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To be really cross about the proposed cuts?

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Byjimminy · 18/03/2025 20:19

And feel really effing sorry for those with genuine anxiety and depression - it is disabling!

Already seeing threads in MH with people despairing in anticipation of cuts. As if mental health services haven't already been decimated beyond recognition already. GP appointments as rare as hen's teeth, CAMHS and access to decent therapy is next to non-existent, the conservatiives slashed all the support workers and sure start centres and we've had the worst pandemic in decades (centuries?) - long covid is thing too! And now people are just self diagnosing/making up mental health issues? How the hell anyone believes anyone manages to claim PIP without a proper diagnosis is insanity itself.

I completely agree with this article: https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/wes-streeting-overdiagnosis-mental-health-adhd-b2716618.html

I know there will be umpteen threads on this already, but maybe some others like me just want to let stuff out in frustration and have a fresh place to say it. To think this is a labour government making these decisions BEFORE putting the services in place to actually help and treat people is beyond comprehension.

Sorry, Wes – my A&E is full of people having a mental health crisis

The health secretary is wrong to suggest that doctors are overdiagnosing patients with psychiatric conditions – it’s just not in our interest to reach for the prescription pad and sign them off work, says Dr Ammad Butt

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/wes-streeting-overdiagnosis-mental-health-adhd-b2716618.html

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Hoardasauruskaren · 22/03/2025 20:17

IMustDoMoreExercise · 20/03/2025 12:37

I feel very sorry for people who are in genuine need but the problem is as a country we cannot afford to keep people on benefits.

Tens of thousands of millionaires are leaving the UK every year and they pay most of the tax. So we have a big problem and it needs to be sorted.

There are lots of countries that don't have benefits and their people survive.

Most countries in the developed world have welfare benefits in some form. Ot would you rather live in a society with child labour or street begging as a way of life?

Britain is not currently a great place to live but there are many worse countries. Do we really want to copy some of them ?

Penguinmouse · 23/03/2025 07:50

WeylandYutani · 21/03/2025 15:12

What was her life like either sides of those trips? She may have been very anxious about going, and when she got home would possibly go into shutdown.
That is what would happen to me. I would have to do a lot of preparation ahead of such a trip and acknowledge that I would be useless for a few days after.
A fun trip that you choose to go to is totally different to going to a job. Totally different. If you are ND then pushing through something you are not interested in is very difficult.

”Pushing through something you don’t like is very hard” and yet millions of people who don’t like their jobs manage to do it every week.

My cousin is the same, lives on UC and PIP for anxiety and a bad back but manages to constantly go to football games, theatre trips, meals out… but apparently cannot work 🤔

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 23/03/2025 08:58

As I suspected - for each £1 cut for people needing social care, or who will be pushed into social care (because their carer will lose carer’s allowance), it will cost the NHS and councils £1.50, in other words £1.5 billion:

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/mar/22/government-plans-to-cut-pip-benefits-could-pile-more-pressure-on-

But she is not using them to support her disabilities if she is paying her rent with them so how is that fair to her colleague doing the same job and paying tax to support the payment of the claimants benefits.

@Pandersmum PIP is meant to cover the extra costs of disability - costs those colleagues don’t have. Scope estimates the average extra costs for one disabled person are £975 a month:

https://www.scope.org.uk/campaigns/extra-costs

If someone has to use PIP to pay their rent, then some of their extra needs due to disability have to go unmet. How is that fair in a civilised society and yet able bodied people are saying, it’s not fair on them? They don’t need to pay for a wheelchair or a special diet or twice as much laundry, or a carer to help with basic tasks like getting a meal or their meds? Some people should check their privilege?

Councils and NHS could face millions in extra costs due to disability benefit cuts

Government plans for Pip cuts will drive up costs for local authority social care services and NHS, campaigners warn

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/mar/22/government-plans-to-cut-pip-benefits-could-pile-more-pressure-on-councils

Byjimminy · 23/03/2025 09:21

Totally agree @BlueandWhitePorcelain

I do also wonder whether we need a better measure of disadvantage. Severe disadvantage can be quite disabling in lots of ways, without or physical/practical issues. Life is simply harder for some than others due to the cards they are dealt. One person may experience multiple but manageable "invisible" health issues, all of which add up to greater stress and time needed to keep on top of, than one on it's own. I'm not sure we're very good at assessing situations like that, with a focus often on single, visibly obvious conditions. Equity is very lacking in lots of areas of life.

