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To dare to think that the Cult of Dog has gone too far?

959 replies

MariLlwyd · 25/04/2025 11:43

There is now not a single public space in my home town that is dog-free - and that includes cafes, restaurants and even the library. Local beaches, once a quiet escape, have turned into asylums for the fur baby/pupper brigade to inflict their poorly trained animals on others with children getting chased, people jumped on and tripped over and all to the sound of hysterical barking and frequent dog fights.
80 year old woman knocked over by uncontrollable dog? 'You got in his way'.
Ask politely that you take your dog away from our lunch table? 'Go fuck yourself'.
Sit on the most remote bench you can find? Peri-menopausal wild eyed harridan lets loose 3 dogs from her 4x4 to jump all over you and laughs that it's 'their spot' and turns unhinged when you push them away.
Yes, this is a rant and yes I hate most dog owners.
This weird cult that values darling dogs over human beings is actually pretty worrying.
I shall await the inevitable and hilarious 'incoming' from the emotionally stunted Doggo Nutters.

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Azureshores · 26/04/2025 10:56

Inthetyreshop · 26/04/2025 05:49

Absolutely same could be said for children.

Kids running up and down restaurants, shops, buggies blocking lanes of shops, buggies in disabled bays, kids chasing birds, cats and stabbing eachother.

Selfish society is the problem and everyone is entitled or thinks their fur babies, children, cars, life is more important than others

So rather than complain about it live and let live because I am sure there are things we all do which someone else will complain about.

I can't even with these types of comments....🫢

Children are small humans who need to be in public, learn how to behave in public and grow into adults. They have every right to be included in society. You yourself are a grown up child.

We need children, they're the future. Nobody really needs a dog. Nobody needs to breed dogs. As little as ten years ago dogs were not allowed in any shops/cafes and had to be kept on leads on the beach/in public. Nobody died. Children however cannot be left alone at home and are part of society. Added to the fact that I do not see any children acting in the way you describe. Children do not defecate on the street and walk on their bare hands and feet and then put them on the chairs and table in a cafe. They don't make an ear piercing barking sound. They are not strapped to long leads that get in everybody's way and trip them over. They do not run up to you and jump up and lick and sniff you. I know there are people who hate kids but I would argue that that opinion is a lot more strange and antisocial (funnily enough it correlates with the attitude of a lot of dog owners) than people who find the behaviour of dogs with entitled dog owners in public annoying.

Their is no comparison between children and dogs and it's a really crap and silly analogy to make.

Jesus wept.

TouchtheEarth · 26/04/2025 11:01

LovelyCupOfTeaThankYou · 25/04/2025 11:59

Totally agree. Sometimes I feel as though dogs are more socially acceptable than children these days!

That's because they are generally better behaved, cleaner and more enjoyable to interact with!

CarmelaBrunella · 26/04/2025 11:08

I completely agree with you, @Azureshores , but that's so many people's attitude on here. As if somehow dogs have an equivalence to humans, on any level. I think working dogs are brilliant, I think lonely people finding companionship with a dog is wonderful, but they are not people and this anthropomorphism is very strange.

TouchtheEarth · 26/04/2025 11:13

VenusClapTrap · 25/04/2025 12:29

Well that in itself is madness. The rescues are full of abandoned ones.

Dogless people love to say this. But if you look at the specs of most resue dogs, it will mention anxiety problems, unsuitability for living with children or other animals, psychological problems, aggressive behaviour and/or other non-desirable traits.
Personally I'd prefer to buy a beautiful chocolate labrador from a reputable breeder and when I do, he/she is not going to be left at home alone, tied up outside shops or locked in my car (which is illegal, incidentally). The point of having a dog is to spend time with him/her.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 26/04/2025 11:15

CarmelaBrunella · 26/04/2025 10:26

I'm fairly sure that a random heavy child won't jump on you, bark at you, give you unwanted licks or make you concerned about being bitten. I could be wrong, however.

No, just running around causing a nuisance, trying to get in the kitchen, getting in the way of waiting staff, coming up to my table and parents glaring when I tell their offspring to go back to their own table!

I don't want to be licked by a dog and I don't want children's grubby hands on me either. It's down to dog owners to control their dogs and parents to control their kids and then everyone would be happy!

