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To wonder what happened to these old Mumsnetters?

430 replies

Kallabra · 02/04/2025 20:40

There was Kewcumber who adopted from abroad as a single lady, there was a mum who always talked about her son Wilf, and there was a very direct, blunt and often right woman who I think wrote with no punctuation, who seemed to be on every thread and gave me lots of harsh truths! Going back a good decade now…

Anyone know what happened to them? Anyone else you wonder about?

OP posts:
TheBonfireOfTheBinaries · 03/04/2025 13:22

Oh for fuck sake

KarlaKK · 03/04/2025 13:23

TwigsAndBranches · 03/04/2025 08:03

Pagwatch was always kind whilst being witty

No, she wasn't always kind. I was trying to remember her name yesterday. She was a bitch to me once and a big show-off.

Izzabellasasperella · 03/04/2025 13:34

FelixLighter · 02/04/2025 21:09

i liked worraliberty

I remember her! She was a mean girl.
I did wonder if she name changed to Anyfucker? Similar posting style.

nomas · 03/04/2025 14:02

Izzabellasasperella · 03/04/2025 13:34

I remember her! She was a mean girl.
I did wonder if she name changed to Anyfucker? Similar posting style.

I think they were two different people, and I agree about worra.

SirDanielBrackley · 03/04/2025 15:21

Nutmuncher · 02/04/2025 23:05

Twitterqueen was a poignant poster some may remember who ran a diary of her cancer battle. My mum was going through it at the same time and her posts gave me a lot of comfort.

She was a friend of mine IRL and is sadly missed. Her DDs the 3 Twitter Princesses are doing well I'm happy to say.

HRTQueen · 03/04/2025 15:22

Some are still around

And often start similar threads about the good old utter bollocks days

CoffeeWithHer · 03/04/2025 15:36

I’ve been a lurker for many years and recognize so many of these names - some of them were so quick in retorts and I used to be agog with some of the arguments (whilst clutching my popcorn) 😝

RedToothBrush · 03/04/2025 15:43

CarGirlStar · 03/04/2025 00:31

Does anyone remember the red toothbrush lady?

I think she was fleeing an abusive situation and had a very specific style of writing

Hello.

Still here. But I think you have maybe got me confused with someone else.

Definitely not ever fleeing an abusive situation.

RedToothBrush · 03/04/2025 15:45

WaryCrow · 03/04/2025 10:09

@RedToothBrush herself? She was very active on Brexit threads as I remember. Also v knowledgeable. Still around occasionally I think.

Still around far too much!

RedToothBrush · 03/04/2025 15:58

Also this is a very odd thread.

Full of people making a point of putting in the boot to people they think were mean in some sort of weird revenge and managing to look equally mean in the process or weirdly going a little OTT, in how much they loved certain posters. As nice as some of them were (still are in many cases - AnyFucker is very much still around and this has been mentioned multiple times only for lots of people to MN 'kill her off' again).

Personally I find it exceptionally weird being mentioned (partly cos I'm still very much still here and haven't gone away). It feels a bit like reading your own online obituary, except there's been a weird social media mix up and you aren't actually dead yet.

Shrugs. There are better threads.

Things change round these parts, they aren't any better or any worse. Just different. And thats a good thing.

DinaofCloud9 · 03/04/2025 17:01

There was a lady who left an abusive relationship and wasn't allowed anything red so bought herself a red toothbrush.

I thought that was her user name too but it must have been the name of her thread.

TheBonfireOfTheBinaries · 03/04/2025 18:44

RedToothBrush · 03/04/2025 15:58

Also this is a very odd thread.

Full of people making a point of putting in the boot to people they think were mean in some sort of weird revenge and managing to look equally mean in the process or weirdly going a little OTT, in how much they loved certain posters. As nice as some of them were (still are in many cases - AnyFucker is very much still around and this has been mentioned multiple times only for lots of people to MN 'kill her off' again).

Personally I find it exceptionally weird being mentioned (partly cos I'm still very much still here and haven't gone away). It feels a bit like reading your own online obituary, except there's been a weird social media mix up and you aren't actually dead yet.

Shrugs. There are better threads.

Things change round these parts, they aren't any better or any worse. Just different. And thats a good thing.

Useless app doesn’t let me edit a quote I wanted to just add your last two sentences.i think it’s exactly that. Evolution. MN was started in a different (and relatively new) world tech wise, it is now just different as the internet itself and society itself was diffirent. I would Never post how I used to, MN was like a small community which is why old timers remember users more. we also shared so much information that it seems mind blowing nowas the world, esp the internet has moved on. It’s evolution - MNers shared much more personal detail, meeting ups (still have a scar on my head from a spectacular bar stool fall! but also MNers joining to help with Trinity’s house, Mile for Maude, staying awake with Misdee etc.it was just a more intimate and innocent space in a more intimate and innocent time. The Mn secret Santa is perhaps a metaphor (right word?) was great while it lasted then it went tits up - got too big, people got their fingers burned and realised it wasn’t 2004 or whatever.

the DC I posted about as children when we started now send me links to FWR threads! Mn is still beneficial for me just in different ways eg advice on feeding fussy cats not DC. It’s beneficial for my DDs as they love it for advice in their careers and general discussion themselves and love it’s a rare female dominated space.

personally I like seeing “old names” on threads like this as I’m old old enough now to enjoy a bit of nostalgia and rose tinted glasses Grin my brain is a bit more fucked than it was (not bar stool relatedWink) so I dont post anywhere near what I used to, but i try and keep with FWR and cats and style and beauty.i just NC a lot more and a more cautious what I give out.

