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What's your thoughts on asylum seekers?

742 replies

Lynds778 · 28/01/2025 09:09

I'm all for offering asylum to those genuinely in need but I've seen a lot of negative media recently around 'fake' asylum seekers; people pretending to be from war-torn countries etc to gain entry to the country. Also videos of men giving advice for future asylum seekers on where to say you're from so that you can get in.

Also seen a lot of uproar from local communities about asylum seekers behaving anti-socially, most recently hanging around outside a primary school in Deanshanger and it's got me worried.
I'm also wondering why the large majority of asylum seekers are men and there are less women and children?

So, what's your opinion?

Also, this isn't a racist post. I would have the exact same concerns if these were white asylum seekers from Germany for example. The worry is the system is being abused by some and that we are a bit too lax when it comes to documentation and monitoring of asylum seekers.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14058597/Fake-asylum-seekers-conning-way-Britain-telling-Home-Office-war-torn-Eritrea-bragging-thousands-followers-TikTok.html

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14185169/amp/Four-asylum-seekers-costing-taxpayer-estimated-160-000-year-living-575-000-luxury-home-accused-faking-Afghan-nationalities-UK.html

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DearDarcy · 28/01/2025 21:18

Wheredidallthegoodmengo · 28/01/2025 21:09

@DearDarcy since you have asked questions, I ask you one back. How many asylum seekers do you know personally? On a day to day basis? A simple “ none” will suffice or if I’m wrong, how many?

Are you going to reply to any of them or am I the only one that has to answer questions this evening? It’s only polite that you go first seeing as I did ask first …

Tittat50 · 28/01/2025 21:19

@MikeRafone I need to go re read posts on here so may have missed yours.

Are you someone living in an area with a high influx of asylum seekers and have negative experience of this.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 28/01/2025 21:20

I think we need to restrict immigration massively including asylum seekers. We can’t take on the woes of the world. Too many people take and not enough give.

cardibach · 28/01/2025 21:24

What questions did you ask @DearDarcy ? They aren’t in the quote history.

EasternStandard · 28/01/2025 21:25

If there were a policy to turn away boats and re settle them, there is the probability I could favour that. But I'd need to be sure that we know where they're getting sent to and how exactly is that going to be physically managed.

This can be done under the convention, it's how Aus do it.

Whether the convention lasts is another issue

User32459 · 28/01/2025 21:26

cardibach · 28/01/2025 21:05

Since the majority of asylum claims are granted, the rest of your points become a bit moot.
They don’t have to seek asylum in France, or anywhere else.
Most asylum seekers stay in countries near their country of origin.
We take fewer per capita than many (most? Haven’t checked my figures lately) European countries.

The country is a soft touch though, so it stands to reason most would be granted. And many are granted to avoid the grind of an ECHR claim (or granted on appeal after one).

We take fewer because we have the advantage of a full sea border, but our rates of grants are higher.

Tittat50 · 28/01/2025 21:30

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 28/01/2025 21:20

I think we need to restrict immigration massively including asylum seekers. We can’t take on the woes of the world. Too many people take and not enough give.

I've been watching footage of what's happening in America. Trump is actually pretty smart. He is delivering rapid action and knows that masses of people will love this and love him for being so strong and making decisions. I watched the ' ICE' teams he deployed to round up all these illegal ' aliens ' yesterday and the footage of them gathering up these' illegal alien criminals'.

It did make me think of the programme ' cops'. I remembered we were sold this idea of these heroes but in reality there's alot of abusive, power hungry, scary Police officers who like the power trip and enjoy battering black people. ( Imo)

Then I thought, how many of these ICE operatives are a bit power hungry, emotionally immature, pretty thick and are just high on a power trip so will make big mistakes, go after the wrong people, not give a shit who is innocent or actually has a valid and acceptable reason to remain etc etc.

I watched border patrols at the wall as part of a documentary. The enforcer was a complete brain dead power hungry emotionally devoid red neck from everything I saw. It doesn't mean there's not a job to be done here but some of these people are scary and their views may spread to all groups they just don't like beyond ' aliens'.

User32459 · 28/01/2025 21:30

cardibach · 28/01/2025 21:03

We aren’t ’bursting at the seams’. Problems with infrastructure are down to lack of investment and proper management over 14 years of Tory rule.

We're a small island with in the region of 70 million already living here. That's densely populated.

We can't just keep on paving over the countryside to allow millions more in. Or building all kinds of infrastructure projects with money we don't have.

Clavinova · 28/01/2025 21:31

20,000 asylum seeks arrive by boat each year

Channel migrant arrivals in 2024 totalled 36,816

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y45dmg2pjo#:~:text=Home%20Office%20figures%20released%20on,as%20many%20as%20in%202022.

