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Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - you have blood on your hands

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Muffinmam · 26/04/2025 07:14

Am I being unreasonable to say that Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - the Duke of York and member of the Royal Family has blood on his hands following the tragic suicide of Virginia Giuffre?

Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has faced zero consequences for his role in Virginia Giuffre‘s sexual abuse and trafficking because he’s rich and his powerful mummy paid off the victim and the British police failed to pursue charges against him. To be clear, while the age of consent in the UK is 17 years old this does not apply to trafficking victims and Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has never faced criminal charges.

He probably thinks he’s got away with it now she’s gone.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14649791/Virginia-Giuffre-suicide-perth-mansion.html

OP posts:
AInightingale · 26/04/2025 12:57

I do find it odd that he stayed 'friends' with Sarah after their divorce yet their marriage was unviable and he has had no significant romantic interest (as in, like, adult woman in normal healthy relationship) since. There is something very strange about him as a man. He also dated a soft porn star, famously, in his early twenties. It all indicates a quite disturbing attitude to women, even before these allegations broke.

2dogsandabudgie · 26/04/2025 12:58

Zonder · 26/04/2025 12:23

That doesn't really make sense to me. If they were all convinced of his innocence it would have made more sense to let it go to court rather than pay millions. That's how our justice system works unless you have a very rich mum clearly

The Royal Family wouldn't have wanted that hanging over them and putting a dampener on the Platimum Jubilee celebrations. Better to pay someone off and not have to deal with the press coverage of a court case.

I don't think it would have just been the Queen's decision, she would have been given advice by 'the men in grey suits'.

I bet it would have been put to VG's legal team about the Queen's age and health as well.

That's just my view anyway.

ZigZagJigsaw · 26/04/2025 12:58

HelenWheels · 26/04/2025 07:24

why should I be ashamed?
that is ridiculous

Ashamed for being a rape apologist?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 12:59

savory · 26/04/2025 12:55

Exactly MI5 and others will provide amazing intelligence if required to the RF about any potential embarrasements that third parties might bring one can only assume they don't care and continue these relationships regardless.

Precisely, savory, and worse still - knowing that such people can't respond - they can always lay the blame on them later (implied or otherwise) by claiming that they "didn't know/didn't understand"

surreygirlzz · 26/04/2025 13:00

Ukisgaslit · 26/04/2025 07:22

@HelenWheels

I assume I’m you are a supporter of the Windsors ?
Your post neatly sums up royalist attitudes to that family - deflecting and downplaying their crimes . How many years ago ?? As if that matters . You ought to be ashamed of yourself .

Thankfully attitudes like yours are in tiny minority

I do not think so
17 is legal age
You have no idea what happened
You have no idea what other issues this poor girl may have had

Mondayblues2 · 26/04/2025 13:00

Virginia had consensual sex with him and made a huge fuss about it many years later. I am sorry she has died, but she made her own choices

Tomatotater · 26/04/2025 13:00

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 12:59

Precisely, savory, and worse still - knowing that such people can't respond - they can always lay the blame on them later (implied or otherwise) by claiming that they "didn't know/didn't understand"

That's their job- to fall on their swords for their overlords. You have to wonder what they get out of it.

ginasevern · 26/04/2025 13:00

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 12:23

Without a doubt, yes - but then the RF have access to the kind of information and advice most could never dream off and STILL carry on enabling these wretches

Hence why I mentioned Charles's activities, including one where his own correspondence showed he was well aware of the controversy involved yet still carried on, only later trying to mew that he "hadn't understood"

I'd say the whole thing beggars belief, except where the RF are concerned it's all too believable Hmm

It's not the first time Charles "hasn't understood" either. People should be examining and questioning this indecently over privileged, and more to the point, untouchable institution.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 13:01

Tomatotater · 26/04/2025 12:56

I agree. The average person is not surrounded by advisors and security. They do not have their every contact vetted to death. the Royals do. They have a vast staff dedicated to their PR. Probably more than likely, they get 'advice' then don't take it, because they think they know better. They don't accept that they are actually pretty clueless, poor judges of character and are prone to flattery from people trying to manipulate them. That's not necessarily their fault, but it is the fault of the system of Monarchy, where ordinary people are never tested or challenged in any way, they can have anything they want and are never told 'no' from an early age, surrounded by sycophants and forelock tuggers, desperate to please them.

