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To report this as benefit fraud

517 replies

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 15:08

A relative is claiming benefits, can’t work due to health but is one of those who is always complaining about something wrong with her but is always able to do the things she wants to do. Can holiday abroad, always down the gym, etc. When she was working she was always making complaints against employers- one of life’s victims.

She sold a property a couple of years ago and has squirrelled about £40k away through investments. I think has got her mother to do this for her.

I’m so fed up of seeing people like her take the piss. I 100% support a welfare system and it really pisses me off to see it abused like this. And meanwhile we are working our arses off and not able to afford the foreign travel and gym memberships.

I’m so tempted to report her secret savings to DWP.

OP posts:
Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:22

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:20

Actually no, you are incorrect, wealthy people do care that this sort of thing happens as well

LMAO at you as the voice of “wealthy people.”

The OP has already pointed out how unfair it is FOR HER.

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 18:23

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:22

If they are, they have income coming from elsewhere.
And if they are then they shouldn’t be on benefits

you seems to keep forgetting that not all benefits are means tested.

UnbeatenMum · 15/04/2025 18:23

If I had worked and bought a property, sold it for whatever reason and then became unable to work I would be pretty disappointed to lose all my savings. I'm not saying I would commit fraud, I certainly wouldn't, but I wonder if people have a bit more sympathy for 'hidden savings' fraud than hidden earnings or fraudulent claims?

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:23

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 18:23

you seems to keep forgetting that not all benefits are means tested.

Don’t let facts get in the way of stupidity.

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:24

carrotycrumble · 15/04/2025 18:12

The OP has made it quite clear she’s not anti-benefits, she’s anti-fraud.

It’s depressing to read how many people on MN are perfectly happy for people to defraud tax payers. One wonders how many of these people are committing benefit fraud themselves. But hey, as long as they keep shouting ‘benefits bashing!’ a few hundred times, they can justify to themselves.

Exactly, you would have to wonder.

Especially the ones who have become very riled up by the topic

pointythings · 15/04/2025 18:24

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:20

Is that a fact?
They stop benefits at the very initial stages without any proof of wrong doing?
You’re positive of that?

They have the power to do it when they start their investigations. And they use those powers. There is no 'innocent until proven guilty' here. So you had better be 'I have seen the bank statements and have recorded statements from the person and the mother' level certainty before you embark on this.

It has happened to friends of mine. Who were 100% genuine claimants and were found to be so. They went through almost a year of absolute hell. On your conscience be it - if you have one.

Notposting · 15/04/2025 18:24

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:22

If they are, they have income coming from elsewhere.
And if they are then they shouldn’t be on benefits

Except some benefits are not means tested, a fact which seems to have escaped some people.

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:24

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:19

I’m pointing out that you sound incredibly envious, nosy, and silly.

It only gets to you because of your own life choices. If you were wealthy you wouldn’t give a shit.

I think you are being silly.
The Tory’s are all rich as fuck and they would stamp all over welfare if they could.
The ones who really feel it are the ‘squeezed middle’.

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BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 18:25

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:22

If they are, they have income coming from elsewhere.
And if they are then they shouldn’t be on benefits

Well, yes. But you can work and claim too. There is permitted work with ESA, and work allowance with UC.
But someone can be on benefits and very frugal, and manage to have the nicer things too. Or someone else buys them. I am off on holiday next month. My mum is paying for it. From the outside, it looks like I am taking the piss. I really am not.

SirRaymondClench · 15/04/2025 18:25

Coffeeishot · 15/04/2025 16:42

Not at all,

You're tripping if you think it doesn't impact on the tax payer.

It also impacts on people who should be getting those benefits but aren't because of the cuts being made.

YANBU OP. MN seems full of posters defending those rinsing the system. Benefits are there to help those in need, not to provide a never ending lifestyle for those who can't be arsed. One has to wonder why those defend the benefit cheats..

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:25

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:24

I think you are being silly.
The Tory’s are all rich as fuck and they would stamp all over welfare if they could.
The ones who really feel it are the ‘squeezed middle’.

Who mentioned politics?????? I have no idea why you’ve just posted that! Bizarre!

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 15/04/2025 18:25

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:24

Exactly, you would have to wonder.

Especially the ones who have become very riled up by the topic

Are you ever going to explain your ableist comments?

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 18:25

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:24

I think you are being silly.
The Tory’s are all rich as fuck and they would stamp all over welfare if they could.
The ones who really feel it are the ‘squeezed middle’.

What’s the squeezed middle got to do with this?

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:26

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:23

Don’t let facts get in the way of stupidity.

If you want to talk about stupidity, we could scroll on back to where I said she is claiming UC and the multiple, multiple posts from subsequent people going on and on and on about non means tested benefits.

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Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:26

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:22

LMAO at you as the voice of “wealthy people.”

The OP has already pointed out how unfair it is FOR HER.

I can comment on whatever subject / topic on MN that I like, anyone can

Why are you so upset by this topic?

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:27

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 18:25

What’s the squeezed middle got to do with this?

The pp said I wouldn’t be bothered by the fraud and spending if I was wealthy. i was responding to that post.

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Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:27

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 15/04/2025 18:25

Are you ever going to explain your ableist comments?

How dare you accuse me of being an ableist, I am far from it

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 18:27

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:26

If you want to talk about stupidity, we could scroll on back to where I said she is claiming UC and the multiple, multiple posts from subsequent people going on and on and on about non means tested benefits.

You also said she might be claiming pip…which is not means tested.

uncomfortablydumb60 · 15/04/2025 18:28

Aaaaannd another post about benefits
Concentrate on your own life and keep your nose out of others

Tryonemoretime · 15/04/2025 18:28

Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 15/04/2025 17:26

At the end of the day, as tax payers, this is all our money that is being stolen. It means that there is less in the 'pot' for other things such as the NHS as, as we have to with our personal finances, the Govt have to balance the books. If a relative was regularly dipping into your bank account you'd do something.

Ready to be shot down in flames & accused of being a fascist now. 😩

Totally agree, @Happyspendingthedayinthegarden
Nobody likes being a snitch, but there are times when it's definitely appropriate. Those posters telling the OP to mind their own business, would they be happy for someone to nick their garden furniture (or any other of their personal possessions) and the person witnessing the theft not to report it to the police?
If I saw someone pickpocketing someone or someone nicking £60 worth of stuff from John Lewis, I'd definitely report them.
Benefit fraud looks like a victimless crime but it isn't. It costs our country millions every year which could be spent for you on maternity services, schools and prisons.

Robogob · 15/04/2025 18:28

PIP isn’t means tested. You have no idea if she claims due to hidden disabilities that are none of your business.

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:29

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:27

How dare you accuse me of being an ableist, I am far from it

Read your own posts! Stunning ableism.

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:29

Ffs she’s on UC.

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BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 18:30

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 15/04/2025 18:25

Are you ever going to explain your ableist comments?

I am a "genuine" claimant, and get riled up because we all get tarred with the same knackered looking brush.
"Oh, you went to Costa, so you obviously don't have health issues so get a fucking job".

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:30

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:29

Ffs she’s on UC.

So NOT PIP? It’s just that with you mentioning PIP it made everyone think of PIP.