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Trans men are women according to Gender Critical Movement

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ThisPinkWyvern · 22/02/2025 02:04

Under Trump's transgender policy, which echoes the ideology of the Gender Critical Movement, trans women are men and trans men are women. This view denies and rejects as worthless and baseless the lived experience of millions of men and women in the US who identify as trans. As a result of having their lived experience of themself ignored and denied by law, millions of trans men as well as trans women are now experiencing deep psychological trauma and living in abject fear and terror in the US. Many are trying to leave the country because they are so terrified.

The almost total silence of the Gender Critical Movement and it's supporters about the effect that it's ideology has had on those hundreds of thousand of women who self identify as men is deafening.It's whole argument about banning trans women from female public toilets and other ' women only spaces' is based on the argument that denying trans women the right to access these spaces is needed to protect the safety of women and girls. Given the fear, terror and trauma that hundreds of thousands of women( trans men) are now experiencing in the US, as a result of the government putting into practise Gender Critical Movement ideology, the sense of safety and well-being of hundreds of thousands of women has been devastated. This makes the infinitesimally small number of cases where women have been or ever would be assaulted by a trans woman in a women only space pale into insignificance by comparison.

In short, the Gender Critical Movement is directly responsible for harming the well being of hundreds of thousands of WOMEN according to it's own ideology.The damage done by implementing it's ideology makes a sickening mockery of it's claim that it's ideology protects the safety of women and girls.

When the number of men( trans women) in the US who are now living in fear and terror in the US is taken into account as well, the Gender Critical Movement and all those who support it are directly responsible for terrorising millions of people. It is impossible to claim that we are supporting women's rights and protecting the safety of women if we support the Gender Critical Movement.

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Meceme · 22/02/2025 08:51

Surf2Live · 22/02/2025 08:46

we pretty much had that back in the 1980s

loads of men, especially in the music industry, wearing makeup, doing their hair, wearing skirts

no one ever thought they were women, including the men themselves

Absolutely: Boy George, Marilyn, Divine, the whole new romantic period.
Also women rocking the traditional male presentation such as Annie Lennox.
It was a much freer and healthier time.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 22/02/2025 08:52

Rosie8880 · 22/02/2025 08:43

If someone is experiencing pain, mental agony due to them feeling they are physically the wrong gender - this must be incredibly traumatic. Can you imagine what it must feel like to feel you have the wrong gender, the wrong body? I can’t as I do not feel that way, but what business is it of anyone else to make judgement. All of us have male and female chromosomes, X & Y. Whats interesting is in nature, gender is not rigid - animals/ species change or flip btw genders, changing their gender from birth. Some species have both male and female characteristics and sexual organs. (As do some humans). Some species behave as if they were the opposite sex - the diversity is present in nature. It’s nothing groundbreaking, strange, nor unnatural. We humans have created a rigid concept of binary gender - which isn’t based on facts. I can appreciate this is challenging but look to nature to see the diversity. As a side note, following the fact that diversity is entirely natural, why can’t we allow others to live their lives in ways they want - it isn’t causing any harm. There seems to be some hysteria about men in changing rooms - I can’t recall prior to a few years ago anyone really getting up in arms about this. I struggle with why all of a sudden this issue has become to talked about. It’s strange and has a whiff of scapegoating and finding ways to create “otherness”’ rather than wanting to embrace diversity and live together peacefully, accepting others as they want to be accepted. This is a useful article about diversity in nature. www.snexplores.org/article/explainer-male-female-flexibility-animals

Frogs and fish and a lady bear that looked like it had a willy

awesome…..im completely convinced

Helleofabore · 22/02/2025 08:52

NotTerfNorCis · 22/02/2025 08:08

I do wonder what would have happened if the transgender movement hadn't been so aggressive. If there hadn't been a 'cotton ceiling', or a male person telling feminists on the women's march that they weren't allowed to equate woman with female, or balaclava-clad young men trying to shut down feminist meetings with physical force. Or pronoun declarations mandated in workplaces, or school kids being told they might be in the wrong body, or male criminals accused of violent, sexual offences being referred to as women in court and in the press. What if the movement had been gentler and smaller scale... I'm sure in the long term it would have won more people over.

I would have hoped that equitable solutions would have been found and well ingrained. And that there would have been a realistic approach to treatments too.

Sadly, that didn’t happen.

peanutbuttertoasty · 22/02/2025 08:53

LOL at basic reality being branded a ‘movement’ and ‘ideology’.

hopefully these people can seek some psychological support for their mental health conditions, which are the cause of their suffering.

