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What's your thoughts on asylum seekers?

742 replies

Lynds778 · 28/01/2025 09:09

I'm all for offering asylum to those genuinely in need but I've seen a lot of negative media recently around 'fake' asylum seekers; people pretending to be from war-torn countries etc to gain entry to the country. Also videos of men giving advice for future asylum seekers on where to say you're from so that you can get in.

Also seen a lot of uproar from local communities about asylum seekers behaving anti-socially, most recently hanging around outside a primary school in Deanshanger and it's got me worried.
I'm also wondering why the large majority of asylum seekers are men and there are less women and children?

So, what's your opinion?

Also, this isn't a racist post. I would have the exact same concerns if these were white asylum seekers from Germany for example. The worry is the system is being abused by some and that we are a bit too lax when it comes to documentation and monitoring of asylum seekers.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14058597/Fake-asylum-seekers-conning-way-Britain-telling-Home-Office-war-torn-Eritrea-bragging-thousands-followers-TikTok.html

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14185169/amp/Four-asylum-seekers-costing-taxpayer-estimated-160-000-year-living-575-000-luxury-home-accused-faking-Afghan-nationalities-UK.html

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Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:27

Is there a point at which it is reasonable to expect people to stay home and work on sorting out their own country instead of running away to Europe?
Or is it too difficult.

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 15:28

ThatRareHedgehog44 · 28/01/2025 14:20

Absolutely, well said

Thankfully MNHQ disagree.

I am glad some of the rampant bigotry is being deleted.

Anonym00se · 28/01/2025 15:30

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:27

Is there a point at which it is reasonable to expect people to stay home and work on sorting out their own country instead of running away to Europe?
Or is it too difficult.

Lol

So are you saying that if, for example, you were a homosexual man from Afghanistan that you should just sit down with the Taliban and talk it through? 😂

Sunseaandgreys · 28/01/2025 15:36

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:27

Is there a point at which it is reasonable to expect people to stay home and work on sorting out their own country instead of running away to Europe?
Or is it too difficult.

I suppose morally some would argue yes, you can see from some comments on the threads that there are people who feel strongly that men “should” stay in a location to fight and or see through whatever is causing the immediate and long term risk.

From a legal basis that’s were the “well founded fear of persecution” element comes in - a user a few pages back gave a scenario about being Gay and being in a country that was homophobic (but not with a well founded fear of persecution) and that they shouldn’t quality as an asylum seeker, which is accurate they probably wouldn’t.

So I guess someone could argue the space to stay is before something gets to a “well founded fear of persecution” stage - but then that in itself is going to be a different threshold for everyone - so it’s an interesting debate!

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:39

@Anonym00se I did not give any examples.
You decided to cite an extreme and I suggest a very rare example of a migrant. I question how helpful that is.

Anonym00se · 28/01/2025 15:51

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:39

@Anonym00se I did not give any examples.
You decided to cite an extreme and I suggest a very rare example of a migrant. I question how helpful that is.

Well I’d suggest that if it was genuinely easy for someone to stay in their own country and sort their societal problems out themselves, they would never have been granted asylum in the first place.

I mean, we live in a democracy, and we can’t sort our own problems here. What influence do you honestly believe an individual would have in an autocratic regime where their lives are at risk?

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:58

@Anonym00se In WW2 there were many resistance organisations that fought against the Nazis that occupied their countries. They fought and some died. I don't see much sign of fighting. Except perhaps in Iran, some very brave women there.

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 16:18

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:58

@Anonym00se In WW2 there were many resistance organisations that fought against the Nazis that occupied their countries. They fought and some died. I don't see much sign of fighting. Except perhaps in Iran, some very brave women there.

So the Jewish people who came to the UK to flee the Nazis should have stayed in Germany and fought back?

EasternStandard · 28/01/2025 16:22

StripyShirt · 28/01/2025 15:10

Immigration is a difficult issue; we need enough people who are both productive and compatible with our culture, in order for the country to function smoothly and to keep population levels up to a viable level.

As a civilised country, we also have a moral obligation to offer asylum to a sustainable number of those who need it, providing they do not have a harmful effect on society.

Whether 'compatible with our culture' is a bit iffy or not depends on how we want our country to look in the future. If we want it to be more or less as it is now, we need people who will integrate and adapt to our ways. If we don't mind change, and/or a fragmented society then that is not important.

