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Women singers singing in their knickers.

378 replies

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 17:31

I admit I'm older generation.
I'm a great admirer of singers such as Nina Simone, Linda Ronstadt, Suzi Quatro, Christine Perfect, Joan Baez, Tracy Chapman etc, etc.
They all not only have great voices but also real musical talent.
And they also don't stand and sing in their knickers
So what is it with people like Beyonce and Rhianna? If they really are talented why do they need to sing in their knickers? Why do they need to use sex to sell their songs? They are powerful enough not to bend to the industry pressure on them. Why not stand or fall on their talents rather than on selling their sexuality.?

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Hadjab · 19/02/2025 18:54

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 17:45

Well to me if you feel people will only listen to your music if you are wearing a pair of knickers when you sing it says more about your lack of confidence in your musical talent than about your fashion choices.
It makes the woman singers look as though they are being manipulated by the industry and the desperation for celebrity. Not that they are actually making a statement about themselves.

Beyonce knows full well that her fans will buy her albums, regardless of whether or not she is performing in just her knickers, because she has talent, and her fans can see beyond the knickers.

Same for Lady Gaga.

Same for most talented singers.

soupyspoon · 19/02/2025 18:55

I think Suzi Quatro has said in interviews before that having a sexualised look was very uncomfortable for her she really didnt like it, it wasnt her choice

ClaudiaWankleman · 19/02/2025 18:55

peudhrk · 19/02/2025 18:52

Rihanna and Beyoncé were odd choices with Sabrina Carpenter arguably the more relevant artist at the moment.

I think she looks beautiful, like an old school Hollywood pin up. She doesn't offend me.

Also, Sabrina Carpenter’s 3 biggest songs have been about 1) men not being able to sleep because she shags so well, 2) telling someone that she won’t stop getting with their boyfriend and 3) that she thinks they should have good sex together.

It would actually seem quite inappropriate to dress in knitwear buttoned all the way up with a ruffled gypsy skirt and sensible ballet flats.

lemonylantern · 19/02/2025 18:57

Rihanna has not released music in nine years.

Bernadinetta · 19/02/2025 18:58

The first female performer that comes to mind when you mention knickers on view is Marilyn Monroe’s famous air vent blowing her dress up in the seven year itch. It’s so famous I don’t even have to post a photo as everyone will be familiar with it. 1955 that was.

RachelLikesTea · 19/02/2025 18:59

The modern day performers dance as well as sing. The stage costumes (‘knickers’) make dance eaiser. It’s all part of the image and the show.

TeiTetua · 19/02/2025 19:01

YANBU, but 'tis the way of the world.

Bernadinetta · 19/02/2025 19:01

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 19/02/2025 18:08

I'm not at all a fan of the rebranding of wearing skimpy and highly sexualised outfits to appeal to the male gaze as 'empowering to women', but it's a bit disingenuous to suggest that apart from the knickers-wearers, the popularity of singers is purely about their voices and talent. The visual aesthetic style of bands and singers (male or female) has been a big part of their appeal for a long, long time.

Those saying the outfits are for “the male gaze” (just picked this post at random at random as it mentions that), what do you think the male/female split of attendees at Taylor Swift, Beyoncé and Sabrina Carpenter concerts is?

steff13 · 19/02/2025 19:02

RachelLikesTea · 19/02/2025 18:59

The modern day performers dance as well as sing. The stage costumes (‘knickers’) make dance eaiser. It’s all part of the image and the show.

I think this is the crux of it. The singers OP mentioned are mostly folk singers. They didn't get into the physical performance the way Beyonce, Taylor Swift, etc. do. Josephine Baker was a singer and dancer and her costumes were pretty risqué.

AmiablePedant · 19/02/2025 19:04

Bernadinetta · 19/02/2025 18:47

You drop into splits in jeans?

You have no idea what I've done in and out of jeans, darlin' !

Actually, fascinating things come up on the interwebs if you google "jeans that you can do the splits in" . . . And to be honest, splits weren't specified in the original posting, merely "dancing around." I object to the idea that you can't dance around in jeans. Precision in terminology is everything! (See my user name.)

Screamingabdabz · 19/02/2025 19:05

Of course sex sells. It’s a patriarchy. And we absorb its values so much we come out with shit like ‘her body her choice’.

Yeah the colour of the sequin thong she wears on her body is her choice but the mysognistic market of her particular music genre drive everything else.

Thankfully we still have the (relatively modest dressed by comparison) goddess Taylor Swift whose lyrics include ‘…fuck the patriarchy…’

Mmeme · 19/02/2025 19:05

Pulling off changing the narrative was the great success of the male-dominated music industry. Women are persuaded that it's now empowering to wear far fewer clothes - generally - than men.

Before it was to please the male gaze. It still is, but it's now choice/power/owning sexuality etc.

The far-more-naked-than-men outfits haven't changed. The 'empowerment!' pseudo-feminist messaging to persuade us that something positive for women is going on here, is what's newer.

It's such bullshit.

JHound · 19/02/2025 19:05

peudhrk · 19/02/2025 18:52

Rihanna and Beyoncé were odd choices with Sabrina Carpenter arguably the more relevant artist at the moment.

