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The neighbour and the EV charger

241 replies

Alittlebit9 · 16/03/2025 21:33

DH has an electric car, and had a charger installed at home on Friday. It cost him £1200.

Today, neighbour (who we are fairly friendly with, in a neighbourly way) has messaged me to ask if we would mind if they used it from time to time. I think she’s being a CF and this will be a slippery slope. Plus it’s on our driveway so we would have to move our cars. Also, I know it isn’t expensive but it’s going onto our bill.

YABU - let them use the charger
YANBU - they need to get their own

OP posts:
SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 17/03/2025 15:49

Don't do it. Even if she offered to pay there will always be the day that the charger breaks when your neighbour is using it and the cost if repair will fall on you.

Mookie81 · 17/03/2025 16:52

Negroany · 17/03/2025 14:20

I'm really not following your point. Either you've misunderstood my post or I can't understand yours.

Either way, I don't actually care what you're talking about.

I know there are cheaper tariffs for EVs. I can't see why you felt the need to tell me. But, as I said, I don't care about your need to explain pointless stuff to me.

Why the rudeness?
They're responding to your own post about it!

SerendipityJane · 17/03/2025 17:30

My Idea:
So what you'd need is somethjing like "Rent my parking dot co dot uk" where people willing to share their EV charging can register their location and details.

The service operator - like Uber or AirBnB - then arranges taking payments and controlling the internet connected charger via the app, so only the person who rented the slot can use it (you could also use the addional security features of the EV to further ensure only the correct vehicle is being charged).

Obviously the person renting out the EV charger (possibly during the day when they are at work) would be paid an additional %age as well as the intermediary company on top of the electricity used.

ChatGPTs analysis:

Yeah, exactly! This would be like an "Airbnb for EV chargers", allowing homeowners or businesses to rent out their private EV charging points when they're not using them.
A few key features that would make it work well:

  • App-based booking & payments (like Uber, so you only pay for what you use)
  • Smart charger control (so only the person who booked can access it)
  • Vehicle verification (maybe using the car's built-in security or plate recognition)
  • Dynamic pricing (to adjust for peak/off-peak electricity rates)
  • Incentives for hosts (so it's worth their while to rent out their charger)
This could be a game-changer in cities where public charging stations are scarce or expensive, and it would make use of existing infrastructure. Would you focus this on homeowners, businesses, or both?
GiveDogBone · 17/03/2025 18:03

I let my neighbour use mine, he pays a small premium to my electricity rate (basically round it up to the nearest 5p). Works out cheaper for him than charging publicly and doesn’t cost me anything.

babasaclover · 17/03/2025 18:08

SerendipityJane · 17/03/2025 17:30

My Idea:
So what you'd need is somethjing like "Rent my parking dot co dot uk" where people willing to share their EV charging can register their location and details.

The service operator - like Uber or AirBnB - then arranges taking payments and controlling the internet connected charger via the app, so only the person who rented the slot can use it (you could also use the addional security features of the EV to further ensure only the correct vehicle is being charged).

Obviously the person renting out the EV charger (possibly during the day when they are at work) would be paid an additional %age as well as the intermediary company on top of the electricity used.

ChatGPTs analysis:

Yeah, exactly! This would be like an "Airbnb for EV chargers", allowing homeowners or businesses to rent out their private EV charging points when they're not using them.
A few key features that would make it work well:

  • App-based booking & payments (like Uber, so you only pay for what you use)
  • Smart charger control (so only the person who booked can access it)
  • Vehicle verification (maybe using the car's built-in security or plate recognition)
  • Dynamic pricing (to adjust for peak/off-peak electricity rates)
  • Incentives for hosts (so it's worth their while to rent out their charger)
This could be a game-changer in cities where public charging stations are scarce or expensive, and it would make use of existing infrastructure. Would you focus this on homeowners, businesses, or both?

I would love this. I charge at home and don’t usually go more than 4/5 miles in a day so not an issue to charge at home but am going on a long journey in a few months and reading having to pay up to £0.89 per kw for what i get at home at £0.07. This is why they’ll never take off properly EV cars - if I had to leave my town frequently I’d never have moved away from petrol / diesel. Also the cars themselves need to be cheaper for people to choose electric.

there’s already an app like this but as it’s people on drive chargers only 7kwh so would take all night so not all that convenient. It’s called co charger

Didimum · 17/03/2025 18:10

Steeryourselfanywaythatyouchoose · 17/03/2025 14:19

How's that possible?
We do about 1000 miles a month, probably more, and the electric costs us around £40 ish. We charge on Intelligent Octopus tariff which is 7.5p/kw and around £2-3 a charge but it still mounts up. Obviously considerably cheaper than diesel or petrol for the same distance but not insignificant.
Unless you only do 100 miles a month or something! You actually should be able to tell exactly if you've got an app which I think most chargers do have.

'At all' isn't true I should say – but 'not much' is, and in the context for replying to a poster who said their electricity bill ha gone up 'significantly'. I said £8 a month upthread – which isn't true, as I was tired and not typing properly. It's about £38 a month, and I do view that as quite insignificant, but 'significance' is relative obviously.

JohnTheRevelator · 17/03/2025 18:10

What a CF.

Laura95167 · 17/03/2025 18:14

I'd say I'm sorry but we manage our finances quite tightly and can't afford to be charging additional vehicles.