Of course, change is not always good - I feel that we're doing quite well as a secular society with broadly Christian tolerant values. If enough people with strongly held views based, say, on a different religion settle here, it is inevitable that they will maintain their identity and begin to exert an influence. There is now a fair degree of power in the 'muslim vote', for instance, and it's arguable that we now effectively have blasphemy laws.

As climate change worsens, there is likely to be a large increase in the number of people migrating from, say, Africa to northern Europe. Either they all have to go somewhere, bringing significant societal changes to their host countries, or they must be denied entry, neither of which are appealing options.

Nothing racist here, if we differentiate (as I do) between race and culture, although obviously most likely immigrants will be brown, but others will, of course, see things differently.

Interesting times.......

It will get harder, and some politicians are already responding. Hence the recent swings in many western countries

It does feel a bit head in the sand

SallyWD · 28/01/2025 16:25

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 16:18

So the Jewish people who came to the UK to flee the Nazis should have stayed in Germany and fought back?

It's so easy for people to say that others should fight against their awful regimes and risk a probable death. We live in such luxury. I believe that most of the people who post these things wouldn't have a clue how to stage an uprising and fight against an army. They would just want to raise their families in peace and safety. Don't we all?

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 16:30

SallyWD · 28/01/2025 16:25

It's so easy for people to say that others should fight against their awful regimes and risk a probable death. We live in such luxury. I believe that most of the people who post these things wouldn't have a clue how to stage an uprising and fight against an army. They would just want to raise their families in peace and safety. Don't we all?

Exactly. Most people in occupied France didn't join the resistance, for example. They just kept their heads down and tried to survive a terrible period as best they could. Like most of us would.

yetagai · 28/01/2025 16:32

ThatRareHedgehog44 · 28/01/2025 13:45

You think borders are a bad thing? If millions of people from the third world arrived in the UK with no borders, what do you think would happen to our economy and living standards? Do you think we could have 200 million here, and we would all be in trees smoking peace pipes like Jeremy Corbyn with roads, housing, social security, councils, education, NHS all ticking along. My God, the naivety of people like you

You may be right.

But do you think it morally acceptable to discriminate against someone purely because of where they were born? - Is there really any difference between that and discrimination based on skin-colour, or religious belief etc? If there is a relevant moral difference I (naively) fail to see it.

EasternStandard · 28/01/2025 16:40

@yetagai I think we need borders to stop general chaos and break down

People probably need to feel they're working to a degree too, which is the debatable part atm and part of the changes we're seeing in many places

user243245346 · 28/01/2025 16:44

"But do you think it morally acceptable to discriminate against someone purely because of where they were born? - Is there really any difference between that and discrimination based on skin-colour, or religious belief etc? If there is a relevant moral difference I (naively) fail to see it."

The difference (in theory at least) is that if we want to live in a certain way as citizens of the uk we can choose how to live. We have certain rights and corresponding obligations. Eg we choose to pay a certain amount of taxes and have certain social protections among other things. We also have common cultural norms that are enforced as laws (eg that it is not acceptable to force 9 year olds to marry) which are not followed in other countries.

If anyone at all can live here with no difference in treatment it can erode social protections and cultural values as well as trust within society. Eg people from other countries don't pay into the system - if they can take out with no limit the system will collapse.

user243245346 · 28/01/2025 16:52

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:58

@Anonym00se In WW2 there were many resistance organisations that fought against the Nazis that occupied their countries. They fought and some died. I don't see much sign of fighting. Except perhaps in Iran, some very brave women there.

Tbf the Jews were a minority in WW2 when they were being persecuted. They didn't have much of an option of fighting back (although many did eg Warsaw Ghetto uprising).

Many of the groups claiming asylum now are not minorities. My concern is that our asylum system works best when it is for small groups of persecuted people. Yet many people claiming asylum are from countries which are essentially failed states. A great proportion of the world would be eligible to claim asylum- but practically we cannot support them even if it was the best solution to the problems of many nations.

Ultimately the solution for many people's problems has to be to make their homelands better. That said it's understandable on a personal level why they would rather leave

OneAmberFinch · 28/01/2025 16:58

Perfectly said @user243245346 , I'm in full agreement.

username299 · 28/01/2025 17:00

user243245346 · 28/01/2025 16:52

Tbf the Jews were a minority in WW2 when they were being persecuted. They didn't have much of an option of fighting back (although many did eg Warsaw Ghetto uprising).

Many of the groups claiming asylum now are not minorities. My concern is that our asylum system works best when it is for small groups of persecuted people. Yet many people claiming asylum are from countries which are essentially failed states. A great proportion of the world would be eligible to claim asylum- but practically we cannot support them even if it was the best solution to the problems of many nations.

