The long and short is I wanted to acknowledge our daughter’s existence and record this with a baby death certificate. I didn’t think it a big deal. My now ex partner refuses to put his name on there. This was the final straw for me in a long list of things. I heard every excuse from she’ll live in my heart, we agreed to scatter her ashes somewhere in nature, they didn’t have birth certificates a 1000 years ago and I don’t believe in them….I am sure he didn’t quibble re his other child 🤷♀️ Then I was told I didn’t give birth. She just passed through me. He’s blocked. I did it mid phone call. I’m so angry at what a disgusting human being he is. Clearly, he is ashamed and wants to hide the facts. It left me reeling. I suppose it is the price I pay for not walking much sooner.
It is easy. I haven’t seen him for a while as we live some distance away- thank goodness, and I’ve blocked his sorry ass. The time apart helped me heal and realise no contact is always the best option.