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To be really cross about the proposed cuts?

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Byjimminy · 18/03/2025 20:19

And feel really effing sorry for those with genuine anxiety and depression - it is disabling!

Already seeing threads in MH with people despairing in anticipation of cuts. As if mental health services haven't already been decimated beyond recognition already. GP appointments as rare as hen's teeth, CAMHS and access to decent therapy is next to non-existent, the conservatiives slashed all the support workers and sure start centres and we've had the worst pandemic in decades (centuries?) - long covid is thing too! And now people are just self diagnosing/making up mental health issues? How the hell anyone believes anyone manages to claim PIP without a proper diagnosis is insanity itself.

I completely agree with this article: https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/wes-streeting-overdiagnosis-mental-health-adhd-b2716618.html

I know there will be umpteen threads on this already, but maybe some others like me just want to let stuff out in frustration and have a fresh place to say it. To think this is a labour government making these decisions BEFORE putting the services in place to actually help and treat people is beyond comprehension.

Sorry, Wes – my A&E is full of people having a mental health crisis

The health secretary is wrong to suggest that doctors are overdiagnosing patients with psychiatric conditions – it’s just not in our interest to reach for the prescription pad and sign them off work, says Dr Ammad Butt

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/wes-streeting-overdiagnosis-mental-health-adhd-b2716618.html

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Byjimminy · 20/03/2025 10:44

0ohLarLar · 20/03/2025 10:13

Jobs aren't non existent - there are lots of vacant roles.

How about a different suggestion.

How would people on here feel if this was approached via payments to employers for "eligible" employees?

Eg if you hire a PIP eligible person, the employer gets a payment or tax credit that lowers the cost of hiring them. This incentivises hiring people who might require more adjustments/be less productive.

Then for some people that access to work may actual help them or prevent them falling into the cycle of worklessness, and help them reach a stage where they no longer need eligibility for the top up

This combats many of the issues people raise on here.

I don't think this is a bad idea. People with MH conditions need time, supervision and close management of responsibilities. I've been lucky at times to have all of that. Not so lucky at others and funnily enough deteriorated. Picked up again with support and a manageable workload put in place. But employers need to be supported in this and there needs to be a degree of independent assessments, otherwise we'll be hearing about employer/employee scams to spunk the dosh.

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Byjimminy · 20/03/2025 11:09

Employers too need to better understand the benefits system, how an employee's circumstances are restricted and how decisions that are made about their employment affect change in their benefit entitlement.

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Mellap · 20/03/2025 11:15

@Byjimminy I made no comment on depression or anxiety.

Dotjones · 20/03/2025 11:25

To understand the decision you need to understand the basic motivation for being at the top of government. People don't reach this position because they want to serve the country in a way that improves it for all. People become cabinet ministers because they want to line their own pockets and because of a belief that they are genuinely better people than everyone else and therefore deserve to be in this position.

These cuts are not about getting people off benefits and in to work, they are about cutting the benefit bill so the money can be spent in a way which benefits the politicians themselves, their families and friends.

That's what the game is about: run the country into the ground for a few years, cream off whatever you can, then retire to a comfortable life doing book tours and after-dinner speeches.

Disabled people, working people, "normal" people generally (i.e. the bottom 99%) are seen as an inconvenience or irrelevance at best. Usually they are just viewed as a mixture of slaves and cannon fodder, to be exploited to ensure the few at the top remain there.

9fthighfence · 20/03/2025 11:45

Dotjones · 20/03/2025 11:25

To understand the decision you need to understand the basic motivation for being at the top of government. People don't reach this position because they want to serve the country in a way that improves it for all. People become cabinet ministers because they want to line their own pockets and because of a belief that they are genuinely better people than everyone else and therefore deserve to be in this position.

These cuts are not about getting people off benefits and in to work, they are about cutting the benefit bill so the money can be spent in a way which benefits the politicians themselves, their families and friends.

That's what the game is about: run the country into the ground for a few years, cream off whatever you can, then retire to a comfortable life doing book tours and after-dinner speeches.

