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‘Game the system’ disability benefits

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Tomatochocolate · 05/03/2025 11:30

WTF
just read a bbc article about welfare reforms

Apparently ministers think that it’s an incentive to claim disability benefits as the incentive is no work commitments on UC. That claimants ‘game the system’

It’s a long process and really hard to get awarded dla or pip. It’s not just ticking a box that says ‘I’m too sick to work’.

AIBU to think this is just horrific

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Labraradabrador · 06/03/2025 22:57

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 22:42

I did a yr long community programme as a catering assistant at a community center when I was 19. Did not lead to other work.

Did 2 years volunteering at a Barnardo's shop. If I started at the time they wanted me there. I had to pay for the full bus fare. The person in charge went on a lot of holidays then came back to show us the pictures.

I did my nvq in retail there.

I left after yet more holiday pictures deciding to do house work at home if spending more to be there.

If going for interviews that require being on your feet you get told it may be too much being disabled. So go for call centre jobs to be told it may be too much because of all the sitting.

Defeatist do's not exist in my world!!

You are describing one year of paid work that didn’t magically lead to more work, followed by 2 years volunteering that didn’t magically translate to a paid position and concluding that paid work is impossible? Hate to break it to you, but even nt non disabled candidates sometimes have to apply to dozens of positions before achieving a job, and even then it sometimes doesn’t work out. What you describe sounds pretty normal in terms of failure regardless of any disability.

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 22:59

Labraradabrador · 06/03/2025 22:57

You are describing one year of paid work that didn’t magically lead to more work, followed by 2 years volunteering that didn’t magically translate to a paid position and concluding that paid work is impossible? Hate to break it to you, but even nt non disabled candidates sometimes have to apply to dozens of positions before achieving a job, and even then it sometimes doesn’t work out. What you describe sounds pretty normal in terms of failure regardless of any disability.

I did apply for a lot of jobs. But I am not posting my full life story for randoms on a forum.🙄

Labraradabrador · 06/03/2025 23:03

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 22:56

Universal basic income: Plans drawn up for £1,600 a month trial in England

Want a fair option?? If all got the above, and did not have to work. Would you be happy then?

Absolutely not! I cannot imagine what my tax bill would be if £1,600 went back to every adult. It would also result in massive inflation with rents, etc. rising accordingly so that the 1,600 wouldn’t cover much.

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 23:08

I don't know how it would actually work. But ppl on here think the disabled can live in luxury for less. So lets see all live on the same you can all sleep in happy days.

Labraradabrador · 06/03/2025 23:11

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 22:59

I did apply for a lot of jobs. But I am not posting my full life story for randoms on a forum.🙄

Most people have to apply for lots of jobs, though - I think I applied for 50+ before landing an entry level position. I remember being turned down for roles that felt’ beneath’ my education/ ability and being frustrated and confused.

it can be extra difficult for people with nd / other disabilities to launch, but it is possible, and it is far better for everyone if independence is achieved.

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 23:24

Labraradabrador · 06/03/2025 23:11

Most people have to apply for lots of jobs, though - I think I applied for 50+ before landing an entry level position. I remember being turned down for roles that felt’ beneath’ my education/ ability and being frustrated and confused.

it can be extra difficult for people with nd / other disabilities to launch, but it is possible, and it is far better for everyone if independence is achieved.

Depends on what your disability is, and how severe it looks. My experience any way. They seem to focus on ppl with downs, and wheelchair users. They see them on tv a lot.

DaveyTheCavy · 06/03/2025 23:25

verysmellyjelly · 06/03/2025 20:54

Also, apologies to anyone with whom I've been snappy or abrupt on this thread. I think we do all basically want the same thing which is for those in need to have access to support, albeit with different ideas about how it should be delivered. No one wants others to suffer. And it's a tough topic for everyone Flowers

No problem at all. Thanks for sharing your perspective. Flowers

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 23:30

Talking of independence I live alone, I started my own independent bookshop, and ran it for 6yrs until I ran out of money. And the first recession hit the uk and rents got silly. So less of the life lessons!

Labraradabrador · 06/03/2025 23:32

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 23:30

Talking of independence I live alone, I started my own independent bookshop, and ran it for 6yrs until I ran out of money. And the first recession hit the uk and rents got silly. So less of the life lessons!

We all have setbacks, though. It doesn’t mean you are incapable of supporting yourself.

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 23:39

Labraradabrador · 06/03/2025 23:32

We all have setbacks, though. It doesn’t mean you are incapable of supporting yourself.

I was a lot younger then though, and on pip. I have more heath issues now.

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 23:40

Guys watch the UBI videos on youtube.

JoyousGreyOrca · 07/03/2025 00:10

Someone said there should be proper support to help people with mental health problems into work. There is. They visit you at home, and provide a lot of support. But you have to be under a psychiatrist to be eligible.

JoyousGreyOrca · 07/03/2025 00:11

@dawngreen if you were a catering assistant, then kitchens are crying out for staff.

XenoBitch · 07/03/2025 00:12

JoyousGreyOrca · 07/03/2025 00:10

Someone said there should be proper support to help people with mental health problems into work. There is. They visit you at home, and provide a lot of support. But you have to be under a psychiatrist to be eligible.

I was under the NHS and a psychiatrist for years. There was no support in regard to getting into work... the only people I know who had the sort of help you mentioned was people who were taking time out from a job they were already in.

My local Mind used to help with getting people into work (they helped my DP find a job), but they no longer offer this.

JoyousGreyOrca · 07/03/2025 00:16

@XenoBitch I am not talking about in the past, but now. There are work support people as part of CMHTs in England. But your psychiatrist has to refer you. They help you either keep a job, get into work, or into volunteering.

