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To wonder if all those gleeful about PIP cuts are going to welcome people with serious mental health conditions as colleagues and employees?

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Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 19/03/2025 09:39

Given the amount of ableisism I see on MN I think the likelihood of people welcoming people with serious mental health conditions into their workplace is pretty low.
And yes, these people will very likely now be forced to try to work even though their condition makes it impossible. We are not just talking about some lazy twenty year old who expects to sit at home gaming due to his “anxiety” as many people seem to believe is the case. It will be people with significant impairments to social functioning.
Even if they get support to apply for jobs, and even if they then get the position (doubtful) how accommodating will colleagues or customers be if the person seems a bit odd, or gets adjustments workmates deem unfair?
This is going to be a total shit show.

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XenoBitch · 23/03/2025 21:34

Overthebow · 23/03/2025 21:20

I agree to an extent, but isn’t the issue for a lot of people that they would struggle to do both? And then the question is does the country support those disabled people having children even though it means they may not be able to work? Having children isn’t a right but I think it would be a bit harsh to say they couldn’t because of having a disability. Also what about those who become disabled after having kids or have conditions worsen afterwards? They’re not going to get rid of their kids are they so just get on with it as best they can or partners take on more.

Yep. I know a lady who is bed bound (can't work) and has teenagers. They all help her out, along with her husband.
Another had kids before her bipolar came apparent.

XenoBitch · 23/03/2025 21:38

On the other hand, when I was a teen I went out with a lad whose mum had MS. She was in a wheelchair at that point and had carers come in. If she had done a lot in one day, she was pretty much paralysed for the next. She had 6 kids from 3 different men all living with her. They would run riot upstairs as she could not get up there to sort them out. The younger ones were absolutely feral.
She still used to go out clubbing, and often bring men back (we could hear her when popping downstairs to use the loo).

ruethewhirl · 23/03/2025 22:04

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 19/03/2025 12:28

I can't believe so many people are just soaking up the blatant manipulation here and either cannot or will not see the obvious.

Get people to turn on the unemployed, blame them for the state of the country's finances.

Throw stories out there about people who don't want to work gaming The System.

Whip up the froth.

Start slipping in anti disabled sentiment.

Work to get people to see the disabled and the unemployed as the one group.

Expand the stories of unemployed people who don't want to work to include disabled people.

Add stories about people pretending to be disabled in order to not have to work.

Offer 'solutions' that sound great to the hard of thinking but that are, in reality, never going to work.

Encourage an attitude among those unaffected of I'm alright Jack with a side of My Taxes followed by an If They Really Wanted To Work They Would pudding to ensure that people stop caring about what is happening to the most vulnerable in society .

What next? Bring back the institutions? The deserving v the undeserving poor? The disabled enough v the not disabled enough?

The government could tackle huge wastage in the civil service and in the nhs, close tax loopholes that benefit the rich and the big businesses, stop pouring money into ridiculous shit, pack it in with the contracts to their pals, etc etc.

But no. They go after those with the least instead. (Coincidentally, those historically least likely to vote.)

It's kind of funny that everyone screams about Russian bots and manipulation and propaganda while you can sit here and read nothing but uk propaganda intended to manipulate the general population into blaming the most vulnerable for the state of the UK when in reality it's the choices and actions of the richest and most powerful that has led to this.

And people are fucking falling for it. Want to save 5 billion? Cancel the Thames crossing or make it wholly privately funded. It's cost millions already and work's not even started yet. Estimated total cost? 10 billion plus. Half of it public spending. There. 5 billion saved. You're welcome.

I never thought I'd see the day when Labour out-toried the tories.

Absolutely this. Well said. 👏

Morph22010 · 24/03/2025 19:11

Wildflowers99 · 23/03/2025 21:02

Do you have any kids? I do, 2, and I’m disabled. Having kids is by far the hardest thing mentally and physically you can EVER do, not to mention expensive. I simply don’t believe that somebody who is too disabled to work can have kids no problem, because honestly every mother I know is exhausted physically and mentally and it is FAR harder than an 8 hour a day admin job.

I stand by that.

But what are they supposed to do with the kids when they become disabled, put them into care so they can prioritise working instead of they can’t manage both ?