Unicorntearsofgin · 22/02/2025 08:54

OP don’t be silly goose.

Surf2Live · 22/02/2025 08:54

Rosie8880 · 22/02/2025 08:43

If someone is experiencing pain, mental agony due to them feeling they are physically the wrong gender - this must be incredibly traumatic. Can you imagine what it must feel like to feel you have the wrong gender, the wrong body? I can’t as I do not feel that way, but what business is it of anyone else to make judgement. All of us have male and female chromosomes, X & Y. Whats interesting is in nature, gender is not rigid - animals/ species change or flip btw genders, changing their gender from birth. Some species have both male and female characteristics and sexual organs. (As do some humans). Some species behave as if they were the opposite sex - the diversity is present in nature. It’s nothing groundbreaking, strange, nor unnatural. We humans have created a rigid concept of binary gender - which isn’t based on facts. I can appreciate this is challenging but look to nature to see the diversity. As a side note, following the fact that diversity is entirely natural, why can’t we allow others to live their lives in ways they want - it isn’t causing any harm. There seems to be some hysteria about men in changing rooms - I can’t recall prior to a few years ago anyone really getting up in arms about this. I struggle with why all of a sudden this issue has become to talked about. It’s strange and has a whiff of scapegoating and finding ways to create “otherness”’ rather than wanting to embrace diversity and live together peacefully, accepting others as they want to be accepted. This is a useful article about diversity in nature. www.snexplores.org/article/explainer-male-female-flexibility-animals

oh ffs

humans are MAMMALS and in mammals sex is one of the true binaries

mammals do not change sex

we are not fish nor amphibians, we are MAMMALS

and sex is biological, encoded into every cell in our bodies, it is no behaviour

"Some species have both male and female characteristics and sexual organs. (As do some humans)"

that is an absolutely extraordinary statement, not backed up in your link

If you think there is an example of a human hermaphrodite then it is on YOU to prove that extraordinary statement

it would be vanishingly rare

and here, again we have another TRA strawman / talking point

bring up examples from other species where sex is different to mammals, pretend it means mammalian sex is some kind of continuum to support trans ideology

the vast vast majority of "trans" people do not have DSDs, they are normal male or female

chromosome testing for DSD is not part of identifying trans people, the only thing used to id trans is their say so

Randomer75 · 22/02/2025 08:55

Rosie8880 · 22/02/2025 08:43

If someone is experiencing pain, mental agony due to them feeling they are physically the wrong gender - this must be incredibly traumatic. Can you imagine what it must feel like to feel you have the wrong gender, the wrong body? I can’t as I do not feel that way, but what business is it of anyone else to make judgement. All of us have male and female chromosomes, X & Y. Whats interesting is in nature, gender is not rigid - animals/ species change or flip btw genders, changing their gender from birth. Some species have both male and female characteristics and sexual organs. (As do some humans). Some species behave as if they were the opposite sex - the diversity is present in nature. It’s nothing groundbreaking, strange, nor unnatural. We humans have created a rigid concept of binary gender - which isn’t based on facts. I can appreciate this is challenging but look to nature to see the diversity. As a side note, following the fact that diversity is entirely natural, why can’t we allow others to live their lives in ways they want - it isn’t causing any harm. There seems to be some hysteria about men in changing rooms - I can’t recall prior to a few years ago anyone really getting up in arms about this. I struggle with why all of a sudden this issue has become to talked about. It’s strange and has a whiff of scapegoating and finding ways to create “otherness”’ rather than wanting to embrace diversity and live together peacefully, accepting others as they want to be accepted. This is a useful article about diversity in nature. www.snexplores.org/article/explainer-male-female-flexibility-animals

It doesn’t cause any harm… except when it does.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 22/02/2025 08:55

surf

but there was also a lady bear that looked like it might have had a willy!!!!

facts mate, can’t argue with facts 😀

Sevenamcoffee · 22/02/2025 08:56

UnhappyAndYouKnowIt · 22/02/2025 08:43

This is a good question.

’Lived’ experience is just a way to differentiate different types of experience, particularly between professional experience of something and ‘lived’ experience of it. I could say I have a lot of experience working with people with autism but I don’t have lived experience of it.

Inspectorlemon · 22/02/2025 08:56

Talking of toilets - trans men, look and sound exactly like biological men. So, if they started using female toilets that would surely alarm women, wouldn’t it?

Helleofabore · 22/02/2025 08:57

Can we also get some discussion on this thread about why there are over 130 genders but some extreme transgender activists only focus on 1 - male people. Occasionally 2 if they want to leverage female people with transgender identities needs to support those male people. Sometimes even non-binary people get remembered.

