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So, who is going to employ all these disabled people the government wants to wean of welfare

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Jimisnotmyname · 18/03/2025 16:14

Really wondering. Not saying it is necessarily a bad thing to encourage those who can work, to work but as a carer for 2 disabled family members, I am hugely struggling to find another job as nobody is willing to give me any flexibility (which I need as a carer) and there are always candidates who do not need the same accomodations I do. I would imagine that many of those currently not in work because of disability or a health condition, will often need a similar level of flexibility. I just wonder who on the the government think will offer jobs galore on these circumstances??

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Indoorplants · 18/03/2025 21:14

frogpighybrid · 18/03/2025 21:11

I don't think they've thought it through. PIP is ostensibly to help with the extra costs caused by a disability, so why would that be linked to having 4 points in two sections than 3 points across a load of sections? Is someone who needs a lot of support with, say, toileting and dressing, necessarily going to have more costs than someone who needs moderate support with toileting, dressing, preparing food, and washing? It doesn't really add up.

I don't think they care, as long as it reduces the benefits bill. Hopefully more people will find the strength to go to tribunal, where a lot of dwp decisions are overturned.

Kateof · 18/03/2025 21:14

Think this will backfire on Labour. I was listening to BBC Radio5 Live on Saturday night, the Stephen Nolan show, and a caller came on who said he was 62, with paranoid schizophrenia, Crohn's disease, diabetes and arthritis. This caller mentioned at least 2 other health conditions, and was dreading the cuts. He said he had worked for the DWP previously, so I hope he has enough inside knowledge of the benefit system to play Labour at their own game, what job could he do with all those illnesses?

JustMovingUncomfortablySlow · 18/03/2025 21:20

Sheldonsheher · 18/03/2025 21:02

To be fair these are all described symptoms there are no objective tests for any of these

What's your objective - that you want me to say I've limited my opportunities to enjoy life and made it all up just so I can claim PIP?

It took three years of testing to rule everything else out before I was diagnosed by TWO separate doctors.

I've been through the "oh it can't be that bad" from friends and colleagues, though the raised eyebrow of my son when I (yet again) ask him do do something I can't manage (He's much more understanding now), dismissal by locum GPs who haven't read my notes etc etc. I've even been through the self doubt where I try and convince myself that it's not that bad, do too much and end up in a major flare.

The fact is I HAVE Fibromyalgia. When there's a definitive test, I'll take it and prove it. Until then I'll take the word of the medical professionals.

WiddlinDiddlin · 18/03/2025 21:23

Thoughtsonstuff · 18/03/2025 19:29

It strikes me (not as someone who has a disability or anyone in my family...we are all currently hale and hearty but I appreciate that.can turn on a sixpence) is that there should be a government app that matches a disability to a type of work that can be done and any available vacancies (please forgive me if there is one already) Eg the PP who says she cannot work in a call centre and she is partially deaf and cannot understand people with accents. She would be handy in something like legal for example; proof reading documents. Or marking GCSE exam papers..anyway something that can be done online. Or if you are immobile but good with people then government call centres clearly don't have enough people in my miserable experience (as mentioned upthread). Not too taxing but all jobs give experience.

That is a lovely idea ... and I'm not saying there isn't some tiny bit of merit to it...

However 'disability' is almost never just one condition, one thing affected. It is usually a combination of things, plus side effects from medication, and then deterioration for a variety of reasons.

Two people with, on paper, the same disability may need very different accomodations and be capable/not capable of a differing range of tasks.

You can't just say 'oh someone with X condition can do this, someone with Y condition can do that'...

I see a lot of this over simplification of disability from people who are not disabled, but even people who are cannot really speak for anyone but themselves.

Also whoever it was who was discussing 'people in wheelchairs' - you realise that covers a HUGE range of disabilities and a huge range of wheelchairs with different sizes and functions. Somewhere wheelchair accessible for my best friend may well NOT be wheelchair accessible to me. We're both ambulatory wheelchair users, both rapidly becoming less ambulatory as conditions deteriorate, we use our wheelchairs about the same amount... but our capability for specific tasks is massively different, because we actually have very different disabilities. You really cannot determine who can do what by what mobility aid they use!

Puyyt · 18/03/2025 21:27

People keep saying 'properly disabled people will be fine'

I'm properly disabled. I have a blue badge. I get Mobility and Daily living.

I Was on ESA. In the support group, judged unable to work.