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DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 10:37

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 23/03/2025 08:58

As I suspected - for each £1 cut for people needing social care, or who will be pushed into social care (because their carer will lose carer’s allowance), it will cost the NHS and councils £1.50, in other words £1.5 billion:

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/mar/22/government-plans-to-cut-pip-benefits-could-pile-more-pressure-on-

But she is not using them to support her disabilities if she is paying her rent with them so how is that fair to her colleague doing the same job and paying tax to support the payment of the claimants benefits.

@Pandersmum PIP is meant to cover the extra costs of disability - costs those colleagues don’t have. Scope estimates the average extra costs for one disabled person are £975 a month:

https://www.scope.org.uk/campaigns/extra-costs

If someone has to use PIP to pay their rent, then some of their extra needs due to disability have to go unmet. How is that fair in a civilised society and yet able bodied people are saying, it’s not fair on them? They don’t need to pay for a wheelchair or a special diet or twice as much laundry, or a carer to help with basic tasks like getting a meal or their meds? Some people should check their privilege?

This article is making assumptions
Its pure guesswork hence the use of the word ‘could’

It states 1.2million people approx may lose their PIP payments after new assessment.
If they lose their PIP payments it means they are deemed to not require them and as such fit to work. It also states they will lose their carers allowance but if they lose their PIP then it follows that they have been assessed as not requiring a carer ie going hand in hand with the assessment as fit to work. So there will be no need for carers in the home.

Labours policy of Making Work Pay does not make this country uncivilised and does not mean people who agree that if you can you should need to in any way check their privilege. It’s just common sense

nearlylovemyusername · 23/03/2025 11:10

If you are ND then pushing through something you are not interested in is very difficult

Gosh, some people are for real 🙄

I'm sure people who clean public toilets at train stations don't find it too exciting, yet they do their job. And whatever little tax they pay still go to support those who "can't do something they are not interested in".

Everyone pushed through something they are not interested in / hate doing find it very hard. Yet 73% of working age adults in this country have to do it. To support remaining 20% who find it too hard.

I put 20% on purpose, assuming 7% or so are truly disabled and really cannot work. For this group and mainly their carers benefits possibly should even increase.
Really, this change can't come soon enough

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 11:15

nearlylovemyusername · 23/03/2025 11:10

If you are ND then pushing through something you are not interested in is very difficult

Gosh, some people are for real 🙄

I'm sure people who clean public toilets at train stations don't find it too exciting, yet they do their job. And whatever little tax they pay still go to support those who "can't do something they are not interested in".

Everyone pushed through something they are not interested in / hate doing find it very hard. Yet 73% of working age adults in this country have to do it. To support remaining 20% who find it too hard.

I put 20% on purpose, assuming 7% or so are truly disabled and really cannot work. For this group and mainly their carers benefits possibly should even increase.
Really, this change can't come soon enough

Agree
The 18 month wait seems too long when other new taxes were brought in almost immediately

although appreciate assessors may need to update their training etc

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 11:16

nearlylovemyusername · 21/03/2025 23:36

So you can build a great sewing business - go to S&B board and see how many of us are struggling to find well fitting cloths. You can offer service of fitting ready made ones or sew them from scratch. Taking up trousers is about £25 where I am and doesn't take more than 30min.

Crafts - being ND assume you can't run any classes for kids? or adults for that matter?

I'm seeing this constantly - I can't do X, Y, Z etc. Try to think what you can do.

Edited to add:
I do crafts to pass the time.
This is yet another issue with benefits - no purpose. You don't live your life, you pass the time. If need pushes you to achieve something you'll be proud and feel better about yourself.

Edited

Is that what we have devolved to? Telling disabled women to take in sewing or piece making so they don’t starve? I have several history books on the Victorian era that show how this doesn’t result in a livelihood or pride, but exacerbates disabling conditions, causes new ones and is a shortcut to an early grave.

