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Most shops are just landfill waiting to happen.

894 replies

SummerDaytoNight · 13/04/2025 10:47

I mean, all are to a point, but I’m talking about the non essential ones.

Our society is engineering its own collapse. We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

Fast fashion could go. Housing should just be the essentials.

My friend took me into a shop called sostrene grene. It was lovely, but nothing was essential. Most shops are like that.

The horse has bolted, but I wish we could limit the unnecessarily stuff and just have the basics. Im not talking Amish level, but there’s no need for all this waste. It would be so much better if only the essentials were produced.

At the point of production, it’s already basically landfill.

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ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:13

I’ve just been to the recycling place. Re use shed full of stuff that was frankly so worn out that no one will want it. Why was I there? To drop off a portable fridge that still works fine but which to my disgust I can no longer use as my new car - and the old one was 14 years old, don’t flame me! - doesn’t have a cigarette lighter socket. Which is part of the problem too - the incessant « upgrading « of electricals which results in obsolescence.

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 17:21

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 16:58

They wore animal skins? That seems to be pretty frowned upon now.

And here we're back to the hard of thinking variation on the "unless you live in a cave you can't comment" although this time it's someone who can't see a spectrum between crocheting your own lentils on one hand and Primark on the other.

Depressing.

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 15/04/2025 17:22

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:13

I’ve just been to the recycling place. Re use shed full of stuff that was frankly so worn out that no one will want it. Why was I there? To drop off a portable fridge that still works fine but which to my disgust I can no longer use as my new car - and the old one was 14 years old, don’t flame me! - doesn’t have a cigarette lighter socket. Which is part of the problem too - the incessant « upgrading « of electricals which results in obsolescence.

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I needed to buy a replacement filter for my 4 year old air purifier. I struggled to find it. When I eventually did, it cost £40. That's a third of what I paid for the purifier. For something with a lifespan of six months (I will attempt to get more from it of course) made of not very much. I presume they'll be discontinuing them shortly so I'll just be left with a useless plastic unit.

Frozenpeace · 15/04/2025 17:22

Needmorelego · 15/04/2025 16:18

@Frozenpeace because many local "tips" are called "recycling centres" these days I wonder if some people think that sending stuff off in a skip (or taking it there themselves) means it's going to actually be recycled rather than put in landfill.
They might think they are doing the correct thing.

But decent things like brand new looking golf bags and suitcases and ski wear etc would be much better off given to a charity shop or given away on freebay rather than being left to moulder in a skip for a few weeks before possibly being recycled at the skip

Likewise it's much better to get a charity to collect decent furniture or give it away on freebay type sites

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 17:24

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 17:21

And here we're back to the hard of thinking variation on the "unless you live in a cave you can't comment" although this time it's someone who can't see a spectrum between crocheting your own lentils on one hand and Primark on the other.

Depressing.

I shop in primark as I am on a very low income. If I need a black t-shirt, I will be guaranteed to find one there. I don't have the spoons to go around all the charity shops and hope they have one in my size. And one that is not priced as more than new anyway. A lot of charity shops price Primark stuff at more than they cost in the original shop.

Coatsoff42 · 15/04/2025 17:28

And the council has to pay for recycling or disposing of all this stuff too. As if our council tax isn’t stretched far enough, each item should have a cost added to it at the point of sale which covers how hard it is to dispose of it/recycle it.
it annoys me councils are going bust and still recycling all this shit which none of these nonsense merchants asked if it would be ok for the tax payer to fund the disposal of!!

TheDefiant · 15/04/2025 17:45

Growing up in the 80s in a family where we’d been made homeless and bankrupt. One parent couldn’t work and one parent out of work till 1986 we were very short of cash @TiredEyesTodaywe didn’t spend money on things. Not because of privilege but because there was no money.

Our Christmas decorations were made from Easter egg boxes! My mum was crafty. The Easter Eggs were given to us by family and Church. My clothes were made for me from my Mum’s old clothes. Her nighties that had holes were cut into nighties for me.

when families are poor, there is no over consumption.

suburburban · 15/04/2025 17:53

Superhansrantowindsor · 15/04/2025 17:09

Second hand is often much better quality. My friend has recently cleared her parents house after they died. Their G plan furniture that was at least 45 years old was good as new.
Looking in my lounge now I have a coffee table I bought new 5 years ago and sofas bought new 20 years ago. Everything else is second hand- book shelves, TV cabinet etc. The problem is though it’s not fashionable. Many would shudder at the sight of it all. So we are never going to stop consumerism whilst fashion and trends are so important to people.

My home still has cast offs from my dps and in laws and stuff off eBay

I have some new furniture but not recently bought.

my house probably looks dated but the furniture is functional

AquaPeer · 15/04/2025 18:03

Cotton is TERRIBLE for the environment. I’d be amazing if it wasn’t much, much worse than polyester sqm by sqm

bumblebee1000 · 15/04/2025 18:39

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 14:50

Or me. This assertion that 'everyone' buys new things several times a year and just throws it away after one use only to rebuy the following year is so alien to me that I don't believe it's true. I don't know anyone who would do that.

