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162 replies

Everythingisnumbersnow · 04/02/2025 09:48

Aibu to find it really annoying how English people use this word?

Sick. You mean sick. Unwell. Under the weather.

Unless the question is "how did Rangers perform?" and the answer is "lol poorly" it has no place in the English language.

OP posts:
Arlanymor · 04/02/2025 09:50

You’ve never been to the West Midlands then. It’s vernacular.

ZookeeperSE · 04/02/2025 10:08

It’s only English people, using the word this way, that annoys you? Weird.
It’s an adverb and an adjective. And has been in use, meaning unwell, since approximately the sixteenth century. Any other old, commonly used words annoy you?

HansHolbein · 04/02/2025 10:11

I’m English and I don’t use that word. English people aren’t all the same.

We all say different stuff depending on where we are from, surely everyone knows that?

Limth · 04/02/2025 10:11

YABU and weird.

I'm from Birmingham. It's pronounced 'poo-lee'.

PersephoneSmith · 04/02/2025 10:12

You are not in charge of the English language.

SleepingisanArt · 04/02/2025 10:14

It's commonly used in our local hospital (especially in the elderly care unit). My relative was 'very poorly', then 'poorly' and now is 'doing much better'. The doctors tend to use 'unwell'. Both are less harsh than 'sick' and the (often) stressed relatives can process the softer words better.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 04/02/2025 10:15

Poorly here. Or even poorly-sick

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 04/02/2025 10:16

I use it. It's just part of our rich vocabulary. HTH.

SnapdragonToadflax · 04/02/2025 10:17

It's a perfectly normal word - maybe a bit old fashioned as I mainly think of my nan saying it, but not awful.

Personally I think 'sick' means throwing up. I would say ill or unwell.

chelseahealyslips · 04/02/2025 10:17

There seems to be so many of these type of threads at the moment.
For goodness sake, just have a bloody day off from being annoyed about something so insignificant.
You might find you have a nicer, brighter day.

apintofwine · 04/02/2025 10:17

YABU. Poorly as in unwell is different to poorly as in performed badly.

Sick is awful, it implies vomiting.

Admittedly I would tend to use poorly to describe my child being ill, and would use ill or unwell for myself

KurtCobainLover · 04/02/2025 10:18

I say poorly and quite like it.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/02/2025 10:19

Limth · 04/02/2025 10:11

YABU and weird.

I'm from Birmingham. It's pronounced 'poo-lee'.

"Poo-er-ly" actually! Ideally with upward inflection on last syllable 😁

vodkaredbullgirl · 04/02/2025 10:19

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User67556 · 04/02/2025 10:19

I hate it when people say 'I'm sick' it's so American and awful. Sick is vomit so if you tell me you're sick I'll assume you mean a sick bug or similar and run away from you. If you've got a cold you're ill or poorly etc but not I'M SICK. It's so jarring. I much prefer poorly.

RedHelenB · 04/02/2025 10:20

It neans you feel in poor health. Don't see the issue with it.

Bjorkdidit · 04/02/2025 10:20

Well if we're going to show our intolerances for interesting variations in use of the English language in the UK, I will throw back the Scottish use of the word stay.

Unless the question is about which hotel or other temporary accommodation you use when travelling, the word is 'live' and we English find your question 'where do you stay' and expecting to be answered with the location of one's home extremely confusing.

Pleaseletmegohome · 04/02/2025 10:20

I agree OP. I appreciate it shouldn’t have this effect, but it makes me think the user is a bit of a wimp.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/02/2025 10:21

SnapdragonToadflax · 04/02/2025 10:17

It's a perfectly normal word - maybe a bit old fashioned as I mainly think of my nan saying it, but not awful.

Personally I think 'sick' means throwing up. I would say ill or unwell.

I agree - Americans often use "sick" to mean "unwell", whereas Brits more commonly use it to mean "vomiting".

K0OLA1D · 04/02/2025 10:21

YABU

If someone says sick, I'd think they'd been vomiting

Pilloecat · 04/02/2025 10:22

I cant stand the word ‘poorly’- its on the same horribly twee level as ‘hubby’ to me 🤢

titchy · 04/02/2025 10:22

Everythingisnumbersnow · 04/02/2025 09:48

Aibu to find it really annoying how English people use this word?

Sick. You mean sick. Unwell. Under the weather.

Unless the question is "how did Rangers perform?" and the answer is "lol poorly" it has no place in the English language.

What's incorrect about using it to refer to someone being unwell? Many words have two meanings, or similar meanings that can be used in different contexts. 'Poorly' is one such word.

JudgeBread · 04/02/2025 10:22

"The word "poorly" when used to mean "ill" comes directly from the word "poor" with the addition of the suffix "-ly," essentially meaning "in a poor state" or "not well," with its earliest usage tracing back to Middle English where "poor" could also signify a state of ill health; "poureliche" being an early form of "poorly" signifying inadequacy or a bad condition. "

Off you pop back to the 1100's then to have a word with the people who started it.

If you're going to be a needless pedant at least do it properly.

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 04/02/2025 10:24

So you are upset about the use of the word poorly but are OK with the phrase 'Under the weather'

That makes no sense to me but I'm not bothered by either

StayingHealthy · 04/02/2025 10:25

Sick is vomit. Poorly is unwell. In my world! :)

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