I got 10 points on PIP daily living but because its spread out over 5 descriptors I dont qualify now and am suddebly able to work? Just because they moved the goalpost 2 points?

Morph22010 · 18/03/2025 21:27

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 20:47

No it's not.

Yes it does if over 21 , It goes up to £12.21 an hour in April. £12,21 x 35 hours x 52 weeks is £22,222 per year for minimum wage,

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 18/03/2025 21:27

JustMovingUncomfortablySlow · 18/03/2025 21:20

What's your objective - that you want me to say I've limited my opportunities to enjoy life and made it all up just so I can claim PIP?

It took three years of testing to rule everything else out before I was diagnosed by TWO separate doctors.

I've been through the "oh it can't be that bad" from friends and colleagues, though the raised eyebrow of my son when I (yet again) ask him do do something I can't manage (He's much more understanding now), dismissal by locum GPs who haven't read my notes etc etc. I've even been through the self doubt where I try and convince myself that it's not that bad, do too much and end up in a major flare.

The fact is I HAVE Fibromyalgia. When there's a definitive test, I'll take it and prove it. Until then I'll take the word of the medical professionals.

I mean this kindly. There is no 'diagnosis' of fibromyalgia. It's a diagnosis of elimination. Meaning, once they've excluded all illnesses or diseases by tests, they'll call it 'fibromyalgia'. It's a syndrome not an illness if that makes sense.its synonymous with "we don't know what's causing this lady's symptoms"

It doesn't take away your pain and your symptoms. I don't refute your experience.

But there is no process happening within the body in fibromyalgia. It's a functional syndrome. I really don't think the medical profession are doing service to vulnerable patients by chucking a label at them in the hope of validating them so that they'll 'go away'.

recipientofraspberries · 18/03/2025 21:30

Overtheatlantic · 18/03/2025 16:20

Care homes, local authorities and education institutions will offer more flexibility than regular corporate jobs.

This is a bizarre take to me. I've worked in an office of a care agency and it's one of the most demanding institutions of its workers I've ever known. Similar education, the pressure and responsibility is huge. I'm not trying to be snarky, I'm genuinely just very unsure where you think there is meaningful flexibility in these jobs for people whose capacity fluctuates frequently?

If you're thinking along the lines of care homes offering shift work and education sector having frequent holidays I'm afraid you're not grasping the reality of the level of flexibility disabled/mentally ill people will require.

greeenscreeen · 18/03/2025 21:31

Puyyt · 18/03/2025 21:27

People keep saying 'properly disabled people will be fine'

I'm properly disabled. I have a blue badge. I get Mobility and Daily living.

I Was on ESA. In the support group, judged unable to work.

I got 10 points on PIP daily living but because its spread out over 5 descriptors I dont qualify now and am suddebly able to work? Just because they moved the goalpost 2 points?

Hi @Puyyt This is awful! I hope you don't mind my asking - what were the previous descriptors, and what are the new ones? Just trying to understand more, and am sure (hope) your knowledge/experience would help a lot of the naysayers on here!

Thoughtsonstuff · 18/03/2025 21:34

It's just a matter of weeding out the malingerers as absolutely no one (I assume) would want those in genuine need to go without. But we all presumably remember the people at school who used to pretend they had something wrong with them..mainly to get out of games permanently or to get attention or to avoid doing something they didn't want to do. Some sort of disability..and presumably those people acted much the same as adults in the workplace (or avoiding the workplace). Whereas those who actually genuinely struggled with a genuine condition were always much quieter about it and more stoic and just tried to get through each day as best they could. Everyone at school knew who was who and who was real. I suppose no one can tell these days and so everyone gets lumped in the same pot which I assume must be bloody infuriating.

CassandraWebb · 18/03/2025 21:36

Thoughtsonstuff · 18/03/2025 21:34

It's just a matter of weeding out the malingerers as absolutely no one (I assume) would want those in genuine need to go without. But we all presumably remember the people at school who used to pretend they had something wrong with them..mainly to get out of games permanently or to get attention or to avoid doing something they didn't want to do. Some sort of disability..and presumably those people acted much the same as adults in the workplace (or avoiding the workplace). Whereas those who actually genuinely struggled with a genuine condition were always much quieter about it and more stoic and just tried to get through each day as best they could. Everyone at school knew who was who and who was real. I suppose no one can tell these days and so everyone gets lumped in the same pot which I assume must be bloody infuriating.

