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Trans men are women according to Gender Critical Movement

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ThisPinkWyvern · 22/02/2025 02:04

Under Trump's transgender policy, which echoes the ideology of the Gender Critical Movement, trans women are men and trans men are women. This view denies and rejects as worthless and baseless the lived experience of millions of men and women in the US who identify as trans. As a result of having their lived experience of themself ignored and denied by law, millions of trans men as well as trans women are now experiencing deep psychological trauma and living in abject fear and terror in the US. Many are trying to leave the country because they are so terrified.

The almost total silence of the Gender Critical Movement and it's supporters about the effect that it's ideology has had on those hundreds of thousand of women who self identify as men is deafening.It's whole argument about banning trans women from female public toilets and other ' women only spaces' is based on the argument that denying trans women the right to access these spaces is needed to protect the safety of women and girls. Given the fear, terror and trauma that hundreds of thousands of women( trans men) are now experiencing in the US, as a result of the government putting into practise Gender Critical Movement ideology, the sense of safety and well-being of hundreds of thousands of women has been devastated. This makes the infinitesimally small number of cases where women have been or ever would be assaulted by a trans woman in a women only space pale into insignificance by comparison.

In short, the Gender Critical Movement is directly responsible for harming the well being of hundreds of thousands of WOMEN according to it's own ideology.The damage done by implementing it's ideology makes a sickening mockery of it's claim that it's ideology protects the safety of women and girls.

When the number of men( trans women) in the US who are now living in fear and terror in the US is taken into account as well, the Gender Critical Movement and all those who support it are directly responsible for terrorising millions of people. It is impossible to claim that we are supporting women's rights and protecting the safety of women if we support the Gender Critical Movement.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 22/02/2025 18:58

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 18:54

I’m all for single sex spaces. I don’t want men in women’s toilets. I just don’t regard trans women a threat. And truly regret going on this thread as I don’t believe the things I’m being accused of at all. Nightmare!

What is the difference between a trans woman and a man, in your opinion?

JLou08 · 22/02/2025 18:59

I agree with you and fully support the trans community. I've not read and won't read the comments here though as I suspect on MN they will be full of hate, I don't think you will influence anyone through this site, the transphobics are too loud here.

WillIEverBeOk · 22/02/2025 18:59

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 18:54

I’m all for single sex spaces. I don’t want men in women’s toilets. I just don’t regard trans women a threat. And truly regret going on this thread as I don’t believe the things I’m being accused of at all. Nightmare!

Transwomen are men. They are males. ANY male in a FEMALE ONLY space, is a threat.

Why do you think a fully intact (and medical data shows 97% of transwomen retain their penis and testicles for life) male is suddenly safer just because he dons a dress instead of a suit and tie? Have you actually stopped to truly think about this?

What is the difference between an intact male with penis and testicles who identifies as a man,
and an intact male with penis and testicles who identifies as a woman?

Do you genuinely think all transwomen are 'safe' and wouldn't use a loophole? Have you ever heard of Autogynephilia? Please look it up if not, @user1471523931 .

WillIEverBeOk · 22/02/2025 19:00

JLou08 · 22/02/2025 18:59

I agree with you and fully support the trans community. I've not read and won't read the comments here though as I suspect on MN they will be full of hate, I don't think you will influence anyone through this site, the transphobics are too loud here.

Rape survivors who advocate for our FEMALE ONLY safe single sex spaces, and for fair sport are not 'twwannsphobic'. You sound deeply misogynistic and brainwashed. Femphobic as well.

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 19:00

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 18:54

I’m all for single sex spaces. I don’t want men in women’s toilets. I just don’t regard trans women a threat. And truly regret going on this thread as I don’t believe the things I’m being accused of at all. Nightmare!

You may not regard transwomen as a threat, but many women do, and with good reason. There have been numerous cases of transwomen attacking women. If transwomen don't feel safe using the men's facilities, why is it up to women to give up their sense of security to protect them?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2025 19:01

I don't think you will influence anyone through this site, the transphobics are too loud here.

Why would I be influenced by someone who doesn't even bother to attempt to persuade me why I am wrong?

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 19:02

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 22/02/2025 18:58

What is the difference between a trans woman and a man, in your opinion?

Apparently, the transwoman has teh feelz of a woman.

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 19:05

Just a little side note here.

Please don't pander to them by using 'trans women' as if 'trans' were simply a descriptor like tall, short, black, white, blonde, whatever; it's transwomen.

I liked it better when we knew what the trans applied to, transgender, transgressive, transexual, transvestite...

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 19:05

Thank you. I’m shocked at the hate and am not going to bother you are right

InfoSecInTheCity · 22/02/2025 19:06

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 18:20

Didn’t say I didn’t care just trying to find out how many people have had a bad experience with a transgender woman on this thread. I am trying to understand the depth of feeling here as I’m struggling with the strong feelings being exhibited. I have known transgender women and have never felt threatened if anything I think they are more likely to be attacked. I just find your attitudes bizarre.

I have decided throughout my life who I choose to be undressed in front of. I have never been naked in front of any male (besides my dad when I was a baby) except my husband. That's my choice to make. I have had to self exclude from several gyms because they only had communal changing facilities and had adopted the mantra of TWAW so I could no longer guarantee that a man wouldn't walk in while I was getting changed.

It's not just about being physically attacked although that is also a valid concern, it's about having the right to choose who sees you undressed and who you see undressed.

That should be a very basic expectation that any female woman should be able to rely on.

Then you get into the myriad of other examples where sex segregation is imperative - sports, prison cells, gynaecology wards, psychiatric facilities.....

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2025 19:10

Thank you. I’m shocked at the hate and am not going to bother you are right

No "hate", just women stating boundaries.

