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I'm sorry, with love is meghan is awful

1000 replies

Tricho · 05/03/2025 08:28

I tried.

I really did.

But JFC it's absolutely awful.

"Come and watch me make the most basic of crafts while telling me how much you admire me, and I gently patronise you"

Really awful.

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Broccoli456 · 05/03/2025 10:45

She's trying to hard, I think people would genuinely be interested in seeing the real Meghan.

Lestelle · 05/03/2025 10:46

I have only seen one clip. She opens a bag of pretzels and puts them into a new plastic bag, which she then tied up with her own hand-written tag. The plastic waste was infuriating, will not be watching.

Beabeautiful · 05/03/2025 10:47

Givemestrength1000 · 05/03/2025 10:44

It’s not nasty to call out a nasty bully for who they are. The fact you defend it with a random theoretical statement that you have no idea about tells me all I need to know about you too.

But Meghan won't see this so how can that be bullying? - the poster will see that you wished she/he didn't have children.

laveritable · 05/03/2025 10:48

SerafinasGoose · 05/03/2025 09:33

It's hate.

Sick to the back teeth of seeing the unending reams of pixels publicly excoriating this woman on the www. She does not deserve it. No, she really doesn't. She's not into drowning kittens, she's not a despotic ruler or responsible for invading other countries (unlike the one her president is currently cosying up to). Nothing she's done could ever be proportionate to the pitch and volume of the sickening hatred and bullying levelled at her. Lucy Letby gets an easier public ride than Meghan Markle. Priorities.

(Were this post not on AIBU, I'd not have seen it. The gossip boards on the Windsor family are all it's fit for).

Lucy Letby gets an easier public ride than Meghan Markle!

This is it!

Layla120 · 05/03/2025 10:48

Laiste · 05/03/2025 09:16

Oh the Barefoot Contessa!

Me and one of my DDs used to watch that and laugh a lot about Jeffery. Sent out to buy a cabbage or something, through the Hamptons in his convertible BMW, and returned with the wrong thing. He's supposed to be an intelligent man in charge of a £££ company!

And all the pastel jumper wearing gay mates of hers coming over for brunch. And the beach picnics in howling gales while Ina randomly laughs her head off ... Confused😂

Now that actually sounds good! 😂

Beabeautiful · 05/03/2025 10:49

I think she's put a lot of work into this series, it's beautifully filmed, I just wish she'd cooked more. People make a living out of Meghan bashing which is a sad state of affairs.

Givemestrength1000 · 05/03/2025 10:50

Beabeautiful · 05/03/2025 10:47

But Meghan won't see this so how can that be bullying? - the poster will see that you wished she/he didn't have children.

She’s mentioned multiple times about the amplification of hate against her on social media. You should take responsibility - just because you’re posting anonymously on a forum, doesn’t mean it’s not bullying.

Your statement is ridiculous. If a child was being bullied online, would you tell them it’s not bullying if they don’t look at the comments.?

LBFseBrom · 05/03/2025 10:51

The title f this thread is awful. Read it - you should proof read before posting.

Fair enough if you don't like the woman but nobody forced you to watch it. I do like her but couldn't be bothered with watching something like that, it seems banal to me and even more so from someone so capable of other things.

However at least she is trying, let's give her that, and no doubt anything she does publicly is much edited, so leave her alone.

Butterfly123456 · 05/03/2025 10:53

I'm watching the 1st episode. Her guest tasted the wedding cake with her and she didn't remember it. The stuff they're doing together is really basic.
She is not a cook and doesn't really have any expertise in anything that she's showing. And she doesn't have the looks and charm of Nigella (someone above mentioned that she gives 'bossy' vibes - I agree). It's a 'No' from me. I agree that she should be doing a fashion programme, I'd believe her more.

laveritable · 05/03/2025 10:54

I do NOT like MM! so what do I do? SCROLL PAST! Not cease every opportunity to "display mean school girl bully antics" ! On here we get 2/3 mean post about Meghan every week! Get a life!

Gruttenberg · 05/03/2025 10:54

Redpeach · 05/03/2025 09:20

I don't watch it and i don't start hate filled threads

It's not hate filled though, OP is making valid comments and sharing what she thinks. It doesn't mean she's invested in MM, just that she's incredulous that the bag of shite was allowed on screen.

