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696 replies

BackAgainSlimLady · 24/02/2025 12:29

Single cucumbers from the supermarket come wrapped in plastic.. but single courgettes don’t?

if you ask me.. courgettes have a slightly more fragile skin that cucumber.. so why the lack of protection?

OP posts:
Blubbles · 24/02/2025 14:23

BrainWontWorkAnymore · 24/02/2025 13:38

How the flipping heck are pancakes (as in Shrove Tuesday crepes) bloody flapjacks?!?!

Because they are 🤷‍♀️ it's an old term and is used in some parts of the US I understand

MegTheForgetfulCat · 24/02/2025 14:24

ErrolTheDragon · 24/02/2025 14:23

Where does everyone stand on 'squash'? I remember being very puzzled by the recipe Beth in Little Women gave for cooking them when I was a child.

Well if we stood on them it's no wonder they're squashed Wink

custardpyjamas · 24/02/2025 14:24

FeralWoman · 24/02/2025 13:55

@ExcessiveNumberOfNinjas It’s sweet potato in Australia. Available in yellow/orange, white and purple. I think kumara is different. New Zealand might use kumara.

We have three main types of cucumbers in Australia: continental cucumbers (the plastic wrapped ones), Lebanese cucumbers and apple cucumbers. There’s also small versions of Lebanese cucumbers called baby cucumbers or Qukes.

Yes peppers are called capsicums. Small hot things are chillis or chilli peppers.

We also have ridge cucumbers in the UK, slightly spiky fruit and can be grown outside in the cooler UK weather. We can also grow various types of baby cucumber in a greenhouse.

OneTealMentor · 24/02/2025 14:24

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 12:55

YANBU. But I had to google 'courgettes'. Very strange word to use. Not sure why you can't say zucchini which is what it is.

Yabu

ErrolTheDragon · 24/02/2025 14:25

Canadians say zucchini and eggplant
I'm Canadian.

Thanks @Burnserns .
(And now of course I want to know if this also applies to francophone Canadians if they are speaking in French, and in English)

ThisKindOpalCrab · 24/02/2025 14:25

Crepes are not flapjacks.

Crepes are crepes.

Fluffy pancakes (American or Scotch pancakes) would be flapjacks.

Primmyhill · 24/02/2025 14:26

Bigearringsbigsmile · 24/02/2025 13:11

No it's not!!

Deserts is correct.

Burnserns · 24/02/2025 14:26

ErrolTheDragon · 24/02/2025 14:25

Canadians say zucchini and eggplant
I'm Canadian.

Thanks @Burnserns .
(And now of course I want to know if this also applies to francophone Canadians if they are speaking in French, and in English)

My dad is a francophone canadian. He says zucchini and eggplant (when speaking English).

Edit- also says zucchini when speaking in French. I don't think I've ever heard him say eggplant in French. In fairness we're Acadian, so the language is a bit hybridised with English. My aunt (who's first language is also French is a French teacher so I can ask).

ThisKindOpalCrab · 24/02/2025 14:27

I don't want to argue with a Canadian but I feel a bit Hmmthat quebecois wouldn't say courgettes.

InveterateWineDrinker · 24/02/2025 14:27

MegTheForgetfulCat · 24/02/2025 14:24

Well if we stood on them it's no wonder they're squashed Wink

You've obviously never seen the butternut squashes at my local Tesco. They could be sent to Ukraine, repurposed as artillery shells.

Diningtableornot · 24/02/2025 14:28

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 12:55

YANBU. But I had to google 'courgettes'. Very strange word to use. Not sure why you can't say zucchini which is what it is.

Courgette is UK English. Zucchini American English. And Italian.

MegTheForgetfulCat · 24/02/2025 14:28

ThisKindOpalCrab · 24/02/2025 14:23

She was absolutely rude, but individual rude people don't make it acceptable to respond that way about an entire country.

If you're going to assume Americans are stupid and unaware of other countries, please first remember that other countries that speak English exist. It's a bit ironic really.

And as an actual American who has used mumsnet for 15 years or so, this is the first time I've seen a foreigner pick up someone about word use

It's always British posters complaining a word has been used that is gasp American.

Even when the poster is from Birmingham and repeats repeatedly that she has always said "mom" and not in anyway influenced by YouTube.

