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Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - you have blood on your hands

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Muffinmam · 26/04/2025 07:14

Am I being unreasonable to say that Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - the Duke of York and member of the Royal Family has blood on his hands following the tragic suicide of Virginia Giuffre?

Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has faced zero consequences for his role in Virginia Giuffre‘s sexual abuse and trafficking because he’s rich and his powerful mummy paid off the victim and the British police failed to pursue charges against him. To be clear, while the age of consent in the UK is 17 years old this does not apply to trafficking victims and Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has never faced criminal charges.

He probably thinks he’s got away with it now she’s gone.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14649791/Virginia-Giuffre-suicide-perth-mansion.html

OP posts:
LemonFinger · 26/04/2025 18:30

Yes. I'm reminded of how the parents of Michael Jackson's alleged victims let them sleep over at his house.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:33

Zonder · 26/04/2025 12:23

That doesn't really make sense to me. If they were all convinced of his innocence it would have made more sense to let it go to court rather than pay millions. That's how our justice system works unless you have a very rich mum clearly

That's absolute crap. Settlements of this type are common!

It would probably have cost more to fight than to run it, plus God only knows who else he would have had to implicate, plus the Queen was ill and frail and it was her Platinum Jubilee so they didn't want a court case distracting from that. It was the eminently sensible thing to do. He couldn't prove he didn't do it and she couldn't prove that he did!

2dogsandabudgie · 26/04/2025 18:38

JandamiHash · 26/04/2025 17:07

DH thinks it could be dodgy, in the way Epstein’s “suicide” was dodgy.

Her family have made a statement saying it was suicide.

LBFseBrom · 26/04/2025 18:38

I would not trust anything from the Daily Mail. They are now having a field day, by way of a change. I am going to wait and see what comes out now, especially if her husband has anything to say.

I don't seem to be able to get 'Surviving Jeffrey Epstein' here in the UK.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:39

BobbyBiscuits · 26/04/2025 12:39

Andrew is scum and should be barred from the RF. And just exiled to live in a bedsit in somewhere remote and cold. He can only claim basic benefits of about £70 a week. Or he has to work in a hard labour camp.

I don't understand why they still allow him to events etc. his wife and kids are arseholes for protecting him as well.

What a horrible post! Whatever he has or hasn't done, his ex-wife and daughters supporting him does not make them "arseholes"!!!!

Personally I think loyalty is an admirable quality in a person, and presumably they believe that he is innocent of the accusation. Maybe he is? Think about that for just a second in the midst of all the hysterical derision?

I wonder what reading all of the hate towards him does to his mental health?

BobbyBiscuits · 26/04/2025 18:41

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:39

What a horrible post! Whatever he has or hasn't done, his ex-wife and daughters supporting him does not make them "arseholes"!!!!

Personally I think loyalty is an admirable quality in a person, and presumably they believe that he is innocent of the accusation. Maybe he is? Think about that for just a second in the midst of all the hysterical derision?

I wonder what reading all of the hate towards him does to his mental health?

Well I stand by what I think about him. And that his wife is an arsehole.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:42

Zonder · 26/04/2025 13:05

I understand that view. But I would say it's immoral. Were the jubilee celebrations more important than justice and the life of any victims?

The Jubilee celebrations would only have been part of the decision.

A settlement is not "immoral". They are common in law!!

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:47

JustSawJohnny · 26/04/2025 14:06

He's a piece of shit.

I really feel for her kids and family. They've watched her go through decades of pain all for it to end so awfully.

Christ, I hate him. That he has the brass neck to roll his useless ass out for state events is an embarrassment to us all.

Karma needs to do better at coming for rich, white men.

Fuck him and all of the toady royalists who excuse his behaviour.

Church on Easter Sunday was not a "state event".

mydogisthebest · 26/04/2025 18:49

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 16:45

So the pictures in the paper with a closed eye cuts and bruises all over her face was just make up was it?
I find it very distasteful but you are talking like this about someone who has literally just committed suicide

Well they were not caused by a car accident.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:52

No3392 · 26/04/2025 14:28

This thread is a cesspit.

She was sexually trafficked at 17 years old. A child in the eyes of the law.