I couldn't have put it better myself, Tomatotater ...

JudgeJ · 26/04/2025 13:01

Iudncuewbccgrcb · 26/04/2025 11:54

Agree!

I'm not a fan. But until all the Epstien/Giuffre stuff he was just another rich entitled man who had a bit of an off feeling about him. Virginia's allegations made him a parahiah- rightly. I wasn't for one moment suggesting 'poor Andrew' more finding comfort in my view that he hasn't just walked away from it with no consequences.

Edited

'Allegations' is the word, that's all they were, she chose the make these 'allegations' to the most prominent person. In a court of law, rather than public opinion, one is innocent until proven guilty. It seems that the law is expected to work differently for certain types of allegations, equating an unsubstantiated allegation with proof.

MrsTWH · 26/04/2025 13:03

It never fails to astound and disgust me how many people will fall over themselves to blame victims and fawn over rich, powerful men. It’s just a big old coincidence that he was Epstein’s good friend, eh?! The same way Trump was. The same way Charles was with Jimmy Saville. They’re all in on it together as far as I can see. When you have immense wealth and power you can do whatever the hell you want to whoever you want and people will go to great lengths to cover it up, pretend it doesn’t happen, look the other way….

Though I also think the Royal Family is totally anachronistic in this day and age and cannot see the point of it, or why anyone loves them so much.

JudgeJ · 26/04/2025 13:03

ZigZagJigsaw · 26/04/2025 12:58

Ashamed for being a rape apologist?

What 'rape'? What proof?

surreygirlzz · 26/04/2025 13:03

Ukisgaslit · 26/04/2025 07:22

@HelenWheels

I assume I’m you are a supporter of the Windsors ?
Your post neatly sums up royalist attitudes to that family - deflecting and downplaying their crimes . How many years ago ?? As if that matters . You ought to be ashamed of yourself .

Thankfully attitudes like yours are in tiny minority

I support the royals
Have met Charles Camilla and Will
All charming

Zonder · 26/04/2025 13:03

Overall I'm not even sure what difference a conviction would have made to his image when we're already aware he was happy to go along with a convicted paedophile and lie about their continued connection, to say nothing of all the rest.

I think the difference would be vindication for his victim rather than any impact on him, unless he was incarcerated @Puzzledandpissedoff

Chenecinquantecinq · 26/04/2025 13:04

There is no proof what happened. She may very likely have been mentally ill (she had her children taken away) and made the whole thing up. Who knows point is no one knows the facts bar she was obviously making stuff up in her last weeks of life due to mental illness!

Zonder · 26/04/2025 13:05

2dogsandabudgie · 26/04/2025 12:58

The Royal Family wouldn't have wanted that hanging over them and putting a dampener on the Platimum Jubilee celebrations. Better to pay someone off and not have to deal with the press coverage of a court case.

I don't think it would have just been the Queen's decision, she would have been given advice by 'the men in grey suits'.

I bet it would have been put to VG's legal team about the Queen's age and health as well.

That's just my view anyway.

I understand that view. But I would say it's immoral. Were the jubilee celebrations more important than justice and the life of any victims?

JudgeJ · 26/04/2025 13:05

BlueSpikeyPearls · 26/04/2025 09:31

She would never have done it, had she not been abused. It's one of the worst things that can happen to a child and, no, I do not care that the age of consent is 16. She was still a child and Andrew is a damn pedophile.

So you want the law changing to fit your beliefs? The age of consent is a matter of law, however that doesn't match your prejudices.

Tomatotater · 26/04/2025 13:06

ginasevern · 26/04/2025 13:00

It's not the first time Charles "hasn't understood" either. People should be examining and questioning this indecently over privileged, and more to the point, untouchable institution.