MN is so much bigger than it was yes I feel there are downsides for me personally as you lose that personal touch MN always had, but it’s evolved to keep up with society and so it benefits far more women (inc my DDs) than it did. i see that as a good thing overall.

still maintain penis beaker thread was fucking shite though. Find it sad that’s linked to MN so much when there were much better threads. it’s like loving a band before they get famous, then they have a “breakthrough” on one of their more shit songs annoyingly, and then suddenly everyone loves them. may or may not be thinking of kings of Leon as an example Wink

Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:10

YesHonestly · 02/04/2025 21:13

I miss Worra, and hope AnyFucker is still around.

Another memorable poster was GhostSpirit, but I’m pretty sure she’s still here under a different name.

I'm still here have never gone . Change names loads .

MyOtherProfile · 03/04/2025 19:49

One thing that hasn't changed in the 17 years I've been here is people feeling the need to post on a thread they claim not to be interested in 😂

Cremolafoam · 03/04/2025 20:04

I’m still here: joined in 2003 😱 was a Crepey before we jumped ship. Don’t often post tho.

justasking111 · 03/04/2025 20:12

Cremolafoam · 03/04/2025 20:04

I’m still here: joined in 2003 😱 was a Crepey before we jumped ship. Don’t often post tho.

I'd forgotten cremola foam. Loved it as a child 😊

POTC · 03/04/2025 20:14

Duolingod · 02/04/2025 21:35

I don’t remember AnyFucker posting without grammar. The opposite in fact but yes direct.

What’s that about DoC? No way, NHS worker.

NorthernLurker?

Northern Lurker is good, we met on an antenatal group here. I don't post much so no idea if she's still on MN but in RL she's good

ViolettaDePensy · 03/04/2025 20:17

As another (very) oldtimer, totally agree

ViolettaDePensy · 03/04/2025 20:18

ViolettaDePensy · 03/04/2025 20:17

As another (very) oldtimer, totally agree

@TheBonfireOfTheBinaries

FeatherChops · 03/04/2025 20:21

@sandrapinchedmysandwich you ‘think’ you’re friends with me on Facebook? Well, you either are or you bloody aren’t woman! Reveal yourself.

POTC · 03/04/2025 20:32

LushLemonTart · 02/04/2025 21:42

@RitaAndFrank i went to a mn meet up in London and Mhaimi was trying to climb the walls in a bar 🙈

There was a lady called Marslady? She of the lemon drizzle traybake. She wad a nurse.

Was that a Christmas meeting? Sounds very much like the one I went to, affectionately known as The Night Of The Boobs, as Flamesparrow filled my camera with boob shots 🙈

YesHonestly · 03/04/2025 20:40

Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:10

I'm still here have never gone . Change names loads .

Ahh I thought I recognised your posting style under other names!

Hope you’re doing well ☺️

POTC · 03/04/2025 20:42

MrsCobbit · 02/04/2025 22:09

Loved Cod - so funny! Wonder where Marsmum is - she was cool

Mars is a Life Coach now I believe, has her own website

sprigatito · 03/04/2025 20:44

POTC · 03/04/2025 20:32

Was that a Christmas meeting? Sounds very much like the one I went to, affectionately known as The Night Of The Boobs, as Flamesparrow filled my camera with boob shots 🙈

If it’s the one I went to, it was a Christmas one. Some people went for pizza (was that when the boob-flashing occurred?) and then the main meet-up was in a very dingy underground bar. Hunkermunker was there, FrannyandZooey, Rhubarb, Custardo, StGeorge, Bugsy2, WelshBoris …and Justine was there at one point

POTC · 03/04/2025 20:51

sprigatito · 03/04/2025 20:44

If it’s the one I went to, it was a Christmas one. Some people went for pizza (was that when the boob-flashing occurred?) and then the main meet-up was in a very dingy underground bar. Hunkermunker was there, FrannyandZooey, Rhubarb, Custardo, StGeorge, Bugsy2, WelshBoris …and Justine was there at one point

Yep, that's the one 😂
I have an album of photos containing lots of cleavage. It went on all night, she just went up to people at random and asked to take a photo 😂
The more drink was consumed, the more said yes! I'm friends with Mamazon, Flamesparrow & Lovecat on fb and remotely in rl, and met them all for the first time that night

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