Jellycatspyjamas · 23/03/2025 11:30

If they lose their PIP payments it means they are deemed to not require them and as such fit to work.

Except PIP isn’t an out of work benefit and, at the moment, is independent of a capacity for work assessment. You can be fit to work and need significant support, you can also be unfit for work and there be no support that will change that situation. Assuming PIP eligibility means fit/not fit is too simple a binary.

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 11:36

Jellycatspyjamas · 23/03/2025 11:30

If they lose their PIP payments it means they are deemed to not require them and as such fit to work.

Except PIP isn’t an out of work benefit and, at the moment, is independent of a capacity for work assessment. You can be fit to work and need significant support, you can also be unfit for work and there be no support that will change that situation. Assuming PIP eligibility means fit/not fit is too simple a binary.

If they lose their PIP though the reassessment means they are deemed to not need the money.
That would include for carers. If they are disabled enough to need careers they are hardly going to lose PIP.

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 11:37

PalmTreeAngel · 22/03/2025 00:02

I suffer from mh difficulties and I take anti-depressants and I’ve been to therapy numerous times. I also make sure to exercise frequently as that helps how I feel. I work full-time and I always have, despite maybe a period of 3 weeks off at one point. Yes, it’s hard… I have good and bad days, but I still maintain that working has benefitted me greatly financially, mentally and socially. It gives me routine, structure, purpose and I feel a part of society.

I feel many people are sensationalising these cuts and completely catastrophising. These cuts are needed as we simply cannot continue to fund so many people out of work. Welfare should only go to those most in need - those whose illness or disability is so severe, they're unable to function. I am sorry to say it but I also resent people who abuse the system when I work so hard despite my own difficulties.

These cuts are needed as we simply cannot continue to fund so many people out of work. Welfare should only go to those most in need - those whose illness or disability is so severe, they're unable to function.

Yes, but what the government say they are doing is the opposite of what they are actually doing.

The government is increasing the out of work UC benefits for the completely healthy. So that is the exact opposite of “welfare should only go to those in the most need & unable to work”.

The government is slashing PIP benefits by £5bn. PIP is not an out of work benefit, in fact it is necessary for many disabled recipients to stay in work. Its purpose is to partially cover the extra costs of disabilities. So again, cutting this benefit goes completely against the maxim that welfare should only be for those in the most need.

Giving every fit person on the dole an “inflation busting” benefits increase is somehow not an incentive to choose benefits as a lifestyle and avoid going back to work.

Wildflowers99 · 23/03/2025 11:43

nearlylovemyusername · 23/03/2025 11:10

If you are ND then pushing through something you are not interested in is very difficult

Gosh, some people are for real 🙄

I'm sure people who clean public toilets at train stations don't find it too exciting, yet they do their job. And whatever little tax they pay still go to support those who "can't do something they are not interested in".

Everyone pushed through something they are not interested in / hate doing find it very hard. Yet 73% of working age adults in this country have to do it. To support remaining 20% who find it too hard.

I put 20% on purpose, assuming 7% or so are truly disabled and really cannot work. For this group and mainly their carers benefits possibly should even increase.
Really, this change can't come soon enough

I agree. It’s all very well saying there needs to be more job coaches, employment laws etc but my gut feeling is many people who are out of work due to ND will reject virtually any job that they could realistically apply for. It would be money wasted as in their heads they’re written off all jobs that are a bit dull, too pressured, not well paying enough, that require regular attendance, human interaction… the list goes on. I can see how the only thing that will change this is to effectively force people’s hands by withdrawing the money.

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 11:46

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 11:36

If they lose their PIP though the reassessment means they are deemed to not need the money.
That would include for carers. If they are disabled enough to need careers they are hardly going to lose PIP.

Raising the threshold for PIP, isn’t a determination that they don’t need the money. Those who lose PIP will still have extra costs from being disabled, those costs and the need for financial assistance isn’t going to go away. They’ve already raised the threshold on DLA/PIP several times since austerity started so we know this to be true.

It’s a bit like the child benefit cap on two children. The families with more than two children still have the costs of the rest of their children, they still have need for extra child benefit money. The government simply made a decision to push hundreds of thousands of families below the poverty line and then spaffed away any savings.