Leaverstobe · 05/03/2025 10:59

Zone2NorthLondon · 05/03/2025 10:41

MM creates an onscreen persona and lifestyle brand to promote her show
Other women like Nigella use their good looks and have a persona & brand to promote too. Nigella is a shite cook with a god awful set of shows awful but is not subject to the derision MM is.

This.

She's part of that celebrity set who make money by playing into a certain aspirational image/look and a lot of people are into that.

Nigella is posh rich Englishwoman, Meghan is California diverse wholesome liberal rich woman. Jamie Oliver is cockney geezer.

Same as corporate men get money/get promoted to leading roles for turning up to meetings and being a tall white bloke in a suit.

It's not really creatively groundbreaking or innovative but it's her way of making money.

Her products look like utter tat but honestly a lot of people (me included) have been tat consumers in the past.

It's not like she's selling weapons or conning people out of their pension funds.

I actually think she works best if she just buys into the celebrity image - she's a beautiful rich woman married to a rich man, the humanitarian/politics stuff seems a bit jarring?

I prefer seeing Rose Hanbury walking smoothly around her posh house being ridiculously ultra posh than Kate Middleton pretending to find poor kids interesting.

Ilikeadrink14 · 05/03/2025 11:03

passwordaboutyou · 05/03/2025 09:30

Is that their house? It's amazing! I don't mind it, don't love it. Am watching it because it's MM

Apparently, it is the house of a neighbour. So we don’t get to see the inside of MM’s house. No surprise there, really. I shan’t be watching it.

StoutOldTrout · 05/03/2025 11:06

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MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 05/03/2025 11:10

I'm really enjoying it, it's exactly the kind of thing I like.
Crafts, lifestyle, baking, cooking, it's a bit of escapism as well - lovely Californian sunshine and buildings/gardens instead of the dreary grey of here 😁
Watched a couple of episodes last night, looking forward to watching some more tonight.
Definitely going to have to have a go at that one pot spaghetti, looked lovely and something everyone in this house would actually love which is a rarity to get us all eating the same thing lately 🙄😁

Drfosters · 05/03/2025 11:13

I think the issue for me is that if I am watching a programme like this I want I know that the person instructing knows more than I do and so can learn from them. Martha S and Nigella had careers in food, writing and business before they developed their TV careers so had something to bring to the table. The issue with MM and others like her is that I kind of feel like I already know this stuff and I can put together a platter of chopped fruit myself. If MM went and did a food qualification and then spent a few years writing etc then I’d be interested to hear what she had to say. It is the same problem that has befallen people like Brooklyn Beckham- why should be listen to people who know less than we do? Do the time, get the experience and then come and speak to us.

Laserwho · 05/03/2025 11:13

You can give kids fruit for breakfast, really? Oh wait I've been doing that since they where babies now teens 😆 it's certainly not as groundbreaking as she seems to think.

SerafinasGoose · 05/03/2025 11:16

Leaverstobe · 05/03/2025 10:59

This.

She's part of that celebrity set who make money by playing into a certain aspirational image/look and a lot of people are into that.

Nigella is posh rich Englishwoman, Meghan is California diverse wholesome liberal rich woman. Jamie Oliver is cockney geezer.

Same as corporate men get money/get promoted to leading roles for turning up to meetings and being a tall white bloke in a suit.

It's not really creatively groundbreaking or innovative but it's her way of making money.

Her products look like utter tat but honestly a lot of people (me included) have been tat consumers in the past.

It's not like she's selling weapons or conning people out of their pension funds.

I actually think she works best if she just buys into the celebrity image - she's a beautiful rich woman married to a rich man, the humanitarian/politics stuff seems a bit jarring?

I prefer seeing Rose Hanbury walking smoothly around her posh house being ridiculously ultra posh than Kate Middleton pretending to find poor kids interesting.

Nigella Lawson was, like her brother, a quality journalist and an Oxford graduate. She was a writer by trade and a good one. She made the natural progression from critic to book reviewer to restaurant critic, and then branched out into cookery-writing. (But to this day the title Domestic Goddess makes me cringe).

Her career was therefore a natural progression and she also hooked onto a zeitgeist of the late 90s/early noughties: an aesthetics of comfortable, cosy domesticity, cottagecore, Rick Stein and River Cottage on the TV and lots of typically English programmes about making our homes our castles. This time was - up until 2001 at least - one of comfortable affluence, cosy predictablility, and minimal political upheaval.

