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To think Britain should have nothing to do with this war

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Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 12:54

After yesterday's news, Britain shouldn't be the one funding war as USA has said they are out now. There's no chance Britain can fight this war alone with Ukraine against Russia.
Since this war started, our life has only become miserable with CoL increase.
AIBU to think we shouldn't have anything to do this war and we should fix our own problems first before giving away our tax money?

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Patterncarmen · 01/03/2025 17:02

Hillsmakeyoustrong · 01/03/2025 16:53

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TW war crimes

Currently, 18% of Ukraine is occupied by Russia which is the same land mass as 45% of the UK.

Imagine 45% of the UK being occupied by, let's say, France, who in this example do not recognise us as a sovereign country. Initially, they demand London capitulates and the government submits to French rule. Obviously, we won't, so they invade our borders and begin to systematically kill off towns and villages, they dig mass graves for the dead (and half dead), forcibly deport our children for adoption by French families (because we are Nazis) rape men and women, old and young, boys and girls, in front of their families, and video the removal of penises of POWs and sharing this on SM. They torture our pets, literally raze the city of Hull to the ground (equivalent to Mariupol in geographical size) and eventually occupy 45% of our land, whilst relentlessly bombing the other 55%, day after day, for three years. Thousands of civilians are killed, 70,000 soldiers dead, likely members of your family and friends.

For those who don't care about this current genocide happening on European soil (3.5 hrs away so closer than the Canaries, Greek Islands etc) let me appeal to your long term security...

I know this line is trotted out ad infinitum but it is the truth - Ukraine is fighting this war for Ukraine first, and Europe second. If Putin conquers Ukraine he will 100% invade the next country on his list. He desperately wants mother Russia to be restored to her rightful place, the most powerful empire in the world. So, whilst he might not want to take anything (much) beyond the Baltic nations, and the UK may remain physically in tact, our sovereignty would depend on the mercy of a monstrous predator with a huge nuclear arsenal, their borders now much closer to home. Make no mistake, we would become increasingly subjugated to Russia, not in the future, but in our lifetimes and most certainly in our children's lifetimes.

You might not want a fight, but they do.

100 percent. Putin wants to hurry along a deal because his army is weaker from all the sustained fighting. With Ukraine out of the way, he can expand his horizons to other countries. And unlike WWII, the Americans will just watch it happen.

Panama2 · 01/03/2025 17:07

I don’t think we are war hungry just realistic. There’s a reason we are not all speaking German,Russian or Chinese now.

Biscuitsnotcookies · 01/03/2025 17:07

It’s important that the right decisions are now made by other world leaders. The US can choose to bail if they wish, but there is still plenty of support for Ukraine that can be utilised without robbing them blind.

DuncinToffee · 01/03/2025 17:07

Former Conservative MP and British Attorney General Dominic Grieve:

To think Britain should have nothing to do with this war
WhereYouLeftIt · 01/03/2025 17:08

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 13:24

Pressure should be put on Russia to cease fire.

And exactly what pressure do you think will work?

Honestly, you are coming across as completely gullible naive. Putin WANTS war. He wants to be President not of Russia, but of the USSR. If he gets Ukraine, which countries will then come under into his sights? All of them.

Blinkingbonkers · 01/03/2025 17:11

Blimey op - are you really that ill educated that you don’t understand the ramifications of appeasing Putin and the wider issues that this would create?

monkeysox · 01/03/2025 17:12

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 12:54

After yesterday's news, Britain shouldn't be the one funding war as USA has said they are out now. There's no chance Britain can fight this war alone with Ukraine against Russia.
Since this war started, our life has only become miserable with CoL increase.
AIBU to think we shouldn't have anything to do this war and we should fix our own problems first before giving away our tax money?

Nope. We need to stand up for what is right.

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:14

WhereYouLeftIt · 01/03/2025 17:08

And exactly what pressure do you think will work?

Honestly, you are coming across as completely gullible naive. Putin WANTS war. He wants to be President not of Russia, but of the USSR. If he gets Ukraine, which countries will then come under into his sights? All of them.

Even if Putin did want to rule over a vast empire, that's not feasible and his generals must know it. Putin has survived one attempted coup d'état since the start of the war, and it may not be the last.

RubyTuesday48 · 01/03/2025 17:15

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:01

If Russia is running out of cannon fodder (true) then how is it going to invade the rest of Europe?

Because once they've completed their takeover of Ukraine, the Ukrainians become canon fodder alongside the North Koreans who are already fighting on Putin's behalf.

RubyTuesday48 · 01/03/2025 17:17

WhereYouLeftIt · 01/03/2025 17:08

And exactly what pressure do you think will work?

Honestly, you are coming across as completely gullible naive. Putin WANTS war. He wants to be President not of Russia, but of the USSR. If he gets Ukraine, which countries will then come under into his sights? All of them.

