You're of course entitled to your opinion.
But you are imo - and this is national societal thing - suffering from this perception people have about what women and girls who go through sexual trauma and deserve sympathy should look like:
So if you go through sexual abuse and still emerge able to present yourself in society in a 'psycho-social positive' way then people will tend not only to believe you more, but have great sympathy for you.
But of course damage inflicted on a person in childhood tends to cause long lasting changes in the brain
So if you go through that experience but do not emerge able to still function in a psycho social positive way, but actually only in a psycho-social negative way...if you are overtly promiscuous, self-harming, alcoholic, drug taking, serial lying, vindictive, thieving, attention seeking, mistreat your kids, are selfish and have a 'me first' protectionist attitude - and I know women like this, and they're not nice people, they're people you avoid - you receive little to no sympathy.
It's natural, but it's wrong. We need to not couple and attach our value judgement on what they went through on how they are now presenting. They're victims twice over.
Fwiw I don't think I'd personally have wanted VG as a friend. But she didn't deserve what happened to her and she deserves all the sympathy accorded anyone else who suffers similarly and 'Bad things happen to innocent and formerly nice people, who as a result become 'bad' and 'not nice' people' and that is a double tragedy.