WillIEverBeOk · 22/02/2025 19:10

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 19:05

Thank you. I’m shocked at the hate and am not going to bother you are right

There is absolutely no 'hate'. You've been brainwashed, and you are shocked to read strong arguments that challenge you and your way of thinking. That is what shocks you.

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 19:13

JLou08 · 22/02/2025 18:59

I agree with you and fully support the trans community. I've not read and won't read the comments here though as I suspect on MN they will be full of hate, I don't think you will influence anyone through this site, the transphobics are too loud here.

When you are so insecure in your own position that you can't even read opposing viewpoints, deep down you know you've called it wrong. 🤷‍♀️

Cornflakes123 · 22/02/2025 19:13

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 18:54

I’m all for single sex spaces. I don’t want men in women’s toilets. I just don’t regard trans women a threat. And truly regret going on this thread as I don’t believe the things I’m being accused of at all. Nightmare!

@user1471523931 totally agree this thread is a nightmare . It’s not a discussion. It’s like a witch hunt.

youve987456 · 22/02/2025 19:13

For all of you saying that transmen can just use the female toilet because they are women, what would your response be to someone that looks and sounds like a man coming into the female toilet and when questioned saying that they were born female? How are we to determine the truth? This isn't me saying you are wrong in your beliefs, I just wonder how it will work in reality?

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 19:14

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2025 19:10

Thank you. I’m shocked at the hate and am not going to bother you are right

No "hate", just women stating boundaries.

Apparently women aren't allowed to do that though, remember? They should just roll over and do what the men tell them.

Helleofabore · 22/02/2025 19:14

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 18:48

LOL - you seriously think the Orange Tyrant does anything for anyone's benefit but his own (and Putin's)?

No. I thought that was reasonably clear. He won’t do anything unless it is of benefit to him. The EOs were popular and he did it because it was promised and the electorate needed to see he would keep his promises.

youve987456 · 22/02/2025 19:15

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 19:13

When you are so insecure in your own position that you can't even read opposing viewpoints, deep down you know you've called it wrong. 🤷‍♀️

Not really. There is so much bullshit coming out of Trump's mouth about other stuff that I just can't handle it. It doesn't mean my beliefs are wrong. I can't read one more thing about him saying Ukraine could have avoided war and I don't doubt he is wrong and I am right.

BreatheAndFocus · 22/02/2025 19:18

I’m all for single sex spaces. I don’t want men in women’s toilets. I just don’t regard trans women a threat. And truly regret going on this thread as I don’t believe the things I’m being accused of at all. Nightmare!

Then you’re very naive. I know 3 transwomen and I don’t think any of them are a threat to women BUT that’s like saying we should let all men into female toilets because my BIL and my dad and my brother and my best friend’s husband are all lovely ergo we should let all men in. It’s just nonsensical.

Male people, however they identify, commit the vast majority of sexual assaults. These abusive men don’t come with a big flashing sign on their head so we can avoid them, so we don’t know who’s safe - hence the saying “Good men stay out, so bad men stand out”. That is, any man in a female toilet is dodgy (because decent men don’t go into them - and fyi this includes all the transwomen I know who never use female toilets).

But, it’s not just about safety! Think of all the lovely men you know. They might be great but I sure as hell don’t want them in a female toilet because I want privacy and dignity. Women don’t want male people in their toilets for all kinds of reasons. They want single sex spaces - and once you a male person in, they’re no longer single sex.

I bet you didn’t go round saying how unfair it was that Great Uncle Bob, your brother, your dad, etc etc weren’t allowed in Women’s toilets, did you? I bet you never thought the fact they weren’t allowed meant everyone thought they were sex offenders? Of course not!

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 19:21

youve987456 · 22/02/2025 19:15

Not really. There is so much bullshit coming out of Trump's mouth about other stuff that I just can't handle it. It doesn't mean my beliefs are wrong. I can't read one more thing about him saying Ukraine could have avoided war and I don't doubt he is wrong and I am right.

Why are you making this about Trump? GC views long predate Trumps position.

Just answer this simple question. Why don't you think women deserve the right to single sex spaces?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2025 19:21

I bet you didn’t go round saying how unfair it was that Great Uncle Bob, your brother, your dad, etc etc weren’t allowed in Women’s toilets, did you? I bet you never thought the fact they weren’t allowed meant everyone thought they were sex offenders? Of course not!

Quite.

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 19:24

I’m all for single sex spaces. I don’t want men in women’s toilets. I just don’t regard trans women a threat. And truly regret going on this thread as I don’t believe the things I’m being accused of at all. Nightmare!

But why do you get to declare transwomen 'not men' (which they obviously are) and consent to them in these spaces on behalf of other women who dont agree with you?

Helleofabore · 22/02/2025 19:24

user1471523931 · 22/02/2025 19:05

Thank you. I’m shocked at the hate and am not going to bother you are right

So, you asked for women to disclose their trauma and then didn’t stay and engage with what they said?

BreatheAndFocus · 22/02/2025 19:27

youve987456 · 22/02/2025 19:13

For all of you saying that transmen can just use the female toilet because they are women, what would your response be to someone that looks and sounds like a man coming into the female toilet and when questioned saying that they were born female? How are we to determine the truth? This isn't me saying you are wrong in your beliefs, I just wonder how it will work in reality?

Either you made a mistake based on a quick glance and wrongly assumed the person was a man when they’re actually a transman, in which case, that would become obvious when speaking to them - or they’re a man and are lying, which would also be apparent when speaking to them. In that latter case, I’d be getting out of the toilets as quickly as I could.

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 19:27

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 19:21

Why are you making this about Trump? GC views long predate Trumps position.

Just answer this simple question. Why don't you think women deserve the right to single sex spaces?

Because the OP linked GC views with Trump, probably.

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