User32459 · 28/01/2025 21:32

Clavinova · 28/01/2025 21:31

20,000 asylum seeks arrive by boat each year

Channel migrant arrivals in 2024 totalled 36,816

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y45dmg2pjo#:~:text=Home%20Office%20figures%20released%20on,as%20many%20as%20in%202022.

It'll be over 50k after a full year of 'smash the gangs' Labour.

Wheredidallthegoodmengo · 28/01/2025 21:33

DearDarcy · 28/01/2025 20:07

To all the ‘do gooders’ on this thread, I ask you some questions:

  • Do you genuinely believe the majority of boats arriving in this country are arriving here from war torn countries full of deprivation? If so, where are the elderly, where are the women and children? Surely to god if if was THAT bad they wouldn’t leave their dear families behind.
  • Why are they not seeking asylum in France and nearing countries?
  • Are you willing to take in the grown men that are arriving here every day into your homes? If not where do you suppose they are housed and who do you suppose pays the upkeep of all this?

It’s not about being a ‘Bigot’ or a ‘Racist’ it’s about looking after ourselves, our family and British born, tax paying, hard working citizens of this country that is already on its knees. The country that we all one day will be leaving to our children and grandchildren. We cannot keep letting in unlimited amounts of unvetted illegal migrants into this country, where is the line?!!!!!

It’s not about legal migrants, who want to contribute to our system and abide by the British ways of living, we all know who this is about and people have had enough.

There was a poll on T.V a couple of weeks ago that asked ‘is Multiculturalism working in the U.K ‘ and 95% of people said no.

Ok. I will answer you. Since you have absolutely ignored my question about how many asylum seekers you personally know. I have no doubt the answer is none.

  1. in the main. Yes. These are different cultures who do things differently. It is not the way we generally do it in Britain, but it is culturally normal for them. There are always exceptions and awful people. But they are the exception in my experience
  2. Ever seen the ports in France? France does fuck all for asylum seekers and whilst you might agree with that stop for a minute and think. If YOU were in their situation what would you do? Stop somewhere shit or go a bit further to somewhere it’s (so not!) better?
  3. Yes. And I have.

So now YOU answer me. How many asylum seekers do you PERSONALLY know? How many claims have YOU dealt with? How much, if any, personal time or money has it cost YOU?

OnlyDespairRemains · 28/01/2025 21:34

Asylum seekers are a drop in the bucket, regardless of which side of that debate you come down on.

Legal immigration is having far more of an effect on this country - maybe we should start with that?

EasternStandard · 28/01/2025 21:34

Clavinova · 28/01/2025 21:31

20,000 asylum seeks arrive by boat each year

Channel migrant arrivals in 2024 totalled 36,816

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y45dmg2pjo#:~:text=Home%20Office%20figures%20released%20on,as%20many%20as%20in%202022.

Why do people cite the 20k figure, it's been on many threads and is incorrect

That doesn't include the families mentioned in the pp at 50 per day

cardibach · 28/01/2025 21:35

User32459 · 28/01/2025 21:26

The country is a soft touch though, so it stands to reason most would be granted. And many are granted to avoid the grind of an ECHR claim (or granted on appeal after one).

We take fewer because we have the advantage of a full sea border, but our rates of grants are higher.

Edited

Evidence we try to avoid ECHR or have a lower bar for asylum? Or is that just your prejudice showing?

cardibach · 28/01/2025 21:38

EasternStandard · 28/01/2025 21:34

Why do people cite the 20k figure, it's been on many threads and is incorrect

That doesn't include the families mentioned in the pp at 50 per day

families can only come when asylum is granted, so they are also refugees. They aren’t channel crossers. The bulk of immigration is by conventional, non-asylum means.

cardibach · 28/01/2025 21:39

User32459 · 28/01/2025 21:30

We're a small island with in the region of 70 million already living here. That's densely populated.

We can't just keep on paving over the countryside to allow millions more in. Or building all kinds of infrastructure projects with money we don't have.

Most of the country isn’t ’paved over’. We always had plenty of money to funnel into Tory mates pockets. Maybe they could give it back?

EasternStandard · 28/01/2025 21:40

families can only come when asylum is granted, so they are also refugees. They aren’t channel crossers.

Yes that's what my post said that figure didn't include them

The 20k is still incorrect and often stated

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 28/01/2025 21:41

I have worked with Asylum seekers. It’s not personal, many good kind people. But we as a nation are not in a position to keep acting like rich people doling out aid all the time. In local government there is no money for housing, care or education. If the powers that be want Asylum seekers they need to ensure that services are available. Sadly, the ruling classes want cheap labour but don’t want to pay for decent services and support for Asylum seekers.

Clavinova · 28/01/2025 21:46

Germany's (left-leaning) Chancellor coming under pressure here;

22 Jan 2025

BERLIN — Chancellor Olaf Scholz's response to a fatal knife attack allegedly perpetrated by an Afghan man in southern Germany on Wednesday marks a clear shift in his rhetoric on migration ahead of a national election.