I'm not defending the tedious anti-American/anti-Aussie sentiments, just pointing out that some people were simply responding to a rude comment. I agree with everything else you say (and yes, I don't know how people can't grasp that there are millions of people in the West Midlands who either call their mother "Mom" or know plenty of people who do!).

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 24/02/2025 14:29

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 12:55

YANBU. But I had to google 'courgettes'. Very strange word to use. Not sure why you can't say zucchini which is what it is.

Zucchini tend to be smaller than what we call ‘courgettes’ in England (and France , bien entendu). And no, we are not going to call them ‘baby marrows’ because they are different varieties although the same family.

ThisKindOpalCrab · 24/02/2025 14:30

Crossposted with Burnserns. I assumed the question was about when speaking French.

RafaFan · 24/02/2025 14:30

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 12:55

YANBU. But I had to google 'courgettes'. Very strange word to use. Not sure why you can't say zucchini which is what it is.

Zucchini is such a strange word, like cilantro and eggplant. Not sure why Americans can't just call them courgette, coriander and aubergine, which is what they are. And don't get me started on rutabaga.

ProfessionalPirate · 24/02/2025 14:30

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 12:55

YANBU. But I had to google 'courgettes'. Very strange word to use. Not sure why you can't say zucchini which is what it is.

An Americanism! 😱

Beekeepingmum · 24/02/2025 14:31

Lyn397 · 24/02/2025 13:23

Bet you don't know what a fanny is either. Or what it is to feel randy.

Feeling Randy is sexual assault that is what it is..... Keep your hands off him :-)

whatonearthisgoingonnow · 24/02/2025 14:31

ThisKindOpalCrab · 24/02/2025 14:25

Crepes are not flapjacks.

Crepes are crepes.

Fluffy pancakes (American or Scotch pancakes) would be flapjacks.

Why would you have one word to describe both American pancakes and Scotch pancakes? Bizarre.

AngelicKaty · 24/02/2025 14:32

ChessorBuckaroo · 24/02/2025 13:52

Is it true that the ou and re spelling is French?

So colour, favourite, and centre, calibre.

...and that the English as a matter of respect did not discard the French influence but retained it? (so no dropping the u or switched to er ending). Think I read about this once, but no idea if it's true.

I'm Irish and we use the same English as those whose invented it. Always think it's bloody cheeky when a non English person tries to correct the English in regard to their own language.

Edited

Yes, it is. I don't know if these spellings were retained as a matter of respect, or if our language simply evolved to retain these spellings due to a few hundred years of closeness to our French cousins. (I suspect it's the latter, natural evolution, rather than a conscious decision.)

ThisKindOpalCrab · 24/02/2025 14:33

We refer to the coriander seeds as coriander. And the cilantro as the plant. It's actually very useful for differentiating as the plant is probably used more often in America.

However, that's a bit off topic as the poster you're responding to is Australian.

sugarapplelane · 24/02/2025 14:34

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 13:41

Oh fuck, what have I started?

Well you just told British people on a British website (set up by Brits) that they should use the word zucchini.
In Britain we don’t call it zucchini, we call it a courgette, which is a French word from , you know, that country just across the sea from us.
Your post came across so adamant that we were wrong.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 24/02/2025 14:37

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 13:19

Its not American English. Considering the words are not only used in America but I would suggest most of the world, bar the UK.

You can “suggest” it, but you’d still be wrong 😂
Try South Africa, New Zealand, Malaysia, to mention a few.
Excellent thread derail btw 😂😂

Pinkywoo · 24/02/2025 14:37

JustBitetheKnotsOff · 24/02/2025 12:58

I think I'll campaign for the post-Brexit use of 'small marrow' for them and avoid the French/Italian terminology debate.

In Italy they're zucchine.

DingDingRound3 · 24/02/2025 14:38

WillIEverBeOk · 24/02/2025 13:33

For the fourth time, I'm not American, it is interesting you ass'ume I am, @TagSplashMaverick .

Also no, it isn't. it's is POSSESSIVE. ie it is. Otherwise its is fine.

Oh dear. The apostrophe isn’t translating well either

GaslitlikeaVictorianparlour · 24/02/2025 14:39

Back to the OP's question, if your fridge is like mine I imagine the plastic wrap is to aid removal when.4 weeks later the forgotten cucumber has deteriorated to manky water.

I'm Scottish and I wouldn't call it a flapjack or worse a Scotch pancake, that thing is a drop scone.