to Reform and extreme right wing propaganda, like it's actually a valid political stance. It is the same for their reporting on Trump. The media have so much influence and should therefore be responsible with their reporting on this.

Rivypike · 02/05/2025 12:05

EasternStandard · 02/05/2025 11:58

They had more, 2021 was a high point. And a low point for Labour, which has now gone down.

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Mrsdyna · 02/05/2025 12:06

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Did you listen to a different speech? I thought her speech was really good.

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