I think the only way to realistically weed them out is to make sure you will always be better off in work than claiming benefits.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 18/03/2025 21:38

BobbyBiscuits · 18/03/2025 16:48

That's what I'm.thinking. many people if they could just about manage work it would maybe only be able to be for two hours at a time, a couple times a week. And they couldn't guarantee they'd be well even on those specific days. So they'd kind of need to just be able to just literally choose when they work without being penalised? No employer would accept such an arrangement. Nor would the work pay sufficient wages to sustain someone to have a vaguely decent standard of living.

@BobbyBiscuits , obviously there are people totally unable to hold down any type of employment but these reforms are clearly not aimed at them.

Another2Cats · 18/03/2025 21:38

frogpighybrid · 18/03/2025 21:11

I don't think they've thought it through. PIP is ostensibly to help with the extra costs caused by a disability, so why would that be linked to having 4 points in two sections than 3 points across a load of sections? Is someone who needs a lot of support with, say, toileting and dressing, necessarily going to have more costs than someone who needs moderate support with toileting, dressing, preparing food, and washing? It doesn't really add up.

"Is someone who needs a lot of support with, say, toileting and dressing, necessarily going to have more costs than someone who needs moderate support with toileting, dressing, preparing food, and washing? It doesn't really add up."

I don't know about "necessarily" but certainly in the case of my DM who does need support in those areas there certainly does come a point where there is an awful lot of extra support required.

And, basically, the more support that is needed the more it is going to cost. I would just add that if a person needs a lot of support with toileting and dressing then it is likely that they will also need a similar amount of support with preparing food etc.

It is not a simple case that those are the only areas where they require support. If a person needs support going to the toilet then it is quite likely that they require similar levels of support in other areas of their life as well.

Puyyt · 18/03/2025 21:39

greeenscreeen · 18/03/2025 21:31

Hi @Puyyt This is awful! I hope you don't mind my asking - what were the previous descriptors, and what are the new ones? Just trying to understand more, and am sure (hope) your knowledge/experience would help a lot of the naysayers on here!

The descriptors are the same but instead of just needing 8 points to qualify, in any format you now need to get 4 in one descriptor and at least 2 x 2 in others.

My 10 is made up of 5 x 2.

So i no longer qualify.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 18/03/2025 21:40

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 18/03/2025 16:53

Well I have autism, depression and anorexia and I’ve never not had a job in my life. These are the people they are targeting. I currently work for the civil service and thus practically fall over themselves to offer me reasonable adjustments. But it’s flexible working anyway and I find I manage my day according to my needs by myself.

@Idratherbepaddleboarding , you are an example to us all of how to rise above our personal issues. I really wish you well.

JustMovingUncomfortablySlow · 18/03/2025 21:41

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 18/03/2025 21:12

I'm sorry to hear your day sounds like that everyday. Doesn't sound like much fun for you at all. I'm sorry you haven't found a treatment that works for your pain and other symptoms.

But as you can see from your own various ailments (I'm not using that word in a derogatory way by the way ) it could be conceived as "wishy washy" symptoms (in other words 'vague' not easy to pinpoint one single factor) and that fact, makes "fibromyalgia" an easy one to abuse by people wishing to not work or claim benefits for nefarious reasons. You yourself must be able to see that ?

I've suffered (and am medicated) for anxiety and previous depression. I can see exactly how 'anxiety' and 'depression' are abused in the same way.

I do have my own thoughts on disgnoses such as fibromyalgia and CFS, yes, I won't be disingenuous. I don't refute the symptoms whatsoever. What I refute is the diagnosis. It's often a palm off for not fully investigating other causes. Sometimes those causes can be mental illness. Sometimes (and I've seen it) it can be improperly investigated polymyalgia rheumatica, arthritis, lupus, (amongst other things )

To be fair, I can agree with some of the things you say.

When my doctor first started to mention Fibro, all of a sudden two of my social circle decided they have EXACTLY the same symptoms, one got a repeat prescription for codeine, one got the same meds that I was on (and admitted not taking them) - both applied for PIP (one got turned down). I've never seen either of them actually struggle, turn down a social activity or be anything less than perfectly groomed. A bit sickening when I have to ask my son to brush my hair for me. Yes, I know its an invisible disability but the timing, and the symptoms, made it very suspect.

So yes I can understand that Fibro is a condition which can be taken advantage of.

As I said, it took three years of testing - I was cleared for all the above as well as over/under active thyroid, diabetes, menopause etc etc. Recently been confirmed as Peri menopausal and it's making everything 10x worse unfortunately. Here's hoping the HRT helps.