Ultimately the solution for many people's problems has to be to make their homelands better. That said it's understandable on a personal level why they would rather leave

Afghanistan was decimated by the US and UK, then occupied for 20 years. When they pulled out they negotiated with the Taliban releasing 5,000 prisoners.

The Taliban quickly took control and now people are fleeing Afghanistan. The Taliban took all the weaponry left by the States and rule with an iron fist.

What exactly do you expect unarmed civilians to do against the Taliban? They can't even form political parties or demonstrate.

CashewGal · 28/01/2025 17:00

Ukrainians until a year ago could come legally through a visa scheme and around 218,000 of them did, so those are not part of the asylum figures. Since then only a very small number have come and claimed asylum. So that is even more than the numbers we are talking about on boats in the time period. But people coming on boats IS significant, or around 29% of the total seeking asylum. The rest seem to come on tourist visas or slip in undetected and then apply later.

OneAmberFinch · 28/01/2025 17:02

username299 · 28/01/2025 17:00

Afghanistan was decimated by the US and UK, then occupied for 20 years. When they pulled out they negotiated with the Taliban releasing 5,000 prisoners.

The Taliban quickly took control and now people are fleeing Afghanistan. The Taliban took all the weaponry left by the States and rule with an iron fist.

What exactly do you expect unarmed civilians to do against the Taliban? They can't even form political parties or demonstrate.

What exactly do you expect the UK to do when entire states fail? Take everybody in?

mollyfolk · 28/01/2025 17:06

Itsonlytoday · 28/01/2025 15:58

@Anonym00se In WW2 there were many resistance organisations that fought against the Nazis that occupied their countries. They fought and some died. I don't see much sign of fighting. Except perhaps in Iran, some very brave women there.

There is an unspecified amount of civil rights activists in prison in China. Some for as little as writing poems about the Tiananmen Square massacre.

One man Chen Guangcheng perhaps one of the leading critics of the government. He's completely blind and a lawyer who has fought for people's land rights and against the one child policy. He was imprisoned in china, then he escaped and has been able to claim asylum in the US. You'd have him chucked back to china then ? "To Fight"

That's just one country. There are so many people in so many countries who are in prison for their civil rights activities. Including in Russia where even calling the war in Ukraine an invasion is illegal.

ForPearlEagle · 28/01/2025 17:06

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 15:28

Thankfully MNHQ disagree.

I am glad some of the rampant bigotry is being deleted.

You might want to report posts you disagree with frantically checking " MNHQ" to see if they have been deleted ( how sad btw), but the wider population is sick of people like you rattling on about " daily fails" and " bigots". It's why parties like reform are surging not posts you desperately want deleted that many agree with calling out fighting age men being prioritised over native women and children living here. An echo chamber of you crying about racists , bigots etc won't change people's views and them laughing at you as you describe the Guardian as " too centrist" for your liking

username299 · 28/01/2025 17:06

OneAmberFinch · 28/01/2025 17:02

What exactly do you expect the UK to do when entire states fail? Take everybody in?

If the UK hadn't invaded perhaps they wouldn't be fleeing.

I didn't suggest the UK take in the whole of Afghanistan. I was explaining to you that the simplistic notion of staying to fight the Taliban with their bare hands or try to make the country better, isn't possible.

ForPearlEagle · 28/01/2025 17:08

username299 · 28/01/2025 17:06

If the UK hadn't invaded perhaps they wouldn't be fleeing.

I didn't suggest the UK take in the whole of Afghanistan. I was explaining to you that the simplistic notion of staying to fight the Taliban with their bare hands or try to make the country better, isn't possible.

Every country on Earth has invaded another country at some point - now what Einstein ?

mollyfolk · 28/01/2025 17:10

@OneAmberFinch

Why do you think Afghanistan is a failed state? A failed state is where the government is no longer in control. The Taliban are very much in control.

The UK takes less than 1% of global refugees and has one of the lowest acceptance rates in the world. So nobody is asking the UK to take "everyone "

username299 · 28/01/2025 17:14

ForPearlEagle · 28/01/2025 17:08

Every country on Earth has invaded another country at some point - now what Einstein ?

I'm not sure what you're trying to say. I say, that we invaded a country and now those people are coming here as asylum seekers.

You call me a scientist say that countries invade countries. Back to the point in hand, asylum seekers are the consequence of war.