So who is buying all the seasonal tat then?

I know a couple who buy new stuff each xmas etc, they have a storage unit full of same stuff but cant be bothered to visit unit and get it out..obviously have money to just waste.

Auburngal · 15/04/2025 19:16

Frozenpeace · 15/04/2025 15:26

Oh god, you should meet our neighbours.

New kitchen twice in 7 years.

New plastic grass and hot tub and garden furniture every couple of years

A skip outside filled with really nice looking luggage,.kids toys, sports equipment etc at least once a year. They don't even bother donating it

Forgot to add -seasonal decor for every season, always nee

Constant upgrading decor and refurbishments

And the house was lovely when they moved in

It's horrible to see. Such an immense waste of resources. They are lovely people in every other respect

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I bet they don’t cook much in the kitchens either. Cooking a pizza would be too much! Just show off kitchens.

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 19:17

AquaPeer · 15/04/2025 18:03

Cotton is TERRIBLE for the environment. I’d be amazing if it wasn’t much, much worse than polyester sqm by sqm

I did not know that. I thought it was better as it was a natural material.

Shows what little I know! I wear what I can afford and is comfortable.

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 20:55

Cotton is a water-intensive crop, but the problem with synthetic fabrics, (especially polyester) is that they pollute the water with microplastics when they’re washed.

Superhansrantowindsor · 15/04/2025 21:27

What fabrics should we wear then?

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 15/04/2025 21:31

Superhansrantowindsor · 15/04/2025 21:27

What fabrics should we wear then?

Extant ones

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 21:33

Superhansrantowindsor · 15/04/2025 21:27

What fabrics should we wear then?

Stuff weaved from our own hair.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 21:37

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 20:55

Cotton is a water-intensive crop, but the problem with synthetic fabrics, (especially polyester) is that they pollute the water with microplastics when they’re washed.

And you stink after about fifteen minutes.

Frozenpeace · 15/04/2025 21:38

Superhansrantowindsor · 15/04/2025 21:27

What fabrics should we wear then?

I think the point is it doesn't matter so much what you wear. The biggest issue is the excessive amounts of clothes people buy and the "disposable fashion" trends that mean people are just constantly buying new stuff.

Buy some decent quality clothes and wear them for a long time. Don't buy hundreds of things you will only wear once, if at all. Consider hiring for big events

"Buying (different ) stuff" is never the environmental solution. Buying less is the key

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 21:42

Natural fabrics are better than plastic ones - obviously. Processing for cotton is not great but again if you buy one or two pairs of jeans and wear them until they fall to bits then you're doing your best. Or linen, wool. Plenty of all those fabrics in existence already.

Second hand always better than new. BNWT from Vinted is better than new as that piece of clothing is being bought from someone who has bought it from the original vendor - you are not contributing further to the demand of shite from Shein.

It's not about "weaving your own hair" - patently ridiculous and the cry of someone who thinks shitty Shein is just fine. It's about being mindful of what you buy and at least thinking about your impact rather than not giving a fuck.

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 21:47

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 21:42

Natural fabrics are better than plastic ones - obviously. Processing for cotton is not great but again if you buy one or two pairs of jeans and wear them until they fall to bits then you're doing your best. Or linen, wool. Plenty of all those fabrics in existence already.

Second hand always better than new. BNWT from Vinted is better than new as that piece of clothing is being bought from someone who has bought it from the original vendor - you are not contributing further to the demand of shite from Shein.

It's not about "weaving your own hair" - patently ridiculous and the cry of someone who thinks shitty Shein is just fine. It's about being mindful of what you buy and at least thinking about your impact rather than not giving a fuck.

I don't shop on Shein or Temu. But thanks for leaping to that conclusion.

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 15/04/2025 21:54

I can't help thinking we'll soon go full circle and realise that the skin and fur from the animals we've eaten are the most environmentally efficient way to use our resources. Wool jumpers, leather strides, rabbit hats and gloves.

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 23:15

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 15/04/2025 21:54

I can't help thinking we'll soon go full circle and realise that the skin and fur from the animals we've eaten are the most environmentally efficient way to use our resources. Wool jumpers, leather strides, rabbit hats and gloves.

Wool jumpers, maybe, but the chemicals used in tanning are terrible for the environment.

Kardamyli2 · 15/04/2025 23:43

I agree. All that made in China tat in the likes of Flying Tyger, Sostren Grene, Temu, Shein etc etc is an environmental disaster.

Kardamyli2 · 15/04/2025 23:45

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 23:15

Wool jumpers, maybe, but the chemicals used in tanning are terrible for the environment.

Do you think the chemicals used in making plastic are any better? And then there's the fact that plastics don't degrade like leather does.