personally - and I know we are in a privileged position to be paying school fees in the first place - we’ve cut back on other areas as we didn’t have the VAT amount spare in our income.
I’m not gleeful that I’ve stopped the DC music lessons to help fund the VAT - but I am sad that their music teachers - who are self employed, so it affects their income - have less money.
Neither am I gleeful that we have stopped using the school coach service which was really handy but expensive. Now I’m driving my kids instead. Adding to the pollution that everyone gets to breathe in.
Plenty of other areas where we have also tightened our belts (and I know not all can tighten them this way) but I don’t think any of them carry zero negative effects for anyone else.
And I’m sad for anyone whose life is made inadvertently harder by that belt tightening.