Until they can come up with a definitive test or find out I have something the medical team haven't thought of yet, I'm stuck with a Fibro dx.

I apologise for "snapping" at you - I saw the words Wishy Washy and just saw red.

Bluebanner · 18/03/2025 21:42

Puyyt · 18/03/2025 21:27

People keep saying 'properly disabled people will be fine'

I'm properly disabled. I have a blue badge. I get Mobility and Daily living.

I Was on ESA. In the support group, judged unable to work.

I got 10 points on PIP daily living but because its spread out over 5 descriptors I dont qualify now and am suddebly able to work? Just because they moved the goalpost 2 points?

Why are you not able to work?

Puyyt · 18/03/2025 21:43

I hope that makes sense.

Previously it didnt matter what combination of points you had as long as you score over 8.

Now you could score 2 points on all 10 descriptors and not qualify,because you didnt get a 4 on one of them. Even though you have 20 points and 8 points used to be the award basis of standard daily living.

12 points is ENHANCED daily living.

But now if you score 3 on all 10 descriptors aand get 30 points you wouldnt even qualify for standard daily living.

florasl · 18/03/2025 21:45

thefirebird · 18/03/2025 20:12

I know someone who was offered a place on an employment scheme for young, talented, disabled students.

She ended up being bullied out of that job by a jealous manager (a woman who was older than she was). Every time she asked for an adjustment, it was met with, "Ugh, it's just too much to implement". She wasn't asking for anything that cost money. All she wanted was for her manager to check in with her at the end of the day over a Teams chat to see how she was doing.

The bullying got too much for her, and she ended up having a nervous breakdown at the age of 22. She got diagnosed with PTSD and hasn't been able to get another job whatsoever in 3 years. She can no longer leave her house or even open the blinds during the daytime because this experience caused her to become agoraphobic.

Unless you've lived the experience of being an obviously disabled person in the workplace, you have no right to comment on other disabled people's thoughts, feelings and attitudes towards work.

These 'schemes' do not work. They make people unwell. As long as employers don't actually care about disabled people, as long as there are loopholes in employment law and as long as it is acceptable to discriminate against disabled people, these 'schemes' will fail.

And now, the government wants to punish disabled people for their failures and the failures of employers.

The schemes absolutely do work, my DB is autistic and gained a job through scheme to help disabled people into work. He operates machinery in a construction yard, they put him through all the training and qualifications. It’s not a job I’d like to do, but for him it is ideal. It’s the same everyday, he knows what’s expected of him and it doesn’t change.

Another acquaintance with autism gained an admin job with the council through the scheme and has been there for years. They don’t have any interaction with customers, hours completed flexibly between 7-7, knows how to do the process and repeat.

There are absolutely great schemes out there, don’t write them all off. For DB it’s been absolutely life changing.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 18/03/2025 21:46

mids2019 · 18/03/2025 16:56

This is where things fall apart

Employers aren't charities and employing people with disabilities unfortunately soon leads to performance reviews as the disabled person cannot meet objectives which the company puts forward to make the employee worth the investment

There needs to performance standards for any employee and if those aren't met then employers as a matter of course have to manage performance.

We are just going to have a cycle of disabled people entering unsuitable jobs only to be managed out in a few weeks/months only for the cycle to start again. Also employers are going to be concerned about safety liability of any neural disability.

Do we want people with ADHD operating heavy machinery which needs focus? Are we going to put the autistic in public facing roles such as retail just to face a barrage of complaints from customers about communication difficulties? Are we going to accept the inevitable bullying of employees and the associated damage to the employee and tribunal costs?

Hard reality is there are going to be a lot of poor disabled people. There aren't these fantastical inclusive jobs that are floating around which readily accept disability.

@mids2019 , Jesus! Your attitude is so defeatist! Part of what has been proposed is to focus more on what people CAN do as opposed to what they cannot. A much better approach for their mental health than just dumping them in the proverbial bin!

Juniegirl · 18/03/2025 21:46

DaffodilsGalore · 18/03/2025 21:02

You see she is ‘just’ disabled.
She isn’t ill.

Most kf the people who struggle to work are people who are ill. Cancer patients, auto immune disease etc etc all of those illnesses that rib you from your energy agd means that cooking, cleaning, getting dressed, working aren’t possible.

In the works if ‘disability’ she has the huge privilege of having energy,

And tbh if I could swap being paralysed from the chest diwn to having an energy limiting disease (that forces me to stay ,ting diwn most if the day), I’d swap in a heart beat. No question asked.