Williams godfather Lauren s Van Der Post impregnated a 14 year old when he was well into his 50's. A child who had been entrusted into his care by her parents.

Tomatotater · 26/04/2025 13:10

Chenecinquantecinq · 26/04/2025 13:04

There is no proof what happened. She may very likely have been mentally ill (she had her children taken away) and made the whole thing up. Who knows point is no one knows the facts bar she was obviously making stuff up in her last weeks of life due to mental illness!

Even if she did make everything up ( I don't believe she did) why did Andrew continue to hang out with Epstein after being given advice about his conviction for child sex trafficking? Shows how much the Royals care or take any notice of their patronages, when he was patron for the NSPCC!. Why did he stay with him for a week, being seen waving very young girls out of his house? He obviously spent a lot of time with him, invited him into the heart of the RF and spent a lot of time with him. He was not clandestine about his procilivities. he had pictures all over the place of naked young girls. He clearly couldn't care less about any of that.

Viviennemary · 26/04/2025 13:10

2dogsandabudgie · 26/04/2025 12:58

The Royal Family wouldn't have wanted that hanging over them and putting a dampener on the Platimum Jubilee celebrations. Better to pay someone off and not have to deal with the press coverage of a court case.

I don't think it would have just been the Queen's decision, she would have been given advice by 'the men in grey suits'.

I bet it would have been put to VG's legal team about the Queen's age and health as well.

That's just my view anyway.

I think it was to avoid details. I don't know what the truth is here. But it is a sordid immoral business whatever side you are on.

Puzzled4 · 26/04/2025 13:13

surreygirlzz · 26/04/2025 13:00

I do not think so
17 is legal age
You have no idea what happened
You have no idea what other issues this poor girl may have had

No one knows what truly happened, yes, but why would a 41 year old be hanging around with a 17 year old girl, just 5 years older than his oldest daughter? What was he thinking? Legal or not, at 17 you are still a child in so many ways. There is no doubt that this woman had many issues, no doubt caused by the fact that no one stood up for or protected her, throughout her life.

CuriousKangaroo · 26/04/2025 13:13

JudgeJ · 26/04/2025 13:01

'Allegations' is the word, that's all they were, she chose the make these 'allegations' to the most prominent person. In a court of law, rather than public opinion, one is innocent until proven guilty. It seems that the law is expected to work differently for certain types of allegations, equating an unsubstantiated allegation with proof.

Only 2.7% (approx) reports of rape result in charge, let alone conviction. Tell me, do you think that the other 97.3% of women and girls who reported rape are lying?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 13:13

Zonder · 26/04/2025 13:03

Overall I'm not even sure what difference a conviction would have made to his image when we're already aware he was happy to go along with a convicted paedophile and lie about their continued connection, to say nothing of all the rest.

I think the difference would be vindication for his victim rather than any impact on him, unless he was incarcerated @Puzzledandpissedoff

You're very probably right, Zonder, but then for whatever reason Virginia also chose to accept the payoff which meant that the question of Andrew's guilt would never be properly examined - not that it would anyway of course, since there's simply no way the RF would have allowed him to enter a witness box

And on the question of "Were the jubilee celebrations more important than justice and the life of any victims?", I suspect that's exactly the RF's position, even though they pretend otherwise
After all why bother about "the little people" when they know their own situation's pretty well unassailable?

Zonder · 26/04/2025 13:19

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 13:13

You're very probably right, Zonder, but then for whatever reason Virginia also chose to accept the payoff which meant that the question of Andrew's guilt would never be properly examined - not that it would anyway of course, since there's simply no way the RF would have allowed him to enter a witness box

And on the question of "Were the jubilee celebrations more important than justice and the life of any victims?", I suspect that's exactly the RF's position, even though they pretend otherwise
After all why bother about "the little people" when they know their own situation's pretty well unassailable?

What a mess. It's tragic isn't it?

Turmerictolly · 26/04/2025 13:21

Agree, if he wasn’t culpable why the millions of pounds payout. I wonder what his daughters think of the whole debacle. Tragic really.

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