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To be uncomfortable after my manager went on a rant about how much she hates Meghan Markle during a team meeting?

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AlertBird · 11/03/2025 10:34

So, today, in our team meeting, my manager went on a full-on rant about how much she hates Meghan Markle. It seemed completely out of place and unnecessary, especially considering the meeting was meant to be about work. It got a bit awkward and no one really knew how to react.

I get that people have opinions but I just felt like it was unprofessional to bring something like that up during a work meeting. It felt like a personal issue being projected onto everyone else.

AIBU to feel uncomfortable about this or is it just me being overly sensitive?

OP posts:
Katemax82 · 11/03/2025 16:21

Mosaic123 · 11/03/2025 10:36

It's inappropriate.

Are you concerned that she is racist?

Ffs you don't have to be racist to dislike a mixed race person

Whatacircus · 11/03/2025 16:36

@Lampzade
Amen.
The continuous rewriting of history when it comes to Meghan Markle would be funny if not so serious. The constant ' I only turned against her when she upset the Queen, when she made Kate cry' etc is a load of bullshit.
The media along with much commentary dripped with racism right from the start. How many threads were deleted on here especially in the Royal family section because of racist commentary? The denial that it existed back then is racist in itself. Not all but a substantial amount of commentary.

I posted in response to an earlier question asking why M&H don't show their children. It's because of many threats made to kill them. There are people in jail for those threats. That response as far as I am aware has been ignored. Yet had it been any of the other children in that family there would be regular headlines. Doesn't suit the agenda.

MsNevermore · 11/03/2025 17:00

A regular customer in the pub I used to work in would wax lyrical about Meghan Markle and how much he hated her almost constantly.
One day I simply said: “You hate her so much but she seems to be your favourite topic of conversation. What’s that all about?” 🫠😂

He never mentioned her in front of me again 😂

ProfessionalPirate · 11/03/2025 17:05

Spirallingdownwards · 11/03/2025 13:26

Not if you read what I actually said which is "usually" not "always". Hit a nerve?

Come off it. Sticking a ‘usually’ in the front there has absolutely no effect on the meaning and intention of your statement.

You’ve made it even worse by the ‘hit a nerve’ at the end. In other words - anyone that disagrees with you could only be a racist, right?

Becs51 · 11/03/2025 17:10

Spirallingdownwards · 11/03/2025 10:40

Usually it does unfortunately but even worse are those that don't recognise their unconscious bias.

What a ridiculous statement! I certainly don’t like her but it has absolutely nothing to do with the colour of her skin. I don’t know her so my opinion is based on what I’ve seen of her and what I’ve read about her.
she comes across as a lot of Americans do and being very self orientated and fame hungry. Her actions scream of someone desperate for fame. They go through all the fuss of leaving the UK because they don’t want the press intrusion and they crave privacy but all their actions since have been the absolute opposite! A tell all book, an explosive interview, too many documentaries and TV series that grace the Netflix screens, the string of family members that she’s disowned etc. I unfortunately think she saw Harry as an opportunity and grabbed it with both hands. Absolutely noting to do with her colour in the slightest.

JandamiHash · 11/03/2025 17:19

Spirallingdownwards · 11/03/2025 13:31

No I said "usually" not "always" those people who have an issue with her do so because they have racist tendencies. It seems to have hit a nerve with you. If people don't fall within the "usually" category then people wouldn't have an issue with my comment.

How do you know the difference? She’s a pretty unlikable character, and the racism they claim (then unclaimed, then claimed again) isn’t backed up by anything really except American’s misunderstanding of British words.

Of course people have issue with your comment, you can pretend “Ph I didn’t mean you” all you like but blanket statements like that are provocative and frankly, the trappings of a dim person.

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:21

Markle Derangement Syndrome needs to be a recognised mental illness.

The level of hatred people seem to have for her does not appear to be in line with anything she has actually done.

It’s absolutely unhinged!

Especially now her and Hazza are off living their best lives in the USA and the Daily Mail are still churning out 50 articles a day on them. Anybody would think she was the head of a paedophile ring.

TheMorels · 11/03/2025 17:24

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:21

Markle Derangement Syndrome needs to be a recognised mental illness.

The level of hatred people seem to have for her does not appear to be in line with anything she has actually done.

It’s absolutely unhinged!

Especially now her and Hazza are off living their best lives in the USA and the Daily Mail are still churning out 50 articles a day on them. Anybody would think she was the head of a paedophile ring.

Edited

I agree. It’s absolutely rife on here.

I don’t think I’ve ever heard a rl person slag her off once. Some people on here seem obsessed with her.

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:24

And OP in regards your manager she is batshit crazy and unprofessional.

