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anonymous98 · 16/03/2025 19:03

At the risk of being harsh, hardly anyone on this thread actually possesses a basic understand of what mental illness entails for many people. Even anxiety can be crippling if it's bad enough.

Nobody is getting PIP for mild mental health problems.

TheKeatingFive · 16/03/2025 19:03

soupyspoon · 16/03/2025 19:00

When are you talking about. Because people who worked the land tended to work from day light to sunset, very very long hours in the summer and pretty long now, back breaking work, fulled by pottage and not much else

There was no such thing as a 'weekend' it didnt exist, although people were expected to go to church on Sundays.

And let's face it, there wasnt much for poor, illiterate people to do when they had downtime.

This generation would struggle with the boredom, before even contemplating anything else.

Fangisnotacoward · 16/03/2025 19:03

I think there needs to be much more early intervention and support. This is so severely lacking. MH services are so underfunded people are left on a downward spiral until they are seriously unwell.

Maybe more people are being diagnosed, but perhaps if there was more early support people could get help sooner before it becomes too serious and a long term issue.

soupyspoon · 16/03/2025 19:03

TheKeatingFive · 16/03/2025 18:55

I feel there's a lot of projection here. I think it's much more likely people were too busy trying not to starve to death to worry about much else. Life expectancy was low. They were just trying to survive another day.

However I do agree that religion provided a sense of meaning and hope of life after death that was valuable. While I'm acutely aware of the problems it entails, we have lost a lot in abandoning it.

Religion is the opiate of the masses (not sure whether that was ever actually said)

But we all need an opiate actually. And I say that as an atheist.

Veronay · 16/03/2025 19:03

TheKeatingFive · 16/03/2025 18:55

I feel there's a lot of projection here. I think it's much more likely people were too busy trying not to starve to death to worry about much else. Life expectancy was low. They were just trying to survive another day.

However I do agree that religion provided a sense of meaning and hope of life after death that was valuable. While I'm acutely aware of the problems it entails, we have lost a lot in abandoning it.

Too easy to confuse a lack of technology with a worse lifestyle though. Yes, we have antibiotics now but the existence and knowledge of them doesn't depend on everyone working themselves ill. They were discovered over 100 years ago and have been in production ever since. People in medieval Europe suffered in many ways, but most of them were never isolated or used to the same degree the modern population is.

soupyspoon · 16/03/2025 19:05

Stroke or epilepsy?
Brain tumour?

DahliaBlooming · 16/03/2025 19:06

Well for at least a decade all we've heard from every direction is how mental health is just as important as physical health. We've all been urged to speak up and seek help if we're struggling. There have been innumerable campaigns to destigmitise mental illness (although that only ever seems to apply to depression and anxiety, never conditions like schizophrenia or bipolar mania). The government can hardly now be surprised that there's such a massive increase in diagnoses, NHS wait lists and welfare benefit claims... what did they expect to happen?

Gloriia · 16/03/2025 19:06

NapT1me · 16/03/2025 19:02

You do realise that managing emotions is hugely difficult for children with ND and not something you can just tell ND kids to do. Many people struggling with MH are ND.

The problem is NT people seem to now think they are ND. Everyone has adhd or anxiety. It is being over diagnosed.
Why should those receiving PIP for significant problems all be under review because of the mass increase in mh diagnoses?
Mh experts need to come uo with stricter parameters fast.

Notgoodatpoetrybutgreatatlit · 16/03/2025 19:07

Depends what Mr Streeting means. I work in SEND in a secondary school, I spend about 25% of my limited time and energy trying to stop the endless amateur hour diagnosis industry. Parents, teachers, non educational professionals like social workers and the kids themselves all merrily diagnosing all manner of conditions.
Sometimes I have a quiet laugh to myself when CAHMS return a referral saying there are no grounds for an assessment.
On the other hand there clearly is a crisis in actual care for people with MH problems. There always has been inadequate care and its clearly become worse. So many children in my school have dreadful home lives, overcrowding and inappropriate housing is one reason. As is a lack of access to play spaces and fun for want of a better word. And I literally never speak to a parent whose child is send who doesn't have sleep problems. Social media and 24 hour access to entertainment have much to answer for.
But I havent noticed Mr Streeting or his government addressing the causes of mental or physical health problems so far.

Nowimhereandimlost · 16/03/2025 19:07

I agree too. Pretty much every single Mumsnet thread nowadays mentions neurodiversity in some fashion.

TheKeatingFive · 16/03/2025 19:07

Veronay · 16/03/2025 19:03

Too easy to confuse a lack of technology with a worse lifestyle though. Yes, we have antibiotics now but the existence and knowledge of them doesn't depend on everyone working themselves ill. They were discovered over 100 years ago and have been in production ever since. People in medieval Europe suffered in many ways, but most of them were never isolated or used to the same degree the modern population is.

They had lots of other things to contend with, death, disease, threat of starvation, little stimulation, exposure to the elements , etc, etc.

Amd community does not have to be lost for the current generation.

BobbyBiscuits · 16/03/2025 19:08

I don't know whether they are or not as I'm not a psychiatrist who's assessed every mentally unwell person in the country. Neither is Wes Streeting.

I know I'm mentally unwell and the way him and his pals in the 'new Tory' party are talking about me I'm literally getting worse by the day. I'm fearing for my life at this point.

Imagine being a cancer sufferer and being told that most people with cancer are either faking it or exaggerating? It's a disgrace to treat vulnerable people with such contempt.