CarmelaBrunella · 26/04/2025 11:15

TouchtheEarth · 26/04/2025 11:13

Dogless people love to say this. But if you look at the specs of most resue dogs, it will mention anxiety problems, unsuitability for living with children or other animals, psychological problems, aggressive behaviour and/or other non-desirable traits.
Personally I'd prefer to buy a beautiful chocolate labrador from a reputable breeder and when I do, he/she is not going to be left at home alone, tied up outside shops or locked in my car (which is illegal, incidentally). The point of having a dog is to spend time with him/her.

That's understandable, and of course you want to spend time with your dog. Does it accompany you everywhere? Do you think there are any limits to where it should be taken?

CarmelaBrunella · 26/04/2025 11:16

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 26/04/2025 11:15

No, just running around causing a nuisance, trying to get in the kitchen, getting in the way of waiting staff, coming up to my table and parents glaring when I tell their offspring to go back to their own table!

I don't want to be licked by a dog and I don't want children's grubby hands on me either. It's down to dog owners to control their dogs and parents to control their kids and then everyone would be happy!

My point is that there surely should be more tolerance of children than animals, however, many people seem to disagree on here.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 26/04/2025 11:20

SnoozingFox · 26/04/2025 10:46

I think the number plate thing is a bit far but they should all be microchipped.

I would support a return of the dog licence but at a much higher cost - say £500 per animal per year. Compulsory third party insurance. Revenue ringfenced to pay for a UK-wide network of old fashioned " dog wardens" to deal with dogs on beaches where they shouldn't be or those godawful XL bully types. Any dog found to be unlicensed and unchipped is immediately removed and destroyed - no questions asked.

Complete ban on importing feral dogs from Eastern Europe under the guise of being a "rehoming charity". Just no.

Clarification of the law on what exactly is and is not an "assistance dog" and legal protection for staff members who say that actually, your badly behaved labracockadoodledoo with a vest bought off Amazon is not assisting anyone, and that claiming it is gets you another hefty fine.

Can't afford the costs? Boo hoo. You can't have a dog then, can you?

Yes, let's stop people on a lower income having dogs for companionship. DM had a dog, she was her reason for getting up going out but never mind eh? There's many people in the same situation but the likes of you don't care.

8dateslater · 26/04/2025 11:20

SnoozingFox · 26/04/2025 10:46

I think the number plate thing is a bit far but they should all be microchipped.

I would support a return of the dog licence but at a much higher cost - say £500 per animal per year. Compulsory third party insurance. Revenue ringfenced to pay for a UK-wide network of old fashioned " dog wardens" to deal with dogs on beaches where they shouldn't be or those godawful XL bully types. Any dog found to be unlicensed and unchipped is immediately removed and destroyed - no questions asked.

Complete ban on importing feral dogs from Eastern Europe under the guise of being a "rehoming charity". Just no.

Clarification of the law on what exactly is and is not an "assistance dog" and legal protection for staff members who say that actually, your badly behaved labracockadoodledoo with a vest bought off Amazon is not assisting anyone, and that claiming it is gets you another hefty fine.

Can't afford the costs? Boo hoo. You can't have a dog then, can you?

Microchips have been the law for several years.

Its completely unenforceable.

The trouble is that the people that are nuisance owners are mostly already the people that aren't following laws. The people with dogs in areas they aren't allowed, with dogs off lead in on lead areas etc

Any form of dog licencing will just be the same people ducking out of it

You can licence things like cars because you can't make a car in secret, you have to use it on a road to get benefit from it.

Dogs can be born in back rooms, walked in fields, exist totally off grid. The dogs that tend to be the real problems aren't owned by people that would participate

I foster dogs at times, and I would be really hesitant for anything that dissuaded people from going to vets, training classes, walking their dog. Its more likely to cause an increase in antisocial dogs

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 26/04/2025 11:21

CarmelaBrunella · 26/04/2025 11:16

My point is that there surely should be more tolerance of children than animals, however, many people seem to disagree on here.

Children yes although I'm still not interested in them, thick parents who think other people should indulge their offspring and therefore don't parent them no. The same goes for dogs and their owners.

TouchtheEarth · 26/04/2025 11:22

NorthernGirl1981 · 25/04/2025 12:48

YANBU at all!!!

I love dogs that are below knee height, they don’t really bother me at all, but anything bigger than that can be a total PITA!