Disabled people, working people, "normal" people generally (i.e. the bottom 99%) are seen as an inconvenience or irrelevance at best. Usually they are just viewed as a mixture of slaves and cannon fodder, to be exploited to ensure the few at the top remain there.

Calm down with the conspiracy theories!

who the hell would want to be a politician with the likes of you spouting this nonsense at them. Do you really think Wes Streeting is in it for what he can siphon off for himself? MPs earn way less than I do as a mid range manager in an IT company, for being at the beck and call of the likes of you 24/7. Shite job.

The country has no money. It has to find money to fund extra £50bn a year in disability payment comparing 2019 figs to 2029. It can’t go handing out £400 a money for therapy to someone, only to see that person spend the money on rent. If the person wants therapy, they get in the NHS queue like everyone else. In the meantime they work, or get their parents / family to help them out.

Kendodd · 20/03/2025 11:51

Dotjones · 20/03/2025 11:25

To understand the decision you need to understand the basic motivation for being at the top of government. People don't reach this position because they want to serve the country in a way that improves it for all. People become cabinet ministers because they want to line their own pockets and because of a belief that they are genuinely better people than everyone else and therefore deserve to be in this position.

These cuts are not about getting people off benefits and in to work, they are about cutting the benefit bill so the money can be spent in a way which benefits the politicians themselves, their families and friends.

That's what the game is about: run the country into the ground for a few years, cream off whatever you can, then retire to a comfortable life doing book tours and after-dinner speeches.

Disabled people, working people, "normal" people generally (i.e. the bottom 99%) are seen as an inconvenience or irrelevance at best. Usually they are just viewed as a mixture of slaves and cannon fodder, to be exploited to ensure the few at the top remain there.

If we had prize giving for writing bollocks on the Internet than you'd be in with a good shout for this post.
And if you really believe what you have written why don't you stand for election yourself and try to change things?

Kendodd · 20/03/2025 11:52

0ohLarLar · 20/03/2025 10:13

Jobs aren't non existent - there are lots of vacant roles.

How about a different suggestion.

How would people on here feel if this was approached via payments to employers for "eligible" employees?

Eg if you hire a PIP eligible person, the employer gets a payment or tax credit that lowers the cost of hiring them. This incentivises hiring people who might require more adjustments/be less productive.

Then for some people that access to work may actual help them or prevent them falling into the cycle of worklessness, and help them reach a stage where they no longer need eligibility for the top up

This combats many of the issues people raise on here.

I think this is a really good idea.

ilovesooty · 20/03/2025 12:05

PassingStranger · 20/03/2025 00:41

Pensions are not benefits. You've paid in.

Pensions are administered by the DWP and pensions and related benefits account for more than half their expenditure.

Bologneselove · 20/03/2025 12:06

skintasabint · 19/03/2025 11:04

inwas talking about this with my friendship group and a couple spouted the usual nonsense about fake claimants and teen mums 🙄

people seem to forget that the majority of the benefit pot goes to pensioners

The majority of pensioners have worked all their life so contributed and are now claiming pension they paid for so it’s not right blaming them.

wonderstuff · 20/03/2025 12:13

Pensions are benefits. There’s not some separate pot people are paying into current tax payers are paying the current pension bill, the number of pensioners is growing faster than the pool of taxpayers. Just like disability benefits state pension is a safety net for people unable to work.

onitlikeacarbonnet · 20/03/2025 12:17

Inmydreams88 · 19/03/2025 09:04

I think it’s wrong. It’s not what I would expect from a Labour government. They need to be taxing the mega rich, and big corporations before they take from the poorest and the most vulnerable. No denying there are a few who play the system but a life on benefits is not fun.

Let’s hope none of us here needs these benefits to survive on in the future should anything happen to us because they won’t be there, and that is scary. But as long as the rich stay rich, who cares right.

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This ^

Also, a Labour government should be addressing the fact that UC for those in work is not subsidising the claimants of that, but the businesses and corporations who don’t pay their staff enough to live on but dole out millions, sometimes billions, in profits to shareholders and huge bonuses to their executives.