It’s the same here but with disabled people, the government is choosing to push yet more families with a disabled person below the poverty line. In a country where being disabled already makes you far and away the most likely demographic to be under the poverty line.

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 11:48

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 11:37

These cuts are needed as we simply cannot continue to fund so many people out of work. Welfare should only go to those most in need - those whose illness or disability is so severe, they're unable to function.

Yes, but what the government say they are doing is the opposite of what they are actually doing.

The government is increasing the out of work UC benefits for the completely healthy. So that is the exact opposite of “welfare should only go to those in the most need & unable to work”.

The government is slashing PIP benefits by £5bn. PIP is not an out of work benefit, in fact it is necessary for many disabled recipients to stay in work. Its purpose is to partially cover the extra costs of disabilities. So again, cutting this benefit goes completely against the maxim that welfare should only be for those in the most need.

Giving every fit person on the dole an “inflation busting” benefits increase is somehow not an incentive to choose benefits as a lifestyle and avoid going back to work.

I’m guessing Labour are hoping if they give people more money to look for work then they’ll get a job.
We’ll wait and see

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 11:52

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 11:46

Raising the threshold for PIP, isn’t a determination that they don’t need the money. Those who lose PIP will still have extra costs from being disabled, those costs and the need for financial assistance isn’t going to go away. They’ve already raised the threshold on DLA/PIP several times since austerity started so we know this to be true.

It’s a bit like the child benefit cap on two children. The families with more than two children still have the costs of the rest of their children, they still have need for extra child benefit money. The government simply made a decision to push hundreds of thousands of families below the poverty line and then spaffed away any savings.

It’s the same here but with disabled people, the government is choosing to push yet more families with a disabled person below the poverty line. In a country where being disabled already makes you far and away the most likely demographic to be under the poverty line.

The point is.
Some people don’t use their PIP for extra expenses, because they don’t have any
We’ve read examples on MN and I’m sure many of us know of cases such as this.
You’re assuming everyone uses it for the purpose intended. That’s not the case.

So making it harder to get means those that have those expenses will still get them and those who can work are required to do so.

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 11:54

Wildflowers99 · 23/03/2025 11:43

I agree. It’s all very well saying there needs to be more job coaches, employment laws etc but my gut feeling is many people who are out of work due to ND will reject virtually any job that they could realistically apply for. It would be money wasted as in their heads they’re written off all jobs that are a bit dull, too pressured, not well paying enough, that require regular attendance, human interaction… the list goes on. I can see how the only thing that will change this is to effectively force people’s hands by withdrawing the money.

Your gut feeling is meaningless.
A big reason why ND people can’t find work is they fail all the personality tests that even McDonalds and Costas require to apply for entry level jobs. These personality tests are designed to weed out the ND applicants. So their application is rejected by the computer even if their qualifications match the job.

https://theweek.com/business/jobs/how-personality-tests-are-locking-autistic-people-out-of-jobs

https://www.bigissue.com/news/employment/work-jobs-autistic-people-personality-tests/

https://www.yorkshirepost.co.uk/business/jodie-hill-are-personality-tests-a-barrier-or-a-benefit-for-neurodivergent-candidates-4993545

This problem has been known for a decade, but employers don’t seem to want to be inclusive when it comes to ND employees
https://hbr.org/2014/08/the-problem-with-using-personality-tests-for-hiring

How will taking away PIP from ND people force employers to offer them jobs when employers are brazenly weeding them out as undesirable?

How personality tests are locking autistic people out of jobs

Experts say psychometric tests make job applications challenging for neurodivergent people

https://theweek.com/business/jobs/how-personality-tests-are-locking-autistic-people-out-of-jobs

nearlylovemyusername · 23/03/2025 12:00

It’s a bit like the child benefit cap on two children. The families with more than two children still have the costs of the rest of their children, they still have need for extra child benefit money. The government simply made a decision to push hundreds of thousands of families below the poverty line and then spaffed away any savings.