The country had gone mad with its obsession over dogs! They’re always in the way and in your personal space and most owners don’t care. Some owners seem to think that because they love their dog then surely everyone else will.

When big dogs start harassing me I will usually be internally screaming “Get your annoying dog out of my way!!!!!”

I haven’t been rude enough yet to say it out loud but I’m sure the day is coming…..

The word “Cult” describes it very well!

You clearly know nothing about dogs! Large breed dogs are usually friendly and harmless; it's the yapply little f*kers that will grab you by the ankle that you have to watch out for.

NeedASafeSpace · 26/04/2025 11:25

threenaancurrywhore · 26/04/2025 07:29

Dogs losing their minds on beaches does ruin the beaches for other people and wildlife, though.

And all the dog-friendly zones do is encourage owners to push their luck and treat the entire coast as dog-friendly.

Shingle beaches where I live, and the amount of dog poo camouflaged on the stones is unreal. The worst was when I was swimming last summer and realised some foolish woman swimming near me had brought her dog and left it loose on the beach, where it merrily shat everywhere while she pretended not to notice.

How does my dog having a splash about in the sea and a run about on the sand "ruin" beaches for other people and wildlife?
The only wildlife on this beach are sea gulls and crows. Oh, and don't get me started on the amount of litter left by people. That is a beach being ruined by people, not dogs.

The dog friendly part of the beach we go to is rather small. I also never take her onto the bit where dogs are forbidden so please don't tell me I am encouraged to push my luck and treat the whole beach as dog friendly. Stop talking about dog owners like we are all the same.

TouchtheEarth · 26/04/2025 11:26

CarmelaBrunella · 26/04/2025 11:15

That's understandable, and of course you want to spend time with your dog. Does it accompany you everywhere? Do you think there are any limits to where it should be taken?

Yes! If I go out without the dog, he will be unhappy. It really is heartbreaking to see a beautiful unhappy dog lying by the door all day just waiting for their person to come home. When you have a dog, you are their world.

WinterKitchen · 26/04/2025 11:27

TeenLifeMum · 25/04/2025 12:20

Because they cost £2k! That’s like leaving your keys in the car to be stolen!

Why aren't these dog lovers adopting rescue dogs instead of spending a month's pay on one?

8dateslater · 26/04/2025 11:30

The idea that historically dogs weren't everywhere is also false.

In the 60s/70s my mums dog went with her everywhere. There were also eras of dogs been turned out into the street for the day etc, packs of dogs wandering round.
Dog poo everywhere (far worse than it is today!)

Dogs tied up outside shops wasn't a good thing. Im not sure why it's seen as the answer often in these threads, most people that aren't keen on dogs are even less keen on walking past unattended ones.

Most children of that generation have some sort Dog related horror story.

Now days the rules are stricter
We don't leave dogs in cars like we used to
We don't leave them outside shops anymore tied up
We know it's not good for them to be left for 12 hour stretchs
We also have less places to leave them, lots of holiday lets etc explicitly ban it which didn't used to be a thing

SnoozingFox · 26/04/2025 11:32

Any form of dog licencing will just be the same people ducking out of it So they run the risk of having their animal seized and destroyed then, as they would with an uninsured car. Some people not wanting to comply with a law is not a reason to not pass the law in the first place.

SnoozingFox · 26/04/2025 11:34

TouchtheEarth · 26/04/2025 11:26

Yes! If I go out without the dog, he will be unhappy. It really is heartbreaking to see a beautiful unhappy dog lying by the door all day just waiting for their person to come home. When you have a dog, you are their world.

You might "be their world" but if you were a responsible owner you would train your animal to be left on its own for periods, just as responsible owners have done for centuries.

The fact the dog is your world does not mean its everyone else's world too. So selfish. I couldn't give two hoots whether your dog is unhappy, mediocre or ecstatic. I just don't want it anywhere near me.

threenaancurrywhore · 26/04/2025 11:38

NeedASafeSpace · 26/04/2025 11:25

How does my dog having a splash about in the sea and a run about on the sand "ruin" beaches for other people and wildlife?
The only wildlife on this beach are sea gulls and crows. Oh, and don't get me started on the amount of litter left by people. That is a beach being ruined by people, not dogs.