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:22

Morph22010 · 24/03/2025 19:11

But what are they supposed to do with the kids when they become disabled, put them into care so they can prioritise working instead of they can’t manage both ?

I wasn’t talking about people having children and then becoming disabled. I was talking about people already on disability benefits who have a baby every 2/3 years - I don’t believe it’s possible to be too disabled to work but fine to have babies. If somebody already has children then becomes disabled then that’s different.

Hufflemuff · 24/03/2025 19:23

I just don't understand things like PIP sometimes either... I have Ulcerative Colitis and am on several Facebook pages with other sufferers. Some of them cannot get outside because they have no control of their bowels, they are in nappies at 30! Drained by being chronically anemic, diagnosed as depressed from their shit existence and they STILL don't get fucking PIP!!

So how the fuck do others seem to get it for - don't shoot me - conditions which are not as limiting. I mean, you literally cannot work - even a job from home if you can't control whether you shit yourself at the drop of a hat or not.

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:26

ruethewhirl · 23/03/2025 22:04

Absolutely this. Well said. 👏

It’s not well said. It’s the stock response of somebody who can’t seem to wrap their head around the fact benefits aren’t a moral issue but a financial one. With a side order of ‘we can just be an unemployed society propped up by a few billionaires if we tax them enough’. It’s pure fantasy, and the refrain of people who have no interest in engaging with actual figures. If they did they would see 5 billion is nothing in the context of what we are discussing.

BunfightBetty · 24/03/2025 19:31

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:26

It’s not well said. It’s the stock response of somebody who can’t seem to wrap their head around the fact benefits aren’t a moral issue but a financial one. With a side order of ‘we can just be an unemployed society propped up by a few billionaires if we tax them enough’. It’s pure fantasy, and the refrain of people who have no interest in engaging with actual figures. If they did they would see 5 billion is nothing in the context of what we are discussing.

Do the financial constraints magically make disabled people better?

What happens to people who literally physically can’t work if their benefits are cut? What do they live on? How do they pay for food and fuel?

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:36

BunfightBetty · 24/03/2025 19:31

Do the financial constraints magically make disabled people better?

What happens to people who literally physically can’t work if their benefits are cut? What do they live on? How do they pay for food and fuel?

Does having more claimants mean we can
magically find the money?

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:37

I trust that the most seriously disabled people will continue to be supported. I think there are a lot of borderline cases however

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 19:38

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:22

I wasn’t talking about people having children and then becoming disabled. I was talking about people already on disability benefits who have a baby every 2/3 years - I don’t believe it’s possible to be too disabled to work but fine to have babies. If somebody already has children then becomes disabled then that’s different.

A disabled mother will probably have a supportive family and husband to help.

RafaistheKingofClay · 24/03/2025 19:39

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:37

I trust that the most seriously disabled people will continue to be supported. I think there are a lot of borderline cases however

The less seriously disabled and borderline cases will just die.

Although that saves money elsewhere too, I guess.

BunfightBetty · 24/03/2025 19:52

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 19:36

Does having more claimants mean we can
magically find the money?

Depends what we do to get more money and redistribute existing spending, doesn’t it? It’s all about choices.

If we go your way and remove subsistence level support from those who cannot work, what’s your alternative solution that ensures they survive?

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 20:57

BunfightBetty · 24/03/2025 19:52

Depends what we do to get more money and redistribute existing spending, doesn’t it? It’s all about choices.

If we go your way and remove subsistence level support from those who cannot work, what’s your alternative solution that ensures they survive?

They will insist that the threat of destitution will somehow cure people and they will be able to work.

BunfightBetty · 24/03/2025 21:04

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 20:57

They will insist that the threat of destitution will somehow cure people and they will be able to work.

Just like those advocating for workhouses used to in the nineteenth century.

JenniferBooth · 24/03/2025 21:05

Hufflemuff · 24/03/2025 19:23

I just don't understand things like PIP sometimes either... I have Ulcerative Colitis and am on several Facebook pages with other sufferers. Some of them cannot get outside because they have no control of their bowels, they are in nappies at 30! Drained by being chronically anemic, diagnosed as depressed from their shit existence and they STILL don't get fucking PIP!!

So how the fuck do others seem to get it for - don't shoot me - conditions which are not as limiting. I mean, you literally cannot work - even a job from home if you can't control whether you shit yourself at the drop of a hat or not.

