Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think random man got his just deserts to his unsolicited comments today?

220 replies

Weartherose · 22/02/2025 15:21

I'm wearing a sports top today to indicate support for a match later today.

Was at the supermarket today and this man, clocked my shirt rolled his eyes and riffed off the Name Three Songs comment and said "I bet you can't name 3 players". So I asked him if he was at the stadium (200 miles away) for momentous match a fortnight ago when X Y and Z scored?

He had the grace to look a bit abashed.

Why do some folk assume you are not fans when you wear band/location/ten shirts? Is it just to show off their superior knowledge?

OP posts:
DadDadDad · 22/02/2025 16:10

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 22/02/2025 16:07

Some people on this thread are getting all stressed with twisting the spelling of one wrong word!

It's a bit more nuanced than that - when I saw people confirming the correct spelling, I just thought that's great to see and no need to comment. It's when people confidently come on here telling others they should google it and then are wrong themselves that (like a few others) I get a bit more irritated!

Coinkydink · 22/02/2025 16:12

MasterBeth · 22/02/2025 15:30

What noise does a dinosaur make?

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 22/02/2025 16:14

PersephonePitstop · 22/02/2025 16:10

I would never normally correct someone’s SPAG but when it’s somebody mistakenly correcting someone else, then that’s allowed.

Isn't that simply the application of a LART to someone giving an example of Muphry's Law? Or rather, more exactly, Skitt's Law?

DopeyS · 22/02/2025 16:15

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 22/02/2025 15:51

It's just desserts! Can't believe how many people have got it wrong (and yes auto correct does do it) 😂
Desert- eg Sahara
Dessert- eg trifle

If you don't believe me just use your friendly Internet search provider 😊

Do you mean this friendly internet search provider?

To think random man got his just deserts to his unsolicited comments today?
Drylogsonly · 22/02/2025 16:16

XWKD · 22/02/2025 15:29

Why do some folk assume you are not fans when you wear band/location/ten shirts? Is it just to show off their superior knowledge?

He probably knew his favourite band before they were famous. 🤣

He probably knew fav band before fav band had even met each other to become a band.
Men chatting shite are so tiresome

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 22/02/2025 16:16

I think the more recent argument goes "other people have also got it wrong so the incorrect version is just as right as the correct one".

Iamnotalemming · 22/02/2025 16:18

Reminds me of the random male amateur golfer who insisted on giving tips to the female pro next to him...

Drylogsonly · 22/02/2025 16:18

Onlycoffee · 22/02/2025 15:54

It doesn't matter if you are a die hard fan or not, it's just clothes and no one should be gatekeeping.
If someone doesn't know the players or songs or whatever, who cares.

Ex-fucking- actly. Just piss off entirely and when you get there piss off again. Losers.

Htfuili · 22/02/2025 16:18

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 22/02/2025 15:45

I really want someone to do this when I'm wearing my Meat Loaf top so I can reply with "What? They're a band?"

Me to student: ooh you like the Ramones
Student: What?
Me: Your t shirt. The Ramones. One of my favourite bands.
Student: oh, they're a real band?
🙄

BitOutOfPractice · 22/02/2025 16:19

Weartherose · 22/02/2025 16:05

True true!

Apologies

No need to apologise. I was just being a smart arse because I hadn’t read your username 😬

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 22/02/2025 16:19

Or the man who had recently read a book by a world-famous female auther and EVEN THOUGH HE KNEW SHE HAD WRITTEN THE BOOK explained the plot to her in excuciating detail...

Frenchfemme · 22/02/2025 16:19

Love the dinosaur noises!

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 22/02/2025 16:21

DearDeadrie · 22/02/2025 16:02

I was wearing a pink floyd t-shirt and I got the 3 questions so I answered
See emily play
Take up thy stethoscope and walk
Lucifer sam
Apparently they are not pink floyd songs according to this 60 year old something man
I told him they are off their debut album and yup Google it and walked off, as I was on my way to the bar another bloke shouted out " piper at the gates of dawn"

You could also have mentioned Interstellar Overdrive. My husband to be played this to me repeatedly in the early days of our relationship and I married him anyway. Well over 40 years later, I have come to feel quite fond of it. Grin

UnctuousUnicorns · 22/02/2025 16:22

NotTheDebtDoctorWithTheHungryScalpel · 22/02/2025 15:29

My teenage dd wears a lot of band tshirts, she's very into music and can reel off songs and facts like nobody's business.

She's had the 'three songs' comment quite a few times by middle age men, but she can't be arsed so she usually makes a dinosaur noise at them and walks away.

Far more effective than engaging with them.

Fairy nuff, it's when I see a three year old in a Ramones or JD Unknown Pleasures t- shirt that I do roll my eyes. 😅

Rachie1973 · 22/02/2025 16:22

Othermentions · 22/02/2025 15:36

Well let’s be honest, many many are. My tween daughter has a Rolling Stones t shirt.. she’s listened to a song or two at best!

lol my 5 year old has a Blondie hoodie, I make her listen lol. She also has a Man Utd football kit because my brother is an arse and bought it for her knowing I’d only want to use it to clean up vomit :)

ExpensiveBiscuits · 22/02/2025 16:25

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 22/02/2025 15:56

I did indeed 😂 and despite the miriam-Webster official definition I think it appears to be one of those phrases that has morphed over time so I think we're both right 😂

No. One is right and one is wrong.
You are the one who is wrong.

LionME · 22/02/2025 16:26

Why do some folk assume you are not fans when you wear band/location/ten shirts? Is it just to show off their superior knowledge?

Because you’re a woman.
And he thought he’d put you back in your place.

AlienBro · 22/02/2025 16:26

Did he mean to be showing off so much small dick energy?
We should warn them, this style of questioning is definitely a tell. If they don't know, they need to be told.

BigHeadBertha · 22/02/2025 16:30

I didn’t know this was a thing. I thought it was probably a clumsy attempt at flirting with you.

DadDadDad · 22/02/2025 16:31

niadainud · 22/02/2025 16:09

No doubt you also think it's "another thing coming"...

Well, "another thing coming" has been in use since early 1900s, but you are right that "think" probably came first. I kept a note of a whole thread where this got argued about years ago - I'll see if I can find it...

Mightymoog · 22/02/2025 16:33

makes me cringe very hard if i see a grown up wearing a football top.

Screamingabdabz · 22/02/2025 16:35

I get why you’re proud of yourself op and you were able to put the patronising dick back in his box but I voted YABU because you still felt the need to validate yourself in his eyes. The day it won’t matter what some random fuckwit thinks and you just walk on by ignoring him, is the day to cheer.

DressOrSkirt · 22/02/2025 16:35

Weartherose · 22/02/2025 15:35

It's just the assumption that the wearers a fairweather fans that is irksome. Happy to have a chat about the obvious common interest.

when the approach is "your knowledge is lesser" it's only conducive to me thinking "you're a special twat".

But there's nothing wrong with being a fair weather fan.

I've personally never had this question, but did enjoy overhearing a girl reply to this with "name three women that like you".

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 22/02/2025 16:39

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 22/02/2025 15:56

I did indeed 😂 and despite the miriam-Webster official definition I think it appears to be one of those phrases that has morphed over time so I think we're both right 😂

Bless you for trying to style it out but no, you’re wrong.

DopeyS · 22/02/2025 16:40

niadainud · 22/02/2025 16:09

No doubt you also think it's "another thing coming"...

I think that's a moo point now...