Incorrect. The government tried to make sure that people have to think before popping out yet another child. That the ones on benefits have to make the same choices as people who pay for their own. And this was done in a very civilised way - only children born well after cap was introduced were affected, twins out of scope etc. Don't have more kids than you can support. Simples

Wildflowers99 · 23/03/2025 12:01

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 11:54

Your gut feeling is meaningless.
A big reason why ND people can’t find work is they fail all the personality tests that even McDonalds and Costas require to apply for entry level jobs. These personality tests are designed to weed out the ND applicants. So their application is rejected by the computer even if their qualifications match the job.

https://theweek.com/business/jobs/how-personality-tests-are-locking-autistic-people-out-of-jobs

https://www.bigissue.com/news/employment/work-jobs-autistic-people-personality-tests/

https://www.yorkshirepost.co.uk/business/jodie-hill-are-personality-tests-a-barrier-or-a-benefit-for-neurodivergent-candidates-4993545

This problem has been known for a decade, but employers don’t seem to want to be inclusive when it comes to ND employees
https://hbr.org/2014/08/the-problem-with-using-personality-tests-for-hiring

How will taking away PIP from ND people force employers to offer them jobs when employers are brazenly weeding them out as undesirable?

So apply for jobs without personality tests? I’ve had loads of jobs, and I’ve never needed to take one. This ‘McDonalds won’t employ me, so nobody will’ is a bit silly.

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 12:01

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 11:52

The point is.
Some people don’t use their PIP for extra expenses, because they don’t have any
We’ve read examples on MN and I’m sure many of us know of cases such as this.
You’re assuming everyone uses it for the purpose intended. That’s not the case.

So making it harder to get means those that have those expenses will still get them and those who can work are required to do so.

No, making it harder in the way that is being proposed doesn’t mean that only those with extra expenses will get PIP.

You really don’t understand the activities, the pts system or the costs linked to each.

As it is someone who can’t wash themselves above the waist is going to lose PIP. They are still going to have a pay for a carer to wash their upper body and hair,

As it is those who can’t use their hands to do things like chop vegetables , or grip cleaning tools, or handle a hoover is going to lose PIP. They will still need to pay for bags of pre-cut veg and a regular cleaner.

Anyone who needs aids for any of the activities is going to lose PIP, so the costs of getting, maintaining, or replacing physical aids and/or paying for any subscription based aids they are still going to have to pay for.

Someone who is incontinent and requires incontinence pads (these are an aid) or a stoma bag but can change them their self is going to lose PIP because that’s only 2pts. Remember how much nappies cost for your baby? Now make them adult size. It’s not cheap. Nor is having a stoma bag.

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 12:03

Wildflowers99 · 23/03/2025 12:01

So apply for jobs without personality tests? I’ve had loads of jobs, and I’ve never needed to take one. This ‘McDonalds won’t employ me, so nobody will’ is a bit silly.

You have had loads of jobs, past tense, I don’t think you realise how prevalent they are today. Especially for ND graduates seeking a job relevant to their first class degree.

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 12:08

nearlylovemyusername · 23/03/2025 12:00

It’s a bit like the child benefit cap on two children. The families with more than two children still have the costs of the rest of their children, they still have need for extra child benefit money. The government simply made a decision to push hundreds of thousands of families below the poverty line and then spaffed away any savings.

Incorrect. The government tried to make sure that people have to think before popping out yet another child. That the ones on benefits have to make the same choices as people who pay for their own. And this was done in a very civilised way - only children born well after cap was introduced were affected, twins out of scope etc. Don't have more kids than you can support. Simples

Yes, quite it’s civilised child poverty. 🫣

nearlylovemyusername · 23/03/2025 12:10

The government is increasing the out of work UC benefits for the completely healthy. So that is the exact opposite of “welfare should only go to those in the most need & unable to work”.

If you pause for a moment and think this makes complete sense.
Why there is such massive increase in PIP claims? Because it pays much more than UC only. UC increase partially removes this incentive. By simultaneously making PIP more difficult to get this will push more people to claim UC only. UC increase is still lower than UC+PIP so some savings here. For those who were made redundant increased UC gives a little bit of breathing space to find a suitable job or retrain. But - UC is time limited (I believe so, please correct me if I'm wrong) and people will be actively pushed from UC to find a job. I hope the next step is to make UC stop no matter what after certain, generous, period of time, so lifetime on benefits can't be an option for anyone, ever, apart from truly severely disabled.