And as I’m on my high horse, get after the millions of dads non resident parents who don’t pay for their kids or look after them in any meaningful way, but expect the mother residential parent to do it. Often by having to work part time and/or claim benefits to bridge the gap.
How many millions would that put back in the pot?

Wildflowers99 · 20/03/2025 12:20

onitlikeacarbonnet · 20/03/2025 12:17

This ^

Also, a Labour government should be addressing the fact that UC for those in work is not subsidising the claimants of that, but the businesses and corporations who don’t pay their staff enough to live on but dole out millions, sometimes billions, in profits to shareholders and huge bonuses to their executives.

And as I’m on my high horse, get after the millions of dads non resident parents who don’t pay for their kids or look after them in any meaningful way, but expect the mother residential parent to do it. Often by having to work part time and/or claim benefits to bridge the gap.
How many millions would that put back in the pot?

Very little because everyone on here argues UC shouldn’t be affected by child maintenance, which it isn’t.

BobbyBiscuits · 20/03/2025 12:24

I can't do anything at all and if they try and force me I'll probably end up starving to death.
It's brutal and terrifying. I'm fearing for my life, no joke.

claudiawinklemansfringetrimmer · 20/03/2025 12:33

Really disappointed with this government, not what I voted Labour for at all. I keep getting their ads on Facebook and it’s all got such a horrible Daily Mail vibe- “look how many people we’ve kicked out of the country!”

I don’t disagree that PIP needs reforming and some of the changes are actually sensible- stopping reassessments for people that clearly aren’t going to get better, stopping penalising people for trying work. But the entire assessment system needs an overall and the assessors need much better training. A lot of them seem to have no knowledge of health and ability and yet ignore letters from doctors and specialists who do.

bestcatlife · 20/03/2025 12:35

@Kendodd Yep. There have been posters on these threads, saying they'll kill themselves if the government take their money away. I've even seen people on TV say it. I've had very similar things said to me as a way of coercion.

But if they can no longer eat, pay their bills or rent after their benefits have been removed it's going to be hard to survive, wouldn't you agree? They might not see the point in living.

xanthomelana · 20/03/2025 12:35

9fthighfence · 20/03/2025 11:45

Calm down with the conspiracy theories!

who the hell would want to be a politician with the likes of you spouting this nonsense at them. Do you really think Wes Streeting is in it for what he can siphon off for himself? MPs earn way less than I do as a mid range manager in an IT company, for being at the beck and call of the likes of you 24/7. Shite job.

The country has no money. It has to find money to fund extra £50bn a year in disability payment comparing 2019 figs to 2029. It can’t go handing out £400 a money for therapy to someone, only to see that person spend the money on rent. If the person wants therapy, they get in the NHS queue like everyone else. In the meantime they work, or get their parents / family to help them out.

Umm have we forgotten the freebies such as football tickets, free clothes, Taylor Swift tickets etc? Of course they are in it for themselves, same as when the Tories were handing out ppe contracts to their mates. How quickly people forget….

Wildflowers99 · 20/03/2025 12:36

xanthomelana · 20/03/2025 12:35

Umm have we forgotten the freebies such as football tickets, free clothes, Taylor Swift tickets etc? Of course they are in it for themselves, same as when the Tories were handing out ppe contracts to their mates. How quickly people forget….

Nobody spends 25 years building their career for free Taylor Swift tickets.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 20/03/2025 12:37

I feel very sorry for people who are in genuine need but the problem is as a country we cannot afford to keep people on benefits.

Tens of thousands of millionaires are leaving the UK every year and they pay most of the tax. So we have a big problem and it needs to be sorted.

There are lots of countries that don't have benefits and their people survive.

Wildflowers99 · 20/03/2025 12:37

xanthomelana · 20/03/2025 12:35

Umm have we forgotten the freebies such as football tickets, free clothes, Taylor Swift tickets etc? Of course they are in it for themselves, same as when the Tories were handing out ppe contracts to their mates. How quickly people forget….