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:29

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 13:43

I must be a terrible racist because even though I don't know M Markle, I don't like so many things about her. I'm white so I must dislike her because of her race.
I am going to have to report myself to my cousin's wife. She is black and we are very close friends and I love their children and they call me auntie. They'll all be surprised that I'm racist.

LOL!!

”I’m not racist one of my friends is black!”

I cannot believe people still do this. 😂

Juicymango1 · 11/03/2025 17:34

I'd love to to go to work and get paid for just listening to celebrities gossip. What job is this!??

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:39

TheMorels · 11/03/2025 17:24

I agree. It’s absolutely rife on here.

I don’t think I’ve ever heard a rl person slag her off once. Some people on here seem obsessed with her.

Unfortunately I have met a few Markle derangers in real life. One friend we have agreed she cannot mention her to me.

On any other topic she is calm, reasonable and rational. Then the topic of Markle comes up and bloody hell. She loses it.

I cannot say I have a few on her either way and from little I see of her in the public eye she is not somebody I would be friends with but the level of hatred and insistance on knowing the ins and outs of her relationship with Harry are just weird. The tone of some comments are also a tad misogynistic.

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 17:44

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:29

LOL!!

”I’m not racist one of my friends is black!”

I cannot believe people still do this. 😂

Well that isn't what I said, but you go on taking all the offence you possibly can if it makes you happy.

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:46

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 17:44

Well that isn't what I said, but you go on taking all the offence you possibly can if it makes you happy.

But it is what you said though isn’t it! It’s the essence of that argument.

”I’m not racist, one of my cousin’s is married to a black woman who I’m friends with” is not really any different.

It’s hilarious!

Who took offence? I am laughing at you!

Munnygirl · 11/03/2025 17:48

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:46

But it is what you said though isn’t it! It’s the essence of that argument.

”I’m not racist, one of my cousin’s is married to a black woman who I’m friends with” is not really any different.

It’s hilarious!

Who took offence? I am laughing at you!

Edited

Has it occurred to you that she actually isn’t racist
and she just has an opinion just like
you? Because it seems to me the world is used to shut down even the merest whiff of criticism aimed at M

Lampzade · 11/03/2025 17:52

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 16:19

You don't know the answer then.
No offence, but if you don't fully understand your subject, you shouldn't pontificate on social media.

Just the kind of answer I expected from someone who doesn’t have any desire to be educated

AnEagerSleeper · 11/03/2025 17:52

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:39

Unfortunately I have met a few Markle derangers in real life. One friend we have agreed she cannot mention her to me.

On any other topic she is calm, reasonable and rational. Then the topic of Markle comes up and bloody hell. She loses it.

I cannot say I have a few on her either way and from little I see of her in the public eye she is not somebody I would be friends with but the level of hatred and insistance on knowing the ins and outs of her relationship with Harry are just weird. The tone of some comments are also a tad misogynistic.

That is the thing though isn’t it she is the target of a hell of a lot of internalised misogyny from women. I mean if you don’t know her why do you have such a strong opinion on her either way.

The reaction she induced in Piers Morgan and Jeremy Clarkson was beyond deranged and she weirdly has the same impact on a lot of women.

Munnygirl · 11/03/2025 17:52

Lampzade · 11/03/2025 17:52

Just the kind of answer I expected from someone who doesn’t have any desire to be educated

Why don’t you answer her then and educate ?

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 17:52

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:46

But it is what you said though isn’t it! It’s the essence of that argument.

”I’m not racist, one of my cousin’s is married to a black woman who I’m friends with” is not really any different.

It’s hilarious!

Who took offence? I am laughing at you!

Edited

No, you're wrong.
Just out of interest, are you white?

Lampzade · 11/03/2025 17:53

JHound · 11/03/2025 17:29

LOL!!

”I’m not racist one of my friends is black!”

I cannot believe people still do this. 😂

I know right .

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 18:03

Lampzade · 11/03/2025 17:52

Just the kind of answer I expected from someone who doesn’t have any desire to be educated

I am very well educated, thanks for your concern. Educated enough to smell bullshit.

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 18:04

Munnygirl · 11/03/2025 17:52

Why don’t you answer her then and educate ?

She's too busy being offended on Meghan's behalf

CalicoPusscat · 11/03/2025 18:06

Eeks, no manager shouldn't do that. Is there any way to put in a complaint?

JHound · 11/03/2025 18:06

Wendolino · 11/03/2025 17:52

No, you're wrong.
Just out of interest, are you white?

Edited

How can I be wrong about what you said. Have you forgotten what you wrote?!

😂

Americano75 · 11/03/2025 18:07

God, she sounds deranged, the level of hatred for this woman is insane. Your manager needs to step away from the Daily Mail and get the biggest of grips.