As others have said, you wouldn't pay for her petrol

Steeryourselfanywaythatyouchoose · 17/03/2025 18:40

Didimum · 17/03/2025 18:10

'At all' isn't true I should say – but 'not much' is, and in the context for replying to a poster who said their electricity bill ha gone up 'significantly'. I said £8 a month upthread – which isn't true, as I was tired and not typing properly. It's about £38 a month, and I do view that as quite insignificant, but 'significance' is relative obviously.

Fair enough!

haufbiskiy · 17/03/2025 19:11

SerendipityJane · 17/03/2025 17:30

My Idea:
So what you'd need is somethjing like "Rent my parking dot co dot uk" where people willing to share their EV charging can register their location and details.

The service operator - like Uber or AirBnB - then arranges taking payments and controlling the internet connected charger via the app, so only the person who rented the slot can use it (you could also use the addional security features of the EV to further ensure only the correct vehicle is being charged).

Obviously the person renting out the EV charger (possibly during the day when they are at work) would be paid an additional %age as well as the intermediary company on top of the electricity used.

ChatGPTs analysis:

Yeah, exactly! This would be like an "Airbnb for EV chargers", allowing homeowners or businesses to rent out their private EV charging points when they're not using them.
A few key features that would make it work well:

  • App-based booking & payments (like Uber, so you only pay for what you use)
  • Smart charger control (so only the person who booked can access it)
  • Vehicle verification (maybe using the car's built-in security or plate recognition)
  • Dynamic pricing (to adjust for peak/off-peak electricity rates)
  • Incentives for hosts (so it's worth their while to rent out their charger)
This could be a game-changer in cities where public charging stations are scarce or expensive, and it would make use of existing infrastructure. Would you focus this on homeowners, businesses, or both?

Already exists I’m afraid

Gundogday · 17/03/2025 19:21

haufbiskiy · 16/03/2025 21:33

Don’t be ridiculous. Would you pay for her petrol if she asked you to. Do not say yes, she will be forever asking

First post nails it!

Longma · 17/03/2025 19:27

Did she offer any payment?

when you responded to her, did you ask about paying for the electricity?

Nikki75 · 17/03/2025 19:45

A big NO...!!

cardboardvillage · 17/03/2025 19:59

You could rent it out? £5 for a full charge 😆

MillieMinx · 17/03/2025 20:00

Definitely don’t share one! It will become a huge inconvenience and cost to you especially when the other neighbours find out! I would be getting some kind of lock over it too bc they will likely use it when you’re not there. Yes you can see them on your ring doorbell but you can actually stop it happening. My friend has had so many problems with random people using hers, she’s currently having some kind of contraption put into the wall that you need a key to open. Like this Ev lockbox

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Devianinc · 17/03/2025 20:08

2025willbemytime · 17/03/2025 07:36

She wasn't joking...

There’s nothing worse than a beggar.

Devianinc · 17/03/2025 20:16

RevolutionaryMode · 17/03/2025 06:02

Your neighbour sounds like she is one of those people who think it’s okay to ask someone to make their life a little bit more complicated so she can make hers a little bit easier. On a regular basis.

Yes

Devianinc · 17/03/2025 20:21

Lostworlds · 16/03/2025 23:05

I think I would do as you said and send a link to who installed it for you and leave it there.
We had friends use ours when they first got their electric car and were waiting for the charger to be installed. They paid us to use it but it soon became annoying at how frequently they wanted to use it and would get a bit moany when we would say no and explain that we needed it.

We have the charger locked when not using it.

Do you believe that they had the nerve to complain about you using your own charger and they were being put out. Unbelievable

Lostworlds · 17/03/2025 20:34

Devianinc · 17/03/2025 20:21

Do you believe that they had the nerve to complain about you using your own charger and they were being put out. Unbelievable

Yeah 😂 they would ask if we could use it at another time since they needed to use it then and there!

Laura95167 · 17/03/2025 21:47

MillieMinx · 17/03/2025 20:00

Definitely don’t share one! It will become a huge inconvenience and cost to you especially when the other neighbours find out! I would be getting some kind of lock over it too bc they will likely use it when you’re not there. Yes you can see them on your ring doorbell but you can actually stop it happening. My friend has had so many problems with random people using hers, she’s currently having some kind of contraption put into the wall that you need a key to open. Like this Ev lockbox

I can't believe there are so many CF electricity thieves someone's created an almost dragons den wonder to lock it

Ilovecleaning · 17/03/2025 21:56

CFs can still take us by surprise. I’d like to respond to her request with “Course you can use our EV! And if you like you can store food in my freezer, you can have my broadband password, bring your wet washing round and I’ll put in my dryer, you can peg your washing in my garden and come round and pop my kettle on when you want a cup of tea…. Anything else I can do for you?”
but some CFs would take you at your word 😀
Glad to read how you dealt with it in your updates.

canyouseemyhousefromhere · 17/03/2025 21:58

I would say no. Cheeky beggar!

There may be a house insurance implication,

As someone said upthread, just give them the details of the installer you used.

Make sure you have a lock on yours.

ThinWomansBrain · 17/03/2025 22:01

intrepidgiraffe · 16/03/2025 21:38

We used to let our neighbour use ours - app with the charger meant we knew how much each charge cost and we billed her and she paid us back - are you sure this isn’t what your neighbour meant?

do this - and add on a bit so that you partially recover the cost of installation.

Ilovecleaning · 17/03/2025 22:02

ThinWomansBrain · 17/03/2025 22:01

do this - and add on a bit so that you partially recover the cost of installation.

Sounds reasonable but it could end up being an absolute PITA

August1980 · 17/03/2025 22:09

Please Send us her details and we will say no on your behalf. Cheek

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