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Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - you have blood on your hands

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Muffinmam · 26/04/2025 07:14

Am I being unreasonable to say that Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - the Duke of York and member of the Royal Family has blood on his hands following the tragic suicide of Virginia Giuffre?

Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has faced zero consequences for his role in Virginia Giuffre‘s sexual abuse and trafficking because he’s rich and his powerful mummy paid off the victim and the British police failed to pursue charges against him. To be clear, while the age of consent in the UK is 17 years old this does not apply to trafficking victims and Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has never faced criminal charges.

He probably thinks he’s got away with it now she’s gone.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14649791/Virginia-Giuffre-suicide-perth-mansion.html

OP posts:
Extiainoiapeial · 27/04/2025 14:14

RosesAndHellebores · 27/04/2025 12:21

It isn't unusual for people if Andrew's age, my age, to refer to meeting up with friends as "going out to play". It refers to not working and seeing friends. I often say to DH that I'm going out to play with the girls. I often ask thebDC if they have been out for a play with any of their old school friends.

It does not refer or relate to anything sexual. That, I am afraid, is your mind.

Nobody is saying that. It could be playing golf for all we know. It's the fact he lied about cutting contact when court papers have proved otherwise . He kept up contact and probably imagined it would all blow over

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:23

Nobody is saying that

They quite clearly did.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:32

Extiainoiapeial · 27/04/2025 07:37

Because of what you post, that's why. This troubled woman has only just committed suicide, yet you think it's OK to put up a post that smacks of 'so what! she must have slept with hundreds of men, why should poor Andrew get blamed'. You are not pointing out the brutality she may have suffered at all. You are dismissive of her.

If you can't see how your posts look, there is absolutely no point in trying to explain to you.

Of course I'm OK. I don't need your pathetic scoffing laughing emoji reactions on my posts or your faux concern.

I don't need your rudeness either, and it's persistent. I am sick of it at this point.

That's not what my post says at all - it's what you want it to say! I don't want your "explanations" - I am not interested! It's your failure to comprehend here that is the issue.

You're bemoaning the awfulness of being trafficked - which it absolutely and unequivocably is! - but denying the reasonable assumption that the reality is that she was forced to sleep with a lot of men! I don't know if she ever put a figure on it. It's totally unreasonable to blame everything she suffered on one man!

I don't have "faux concern" tbh - I don't have any concern. I'm laughing at the sheer ridiculousness.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:37

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 10:36

Her “own money” all can be traced back to the tax payer in one way or another. I lost all respect for the royal family when they paid Virginia off.

Why? It was a pragmatic decision?

Ukisgaslit · 27/04/2025 14:37

Futurehappiness · 27/04/2025 13:43

There is evidence, so these are not just assumptions and they are not groundless. VG's statements were evidence if not conclusive; but otoh we all saw at his interview (the stated purpose of which was to enable him to put his case) how flimsy Andrew's position appeared and how shifty and untrustworthy he seemed.

And speaking of assumptions: as I have said upthread, our Head of State no less was happy to make assumptions when Buckingham Palace issued a statement which branded VG as a liar. I don't know why anyone else isn't as ashamed as I am that our establishment was happy to publicly injure a victim of sex trafficking all over again.

You make an extremely important here re: the head of state further injuring a victim of sex trafficking in order to protect one of their own ‘firm’

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:42

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:37

Why? It was a pragmatic decision?

Because you don’t pay someone off if you’re innocent.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:43

Extiainoiapeial · 27/04/2025 10:46

I am hoping that decent people can see those posts for what they are. Victim blaming. Straight up. And saying continually that they are just posting facts doesn't take away from that. Let's give Andrew the benefit of the doubt. But not do the same for victims of sex trafficking.

She was 17
She knew what she was doing
Where were her parents? (that is laughable to say that)
How come she didn't walk away? (sex trafficked individuals aren't chained up in a basement. It's all coercion, manipulation and empty promises of a better life)

Nobody is saying "give Andrew the benefit of the doubt"???

I despair.

Yes, she was 17, still basically a child.
She was groomed by Epstein and Maxwell, and had access to riches beyond her imagination.
Her parents - well they were dire. How many of us would let their 17 year fly off on private jets and spend time in mansions with older men? But they did.
Obviously she couldn't just "walk away" - groomed children often can't.
Anyone arguing with any of those points just doesn't have a clue.