The attack on a group of pre-school children killed two — including a two-year-old boy — shocking Germans at a time when migration has become a pivotal issue ahead of the Feb. 23 vote.

“I am tired of these violent crimes occurring every few weeks, perpetrated by individuals who came to us seeking protection,” the chancellor said. “Misguided tolerance has no place here.”

https://www.politico.eu/article/olaf-scholz-germany-knife-attack-migration-election/

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 21:51

Clavinova · 28/01/2025 21:46

Germany's (left-leaning) Chancellor coming under pressure here;

22 Jan 2025

BERLIN — Chancellor Olaf Scholz's response to a fatal knife attack allegedly perpetrated by an Afghan man in southern Germany on Wednesday marks a clear shift in his rhetoric on migration ahead of a national election.

The attack on a group of pre-school children killed two — including a two-year-old boy — shocking Germans at a time when migration has become a pivotal issue ahead of the Feb. 23 vote.

“I am tired of these violent crimes occurring every few weeks, perpetrated by individuals who came to us seeking protection,” the chancellor said. “Misguided tolerance has no place here.”

https://www.politico.eu/article/olaf-scholz-germany-knife-attack-migration-election/

I think the next two paras are pertinent.

The suspect in the stabbing, a 28-year-old Afghan, arrived in Germany in late 2022 and subsequently applied for asylum, according to Joachim Hermann, Bavaria’s interior minister. The suspect was previously treated in a psychiatric facility, according to Hermann, and authorities suspect mental illness played a role in the attack.

The suspect declared his intent to leave Germany in December 2024, but remained in the country. Authorities say there is no evidence of a political motive.

Tittat50 · 28/01/2025 21:52

@Clavinova I'd have no problem with deportation of non born residents found guilty if certain crimes being deported. I am guessing this is incredibly difficult and I need to understand why. Is it resources or legislation and I wonder if Germany follows the same constraints.

I understood why people are pissed at this. How it is managed though is the cause for concern.

I don't know exactly how Australia manage all this and if they have a reliance on economically supportive migrants.

I also don't understand if economic migrants propping up the NHS end up taking more than they give and if they do well we still need them 🤷‍♀️

I would love a full enquiry into the Royal Family. I wish someone could and would do that 😆

EasternStandard · 28/01/2025 21:54

Clavinova · 28/01/2025 21:46

Germany's (left-leaning) Chancellor coming under pressure here;

22 Jan 2025

BERLIN — Chancellor Olaf Scholz's response to a fatal knife attack allegedly perpetrated by an Afghan man in southern Germany on Wednesday marks a clear shift in his rhetoric on migration ahead of a national election.

The attack on a group of pre-school children killed two — including a two-year-old boy — shocking Germans at a time when migration has become a pivotal issue ahead of the Feb. 23 vote.

“I am tired of these violent crimes occurring every few weeks, perpetrated by individuals who came to us seeking protection,” the chancellor said. “Misguided tolerance has no place here.”

https://www.politico.eu/article/olaf-scholz-germany-knife-attack-migration-election/

@Clavinova it looks like the GE will see Scholz out and the centre right and AfD as second

We might lag but Germany is likely to push on border issues

Yoheresthestory · 28/01/2025 21:55

It always baffles me that people think they have any more right to a good life than anyone else. It’s just a lucky accident of birth that you are not born somewhere with a miserable quality of life or serious danger to your life. I don’t care whether people are genuine asylum seekers or not, they’re welcome to compete for the best life they can in my book. Plenty of locals are criminals bastards too so I don’t actually care about that aspect either.

I hate nationalism, I think it’s evil and a form of legitimate oppression of others.

Tittat50 · 28/01/2025 21:55

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 21:51

I think the next two paras are pertinent.

The suspect in the stabbing, a 28-year-old Afghan, arrived in Germany in late 2022 and subsequently applied for asylum, according to Joachim Hermann, Bavaria’s interior minister. The suspect was previously treated in a psychiatric facility, according to Hermann, and authorities suspect mental illness played a role in the attack.

The suspect declared his intent to leave Germany in December 2024, but remained in the country. Authorities say there is no evidence of a political motive.

What do you do here. You can't really even ' send him back ' because he's mentally unwell and I'm sure somewhere someone is thinking he has some human right to help. There's no comfortable easy to deliver answer.

Tittat50 · 28/01/2025 22:01

@Yoheresthestory a huge part of me really feels this and agrees with it. Yet I get uncomfortable also. It does take alot of self reflection to understand what really drives our feelings on this.

If I lived in a certain area experiencing certain things I'd have strong views another way I'm sure. I think our experience and locations impact how we are swayed by the stories on TV and our view on this. Some people have no direct experience and it's all fed by the media I see that.