“Honestly, with Alexis Blake if I saw her in a woman’s toilet I wouldn’t have a problem at all. Toilets have cubicles. But that is my feelings and it might make someone else uncomfortable and therefore feel third spaces are important.”
There is no way that this male person should be in the female single sex spaces. You, personally, say you don’t have a problem with it and acknowledge that others may.
Yes! I would have a problem with it.
Female people DON'T just use the toilet to pee.
What do women do in toilets?
I spent many days, often 2-3 times a week, where I had a stroller or pram jammed in the door because I had no one but myself to do shopping. And I didn’t need the change table so didn’t use the accessible toilet if there was one.
That included at period time with flooding periods and hormonal diarrhoea.
Particulary after pregnancy. Often with a crying infant.
I have also had to take my wheelchair bound elderly mother to a normal cubicle when there was no accessible toilet available. Where I couldn’t leave her to sit without assistance to remove the wheelchair to lock the door .
I, too, have washed clothing out, and at times had to unbutton shirts to get them dry from baby vomit, or leaking breasts.
I have even had to do this at work when I was stuck in an event for hours and could not leave to express so ended up with significant leakage. More than once. Because breastfeeding women work too.
And got dressed in work toilets for various reasons.
And cried there and comforted others. And hid there from men who wouldn’t take no for an answer.
I have had friends lose their pregnancies in the female toilets and needed help from other women there.
I know I am not the only one because several times this past year I have come across half stripped women in the toilets while out dealing with similar issues.
The solution is also not demanding gender neutral toilets. It is not fully enclosed cubicles. A female taking up a cubicle to wash and dry clothes is putting an undue time demand on those waiting to use that cubicle.
There are many reasons that women do not want males in the toilet.
However, the female toilets have never been used just to ‘pee’.
And I don't want any male person in the female toilets, even the ones who someone else has declared ok to be there.