HOWEVER, none of that means that the blame all rests with Andrew! Epstein and Maxwell have barely been criticised! If it hadn't been for them, Virginia would never have met Andrew! But no, blame the stupid, arrogant royal because of your hatred for the royal family! That's what a lot of this boils down to, and why you condemn him out of hand for something that we just don't know whether he's guilty of!

By all means, condemn him for the things we know that he's done, there's quite enough of them!

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:44

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:42

Because you don’t pay someone off if you’re innocent.

Bullshit. It happens all the time. You just don't understand settlements.

LindorDoubleChoc · 27/04/2025 14:44

Have any of the men who had sex with trafficked girls, organised by Epstein, ever seen the inside of a court?

Afaik the only people ever charged have been Epstein and Maxwell. None of the punters. Or am I wrong?

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:45

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:44

Bullshit. It happens all the time. You just don't understand settlements.

He has access to the best lawyers in the world. He could’ve cleared his name definitively and left it at that. He paid her off instead.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:46

Ukisgaslit · 27/04/2025 12:37

@RosesAndHellebores

Sure you do.

So it’s all in my head isn’t it ? Epstein just wanted a pint and a catch up ?
Christ this thread is sickening

You can say that again!!

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:47

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:45

He has access to the best lawyers in the world. He could’ve cleared his name definitively and left it at that. He paid her off instead.

Still bollocks. It's been explained enough times on the thread, check back.

How exactly was he going to "clear his name definitively"?? She said he did it, he said he didn't. Evidence???

whippy1981 · 27/04/2025 14:49

JudgeJ · 27/04/2025 13:46

What proof? Their own testimony is hardly proof.

Things such as text messages, recordings, video evidence etc. People have had cases where it was filmed and the police have NFA'd it. Cases where he confessed and it was NFA'd.

I was raped and my rapist text me after gloating about how he loved forcing me to do things the night before. He admitted to raping me. It was NFA'd it despite proof.

My friend was raped and he confessed and she had recorded him. He then murdered her because she reported it and the judge NFA'd it saying she was dead now so no point trying him for rape.

Many have lots of evidence. Without it it wouldn't even go to CPS because of the quota. Sadly the quota prevents it to ensure the data is fudged. Thankfully the CPS have admitted they do this.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:50

LindorDoubleChoc · 27/04/2025 14:44

Have any of the men who had sex with trafficked girls, organised by Epstein, ever seen the inside of a court?

Afaik the only people ever charged have been Epstein and Maxwell. None of the punters. Or am I wrong?

They haven't and that is one of the things that bothers me most about all this.

She went after Dershowitz and in the end had to admit she was mistaken. To me that seriously dented her credibility. She didn't go after any of the bigger players who've been named in connection with Epstein - just the stupid buffoon of a royal, and it makes me wonder why.

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:50

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:47

Still bollocks. It's been explained enough times on the thread, check back.

How exactly was he going to "clear his name definitively"?? She said he did it, he said he didn't. Evidence???

Well his evidence was that he was in a pizza express and he “doesn’t sweat”. Her evidence was pictured and countless witnesses.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:53

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:50

Well his evidence was that he was in a pizza express and he “doesn’t sweat”. Her evidence was pictured and countless witnesses.

None of it was tested in court.

Were there more pictures than the one where Andrew had his arm around her? I have a photo of me with my arm around Martin Kemp. It doesn't prove anything either than that we were both in the same place at the same time!

Who were the "countless witnesses" and what was their testimony?

I imagine he could provide medical evidence if he doesn't sweat but I'm not sure he would have been able to prove he was in Pizza Express years later?

NestOfWipers · 27/04/2025 15:03

HoskinsChoice · 26/04/2025 08:06

You're essentially glorifying in the death of a woman in order to put the boot into the royal family. That's pretty sick.

This woman was a victim of abuse way, way before she ever met Epstein. She had a horrific childhood which involved abuse, living on the streets and being passed from foster home to foster home. When Epstein and Maxwell got hold of her, she was lured into prostitution and potentially slept with hundreds of men for money and a high end lifestyle of luxury houses, international travel and private jets.

There is zero evidence that she slept with Andrew and of course there is zero evidence that she didn't. We will never know. What we do know is that Andrew was not even close to being the leader or instigator of anything that happened in her childhood or young adult life. He was possibly a very, very tiny cog in an enormous wheel.

Please don't use this woman's tragic life to push your anti-royal views. It's disgusting to use this to suit your agenda. 'That ginger woman' tells us everything we need to know about you. Go and do something nice and get over your prejudices and discrimination.