Just existing is exhausting for her, she does everything with her arms and hands. She’s always tired, nerve pain affects her sleep and her waking hours.
She has a working mindset though.

WalkingonWheels · 18/03/2025 21:47

Juniegirl · 18/03/2025 20:58

I have a colleague who is paralysed from the chest down. She gets herself up, showers, dresses, does all her own transfers from bed to chair etc. walks her dogs, drives to work, gets her own lightweight wheelchair out of her van (drags it out behind her) transfers again, works 4 hours at a call centre then gets herself back in her van (someone lifts her wheelchair into the back) and goes home.
She can cook, clean, basically pretty much do anything that you and I can.
She suffers constantly with nerve pain, she’s often very tired and she is medicated with nerve block drugs that make her feel unwell.
She has to follow a bowel routine and catheterisation, both done in work as we have everything accessible for her.
Determination is the key. I often marvel at her effort and resilience - she wants to work for her own self respect and to give something to society.
Then I see people who claim they can’t work because they have balance issues, a tremor, a bad back, fibromyalgia, insomnia etc. and I have no patience with it.

Fucking good for her. If my only disability was that I lopped both my legs off, I'd be able to do all that too.

Kateof · 18/03/2025 21:48

@frogpighybrid

I hear you ! I am sick of being micro managed and having to cover absences, and I'm not even disabled. If Labour force seriously ill people into any job, how are these people who are patients, not fit employees, going to manage being in the current workplace, having to deal with the following
Health and Safety legislation (lol)
KPI's
Malicious management
National minimum wage
Incompetant unhelpful co workers
HMRC
Poor facilities*
*In one workplace I was shown around recently, there was a staff canteen with one working microwave, one small fridge between 30 night workers, it was Johnsons Laundry, the staff were washing hotel bed linen for the UK main hotels.

WinterBones · 18/03/2025 21:48

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 18/03/2025 21:27

I mean this kindly. There is no 'diagnosis' of fibromyalgia. It's a diagnosis of elimination. Meaning, once they've excluded all illnesses or diseases by tests, they'll call it 'fibromyalgia'. It's a syndrome not an illness if that makes sense.its synonymous with "we don't know what's causing this lady's symptoms"

It doesn't take away your pain and your symptoms. I don't refute your experience.

But there is no process happening within the body in fibromyalgia. It's a functional syndrome. I really don't think the medical profession are doing service to vulnerable patients by chucking a label at them in the hope of validating them so that they'll 'go away'.

It isn't, not any more, research is moving along and new discoveries about it are being made, and have been made in the last year.

It's something that has very recently (literally last week) been floated by Pain Management clinic for me. Now i have a very real, identifiable chronic pain issue caused by degenerative disk disease and arthritis, i suffer with sciatica and have lost mobility in one of my hips. Alongside this i have a lot of as-yet unexplained joint pain, cramp, dysautonomia, migraines, paraesthesia in my hands/feet...etc

They know that Fibro is related to the brain, they know it's a dysfunction of the central nervous system, it becomes hyperactive and stops processing physical input correctly, and instead interprets it as pain. They know there are genetic factors for it.

My older brother has diagnosed ME/CFS that he developed post-viral (Guillain barre syndrome) and have directly told me that the fact he has that, genetically makes me more likely to have developed a similar CNS issue, especially with my already present neuropathy from my spine crumbling and my sensory processing issues from my Autism/ADHD.

placemats · 18/03/2025 21:53

WilmaFlintstone1 · 18/03/2025 18:20

In many ways leaving autistic people like my son (with moderate learning disabilities) on benefits forever is very wrong. It’s a miserable life, I did it for a few years when he was younger. I want more than that for him hence I am pleased to hear he can try working without losing his benefits, that’s a trap that has kept people stuck on benefits in the fear that if they take job and are unable to mange they have to start claims again.

My friends who have two non verbal autistic daughters will benefit from not having to get them to assessments for PIP etc, They will never work and always require care. They need every penny they get to pay for the care their daughters need.

I agree and hope he can get a job but the reality can sometimes be huge disappointment when the job ends, or isn't continued, which is an added stress to the young person.

There should be facilities, with paid and flexible working conditions that are financed by local and major employers, partial tax offset with no backing out, that employ people in the area with separate offices and shop floors, canteen and rest areas, that provide skill building and a chance to meet like minded people.

Every town and city should have this, especially towns with industrial estates.

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