I was just to about to agree with @BoredZelda too - in my case, twins, prem babies in NICU, sedated, breathing tubes, same experiences. Sedated babies aren’t statues. They can be right little buggers and when they’re so teeny-tiny, it’s really hard to insert everything in the right place/keep tubes where they should be.
I find it interesting that many of us on this thread who have had babies in NICU are willing to at least consider the evidence. In theory, we should be baying for LL’s blood because we know what a bloody tough place NICU is for parents and how helpless you feel.
In our case, although the nurses were wonderful, it was sheer chaos. Conflicting information about safety, not enough staff, babies couldn’t be taken out of incubators for skin to skin care (which is beneficial for their health) because no nurses around. At one point one of my twins was going to be taken to another hospital as they didn’t have two beds in NICU. My DD got an infection while in there and got very, very sick overnight, right out of the blue.
We were discharged before we should have been by a new doctor covering NICU who hadn’t read the notes properly. It was Christmas so no community care to carry out checks. Our midwife put in an official complaint when she found out as she was furious. DD still only weighed 3lbs and was losing weight. Crappy, uninterested NICU doctor.
It was a mess. What I’ve written here is just the tip of the iceberg.
So do I find it believable that the dept was shoddily run and that failings contributed to the babies’ deaths? Absolutely. What is still unclear is whether LL’s contributed to that.