Well said 👏🏻

Puzzledandpissedoff · 27/04/2025 15:06

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:45

He has access to the best lawyers in the world. He could’ve cleared his name definitively and left it at that. He paid her off instead.

Yes, and that would have taken time, with god knows what else coming out if the repulsive man had been faced with a skilled barrister. Even Emily Maitlis enabled him to hang, draw and quarter himself, so no wonder he'd never have been allowed in a witness box

That said, none of those issues would have been Virginia's problem, so in many ways it's perhaps a pity she accepted the payoff rather than carrying on

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 15:09

Puzzledandpissedoff · 27/04/2025 15:06

Yes, and that would have taken time, with god knows what else coming out if the repulsive man had been faced with a skilled barrister. Even Emily Maitlis enabled him to hang, draw and quarter himself, so no wonder he'd never have been allowed in a witness box

That said, none of those issues would have been Virginia's problem, so in many ways it's perhaps a pity she accepted the payoff rather than carrying on

How about we blame one of the Most powerful men on Earth rather than his victim?

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 15:13

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 15:09

How about we blame one of the Most powerful men on Earth rather than his victim?

To whom are you referring?

I've seen it said that Andrew was in some ways also a victim of Epstein? I'm sure he lapped up all the flattery, sycophancy, and financial gains, and I'm sure Epstein knew all the right buttons to press!

Puzzledandpissedoff · 27/04/2025 15:14

How is saying it may be a pity that Virginia accepted a payout "blaming" her, @mummytoonetryingfortwo?

For all anyone knows she may have had good reasons not to continue the case, but it doesn't change the fact that by doing so she removed any chance if the whole thing being properly examined, and to me at least that's a shame

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/04/2025 15:24

On the sweating subject I was sure after that interview the papers had pictures of Andrew with a bit of a sweat on.

A quick Google showed that in the run up to the trial VGs lawyers had insisted he hand over medical documents that would prove he can't/doesn't do it and his lawyer "rejected this request on the grounds that it is “harassing and seeks confidential and private information and documents that are irrelevant, immaterial and not reasonably calculated to lead to the discovery of admissible evidence”.

I do not blame PA or anyone else who doesn't want their private medical information read out in open court but I'm baffled as to how the medical notes that could irrefutably back up his claims and blow VGs evidence apart can be deemed as an irrelevance.

Futurehappiness · 27/04/2025 15:28

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 15:13

To whom are you referring?

I've seen it said that Andrew was in some ways also a victim of Epstein? I'm sure he lapped up all the flattery, sycophancy, and financial gains, and I'm sure Epstein knew all the right buttons to press!

That is likely true but it doesn't make Andrew a 'victim' in the way the girls who were trafficked were victims. He was in a powerful position and could have helped the true victims if inclined - but he wasn't.

I don't see how he couldn't have known what was going on even if he didn't himself participate. Epstein attended PA's daughter's birthday party 2 months after an arrest warrant was issued for him. PA's story was that he was not aware at the time that this was the case. But this is a family whose school age children's friends have to pass security vetting before visiting the Royal residences.

Of course PA's own daughters were never going to be at any risk....so as long it was only the 'plebs' children that were exploited it was OK.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 15:30

Puzzledandpissedoff · 27/04/2025 15:14

How is saying it may be a pity that Virginia accepted a payout "blaming" her, @mummytoonetryingfortwo?

For all anyone knows she may have had good reasons not to continue the case, but it doesn't change the fact that by doing so she removed any chance if the whole thing being properly examined, and to me at least that's a shame

I dislike the use of settlements for that reason but I understand the process by which they are reached.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 15:33

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/04/2025 15:24

On the sweating subject I was sure after that interview the papers had pictures of Andrew with a bit of a sweat on.

A quick Google showed that in the run up to the trial VGs lawyers had insisted he hand over medical documents that would prove he can't/doesn't do it and his lawyer "rejected this request on the grounds that it is “harassing and seeks confidential and private information and documents that are irrelevant, immaterial and not reasonably calculated to lead to the discovery of admissible evidence”.

I do not blame PA or anyone else who doesn't want their private medical information read out in open court but I'm baffled as to how the medical notes that could irrefutably back up his claims and blow VGs evidence apart can be deemed as an irrelevance.

Edited

Whether or not he could sweat wouldn't ever have "irrefutably backed up his claims". Whatever the evidence would have shown, it wouldn't have had any relevance to whether or not he had sex with her.