I think she looks beautiful, like an old school Hollywood pin up. She doesn't offend me.

I love her style too. So gorgeous.

And yes a more relevant example than Rihanna who has not performed or made music in years.

JHound · 19/02/2025 19:07

lemonylantern · 19/02/2025 18:57

Rihanna has not released music in nine years.

I wonder why OP has not responded to all the comments about Rihanna being an odd choice.

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 19:07

JHound · 19/02/2025 18:49

Who mentioned empowerment?

What does performance attire to enable free movement when dancing have to do with a naked dress?

Beyonce doesn’t wear that much less than the average gymnast or ballet dancer.

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Lots of people have mentioned empowerment, both on this thread and of any discussion about this issue.

Interesting that men don’t tend to dress in this kind of thing to enable their performance. Sure, traditional male ballet dancers wear pretty revealing tights, but you can’t compare what male and female gymnasts wear, nor with most pop.

I listen to a lot of K-Pop. Both girl and boy groups do a lot of performance and dance routines. The men never wear skimpy stuff, ever. Still manage to pull off endless impressive dance-based performances.

LatteLady · 19/02/2025 19:08

Hmmm... Well Linda Rondstadt wore very short shorts, see through tops and no bra...

Hwi · 19/02/2025 19:08

The only objection is when they have thunder-thighs, or are of a body-positive type. Otherwise, absolutely fine! As a student in mid 1990s, I was shocked to see a naked choir in the production of Orpheus and Eurydice at the ENO (at the ENO, I ask you!!!!). Fully naked choir. So these gals bother me not.

SummaLuvin · 19/02/2025 19:08

Thankfully we still have the (relatively modest dressed by comparison) goddess Taylor Swift whose lyrics include ‘…fuck the patriarchy…’

Taylor, for whatever reason, doesn't give off sexy vibes like Beyonce and Sabrina have the ability to do, so maybe that's why her more revealing outfits don't get called out like theirs. But the Lover bodysuit and Midnights bodysuit are really not 'modest' compared to theirs, they are pretty much the same in coverage of the body with variation in straps.

JHound · 19/02/2025 19:08

Bernadinetta · 19/02/2025 19:01

Those saying the outfits are for “the male gaze” (just picked this post at random at random as it mentions that), what do you think the male/female split of attendees at Taylor Swift, Beyoncé and Sabrina Carpenter concerts is?

Yep - Tay-Tay and Beyonce have an OVERWHELMINGLY female fan base.

I have been to Beyonce concerts and it’s largely straight women and gay men.

peudhrk · 19/02/2025 19:08

@JHound I have such a soft spot for her, I know she's very sexualised...but it feels like it's for women rather than men, if that makes sense?! I feel like she celebrates the female form rather than tries to attract men with it. But I'm probably just being a bad feminist Grin

Sapienza · 19/02/2025 19:08

Suzi and Linda always dressed for church.

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 19:09

Bernadinetta · 19/02/2025 18:50

The empowerment of being the headline act of a sell out arena tour and making choices about the costumes, dance routines, sets and overall show performing multi million selling songs with messages of empowerment in the lyrics versus Bianca Censori standing naked and silent like a rabbit in the headlights isn’t comparable.

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I don’t understand the first part of your post? What are you talking about?

Bloom15 · 19/02/2025 19:09

ItGhoul · 19/02/2025 18:06

So what you’re essentially saying that unless women dress in a way you seem sufficiently modest, you assume they’re either silly girls being manipulated by clever men, or that they’re selling their bodies for cash?

And you think it was better for Suzi Quattro to sell herself as being ‘one of the boys’ than to celebrate being one of the girls?

Great feminism you’re doing there, OP.

Who do you think buys the most tickets to see, eg, Beyoncé? I’ll give you a clue: it’s not straight men. She hasn’t made millions by selling an image to men.

Honestly, if you only value women who look a certain way and dress modestly or androgynously, and think a woman who is ‘one of the boys’ is superior to a woman who is unapologetically proud of her female body, you’re carrying a hell of a lot of internalised misogyny around with you.

Completely agree with this.

Bernadinetta · 19/02/2025 19:10

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 19:09

I don’t understand the first part of your post? What are you talking about?

That’s it’s empowering to be the headline act of a sell out arena tour, and that women who are the headline act of a sell out arena tour are not comparable to Bianca Censori. The two have nothing to do with each other.

JHound · 19/02/2025 19:11

Screamingabdabz · 19/02/2025 19:05

Of course sex sells. It’s a patriarchy. And we absorb its values so much we come out with shit like ‘her body her choice’.

Yeah the colour of the sequin thong she wears on her body is her choice but the mysognistic market of her particular music genre drive everything else.

Thankfully we still have the (relatively modest dressed by comparison) goddess Taylor Swift whose lyrics include ‘…fuck the patriarchy…’

What sequin thong.

How is Taylor Swift more modest than beyonce? They both wear revealing attire that is easy to dance in.

Swift said “Fuck the patriarchy”, Beyonce has included an excerpt from Chimamand’s “We should all be Feminists” in one of her songs.

So why are you differentiating between the two?