Those times are gone. The credit bubble has long since burst, we've lived through a steady period of economic deflation and global unrest, the cost of living has hugely elevated without a proportional increase in income, and individual/identity politics have become increasingly divisive and eclipse the interests of the collective. The way in which we consume our media is also rapidly changing. Internet chat rooms imploded as they became more and more toxic and no provider would risk continuing to run them, then Facebook, Friends Reunited and MySpace died a death along with blogging and travel writing.

Nigella had privileged political and social connections, was media savvy, and was in the right place at the right time to capitalise on a particular social mood. These windows of opportunity tend not to last long, particularly given the unprecedented rate of change in the way people consume material.

Sadly, what's 'selling' to the public at present is a whole load of SM influencing structured around the image of the trad wife, a raft of fantastical conspiracy theories, and a great deal of male rights activism. We are, in short, leaning much more prominently to the right. That's worrying.

But where on earth this leaves someone who wants to sell SM content of a gentler and less politicised variety is less certain.

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 05/03/2025 11:16

Where has she claimed to be a cook? She hasn't.
It's like a lifestyle blog but televised. Bet she's devastated you think she's no Nigella 🙄😂
Not sure where you get the "bossy" bit from, I didn't get that at all?
I got the exact opposite in fact. Like when she was talking to her friend about sandwiches for kids parties, she was mentioning a few different options she could do, and saying "do you think your kids would go for that?" wanting and caring about her opinion.
As for the cake, it's clear she did remember - he said "I was doing the cake tasting" or something like that and she said "ah yes, that's right, you were"
just like you would if a friend brought something like that up.

Matronic6 · 05/03/2025 11:16

laveritable · 05/03/2025 10:54

I do NOT like MM! so what do I do? SCROLL PAST! Not cease every opportunity to "display mean school girl bully antics" ! On here we get 2/3 mean post about Meghan every week! Get a life!

But you haven't scrolled past. You are commenting.

MM is a public figure she has produced this content for public consumption, the bottom line being to make money. They have heavily advertised it with the goal of getting as many people as possible to watch it. Like everyone else who produces such content the public will have an opinion on it and share it. It's unfortunate for her it's not positive but that's the reality of making any kind of entertainment, it will be judged. The criticism is not unique to her Brooklyn Beckham got absolutely slated for his similar efforts.

muhlezur · 05/03/2025 11:16

The promotion for this With Love, Meghan show has been MASSIVE, global, so of course people are going to be interested to see what it is all about, that's the idea behind the PR, getting peoples attention.

People will watch it, come to an opinion, good or bad and then discuss it. In this case, for a lot of viewers, the actual show is so far removed from the PR it would be hard not to comment, lets not forget it is being panned on a global scale too, by professional TV critics..

I don't understand why some people take such offence to people having an opinion about With Love, Meghan not living up to the hype.

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 05/03/2025 11:17

That was supposed to be quoting @Butterfly123456 ,stupid site keeps crashing/ freezing

Hypercatalectic · 05/03/2025 11:19

I watched it, and went straight on to episode 2. I didn't want to watch the news with all the horrible stuff going on, I wanted a bit of fluff and frippery, something nice to look at, maybe get some ideas for making my dining table look nice. I took it all at face value and found it soothing.

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 05/03/2025 11:20

Drfosters · 05/03/2025 11:13

I think the issue for me is that if I am watching a programme like this I want I know that the person instructing knows more than I do and so can learn from them. Martha S and Nigella had careers in food, writing and business before they developed their TV careers so had something to bring to the table. The issue with MM and others like her is that I kind of feel like I already know this stuff and I can put together a platter of chopped fruit myself. If MM went and did a food qualification and then spent a few years writing etc then I’d be interested to hear what she had to say. It is the same problem that has befallen people like Brooklyn Beckham- why should be listen to people who know less than we do? Do the time, get the experience and then come and speak to us.

I can easily put a platter of fruit together as well.
The fact she isn't a professional, she just comes across as someone wanting to share an insight into her life to me - it's a type of lifestyle blog.
If I wanted professional chefs or whatever it wanted to learn, I'd go watch a cooking channel or something.

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 05/03/2025 11:20

Hypercatalectic · 05/03/2025 11:19

I watched it, and went straight on to episode 2. I didn't want to watch the news with all the horrible stuff going on, I wanted a bit of fluff and frippery, something nice to look at, maybe get some ideas for making my dining table look nice. I took it all at face value and found it soothing.

Exact same for me

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