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 12:13

LoremIpsumCici · 23/03/2025 12:01

No, making it harder in the way that is being proposed doesn’t mean that only those with extra expenses will get PIP.

You really don’t understand the activities, the pts system or the costs linked to each.

As it is someone who can’t wash themselves above the waist is going to lose PIP. They are still going to have a pay for a carer to wash their upper body and hair,

As it is those who can’t use their hands to do things like chop vegetables , or grip cleaning tools, or handle a hoover is going to lose PIP. They will still need to pay for bags of pre-cut veg and a regular cleaner.

Anyone who needs aids for any of the activities is going to lose PIP, so the costs of getting, maintaining, or replacing physical aids and/or paying for any subscription based aids they are still going to have to pay for.

Someone who is incontinent and requires incontinence pads (these are an aid) or a stoma bag but can change them their self is going to lose PIP because that’s only 2pts. Remember how much nappies cost for your baby? Now make them adult size. It’s not cheap. Nor is having a stoma bag.

Edited

I appreciate that it seems the disabled and unable to work may be worse off. That’s not something I agree with as those are the ones we, as a country, should be looking after.

However
Not everyone falls into that category and not everyone who currently gets PIP needs the care you describe.

As an aside : The inability to chop veg does not mean people have to go to the extra expense of buying prechopped. Frozen food is just ( if not more than given recent research ) healthy and cheaper. Hence the increase in this industry given the cost of living crisis

LadyKenya · 23/03/2025 12:16

I’m guessing Labour are hoping if they give people more money to look for work then they’ll get a job.
We’ll wait and see

Yes that will really incentivize those that apparently really don't want to work, won't it?🤔

JobhuntingDespair · 23/03/2025 12:17

nearlylovemyusername · 23/03/2025 11:10

If you are ND then pushing through something you are not interested in is very difficult

Gosh, some people are for real 🙄

I'm sure people who clean public toilets at train stations don't find it too exciting, yet they do their job. And whatever little tax they pay still go to support those who "can't do something they are not interested in".

Everyone pushed through something they are not interested in / hate doing find it very hard. Yet 73% of working age adults in this country have to do it. To support remaining 20% who find it too hard.

I put 20% on purpose, assuming 7% or so are truly disabled and really cannot work. For this group and mainly their carers benefits possibly should even increase.
Really, this change can't come soon enough

I don't think that poster explained very well. It's not simply thinking "this is boring, I don't want to do it". My own experience of this is that either my brain won't work, or I end up melting down in tears with urges to self-harm in a stimming kind of way (eg. head banging).

For example, someone could offer me a million pounds to sit and read something really boring for eight hours. I want that million so much! Huge motivation! And boy, I'd try. But at some point I'd realise I was sitting there in a daze. Even if I could force my eyes to keep looking at the words and "reading" I'd not be taking anything in, my thoughts would wander elsewhere. (Like reading without listening to yourself!)

Or the boredom leading to meltdown thing - this actually happened to me in the past. It's really hard to explain the feeling of being trapped that no matter how you talk to yourself, gradually feels like you're going to burst, and all your abilities seep away. This used to happen to me in a previous job - there was a really boring bit with nothing to do. I used to be breaking down, then as soon as there was actual work to do again I'd be so relieved and capable again. This also happened to me in previous jobs that had no interest to me whatsoever, years ago when I didn't know about extra disability benefits and even became homeless as a result (in an area where I wasn't entitled to so much as a hostel place) so even with real concrete motivation to keep the job. I think this is made worse by trauma (which a lot of ND people struggle with) as your brain can't distract itself by being engaged with something so the traumatic memories and feelings seep in.

I'm not saying the answer is not to work, but it's important to find something that engages one slightly, and/or techniques around this problem. Personally, I've found it a lot easier since recovering from trauma. Using your cleaning toilets example, it could be slightly engaging as you could see it as a little challenge, faced with a dirty loo there is some engagement and purpose in making it clean again, you could challenge yourself to do each one faster or develop the most effective technique or something. Actually an issue here is the sort of jobs where you have to be there regardless, rather than getting paid once the work is done (so my super efficient toilet cleaning would lead to horribly boring bits with nothing to do).

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