As lovely as the concept is that we’d meet up with loved ones in heaven when we die and live happily ever after for eternity, it defies all logic and literally goes against everything we know about how the world works.
We could make up any scenario and say this is what we believe will happen - for example
1- When we die we wake up again and….there’s are millions of beds for us to relax on and a million TV channels to chose.
2- When we die we wake up again and…. there are fairgrounds for a million miles where you don’t queue ever and it’s such fun
3-…… there are restaurants that pay you to eat as much as you want and the food is such that you don’t put on weight.
We could literally use infinite different scenarios and they are all equally as valid and unlikely as the heaven concept of paradise.
We have evolved to have the thought processes we do and I get people believe their spirit lives and is separate form our physical body but where are these spirits before we are born? I would bet my house in the fact that when we die there is nothing in exactly the same there is nothing before we’re born. We can’t remember being on our mother’s tummy therefore it’s logical to assume when we die the same happens…. Nothing. Obviously we’re not aware of the ‘nothingness’ because we cease to exist.
I hope I’m wrong. I would love to be wrong and to think I would see my loved ones when I die in heaven but it’s so unrealistic that I can’t possibly take it seriously.