What are your best seduction techniques when you want to psychologically seduce a new date?

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Imagine it is a Saturday night, you have enjoyed a wonderful date with someone new, you bring them back to your home **

Do you have any signatures stops you pull out to make this person enamoured with you? I don’t mean the obvious!

Like what exactly? Batting your eyelashes and excusing yourself to change into something more comfortable?

Fwiw if you have to pull out a "move" they aren't that into you in the first place surely?

Into you is presumed, of course.

Differenr people have different ways of doing things, and that’s what I’m interested in hearing about

Surely you have to tailor it to the man?

Have a Brandy and Babycham, get giggly, look into his eyes, get up to go for a wee, trip over your bag on the way back and land in his lap. Worked for me, anyway.

So it is.

I’m thinking more in terms of The Setting of The scene…

If he's back at yours he won't need much persuasion.

Can’t imagine anyone into you would object to that in the least!

Could be she also

Chatting about random stuff for ages seems to work for me, he make a move on me to stop the nonsense chat 🤣🤣🤣

Are you writing a Bridget Jones screenplay and need help?

BABYCHAM??

With a side of Milk Tray

This is a bit grim.

If you like each other then just let things happen naturally.

Can’t wait to read this story in the DM.

If you're both women and she's come back to yours, I wouldn't worry too much about "making her enamoured" - she'll be planning moving in with you next time she comes over (just my experience).

I've never really done this scenario, but I guess if I have a signature move it's asking the guy to whom I'm chatting online 'so what makes you come?' If I like the answer, then I'll offer to book a hotel.

I'm simply too old to leave my sofa without being pretty sure of what im going to get, though I appreciate many people would think this a very dull approach.

I pop on a bit of Demis Roussos, slip into a peach babydoll nightie and shimmy around the living room in my fluffy mules until I get to the coffee table. I then recline seductively on it and whisper gently "how's about it bigboy" 😘 😉🫦

"So did you really actually come in for a coffee?"

Make hand animal shadows on the wall. Maybe the cock or the bull?

What do you mean by "psychologically seduce"? WTF is the point of psychologically seducing someone?

I don't think I would bring somebody back if it was the first date. You're suggesting the date is a woman. Are you male or female? And yes I do think it makes a difference!

Grab the man by the scruff of the neck and march him into the bedroom.

First date would never be invited back to my house
Hotel if I really fancied a one night stand or more, but my home, nope.

After a few more dates, I'd think by the time he's or she is in my house, you both know what to expect.

Glass of wine on the sofa and a good episode of Midsomer Murders.

Then drag them upstairs to bed

With you until the babydoll.

I was thinking more a full length kaftan like Margo

My "signature move", of course, having already been artfully deployed in making that first date a Saturday afternoon trip to IKEA...