Gods, so many apologists.

This thread is a cesspit with people hysterically making shit up that they don't know anything about!!

Could people maybe work with facts instead of making accusations they have no foundation for?

There are NO apologists here - just some of us have more regard for truth and facts than others. There are some disgraceful posts on this thread!

Andrew is universally condemned and for good reason but we will probably never know whether he slept with VG nor whether (if he did) he knew she was trafficked. All the accusations in the world will not change that!!

I wonder if her death will lead to any information emerging?

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:53

MagdaLenor · 26/04/2025 14:49

I think it's the David Icke conspiracy theory, isn't it. Some people believe it 🙄

They're about as rational as he is then!

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 18:54

Personally I think loyalty is an admirable quality in a person, and presumably they believe that he is innocent of the accusation. Maybe he is? Think about that for just a second in the midst of all the hysterical derision?

I am sure Andrew is very grateful for you sticking up for him. You OBVIOUSLY don't believe he slept with Virginia because you have said this sort of thing many times on this forum

So, Andrew wasn't even at Epstein's mansion or island? Despite the fact it is proven he was there and there is footage of him. And flight logs of him on the Lolita Express.

Call it hysterical if you like. My thoughts are with Virginia Guiffrie's family and all the survivors of what Epstein and Maxwell put those girls through. There are many accounts out there. You ought to read them. They are heartbreaking.

Tomatotater · 26/04/2025 18:54

Arraminta · 26/04/2025 17:06

I cannot bear the odious moron, but he wasn't a paedophile. VG was over the age of consent and was a fully developed woman (physically at least).

Sadly, very sadly, I think PA genuinely can't remember having sex with her because she would have just been one of many pretty, but anonymous young women provided for his amusement.

Knowing what a hugely conceited oaf that he is, he probably genuinely believed these young women were thrilled to have sex with a real, actual prince of the realm.

I think PA was completely speaking the truth when he admitted that he 'just didn't notice people like that' i.e. VG. He'd spent his life being serviced and pandered to buy an endless stream of faceless enablers. She was just one among hundreds.

It's the casual callousness that is heartbreaking.

Agree. I think he just didnt notice, or if he did, he simply didn't care enough about these young girls to even think it enough for him not to engage with Epstein, or be his friend. Its very sad for the girls that they were seen as staff to people like Andrew- there to service these disgusting men's every need- fill up my drink, sex, all the same thing. I suspect the reason he has had his name dragged into this when others haven't is because others did wrong and knew they were sleazy bastards that had done something that needed many layers of covering up, whereas Andrew just thought being a Royal Prince was enough, and he was entitled to do what he liked, so didn't even bother. He must have had close protection officers who either couldn't care less either or couldn't stop him.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:55

GreenApplesRedApplesYellowApples · 26/04/2025 14:29

I see.

Well LVH can say whatever she wants privately, and she can say whatever she wants publicly too, it's a free country.

But it comes across as incredibly crass, haughty, and removed from reality. I think if she felt pushed into making a seemingly supportive statement to show she was onside with PA, there were lesser cruel ways of saying it. Many on this thread support him whilst still acknowledging that what has happened is unfortunate. That said, I can imagine the social pressures on one are hard at that level of society and maybe I myself would be desperately denying that PA was anything but a true gent if I had had the misfortune to date him.

I don't think anyone is "supporting" him but some of us prefer to stick to the actual facts.

whippy1981 · 26/04/2025 18:55

queenofthesuburbs · 26/04/2025 16:45

At that time Andrew was (believe it or not) a heartthrob and a player. Lots of girls would have slept with him; he was used to all this adulation so probably didn't think anything of it.
I also think he's sleazy BUT that doesn't make him a paedophile. I honestly don't think he's interested then or now in little kids. She was 17, at the lower end, but still within the "groupie" age which was probably under 25. She was a woman, not a little girl.
I also honestly don't think his own daughters would support him if they for one moment thought he was interested in children.

She was not a woman. She was a child. She was 17.

Nominative · 26/04/2025 18:57

LBFseBrom · 26/04/2025 18:38

I would not trust anything from the Daily Mail. They are now having a field day, by way of a change. I am going to wait and see what comes out now, especially if her husband has anything to say.

