YANBU, and I say that as a cyclist, motorcyclist, car driver and pedestrian! My parents made me/my siblings cycle and then have motorbikes before going for our car licenses. They said it would give us a better appreciation of the road and safety. They were strict with ensuring we checked our bikes before cycling and wore good high vis protective gear. We weren’t allowed on our bikes if we didn’t check our bikes or have our gear on. My Dad was quite high up in the BMF and the FIM (motorcycle organisations), and did a lot of campaigning for safer motorbike riding etc. Crash helmets only became compulsory in 1973!
The other evening, I was driving home from work: on a dark road, there was a young chap on a bicycle, doing wheelies all the way along the road. Dressed in black, no lights, no protective gear, no reflectors. Insane. I’m a very cautious driver, and spotted him. Had someone been speeding, they may not have spotted him.
I get cross when I see people on illegally modded electric bikes, and when I see people on bicycles go through red lights or don’t observe crossings etc, and when I see kids using their headphones and phones when cycling. Also I get cross when people don’t make sure their bicycles/motorbikes/cars etc are road safe.
On the other hand, I get cross when I see drivers and motorcyclists doing dangerous things on the road. You get idiots in charge of all different vehicles.
But it was the (unsafe) car drivers that caused me/my family the most problems: I’ve been knocked off my bicycle twice - both times I was on the road (this was before cycle lanes were a thing in my town), I was obeying Highway Code, and wearing high vis protective gear. And it was a car driver who caused my XH to sustain a life changing brain injury when he pulled his car out in front of XH’s motorbike. Another car driver, whilst I was stationary in traffic on my motorbike, opened his door on me, to try and knock me off!!
I’m unsure how this could all be addressed really. We depend on people following the law, but not all do. Goes without saying that my car and motorbike are fully insured, taxed, MOTd and serviced. I also have insurance for my bicycles (including cover for accidents, injuries etc). My bicycles get serviced every year and I check them over before I ride them. I wear high vis protective gear every single time without fail. I make my kids do the same. If I’m on the road (and no cycle lanes available), I do pull over regularly, at safe spots, to allow cars to pass me. But I know not everyone does this.
I wish there was a simple way of addressing and enforcing things, to make it safer for everyone!