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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To wonder what happened to these old Mumsnetters?

430 replies

Kallabra · 02/04/2025 20:40

There was Kewcumber who adopted from abroad as a single lady, there was a mum who always talked about her son Wilf, and there was a very direct, blunt and often right woman who I think wrote with no punctuation, who seemed to be on every thread and gave me lots of harsh truths! Going back a good decade now…

Anyone know what happened to them? Anyone else you wonder about?

OP posts:
justasking111 · 02/04/2025 21:30

Some lovely old names on here. I joined in 2001. Baby Centre suggestion. My baby is 24 this summer 🙈

RememberEveryMoment · 02/04/2025 21:31

Hoppinggreen · 02/04/2025 21:29

Wilfs mum is around and anyone saying she was anything other than loving towards him should be ashamed

People are saying what they see on here and on other platforms. Lots of us have children with additional needs and understand the importance of consent.

fromthevault · 02/04/2025 21:31

RitaAndFrank · 02/04/2025 21:24

I remember Mhaimi’s drunk and incoherent first thread.
And the nutter that was Lavenderrrr

Oh god, Lavenderrrr! She was properly bonkers.

SuzyWong, CountessDracula, Hunkermunker, essbee, Snafu, Ladymuck, Marina, Twiglet...many others too. Fun times.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 02/04/2025 21:33

I have been here under various names since 2001 ish. I remember Riven, Willow, Thom Cat, Moon Dog ( so cantankerous), Xenia, Cod Worra and so many more.

More recently Pamela. I think about her, Jacob and Keir often

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 02/04/2025 21:34

Wilf's mum's user name was LottieJenkins, but I think she changed it. I heard her speaking on Radio 2 once.

She or Wilf pop up occasionally.

Duolingod · 02/04/2025 21:35

I don’t remember AnyFucker posting without grammar. The opposite in fact but yes direct.

What’s that about DoC? No way, NHS worker.

NorthernLurker?

JasmineIndigo · 02/04/2025 21:36

GreenCandleWarmth · 02/04/2025 21:01

The lady was it bananafish who had a terrible time with ivf and losses ?

It was Bananafish81 and I think about her from time to time too. She was really funny and supportive despite her situation. We were on the same threads for a while (I had a different username back then), and most of us were eventually successful in our fertility journeys, but as far as I remember she wasn't. I hope she is doing well and had a happy outcome in the end.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 02/04/2025 21:36

hazelnutvanillalatte · 02/04/2025 21:22

There were a few but are you thinking of EarthMotherImNot?

Yes that's who I was thinking of.

PermanentTemporary · 02/04/2025 21:36

Nice to see old times discussed. I'm 21 years in and still think about a lot of these, especially the lovely Pruni, harpsichordcarrier and aloha. I'd guess some drop in and some go cold turkey.

Pancakeflipper · 02/04/2025 21:37

I often wonder how VicarInATutu is doing.. little did I know at the time reading her posts about her boy that one of my child was also autistic.

TDWP - Complete nightmare but often entertaining.

Sparkling

And RIP FluffyDressingGown, you are still missed.

RobertaFirmino · 02/04/2025 21:37

Does anyone remember Mrs Presley? I will never forget her story.

sprigatito · 02/04/2025 21:37

I miss FrannyandZooey

AgathaX · 02/04/2025 21:37

I thought AF was a nurse?

fromthevault · 02/04/2025 21:37

Ah, Pruni was indeed absolutely lovely.

RobertaFirmino · 02/04/2025 21:38

Also Crumbs. I feel sure she was simply someone's exercise in creative writing but so unintentionally funny.

tigerbear · 02/04/2025 21:38

@AnyoneWhoHasAHeart was wondering about Riven too. The whole thread leading up to ‘outing’ her was an absolute train wreck. I remember feeling so sorry for her, the whole thing was totally out of control.

LushLemonTart · 02/04/2025 21:38

fromthevault · 02/04/2025 21:28

I often wonder what happened to spook? If I recall correctly her exdh was some sort of manager of a band? Her threads went on for ages. I think that was her username?

Spook's threads were probably the first ones I really engaged with on MN. Her horrible xh ran off with some teenager in a band he managed, I think? I'd love to know how she's doing now.

I remember she married and was having ivf?

Annoyeddd · 02/04/2025 21:42

Xenia has been seen recently on the adult children section

LushLemonTart · 02/04/2025 21:42

@RitaAndFrank i went to a mn meet up in London and Mhaimi was trying to climb the walls in a bar 🙈

There was a lady called Marslady? She of the lemon drizzle traybake. She wad a nurse.

KarlaKK · 02/04/2025 21:44

blippityblop5 · 02/04/2025 21:27

I’ve never paid attention to any usernames on here.. is that only me?

I can't even remember my old names never mind anyone else's 😀Some do ring a bell but I couldn't independently be able to say someone's name from the past.

RitaAndFrank · 02/04/2025 21:44

😆 Sounds like an interesting night!

Yes, Mars’s Lemon Drizzle cake was apparently legendary.

Longdarkcloud · 02/04/2025 21:44

Lovely young widow with children who eventually remarried a nice chap and had another child. I loved following her story because she was so good natured and could be very humourous

RitaAndFrank · 02/04/2025 21:45

RitaAndFrank · 02/04/2025 21:44

😆 Sounds like an interesting night!

Yes, Mars’s Lemon Drizzle cake was apparently legendary.

Sorry that was to @LushLemonTart

JaneJeffer · 02/04/2025 21:46

My faves are the ones who come on with a different name to mention their old name

sprigatito · 02/04/2025 21:46

LushLemonTart · 02/04/2025 21:42

@RitaAndFrank i went to a mn meet up in London and Mhaimi was trying to climb the walls in a bar 🙈

There was a lady called Marslady? She of the lemon drizzle traybake. She wad a nurse.

I went to that one as well. Very odd evening!