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What one cocktail would you make to please a crowd of girls

117 replies

Droi · 22/03/2025 11:26

Hosting my sister’s birthday. I want to make cocktails. The element in my home will be pyjamas and pizza. So quite relaxed. What cocktail can i make that will suit most people (wine, beer will also be available). I like quite tangy, spicy cocktails so don’t think my go tos would be a good choice.

Pornstar Martini?
Cosmo?
Strawberry Daiquiri? (hate it)
Espresso Martinis? (Love)

OP posts:
BibiLynn · 22/03/2025 17:23

From your list Cosmo would be the best bet.

I’d suggest doing two different types. I’d do a vodka or gin based as most people can bear one or the other. Rum and tequila based ones are great but maybe not as safe choices.

Bramble - gin, lemon juice, blackcurrant liqueur.

French 75 - gin, lemon, fizz.

Sea breeze - vodka, cranberry, grapefruit and lime.

Rasberry vodka lemonade - vodka, rasberry liqueur, lemonade and soda.

notwavingbutsinking · 22/03/2025 17:23

Another vote for sangria. I know it sounds a bit naff but a well made sangria with decent red wine is absolutely perfect to make at scale and serve in jugs.

I hadn't heard of Hugos before but they sound like a simple crowd pleaser.

Personally I think mojiotos, margaritas, martinis etc are not easy to scale up. To make them well they need to be freshly shaken one or two drinks at a time.

BashfulClam · 22/03/2025 17:23

I hate Espresso martinis. I love coffee and drink a lot of it but the tried an Espresso Martini and the bitter taste was rank. Love a French or Porn star martini.

monktasmic · 22/03/2025 17:27

Margaritas! Picante por favor!

tilypu · 22/03/2025 17:29

MasterBeth · 22/03/2025 12:30

Yeah, every picky bastard has their own special reason.

It's genetics, not pickiness.

There are two genetic variants that affect how people metabolism caffeine. If you have both of the variants that mean you don't metabolise it well (like me), you are very likely to avoid coffee because of the pretty crappy effect it has on you.

For me, I feel nauseous and shaky.

Nothing to do with being picky, just not wanting to feel ill!

tilypu · 22/03/2025 17:33

glittereyelash · 22/03/2025 16:39

I'd go with a madras, woo woo, cosmos or maybe sangria! I love pineapple jalepeno mojitos but they wouldn't be for everyone.

I though Madras seemed an odd choice for a cocktail, then I saw your jalapeno one and it all made sense 😄

SunnieShine · 22/03/2025 17:39

Pina Colada

PrincessBing · 22/03/2025 17:40

From your list, I would suggest making 2 - strawberry daiquiri and pornstar martinis. Honestly though? Group cocktails are hard. I'd do 2 and have something like a daiquiri or pina colada along side a bellini or hugo spritz. They're contrasting and hopefully people will like one or the other.

I like mojitos but I know quite a few that don't, and similarly I like tequila but know a few that don't. I hate sangria. I wouldn't touch a drop of it but they've all been popular suggestions in this thread.

Buddysno1fan · 22/03/2025 17:43

What glasses will you be using? That might influence your decision. I’d maybe do a choice of 2 or 3 based around the same spirits.

Firstshoes · 22/03/2025 17:44

Mojitos in various flavours.

FrodoBiggins · 22/03/2025 17:49

BashfulClam · 22/03/2025 17:23

I hate Espresso martinis. I love coffee and drink a lot of it but the tried an Espresso Martini and the bitter taste was rank. Love a French or Porn star martini.

Possibly didn't have enough sugar syrup and/or the vodka:kaluah balance was off (just in case you ever felt like trying again, they are a bit variable but as a big coffee drinker I love a good one)

Gall10 · 22/03/2025 17:49

ShaunaSadeki · 22/03/2025 11:31

Margaritas!

Only correct answer!

handsdownthebest · 22/03/2025 17:49

Margaritas or Mojito for me
dont like any on your list and expresso martinis are 🤢

WonderingWanda · 22/03/2025 17:52

Mojito for me, not too sweet and sickly!

Catwoman8 · 22/03/2025 17:55

I would go for Bellini's. They are easy to make and you could set up a bellini bar with a few different fruits and purees for people to pick from.

LuckySantangelo35 · 22/03/2025 17:55

Elboob · 22/03/2025 11:38

An alcohol free one if it is for girls.

@Elboob

why?? Op means her female friends

Riversof0tter5 · 22/03/2025 17:57

Long Island iced tea

Catwoman8 · 22/03/2025 17:57

LuckySantangelo35 · 22/03/2025 17:55

@Elboob

why?? Op means her female friends

That poster is just being pedantic as OP used the word 'girls' rather than women or ladies... 🤦‍♀️

LuckySantangelo35 · 22/03/2025 17:58

Porn star martinis are too sweet

CymruChris · 22/03/2025 18:01

Pornstar martini
Margarita
Bellini (super easy!)
Aperol spritz

LizzoBennett · 22/03/2025 18:03

I would opt for the Cosmo as it is very easy to prepare in bulk and it's a martini cocktail, so it's compact and therefore easier to fit more into a shaker compared to tall drinks. Mojitos may be fun to make at first, but they're a bit faffy to keep preparing for a large group.

As another random option, and my absolute fave. I'd suggest a Mai Tai:

www.liquor.com/recipes/traditional-mai-tai/

MolkosTeenageAngst · 22/03/2025 18:05

I’d go with mojitos, if you wanted to cater for different tastes you could offer a choice of classic or raspberry.

ForRealCat · 22/03/2025 18:06

Martini. No one will like them, but after 2 they wont care.

gianfrancogorgonzola · 22/03/2025 18:06

Spicy margs for sure

Jade520 · 22/03/2025 18:20

Peach Bellini would be my choice - easy to make and tasty, sounds classy too.

Personally I don't like coffee and think aperol is vile and only useful for masking cheap and nasty wine.