The dog friendly part of the beach we go to is rather small. I also never take her onto the bit where dogs are forbidden so please don't tell me I am encouraged to push my luck and treat the whole beach as dog friendly. Stop talking about dog owners like we are all the same.

People’s litter doesn’t negate the impact of your dog and isn’t the subject of the thread, it’s just whataboutery.

Crows and gulls ARE wildlife! And I doubt they’re the only shorebirds there; dogs are known to have a negative impact on wildlife including on beaches:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/10/pet-dogs-have-extensive-and-multifarious-impact-on-environment-new-research-finds

Pet dogs have ‘extensive and multifarious’ impact on environment, new research finds

Scale of environmental damage attributed to huge number of dogs globally as well as ‘lax or uninformed behaviour of dog owners’

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/10/pet-dogs-have-extensive-and-multifarious-impact-on-environment-new-research-finds

TouchtheEarth · 26/04/2025 11:38

@SnoozingFox and likewise, my dog and I couldn't give two hoots about what you want either. So now we're even.
If you want consideration you need to be prepared to consider others as well.

OonaStubbs · 26/04/2025 11:40

But dogs are animals. Humans should precedence over animals.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 26/04/2025 11:44

OonaStubbs · 26/04/2025 11:40

But dogs are animals. Humans should precedence over animals.

Do you believe much of Genesis? Or is it just that particular part. Humans are animals who have developed good tool use skills.

NeedASafeSpace · 26/04/2025 11:46

threenaancurrywhore · 26/04/2025 11:38

People’s litter doesn’t negate the impact of your dog and isn’t the subject of the thread, it’s just whataboutery.

Crows and gulls ARE wildlife! And I doubt they’re the only shorebirds there; dogs are known to have a negative impact on wildlife including on beaches:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/10/pet-dogs-have-extensive-and-multifarious-impact-on-environment-new-research-finds

But kids running about are also having an impact on those birds too. The dog part is also very small and is not entirely natural as it is cut off by a man made wall.

I am doing nothing wrong by taking my dog there and will continue to do so. My dog is the reason I am alive right now, and I don't buy into this whole dogs are destroying the planet thing. I don t have kids, and I don't use planes or have a car. Let me have that one bit of joy right now, because I am hanging on by a thread at the moment.

She is well trained, and I am a responsible owner. People like me are not the problem. I am just as irritated by irresponsible dog owners too.

MixedBananas · 26/04/2025 11:46

1 trillion percent. They need to be confined to dog parks and peoplea homes. If you choose to own a dog and your live in a soqce that doesnt accomodate them thats your own problem don't inflict that on others.

We have stopped holidaying in the UK now are everywhereis dog country. Last time we went 2 years ago we went to st ives emd of sept so thought bmit be quiet. Nope nope. Dogs everywhere. Tight cramped streets full of dogs crapping everywhere On the beaches that coeqrly say no digs allowed during peak season. March - Oct no dogs allowed. But yet dogs were there.

We escqped to a remote beach and cove. Only to be followed by people with their dogs. A seal mother and her pup were separated she qas out hunting for food and couldnt get bqck to her pup as the dogs were in her pathway back to him. You could aee her poke her head up qnd check peridocially. And becuase of this she most likely abandoned her pup! Absolutely disgusting. It should be a criminal offense.

I am not a dog hater. My family had dogs BUT they had q massive farm and they were working dogs. They sleep outside and looked after and roam on the private property. They are not forced upon the mass public!
It has gotten out of hand. Hotels accepting dogs and B&Bs any holidays rentals. And now landlords have to accept them! It is revolting. We do not keep dogs in the house as it is a massive hygiene issue. So to go rent where dovs lived or go to a hotel where dogs go is a massive no no for me. It makes me feel nauseated.

Onleemoi · 26/04/2025 11:47

Humans do (take) precedence over animals. A dog under a table in a pub doesn’t mean they don’t. Sorry you all hate them but unlucky, you’re just going to have to live with it.

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 26/04/2025 11:47

@OonaStubbs they aren’t even really animals - they are man made creatures. A bit like Frankenstein’s monster, human’s created these beasts and now they are having to live with the consequences. They contribute nothing to the eco system and do not need preserving or looking after in the same way real wildlife animals do - all dogs could disappear and the world would carry on just fine. They are really nothing more than a very expensive, intrusive and irritating hobby.

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