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The more and more racist comments are being allowed to stand on FB

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JimandPam · 19/02/2025 10:40

I am still a pretty frequent user of FB and find it useful for keeping in touch with overseas family and also part of hobby groups/kids days out ideas etc

I've always been a part of my local community Facebook and whilst most of the time comments/posts are in good faith, I've noticed more and more vile posts that are either racist or homophobic. I always report them using the appropriate tools

However, over the last 6 months I've noticed these comments are allowed to stand and I don't understand why

Two recent examples:
A community post about bad driving in a notorious spot in our town. I reported two comments

  1. X Town used to be nice before all of Africa moved in
  2. Never had this problem when they used to be on jam jars

After taking 30 days to review I've been told that neither of these comments break their community guidelines. What?? I've reopened them and added comments but I'm finding this more and more that my reporting is not being upheld

I know the simple answer is to use FB less but I'm seeing this all over SM where hateful comments are reported but not taken down.

AIBU to think the above should have simply been removed on reporting them or am I going mad?

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MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 22/02/2025 00:36

BurntBroccoli · 20/02/2025 00:25

I've moved to Bluesky - it's like Twitter used to be in 2011.

Have heard of that, A few people on my Twitter seem to have gone over there.
Might have to check it out. Seeing as Twitter you can't move for abuse lately, just look under most news articles, especially migrant stories or anything that is about a person who isn't white.
Absolutely foul comments.

EasternStandard · 22/02/2025 07:19

Think about their identity (not what YOU view them as but how they see themselves)

@JHound you sound as if you feel strongly that how someone views themselves is paramount. Does this apply to all situations, eg the opposite sex sharing a prison cell?

Would you prioritise gender in all cases?

Or are there times where identity is not paramount

BurntBroccoli · 22/02/2025 11:04

@MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance
Yes it's much better - you still get the odd racist comment but these are mostly shut down by others.

On the other hand my local Facebook page is very much becoming a frothing, rabid Reform platform. Often quoting GB news articles and blaming immigrants for absolutely everything. It's quite frightening to see. Moderators don't seem to shut down such posts anymore.
The page is actually or was at least a valuable source of local communication.

Ddakji · 22/02/2025 11:46

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 22/02/2025 00:32

They don’t want third spaces because humiliating women and girls and violating their privacy, dignity and safety is part of their schtick. They want to invade and colonise women’s spaces, making the women subject to them

I don't agree with that at all. I'd have thought it was because they understandably don't want singling out, and in this climate of hostility towards them putting them altogether in a separate place is asking for trouble from bigots/thugs.
Anyway, this is derailing, it's a thread about racism - funny not really how those that are shouting the loudest for complete freedom of speech is "gender critical" people because if it's a flavour of bigotry they're in favour of, it's ok.
Try not to engage with the attempted derail to make it yet another trans thread, and I'll try to take my own advice too 😀

I refer you back to my first post on this thread.

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