He wants to go back to the days of the Russian Empire.

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:17

RubyTuesday48 · 01/03/2025 17:15

Because once they've completed their takeover of Ukraine, the Ukrainians become canon fodder alongside the North Koreans who are already fighting on Putin's behalf.

And who's going to keep the Ukrainian cannon fodder subjugated? Putin doesn't want to draft Russians and he doesn't have an infinite number of volunteers.

EasternStandard · 01/03/2025 17:18

Biscuitsnotcookies · 01/03/2025 16:58

Our big pants are now needed. Enough is enough, and if Trump has lost his bottle then we are a big enough continent to continue without them.

I'm not sure we have the military kit, hence the problem, and requests for US security

Purplebunnie · 01/03/2025 17:18

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:01

If Russia is running out of cannon fodder (true) then how is it going to invade the rest of Europe?

With the conscripts he gets from Ukraine and once he's successful who knows who will flock to his banner, he's already got troops from North Korea

RubyTuesday48 · 01/03/2025 17:19

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:17

And who's going to keep the Ukrainian cannon fodder subjugated? Putin doesn't want to draft Russians and he doesn't have an infinite number of volunteers.

Hitler managed it so I'm sure if push comes to shove Putin will too.

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:21

Purplebunnie · 01/03/2025 17:18

With the conscripts he gets from Ukraine and once he's successful who knows who will flock to his banner, he's already got troops from North Korea

You're not listening. An empire needs to be ruled from the centre. How will this be done without conscripting Russians? If Putin could do this without risking his own position, he would already have done so.

Hillsmakeyoustrong · 01/03/2025 17:22

Allies join as war unfolds. I'm sure Belarus would join the fray for starters.

Eyesopenwideawake · 01/03/2025 17:24
army GIF

May I remind you...

Rosesducks · 01/03/2025 17:25

Why when anyone suggests x action they refer back to history and auto assume that if we did x then it would be the same ?

just because events are similar or a certain outcome or proposed plan does not mean the rest will be the same

Talonz · 01/03/2025 17:29

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:21

You're not listening. An empire needs to be ruled from the centre. How will this be done without conscripting Russians? If Putin could do this without risking his own position, he would already have done so.

Russia, Iran and China are on the same land mass as Europe. Time will allow Russia to rebuild.

SeriaMau · 01/03/2025 17:31

sahmtoosen · 01/03/2025 13:08

I disagree . I think Putin only wants Ukraine. It’s clearly always been about the natural resources and he thought it would be easy as Zelensky isn’t an experienced politician or leader. I think a lot of countries backing Ukraine were hoping to help and get something in return (access again to those natural resources) but now it’s gone on so long that Trump has steamrollered in and made it clear what it’s always been about, thought he could get it sorted asap and is now losing his temper as he can’t. He will be warning us off next and telling any country that backs Ukraine that they are also going to be responsible for WW3

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So true. And Hitler only wanted Czechoslovakia. If only we had just let him have it.
Oh, wait a minute… 😮

Rosesducks · 01/03/2025 17:32

For those who beat the war drums, tell me what exactly is the preferred endgame?

Do you truly believe that throwing wave after wave of soldiers into the inferno will suddenly make Putin bow his head?

Unless you’re ready to turn the key and bathe the world in nuclear fire, this war doesn’t end with a glorious charge it ends in exhaustion, in rubble, in a battlefield where victory tastes as bitter as defeat.

Yes, I understand the desire for Ukraine to triumph. Its certainly a righteous cause, But tell me have you ever seen a kingdom rise from ashes?

Or does history teach us that when the dust settles, it’s the vultures who feast?

You may claim victory in the end, but when the cities are smouldering ruins and the streets are paved with ghosts, what exactly have you won?

So I ask you how many of you, sitting in your comfortable homes, would still cheer for war if the price was watching Europe burn?

If the choice is between strategy and self-destruction, then only fools choose fire

MikeRafone · 01/03/2025 17:35

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 13:24

Pressure should be put on Russia to cease fire.

Well USA will not be putting pressure on Ukraine for a peacefire - USA want money for this deal.

USA and UK, Russia gave assurance that Ukraine could get rid of its nuclear weapons and they would make sure they weren't invaded

MikeRafone · 01/03/2025 17:36

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Budapest_Memorandum

Charlottejbt · 01/03/2025 17:36

Talonz · 01/03/2025 17:29

Russia, Iran and China are on the same land mass as Europe. Time will allow Russia to rebuild.

The same land mass as Russia... what's your point? You don't appear to be making any sense.

SeriaMau · 01/03/2025 17:36

Rosesducks · 01/03/2025 17:25

Why when anyone suggests x action they refer back to history and auto assume that if we did x then it would be the same ?

just because events are similar or a certain outcome or proposed plan does not mean the rest will be the same

What’s the phrase? Something about those who don’t learn from history are doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past?

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