Why do so many extreme transgender activists ignore the 130 + other genders?

Cornflakes123 · 22/02/2025 08:57

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 02:46

I think you're being unreasonable but you're fairly unintelligible, so it's hard to be sure.

If what you're trying to say is that transmen, who are actually women, use female bathrooms, they'll be in danger, then, no, I don't think so.

It's kind of tragic how obvious transmen are, with their cute little hands and feet, and wispy little beardlets.

This is a nasty comment. No need for it .

scorpiogirly · 22/02/2025 08:58

What about the lived experience of women when men try to appropriate womanhood?

Trump is right to do this. Hopefully it will start putting an end to this contagious nonsense.

Sevenamcoffee · 22/02/2025 08:58

Inspectorlemon · 22/02/2025 08:56

Talking of toilets - trans men, look and sound exactly like biological men. So, if they started using female toilets that would surely alarm women, wouldn’t it?

I know someone who is not a trans man, female but looks very masculine. She has been hounded out of women’s toilets and avoids them.

WillIEverBeOk · 22/02/2025 08:59

Fimofriend · 22/02/2025 08:13

No, the claim that one percent of the population is trans comes from a British survey that used a vocabulary that was hard to understand. Especially for foreigners. When researchers noticed that the level of trans identified individuals was much higher in areas with many foreigners they became suspicious and sent out a new survey asking about the same subjects but with a clearer language. The new survey indicates that the number of trans identified individuals is much much lower than one percent.

With the amount of people claiming to be trans, including a 6000% (six thousand percent) increase in schoolchildren claiming to be trans, I'd put it around 5% to 10%, more likely. Sometimes it seems like 20%. I do not buy its only 1% or less. No way in the world.

TheaBrandt1 · 22/02/2025 09:00

There isn’t a “gender critical ideology ” or movement we are not doing anything different just continuing knowing there are two sexes as humans have known since the beginning time

decorativecushions · 22/02/2025 09:02

Oh just shut up.

Use the bathroom that corresponds with what's in your pants, or what was in your pants before you had bits lopped off/glued on.

Is that hard to understand?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 22/02/2025 09:03

Inspectorlemon · 22/02/2025 08:56

Talking of toilets - trans men, look and sound exactly like biological men. So, if they started using female toilets that would surely alarm women, wouldn’t it?

Most of them still look obviously female. For the vanishingly rare ones who do genuinely "pass", using the men's is probably the right thing to do. They don't pose any threat to men.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 22/02/2025 09:04

decorativecushions · 22/02/2025 09:02

Oh just shut up.

Use the bathroom that corresponds with what's in your pants, or what was in your pants before you had bits lopped off/glued on.

Is that hard to understand?

Amen.

There is absolutely no such thing as a toilet or bathroom which matches your or anyone else's "gender identity", so you cannot use one.

There are only toilets and bathrooms for your sex, the opposite sex, or both sexes.

Reetpetitenot · 22/02/2025 09:04

WillIEverBeOk · 22/02/2025 08:59

With the amount of people claiming to be trans, including a 6000% (six thousand percent) increase in schoolchildren claiming to be trans, I'd put it around 5% to 10%, more likely. Sometimes it seems like 20%. I do not buy its only 1% or less. No way in the world.

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Social contagion.

Meceme · 22/02/2025 09:04

Inspectorlemon · 22/02/2025 08:56

Talking of toilets - trans men, look and sound exactly like biological men. So, if they started using female toilets that would surely alarm women, wouldn’t it?

Transmen rarely "look and sound like biological men". Height, musclature, gait, q angles, foot and hand size, wrist circumference are all give aways.

Some appear to pass in photos but in real life, among a mixed group they very rarely do. Women are really very good at sexing others.

Even at night, in low light, wearing full covering dark clothing. Science has proved this.

Women have developed this skill for their own protection, men ... not so much.

Helleofabore · 22/02/2025 09:04

Did someone say ‘clownfish’? People are not clownfish.

Or bats

and girls, just train harder!!

Meceme · 22/02/2025 09:05

Sevenamcoffee · 22/02/2025 08:58

I know someone who is not a trans man, female but looks very masculine. She has been hounded out of women’s toilets and avoids them.

Unlikely, as soon as she spoke she would be identified as female.

Upstartled · 22/02/2025 09:06

The Earth isn't flat, people can't change sex, the birds aren't surveillance drones. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Clarice99 · 22/02/2025 09:06

YABU.

There's no idealogy in sex. Gender is the idealogy, not sex.

I'm 'Team Trump' on this particular issue.

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