I don't seem to be able to get 'Surviving Jeffrey Epstein' here in the UK.

Given that her husband had a no-contact order in place, that could certainly be interesting.

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 18:57

The actual facts are he mixed with a sex offender and trafficker even when he knew that person had been convicted, said he had cut all contact, when he hadn't and tried to make contact again way after when he said at the interview he had cut contact.
And he was regularly at the New York mansion and Epstein's Island.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:59

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 15:53

Unlike us less intelligent folk. Still thanks for letting me know, I can sleep easily now.

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You're welcome.

Nominative · 26/04/2025 18:59

Futurehappiness · 26/04/2025 18:25

Most 'ordinary' families don't claim to represent their country, and these are public events that Andrew is attending; so it is very very different. It is not as though the RF don't have form for ruthlessly distancing family members when they want to.

He isn't attending public events in a public capacity or representing the royal family.

Chipsahoy · 26/04/2025 19:00

Poor woman. I’d imagine legal battles and media attention made it so she could never heal. I was groomed as a teen and abused by men. It went on for years.
One of the other girls is now dead. Another is in an awful abusive marriage. Another is a drug addict. I was fortunate.
I am safe now and free. I have children and a lovely husband and a home. Still, I have weekly therapy and have done for over a decade. I am not working and have all but withdrawn from “normal” life. We live remotely and I stay home a lot of the time. Because that kinda shit is a deep wound that never ever completely goes away. And I’d imagine her wound stayed open and became infected the more media and legal battles continued. Worse still for her with an awful early childhood too.

JustSawJohnny · 26/04/2025 19:01

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 18:47

Church on Easter Sunday was not a "state event".

He was at the coronation.

I have no interest in when and where these people go to church 🙄

mydogisthebest · 26/04/2025 19:03

BlueSpikeyPearls · 26/04/2025 09:31

She would never have done it, had she not been abused. It's one of the worst things that can happen to a child and, no, I do not care that the age of consent is 16. She was still a child and Andrew is a damn pedophile.

You can't possibly know that. Lots of people commit suicide and most of them have not been abused.

Maybe splitting up with her husband and her children not wanting anything to do with her had more to do with it. Her husband had a restraining order against her so there was obviously more going on than we know

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 19:05

It is not as though the RF don't have form for ruthlessly distancing family members when they want to

Actually that's a very fair point, @Futurehappiness, though perhaps those it's happened to haven't been privy to quite so much the RF would rather wasn't revealed?

And while I didn't know it had been reporrted that there was no NDA attached to Virginia's payout, @myrtleWilson, I honestly find that very surprising if it's true

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 19:06

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 16:11

This this this

I haven't got the stomach to read this thread to be honest but I do know because it has happened in the past, there will be Andrew apologists there will be posters saying she knew what she was doing, there will be posters saying she was 17 so she did what she did of her own free will. And there will be plenty of posters saying endlessly Andrew wasn't proven to have slept with her. Without going into great detail because I could go on forever, he knew where he was, he knew what he was doing by just being that among very very young girls, and anyone who supports him really should take a long hard look in the mirror.

It makes me sick. People really need to read up about trafficking. You can be 30 and be a trafficked victim.

What makes me sick is all of the allegations being dressed up as fact. I've a huge problem with people doing that - I can't abide injustice.

Andrew's behaviour has been a disgrace, that he even associated with Epstein is reprehensible, and for that alone he deserves to have essentially lost his job.

However, the only 'facts' are that VG accused him of sleeping with her (I don't believe she said he raped her?) and PA denied it. She then accused him of sleeping with her knowing that she had been trafficked. We don't know what the veracity is of this. That's it.

We don't know who Andrew associated with other than Maxwell and Epstein.

Literally nobody supports Andrew, other than perhaps family or friends. Some of us just happen to believe that truth and justice apply to both participants in this legal action.

Nominative · 26/04/2025 19:06

JustSawJohnny · 26/04/2025 19:01

He was at the coronation.

I have no interest in when and where these people go to church 🙄

Which was a religious ceremony rather closely involving his brother. He wasn't there by virtue of any sort of official status.

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