Please tot up the total value of the contracts, gifts and expenses, and let me know how much they come to. It won’t cover the welfare rise I’m willing to bet - by a long way. I hate backhanders etc, but let’s not pretend they’re the reason our economy has gone down the shitter

IMustDoMoreExercise · 20/03/2025 12:38

What do people do in other countries that don't have benefits?

I doubt that they have much higher suicide rates than we do.

If you need to work to eat then most people will find a way to work.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 20/03/2025 12:39

Dotjones · 20/03/2025 11:25

To understand the decision you need to understand the basic motivation for being at the top of government. People don't reach this position because they want to serve the country in a way that improves it for all. People become cabinet ministers because they want to line their own pockets and because of a belief that they are genuinely better people than everyone else and therefore deserve to be in this position.

These cuts are not about getting people off benefits and in to work, they are about cutting the benefit bill so the money can be spent in a way which benefits the politicians themselves, their families and friends.

That's what the game is about: run the country into the ground for a few years, cream off whatever you can, then retire to a comfortable life doing book tours and after-dinner speeches.

Disabled people, working people, "normal" people generally (i.e. the bottom 99%) are seen as an inconvenience or irrelevance at best. Usually they are just viewed as a mixture of slaves and cannon fodder, to be exploited to ensure the few at the top remain there.

There is nothing stopping you from being a politician.

It is very easy to complain. Why don't you get off your backside and do something about it?

Milly16 · 20/03/2025 12:53

It's tricky. There is a saying 'necessity is the mother of invention.' I had severe anxiety, panic attacks etc when I left uni but had no family support (or anywhere to live) so had no choice but to find work, however scary and overwhelming it seemed. The alternative was homelessness (I didn't consider benefits as I had no idea they were a thing). I sofa surfed, applied frantically, got work and managed to support myself. My anxiety lessened as I realised I could cope. I had a serious illness a few years ago and worked whenever I could manage to. It was my lifeline and link to normality. Work, if possible is a good thing, and some mental health conditions can be improved by work, money and a sense of a place in society. Of course, it simply isn't possible for many people.

Jellycatspyjamas · 20/03/2025 12:54

Pensions are benefits. There’s not some separate pot people are paying into current tax payers are paying the current pension bill, the number of pensioners is growing faster than the pool of taxpayers.

Which is why we need anyone who can work to be in work, to fund those at the end of their working life and those who can’t work.

The rise of young people who can’t work is a real cause for concern, there shouldn’t be the option to pass straight from DLA to PIP with the associated other funds also paid for by the tax payer other than for those with life long conditions. It makes for lazy planning in the part of professionals who should be supporting young people to find their niche, not anticipate a life in their bedrooms on the Xbox.

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 20/03/2025 12:54

Very little because everyone on here argues UC shouldn’t be affected by child maintenance, which it isn’t.

I absolutely think that CM should be taken into account for UC payments. But then the government should be coming down like a ton of bricks on absent fathers parents. And I don't think that CM should be reduced just because a man parent has decided to create a second family. So shoot me.

hairbearbunches · 20/03/2025 13:21

0ohLarLar · 20/03/2025 09:32

And now people are just self diagnosing/making up mental health issues? How the hell anyone believes anyone manages to claim PIP without a proper diagnosis is insanity itself

I do not think anyone is self diagnosing or making it up.

I do think some people's ability to cope/be resilient is lower than others, and i do not think that that is a medical issue. Its a mixture of personality, upbringing & lived experience, and environmental factors.

I think some people have a lower threshold at which they will regard a level of stress or pain they feel to be "severe" or intolerable. People will also have a different attitude as to what extent you must accept/tolerate a level of stress, worry, discomfort, challenge.

Absolutely true. I remember a friend from my 20s who went to the Doctors to get some anti depressants when a boyfriend was messing her about. At the same time I was trying to cope with the suicide of someone very close. Our friendship cracked over this period. She was pathetic.

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