Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Poorly

162 replies

Everythingisnumbersnow · 04/02/2025 09:48

Aibu to find it really annoying how English people use this word?

Sick. You mean sick. Unwell. Under the weather.

Unless the question is "how did Rangers perform?" and the answer is "lol poorly" it has no place in the English language.

OP posts:
DUsername · 04/02/2025 11:56

I'm Welsh so I assume I'm ok to use it?!

Thebellofstclements · 04/02/2025 11:58

I dislike the term "sick" being used for "ill". It used to mean "vomit" as in "I was sick everywhere" but now it's just a lazy coverall with an American accent.
"Poorly" is for young children.
"Ill" is for anyone over the age of 10.

Jo1667 · 04/02/2025 12:02

I'm originally from South Yorkshire and everyone there says Poorly.
Although my mam (aged nearly 80) says "badly", which means the same thing.

Anytimeisfine · 04/02/2025 12:02

Thebellofstclements · 04/02/2025 11:58

I dislike the term "sick" being used for "ill". It used to mean "vomit" as in "I was sick everywhere" but now it's just a lazy coverall with an American accent.
"Poorly" is for young children.
"Ill" is for anyone over the age of 10.

That may be true regarding ‘sick’ where you are, but it’s certainly not true everywhere.
It’s not an Americanism.

LoafofSellotape · 04/02/2025 12:04

User67556 · 04/02/2025 10:19

I hate it when people say 'I'm sick' it's so American and awful. Sick is vomit so if you tell me you're sick I'll assume you mean a sick bug or similar and run away from you. If you've got a cold you're ill or poorly etc but not I'M SICK. It's so jarring. I much prefer poorly.

Totally agree

MercyChant66 · 04/02/2025 12:04

apintofwine · 04/02/2025 10:17

YABU. Poorly as in unwell is different to poorly as in performed badly.

Sick is awful, it implies vomiting.

Admittedly I would tend to use poorly to describe my child being ill, and would use ill or unwell for myself

Exactly!

MegTheForgetfulCat · 04/02/2025 12:29

Everythingisnumbersnow · 04/02/2025 11:01

No poorly is, as above, tummy-style baby speak

But in your example, they did poorly = they did not do well.

He is poorly = he is ill/not well. It's the same word, with the same meaning!

It's not formal language in a health context, true enough (and I don't like the word either, fwiw!), but it's perfectly correct grammatically.

Poorly-sick, otoh, is an abomination!

MegTheForgetfulCat · 04/02/2025 12:33

MegTheForgetfulCat · 04/02/2025 12:29

But in your example, they did poorly = they did not do well.

He is poorly = he is ill/not well. It's the same word, with the same meaning!

It's not formal language in a health context, true enough (and I don't like the word either, fwiw!), but it's perfectly correct grammatically.

Poorly-sick, otoh, is an abomination!

Oh wait, it's just occurred to me - OP are you one of those people who replies "I'm good, thanks" when asked how you are? If so then YABVVVU.

RaraRachael · 04/02/2025 12:34

I hate it too. Never heard it until I lived in England. Don't know why it annoys me so much.

GabriellaMontez · 04/02/2025 12:34

AnnoyingHabits · 04/02/2025 11:44

Not in any hospitals I have worked in!

Perhaps it's regional? Widely used in the midlands and the north.
Only for poorly patients though eg icu or medical. I wouldn't expect to hear it on an orthopaedic ward. Unless someone had befome very poorly!

TweezerMay · 04/02/2025 12:35

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/02/2025 10:19

"Poo-er-ly" actually! Ideally with upward inflection on last syllable 😁

Whoa, memory unlocked! West Mids myself and say poorly instead of poo-ly, but I remember a girl at primary school calling a scab on her leg a poo-ly 😁 haven’t heard it in a long time, but thanks for the flashback!

Whoarethoseguys · 04/02/2025 12:35

Why does it matter to you.? Poorly is a perfectly acceptable term to mean unwell. It has been used to mean unwell for generations. My mother who would be over 100 now would never say unwell or ill always poorly. So it's not a new use of the word.
Everyone knows what it means and language is for communicating

Dearg · 04/02/2025 12:39

Annoyingsquirrels · 04/02/2025 11:36

I prefer peely-wally

Absolutely. Or ‘Nae Weel’ if it’s serious

Whoarethoseguys · 04/02/2025 12:40

Whoarethoseguys · 04/02/2025 12:35

Why does it matter to you.? Poorly is a perfectly acceptable term to mean unwell. It has been used to mean unwell for generations. My mother who would be over 100 now would never say unwell or ill always poorly. So it's not a new use of the word.
Everyone knows what it means and language is for communicating

And we would never use the term sick for unwell or ill. That means to vomit.

wholettheturnipsburn · 04/02/2025 12:42

GoldenLegend · 04/02/2025 11:12

‘Sick’ to mean ‘ill’ is an American usage that was virtually unknown when I was a child but is now common. Why do you find it necessary to criticise the way others use their language?

Nah sick isn't American.

At work we have sick leave, sickness absence, etc.

I had to reflect on what term I use and I think I say "she's not well". Rather than sick

And I'm not saying noone uses it but I'm old and have never heard poorly used other than that English primary teacher.

HousedInMySoul · 04/02/2025 12:44

Poorly is a normal word where I live (mainly working class area of the North of England), which explains why there's so much snobbery about it from some people. However, we will continue to use it, even if it makes you 'sick to your stomach' 🤪

wholettheturnipsburn · 04/02/2025 12:47

Lanawashington · 04/02/2025 10:31

A poster on a thread about herpes the other day said that someone had a poorly vulva. That was a new one I've not heard before

WTF. A presumably sane adult 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

DanceMumTaxi · 04/02/2025 12:52

It’s in the dictionary as a perfectly acceptable use of the word ‘poorly’. There nothing wrong with it.

Beetrooty · 04/02/2025 12:54

It does make sense though
'How are you Doing?' can be answered:
'Well'
or
'Poorly '

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 04/02/2025 12:55

ruethewhirl · 04/02/2025 11:36

But why? I've never understood it. It's a baby word.

People are allowed to dislike specific words and to say so, btw.

The NHS uses infantile words like "poorly" and "tummy" because their language has to be accessible to people with very poor(ly) vocabulary.

RaraRachael · 04/02/2025 13:10

Dearg · 04/02/2025 12:39

Absolutely. Or ‘Nae Weel’ if it’s serious

Love both of those.
Also if someone has a funny turn, they've had a "parrywabble"

My daughter works with a lot of nurses from other countries and they love learning new Doric words 😁

ItGhoul · 04/02/2025 13:13

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

GoldenLegend · 04/02/2025 14:15

Anytimeisfine · 04/02/2025 12:02

That may be true regarding ‘sick’ where you are, but it’s certainly not true everywhere.
It’s not an Americanism.

It may be used in other English-speaking countries but it has entered use in England to mean ill via American television series, along with, for example, 'gotten' and the insertion of 'like' unnecessarily multiple times in a sentence.

EasternStandard · 04/02/2025 14:17

Well I'm afraid that is where you are wrong

Haha at this response

I agree on poorly

User1786 · 04/02/2025 14:18

I hate it, it just sounds so pathetic! But I know I’m in the minority. Family is not English so never heard it growing up.