Ive had bowel issues for the last two and a half to three years and this is one of the things i was being investigated for. Im not as bad as the people you mentioned but i often have had to rush home to shit and a couple of times have not made it.

So what happens when they are called into the Job Centre? Are JC workers happy with the possibility of a Cat 1 hazard all over their chairs?

Hufflemuff · 24/03/2025 21:16

JenniferBooth · 24/03/2025 21:05

Ive had bowel issues for the last two and a half to three years and this is one of the things i was being investigated for. Im not as bad as the people you mentioned but i often have had to rush home to shit and a couple of times have not made it.

So what happens when they are called into the Job Centre? Are JC workers happy with the possibility of a Cat 1 hazard all over their chairs?

It's really bad! Although I do also question sometimes, if they are so bad - why don't they have a stoma?!

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 21:20

JenniferBooth · 24/03/2025 21:05

Ive had bowel issues for the last two and a half to three years and this is one of the things i was being investigated for. Im not as bad as the people you mentioned but i often have had to rush home to shit and a couple of times have not made it.

So what happens when they are called into the Job Centre? Are JC workers happy with the possibility of a Cat 1 hazard all over their chairs?

PIP awards do seem random at times. I think it is to do with what mood the person reading your assessment is in at the time! Some people seem to get awarded with little evidence, and others who have a ream of paper full get turned down.

Yep, I hope the work coach on NMW can cope with someone suffering the indignity of soiling themselves in front of them. Or cope with someone exhibiting mental illness symptoms.

ruethewhirl · 24/03/2025 21:47

BunfightBetty · 24/03/2025 21:04

Just like those advocating for workhouses used to in the nineteenth century.

Yep. And I genuinely think there are people walking around today who wouldn't say no to a return to the workhouses. 😟

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 22:06

ruethewhirl · 24/03/2025 21:47

Yep. And I genuinely think there are people walking around today who wouldn't say no to a return to the workhouses. 😟

Yes, a few on this thread.

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 22:22

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 22:06

Yes, a few on this thread.

Well yes, the old ‘you want everyone in workhouses’ is yet another thought terminating cliche. For the record I would take practically any route other than putting people in workhouses, because they were deeply evil places which caused untold human suffering (read ‘in the shadow of the workhouses’ - I cried for days and still do sometimes after that).

But equally we cannot allow benefits to send us into a recession and decimate other public services which they are currently doing.

So, what’s the answer?

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 22:28

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 22:22

Well yes, the old ‘you want everyone in workhouses’ is yet another thought terminating cliche. For the record I would take practically any route other than putting people in workhouses, because they were deeply evil places which caused untold human suffering (read ‘in the shadow of the workhouses’ - I cried for days and still do sometimes after that).

But equally we cannot allow benefits to send us into a recession and decimate other public services which they are currently doing.

So, what’s the answer?

Not pushing vulnerable people into destitution.

ruethewhirl · 24/03/2025 22:35

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 22:22

Well yes, the old ‘you want everyone in workhouses’ is yet another thought terminating cliche. For the record I would take practically any route other than putting people in workhouses, because they were deeply evil places which caused untold human suffering (read ‘in the shadow of the workhouses’ - I cried for days and still do sometimes after that).

But equally we cannot allow benefits to send us into a recession and decimate other public services which they are currently doing.

So, what’s the answer?

Do you consider all statements you disagree with to be attempts at 'thought terminating'?

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 22:44

ruethewhirl · 24/03/2025 22:35

Do you consider all statements you disagree with to be attempts at 'thought terminating'?

Not if they’re well explained or backed by evidence, no. You saying ‘you all want us in workhouses!!’ is like me saying ‘you want to ruin the economy with benefits!!’.

Literally nobody wants those things. Until the posters who are against the reforms suggest a practical way in which we can pay a £5 billion PER YEAR increase, our opinions are moot and the changes have to happen.

Hysterically posting about workhouses changes nothing, it’s just designed to terminate the conversation using pure emotion. Even you did the problems would remain.

Wildflowers99 · 24/03/2025 22:45

XenoBitch · 24/03/2025 22:28

Not pushing vulnerable people into destitution.

Better let Starmer know you’ve solved it.