TheKeatingFive · 16/03/2025 19:08

soupyspoon · 16/03/2025 19:03

Religion is the opiate of the masses (not sure whether that was ever actually said)

But we all need an opiate actually. And I say that as an atheist.

Agreed

JillAndJenTheFlowerpotMen · 16/03/2025 19:10

It may be as much overpathologising as overdiagnosis. My dc can’t get through a week at school without teachers talking about mental health and how to deal with anxiety and managing stress and emotions. Ordinary experiences of grief, sadness, anger and nervousness are labelled too quickly as problematic.

Gloriia · 16/03/2025 19:11

'Imagine being a cancer sufferer and being told that most people with cancer are either faking it or exaggerating? It's a disgrace to treat vulnerable people with such contempt.'

Imagine telling everyone with a headache that they might have cancer and sign them off for 6months just in case. It would not happen. Gps are over diagnosing too may people with anxiety, depression and various other mh problems.

JHound · 16/03/2025 19:11

I need to see the data he is using to make this claim. I cannot comment on whether it’s over diagnosed as I am not a MH specialist and have no access to the data.

JHound · 16/03/2025 19:12

Gloriia · 16/03/2025 19:11

'Imagine being a cancer sufferer and being told that most people with cancer are either faking it or exaggerating? It's a disgrace to treat vulnerable people with such contempt.'

Imagine telling everyone with a headache that they might have cancer and sign them off for 6months just in case. It would not happen. Gps are over diagnosing too may people with anxiety, depression and various other mh problems.

How do you know they are doing this?

NapT1me · 16/03/2025 19:13

Gloriia · 16/03/2025 19:06

The problem is NT people seem to now think they are ND. Everyone has adhd or anxiety. It is being over diagnosed.
Why should those receiving PIP for significant problems all be under review because of the mass increase in mh diagnoses?
Mh experts need to come uo with stricter parameters fast.

Don’t be ridiculous everybody does not have ND. 🙄1 in a 100 people have autism.

Also ND is not mental health just so you know.

Gloriia · 16/03/2025 19:13

JHound · 16/03/2025 19:12

How do you know they are doing this?

Oh because of the massive increase in PIP claimants for those allegedly with mh problems.

The stigma has definitely gone but it has gone too far the other way. Everyone is ND nowadays.

JillAndJenTheFlowerpotMen · 16/03/2025 19:14

Veronay · 16/03/2025 19:03

Too easy to confuse a lack of technology with a worse lifestyle though. Yes, we have antibiotics now but the existence and knowledge of them doesn't depend on everyone working themselves ill. They were discovered over 100 years ago and have been in production ever since. People in medieval Europe suffered in many ways, but most of them were never isolated or used to the same degree the modern population is.

Have you read any medieval history? People were used. Brutally so. Not isolated, but I really don’t think there is evidence to point to ‘people didn’t work themselves ill’ unless you’re observing that the serfs were worked ill by their lords?

528htz · 16/03/2025 19:14

TheKeatingFive · 16/03/2025 19:07

They had lots of other things to contend with, death, disease, threat of starvation, little stimulation, exposure to the elements , etc, etc.

Amd community does not have to be lost for the current generation.

Yes, life wasn't easier then, but humans were more adapted to it. Tens of thousands of years of human evolution and adaptation means that people could endure because they weren't living in a captive type situation. People now are living in the human equivalent of a zoo. They also had a philosophical framework (their religion) to enable them to cope with death and suffering.

NapT1me · 16/03/2025 19:14

JillAndJenTheFlowerpotMen · 16/03/2025 19:10

It may be as much overpathologising as overdiagnosis. My dc can’t get through a week at school without teachers talking about mental health and how to deal with anxiety and managing stress and emotions. Ordinary experiences of grief, sadness, anger and nervousness are labelled too quickly as problematic.

So one poster wants kids taught to manage their emotions. Another doesn’t want emotions identified or strategies identified .🙄

NapT1me · 16/03/2025 19:15

Gloriia · 16/03/2025 19:13

Oh because of the massive increase in PIP claimants for those allegedly with mh problems.

The stigma has definitely gone but it has gone too far the other way. Everyone is ND nowadays.

No they are not.

Veronay · 16/03/2025 19:15

TheKeatingFive · 16/03/2025 19:07

They had lots of other things to contend with, death, disease, threat of starvation, little stimulation, exposure to the elements , etc, etc.

Amd community does not have to be lost for the current generation.

Community isn't something you really choose to have though. When it's lost it's almost impossible to rebuild. Modern life means few people even know their neighbours faces let alone names, they are all working too much and are too arrested to have time, mass immigration has fractured old communities, the rise of tech has meant people are less sociable generally and the constant stream of bad news/ barrage of white from the Internet makes people hostile and suspicious of one another. Add in underinvestment in community basics like parks and libraries and you can see why there's absolutely nothing left for most people now..

Cattreesea · 16/03/2025 19:15

Daft statement to make.

There are many obvious reasons as to why the number of people with mental health issues is increasing.

  • Long waiting lists to access counselling and a proper diagnosis
  • Lack of funding for mental health services in general
  • The after effects of Covid and the lockdowns
  • The cost of living crisis and a poor job market putting more and more pressure on people
  • More awareness of and less stigma around mental health issues mean more people are likely to seek help.

I guess it is easier for Streeting to try to gaslight people who are struggling and to suggest that their mental health issues are not real rather than try to fix the root causes.

Rather pathetic and baseless statement from a minister...

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