XenoBitch · 07/03/2025 00:18

JoyousGreyOrca · 07/03/2025 00:16

@XenoBitch I am not talking about in the past, but now. There are work support people as part of CMHTs in England. But your psychiatrist has to refer you. They help you either keep a job, get into work, or into volunteering.

Well, if they do that now, then that is really good, and I hope it helps a lot of people.
I am no longer under a psychiatrist, or under CMHT.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 07:27

dawngreen · 06/03/2025 23:24

Depends on what your disability is, and how severe it looks. My experience any way. They seem to focus on ppl with downs, and wheelchair users. They see them on tv a lot.

Well until 10 years ago or so that was the profile of a ‘disabled person’. And the answer was easy - install ramps and make sure jobs are accessible and have disabled toilets etc, or in the case of Downs find jobs which suit their level of understanding and ability. I’ve known several people with Downs who work.

With the advent of neurodiversity it’s been much harder as it’s basically a person saying most things make them anxious or give them some kind of aversion, so that’s very hard to work with. What could they suggest?

The jobs market, on paper, has never been more ND friendly - lots of part time hours, working from home, a lot of technology. We have good employment laws around disability. I feel a bit like if it’s impossible for you to work now for one reason or another, it’s hard to see what can be done to be more accommodating that is also realistic (because employers will always need the basics of their employee committing to their working hours, doing what is asked of them etc)

dawngreen · 07/03/2025 09:08

I don't know any one who is ND. And I never needed any adaptions or disabled toilets.

curliegirlie · 07/03/2025 09:18

Absolutely there is a certain proportion of people with DS who could work - for example those who are already holding down regular volunteering positions, but the number of employers willing to take a punt with them, adapt recruitment processes, give them the support they need etc is vanishingly slim, and I imagine that many of those that do, do so under schemes like the Down's Syndrome Association's WorkFit or are businesses or charities particularly catering for employees with learning difficulties.

I really really hope for my daughter's sake we don't go further down the road of penalising those who can't work or find it incredibly difficult to find employment through no fault of their own.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 09:25

@curliegirlie does your daughter have DS? I really don’t think there is a single person out there who would say disability benefits shouldn’t apply to a person with DS, or conditions like it. The pushback seems to be against medium level MH issues, ND where the person was able to live and work for years but suddenly got diagnosed with ADHD in their 40s and now ‘needs financial support’. The only reason this is all going under a microscope if because of the sharp acceleration in claims, nearly all due to MH related conditions, to the point the bill is set to double in 5 years. It’s not at all an invalid concern.

richardosmanstrousers · 07/03/2025 09:32

@Wildflowers99

The jobs market, on paper, has never been more ND friendly - lots of part time hours, working from home, a lot of technology. We have good employment laws around disability. I feel a bit like if it’s impossible for you to work now for one reason or another, it’s hard to see what can be done to be more accommodating that is also realistic (because employers will always need the basics of their employee committing to their working hours, doing what is asked of them etc)

Ok, so with a calmer head n, let's go back to my autistic son who you think should go to work. He has only spoken to members of the immediate family for years. He needs support daily to just exist. He cannot make a slice of toast, he needs support to toilet. Every single day. He cannot communicate with the outside world. He barely communicates with us verbally but he can sometimes do it. The vast majority is non verbal communication. How is he going to work?

I think your problem here is that you are ignorant about autism and seem to think the only reasons autism could be disabling is if learning difficulties also exist.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 09:59

So just to revisit my old post - if you ask him to brush his teeth (for example) what exactly is stopping him? If not a learning difficulty or physical inability? I’m trying to understand it, I really am.

richardosmanstrousers · 07/03/2025 10:14

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 09:59

So just to revisit my old post - if you ask him to brush his teeth (for example) what exactly is stopping him? If not a learning difficulty or physical inability? I’m trying to understand it, I really am.

I wonder why me saying 'it's time to brush your teeth' has any relevance in terms of getting a job?

I never said he can't or doesn't brush his teeth either; it's much more complex than that.

However what I do see is that my suggestion you were being ableist yesterday was absolutely correct. You seem to think the absence of a learning disability/difficulty means an autistic person cannot be severely disabled by their condition. That is ableist regardless of where of not you are doing it intentionally or genuinely think autism alone cannot disable a person to the extreme.

I'm not here to go back and forth about some weird tooth brushing scenario, but if you genuinely are trying to understand there are a lot of really good and reliable resources out there which will be able to explain autism far better than I can.

verysmellyjelly · 07/03/2025 10:16

@richardosmanstrousers Not knowing how autism affects someone doesn't make Wildflowers ableist, actually. It isn't helpful to keep accusing others in the thread of ableism. I suggest you stop using your son as an example if you can't discuss him without attacking other posters.

richardosmanstrousers · 07/03/2025 10:23

verysmellyjelly · 07/03/2025 10:16

@richardosmanstrousers Not knowing how autism affects someone doesn't make Wildflowers ableist, actually. It isn't helpful to keep accusing others in the thread of ableism. I suggest you stop using your son as an example if you can't discuss him without attacking other posters.

I haven't been accusing others I said I i to one person. As I said previously I can use any example I choose. I'm not sure why you are trying to control what I say here?

And yes it is ableist to suggest someone with autism could not possible be severely disabled and unable to work. To suggest they don't 'lean into their MH' - there is a huge misunderstanding and whether intentional or not that is ableism.

I'm not being dragged back into a back and forth here, if that poster genuinely wants to learn they can do so. I suspect they will continue to hold on correct views about autism though, that's the usual stance on here.

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